I take this as an insult..

AfroKnight:


Big risk bro. Naija babes are not trying at all.

No be naija you dey bro..

AfroKnight:


When you decide to visit the real world, kindly mention me.

If any man needs someone to be vulnerable to, especially financially, his buddies are a better option than his Nigerian wife. You see those “for better, for worse” and “two become one flesh“ clauses? They are mere rhetoric to naija women.

Also, look at your advice. Everything points to the man being at fault and being the one to make moves to fix the home even when he is the victim in frustration. Is the woman exonerated from blame because “woman”?

Thank you my guy..our mentality here is embarrassing.. someone is dying emotionally all he could get is fix it 'your a man'' trash.. l'm thinking of getting Marry to these our ladies na risk..

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

For sake of your children.. DIVORCE HER!!..so that they will have a father.. your are heading to grave if you remain on the same roof with such woman..

Any answer to this?

Thunder strike you all Fg.

xule20:

Kindly share it here, il tip you handsomely after everything

I don't need your tip bro.. someone needs assistance here .. imagine traveling to Canada Op have a mindset of 5m? Haba. that's why l even reply him...

Claraola:

Which side are you in Lagos ?

Pm

Claraola:

Are you sure of that let talk here so another person can benefit from it.

It's all about contact brother...l can't display someone phone number here...if you are in Lagos..l can even take you to my friend office for one on one talk with him...
He has friends/relations there.. that's how l know it's not up to that figure.. within five months your in Canada period... that's all l can say here.. have a nice day..

Claraola:

I guess so,like how much I need for Canada?

1.1 is okay..pm me

Claraola:

I need to have upto 5m for that.

Who told u that �?.

Claraola:

Which business do you know I can do ma?

Canada is good for you..

Try Canada bro Op.. it's far better..

hAlexandro:
lol processing PR also its just and offer if I would love to cut corners asap marriage level.

Go for it bro... you never can tell..

hAlexandro:
I Concur yeah. I've had 2 various offers. One lives in Manitoba rich young banker. She needs a guy from 9ja here in the other is from Edmonton also busty girl of Nigeria descent

Only you brother..

ednut1:
visit the Canadian visa thread on nairaland or join a telegram group. They are migrating enmasse. I am those groups too. The opportunity is there so they should not take it What if they stay back and not still guy nko. Lose lose. Canada pali is important. This corona era govt ia playing them 800 canada dollars per child and 2000 per person. U say make dem stay nigeria dey earn 100k salary. Shior

Like to join the team/group bros..

Kekereekun123:
i recently got canada pr. Even from our canada pr whatsapp groups the ladies there don dey hustle men. Some bad guys just dey chop dem for fun o. Marriage is not an ultimate goal in life. These ladies should adjust. They will also want you to take them back to Nigeria for societal wedding lol. I would rather use my. Money for MBA

Can we talk bro.pm please.

GraGra247:
What kind of a preacher is this.

Prove him wrong..

What's a shameful country..

Kindly add me 09021837486.. Thank u..

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Lekside442:
Thats very true bro...cuz I care for her alot...I call her even without her calling...I call everyday...just to make her happy..I give her even without asking..just to make her comfortable...but all she do is just to bring unnecessary issue that doesn’t even have any meaning...there was a day she asked me for something and I promised to give her...she then later asked I was then trying to recollect how much...and all she could say is why I’m I asking her silly questions when I know already..I just wanna ignore her for some days or weeks..

DO THIS AND RESTORE YOUR DIVINITY...

Amazing.

I'm about to get this..Op nna is still available ? If yes your number..

Only God can save one from wrong marriage.

Good evening my friends.. still available... thank you for all the calls.

SOLD!! THANK GOD!.

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Good day!