₦airaland Forum

gidson12:
because his father too is a man and maybe leaving in the 21st century

it pays to be sensible and mature. Her father has nothing to do with the discussion.

gidson12:
"Nigerian men have to be reschooled" including your father too

And you had to go there because?

Ibime:
So mama-gee bites other peoples work too?

I remember mama-gee accusing me of lifting poems from the internet without evidence.

What a bloody nuisance this young girl is.

Im sure her picture profile is also plagiarised from some fine young lady.

And if that really is her picture, all I have to ask is: where did it all go wrong?

Not at all. Don't be deceived!

yorke:
I've talkd to her.we av both talkd.i av tried my best.mayb because i really shew her i care.

Don't go about with that mentality. If you aren't expressive then why bother being in a relationship? Cut your losses and move on!

Siena:
If your written English is this bad, how do you hope to be able to fill in the required forms? And how will you cope when you're called for oral interview?

lol I have an uncle who takes 2-3 hours to fill out a job application form. English is indeed vital in the the west

funkybaby:
@ lagbobo

since you have your passport, then i think you are fine.

its rather funny though. all these years that you were with your wife (which you are claiming is possessed), you didnt leave. Now that you have your passport, you are contemplating separation. No doubt. You married her for the security which you think have British papers will give you. Now you are talking about her inability to conceive.  o tin je wo die die.
as a yoruba man, i think you really should ask God for forgiveness.

with a  masters degree and British passport, yet you are doing a security job. it only goes to show that 'papers' is no guarantee or path way to success abroad. I know people that have mere student visas/PSW and yet have good jobs that will make them hold their head up high anywhere.

like i said earlier, you two should plan a vacation alone together. also focus on getting a good job maybe outside where she is located. maybe a little temporary distance between you two might help. besides, a good job might bring back your self esteem and that way you wont label your wife as behind your misfortunes.

really, your excuses are just flimsy. you are labelling a white woman as being possesed. if she was a Nigerian nko? you would have called her a witch and prolly say she has used juju against you 

I think he wants us to make him feel better about leaving her.

You know they can sue you right?

I find French and Italian very sexy. Also people from European countries have a sexy English accent

Brits have a hot accent as well.

harakiri:
lol

Are you for real?

Of course not. I am here to tickle you

talknafree:
Take a very good look at this post from 'page 1' a greater number of women that are married admitted they do their husband's laundary and most spoke extensively on this issue in an absolutely matured way.

It is unreasonable elements like the 'bleeping' machine that have been dumped by so many men during their short time on earth that are trying to confuse other women.

Women don't get confused. Girls do.

mohawkchic:
~Nibbling on Fox's Crinkle Butter Biscuits

Stop the hand to mouth action woman!

I am drinking water unfortunately

harakiri:
Hit them hard. . .hit them low.I dey feel you guy.

@Suga belle with worms

You still haven't defined what "thinking" is.

Some of the people that you are "trying to hit hard" are married and in wonderful relationships.

WE MUSTN'T lol

now I fell in love with that shoe but the price tag is not to be had. I will admire from afar.

MC you have to tell me where you got the pointed brown oxford looking shoes from. The website I mean. I love love love love it!!!!

aikuda:
Chika98, thanks for the compliment. You've clearly displayed a good understanding of the issues yourself.

I am glad that there are young men( permit me to call you young) that think the way you do. We need more of em.

aikuda:
Outstrip, you are so lucky to have such a dad. I wish all men have such role model in their lives. There is pride in being independent!

See why I said you were sensible?? Once a man reduces himself to " I want a cook and a cleaner" then they get women who will do all that to entice them only to change after they are married. "Oh you've changed" No she didn't. You just were to gullible to see the real truth!

aikuda:
Sugarbelly, you sound really angry. Many of the things you said are true, but I disagree with your seeming generalization about all men being complicit in the allegded evil against womankind. I'm sure some women also feel differently about your position.

As I mentioned in my earlier post, many women do house chores out of love and respect for their husbands. You are absolutely right about many women working harder than some men.  I also agree with you that we are quick to use religion to butress our point in defense of our inadequacies. But both men and women are guilty of this.

You sound well a tad sensible. I think the earlier this generation of men and women start thinking differently; the better it will be for everyone. Let's face it the traditional gender roles aren't really 21st century! If we all claim to be better educated and more wise then it is only right to know that those 'roles" do nothing but to confine and not help in any way at all.

Goose1 You have just dwindled your entire existence to a woman washing your clothes? You sure are fickle minded! What is part of the package? A woman can wash your clothes and still drive you nuts! Explain the package to me? Then again, don't even bother.

olanajim:
The poster presented a good case badly

Now go ahead and read this. A mature man has spoken. Learn a few things from him!

Siena:
Mr "Jamaican" with a Yoruba name "Shola".

You come across as very arrogant, and bigoted.

You want to know how many guys your "girlfriend" has slept with? Why should you care? How many girls have you slept with? 

And as for her female ittybits not being "tight", as you put it, is there a possibility you're way too small, to the extenct even you can hardly find yourself? 

I think this girl deserves better than you, an "man" who comes on an internet forum, talking about his girlfriend the way you are, is less than a man, in my book anyway. I hope your girlfriend sees through you in time, moves on, and finds herself a real man, and not a bigoted, arrogant c0cksure person like you! 

Just another Nigerian pretending to be West Indian, a lost soul with no identity, Mr SHOLA.

Spoken well

Keep up with the eating habits. Nothing to change
I must eat 805 Moniker fish this year

No it isn't but it doesn't mean I wont do his laundry at times. It also doesn't mean that he won't do his own laundry. Some men are picky about how they want their clothes done and also ironed. Some men rather wash your own clothes and iron them for you!
House chores aren't meant to be shared but does go a long way when the man helps out often.

Who does laundry and who doesn't has got nothing to do with being a good spouse. People can be so fickle minded! There are other things that are more important than cloth washing.

All these "discounts" are their ploy to keep us shopping! Let's say NO to it this 2010

FL Gators:
LOL Size 8s dont run out fast, I always find my size everywhere everytime

She means UK size 8. Not US

mohawkchic:
~Whoah!! UK10 or US? You've got more variety in the US than here I suppose!! Bet your size dont run out as fast as 6's. . .

US 10 which is a UK 8 or something. Sometimes it does run out.

FL Gators:


Happy New Year

I know! Same to you dear! Bigger and better fashion for us this year.

mohawkchic:
~Tell me about it!!Now that will be a bummer!! I've been checking availability for size 6. . . I'm giving it till next couple week. . .

~It's Last Summer stock thats only available online. . .SoOoo i'm hoping sales on it will be slow! https://www.labnol.org/assets/images/YahooSmileys/smileys28.gif

lol I have pretty big feet. I wear 10's. Give it till then and then buy it. I remember it happened to me once and I almost cried

Marry when you are ready to be married. Someone might be ready at 25 and another at 21. It is different for everyone. Marriage everywhere . . . Na Beans??

I think the brown looks better too. You might wanna get it before your size runs out.

mohawkchic:
~Kwel!

~I Love Wedges! Baiting one i want. . but waiting to see if the price will be slashed more!

Yeah that's the thing. Sometimes it never comes down. Hopefully it does in your case though

Bad English