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kolamilan: he be like say dis thread na correctional thread, @op 190 sign as in 1 to 190 sign ?

No. The OP is giving an update as 190(a NLer) 'signs' a document, that girls Won't Ever Open It For them-all the guys.

Prudzice: But what if her guys knws abt d sex bt still stick wit her cos she told hm b4 he heard d news outside.nobody Ȋ̝̊̅§ above mistakes.even ur galfrd may ƌ̲̣̣̣̥Ǿ such a tin outside bt will neva tell U̶̲̥̅̊ и̲̮̣̥̅̊ wen U̶̲̥̅̊ discovered at last guess wat will hapen at last Ȋ̝̊̅§ a vry vry vry BIG BIG BIG BR....EA.....K UP.all wat am saying Ȋ̝̊̅§ dat nobody Ȋ̝̊̅§ above mistakes cos ur own may be worst

Chai! Where did this girl come from.

Come, OP. Make sure you don't abandon this thread, like you did the first, and open a third one with this same topic o!

All men cannot 'behave mature' because not all men are mature. Also, you don't expect a mature behaviour from a mature person when you are not mature enough to do some matured 'things'. Shekina!

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Make I reject am for una front?[/size]

Ouch!!!!!!!!!

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Loool, chei..[/size]

Huh? datz all??

trappatoni: well i do not agree with some of the things the op posted,but your comment shows clearly that you are not ready for marriage.do you know why marriage is also referred to as settling down.until you start seeing things from more than one direction,you're not ready.

I don't know if you're a M or F, thus I don't know how to respond to your comment. Yes, agreed, somethings on her list make sense, but let me ask you a question. If you find out that a lady bought a wedding gown and booked a venue without your consent, approval or proposal, what would you do?

Oga/madam, there's a limit to everything and this shouldn't be exempted. If a woman does all these to get married, she should know that she's starting a mini war if she doesn't maintain them after marriage, especially, the ones that relates to the man's family.

2buff: Bros why you dey ask yourself question?

and on a public forum too!

I don't even know what his question has to do with the topic. Been looking for his 190 signs.

Enegod: if you ain't a wife material you can't do it...the op is on point
and i'm sure she is a wife material

Wife material? You're joking right? So if a woman does all these, you'll marry her even if you're not ready to or don't want to? If this highest act of desperation is your definition of a 'wife material', then I suggest you give this advise to your sisters.

@purebarbie, your topic said 'october born' not libras and I think it should be about the month not the sign. So let's 'merge' even as your topic said

As for what we can do, someone made a suggestion about the birth dates. Its kinda cool for a start and I think its already on the roll.

Enegod: ur follow gal is givin u advice and u dnt wnt to listen...

'Follow' girl indeed.
@OP, no offence please, but did you do all these you listed before you got married? Or if you're single, will you ACTUALLY do them

Na wa o!!!!!! Did a lady actually post this?

#I'd rather remain a single for life than stoop so low.

solidbroda: common sense, is a rarity, reasons could be like 1. I don't wanna go on a date with too many guys.
2. I don't wanna go on a date with anoda guy so that people won't think I'm a hoe. Etc. Different reasons nah.

Abi brownjay sent you to me? Cos I tink both of you are thinking from the same calabash in your village.

And a lady should justify her reason for not going on a date because...?

carefreewannabe: She is thinking:

Someone is going to die tonight

Walahi!!!

And I'm fine thanks @Digitalsignal

Hmmm. Well said DigitalSignal!
....I would, if I love her enough
and want her in my life, let her in on the
details of my being close to whomever may be
her source of concern and try to make her
understand! I would, if it's necessary, have her
introduced to the object of her concern!

That's a nice one. And if there's a reasonable degree of understanding in the relationship, this will strengthen the bond and trust between the couple.

Jealousy, to me, is a human emotion that we experience at some point or another. For some, jealousy is a real issue and, if not properly put in check, can create a permanent wedge between a couple, while negatively affecting future relationships.

Taken literally, jealousy refers to a strong desire for someone else's stature or possessions. However, in a social setting, it causes someone to be doubtful of their partner and feel threatened by their interaction with certain people, what they wear or where they go.

There are varying degrees of jealousy. It does not necessarily merit its negative connotation; after all, it's normal for men to be suspicious of their women (and vice versa). It can be cute, healthy or obsessive. When its cute, the partners exhibit harmless and perfectly normal reactions. A man who voices his concern over having his girlfriend go out with a bunch of guys or seeing another man flirting with her is also part of a healthy relationship. This is cool and acceptable, but when its in excess, it becomes annoying.

My concern is centred on Obsessive jealousy

When aggression and/or violence accompanies jealousy, problems arise. Once a man (or woman as the case maybe) reaches this stage, he obsessively begins to question his woman's loyalty to him, and that sends him into a rage, maybe even causing him to use physical force or take some extreme measures.

she is unable to even look at another guy or leave your side when you're both out. You demand to know where s/he is at all times and the mere mention of another guy/girl's name sends
you off the deep end. These can make your partner become more like a subject or slave to you instead of a partner.

Thus my question: How do you react to excessive display of jealousy and how do you handle the situation?

ogugua88: [size=13pt]And here we are folks! 18 were nominated. Seven have departed. We are now down to our final 11 contestants for the Romance Section's first ever Legendary Award!

You've read their posts. Now they need your votes!

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Qualified Nominees

Idowuogbo

190

ItsModella

MrBrownJay

Xynerise

Eze Promoe

D-Explorer

MrCork

Mynd44

Sexkillz

Vivian Chinaza
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Several qualified nominees, but only one can emerge as the winner!

~Each user of this section is entitled to VOTE 2 Nominees.
~Type the name of your choice-candidates ONLY and VOTE.

Sample: I VOTE Sexkillz and Jaybee.

May the best candidate win!

THE WINNER's CELEBRATION comes up on Saturday, 27 April @ 7pm with an Exclusive LIVE Interview with the scrumptious D-Explorer!

Happy voting![/size]

Huh? if D-explorer come win nko?

kekakuz: 10 Signs That You’re Sleeping
With A Mammy Water
This is for all the guys who pick up random
girls on the streets without knowing anything
about them. Here’s how to know if you are
sharing your bed with a mammy water:
1. You picked her up from the street or
some other random place. Maybe she
was even standing in front of an
uncompleted building
2. You don’t know her surname. She told
you her name is “ Just Julie”
3. She agreed to sleep with you on the very
first day, in fact she moved into your
house, no questions asked.
4. She never gets tired. She can pound yam,
fry garri, grind pepper with a stone and
still have s*x with you when she finishes.
5. She always looks perfect, even first thing
in the morning. No pimples, her make-up
looks permanent and everything is
always in the right place.
6. Her Brazilian hair looks natural. It really
looks like her hair but maybe salons have
found a way to remove natural hair and
put it back later.
7. She never talks about her family and she
doesn’t have any friends. You only hear
her saying “My sea sisters” sometimes at
night but you’re not bothered because
girls call themselves all sorts of things.
8. Ever since you started sleeping with her,
your life has turned upside down but of
course your stepmother in the village is
to blame.
9. She has stopped you from eating fish.
Ever since she came into your life, it’s
only chicken or meat, nothing that comes
from the sea.
10. She doesn’t ask you for anything. In fact,
she’s every Nigerian boyfriend’s dream.
You don’t pay for human hair or BIS and
she doesn’t even want Blackberry Z10.
She doesn’t care about Valentine’s Day
and you don’t even know her birthday
sef. She never gets jealous or goes
through your phone and she couldn’t
care less about your Facebook password.
In fact she’s the best!
If the girl you’re with falls into all these
categories, you better wake up my guy, NA
FISH SHE BE!!

With an exception to No.8, the rest don't make sense to me. I don't understand men sometimes. You get a bad woman, you complain. You get a 'near perfect' one, you still complain! Ah ah!!! Which level na?

So if a guy gets a financially independent, hardworking, career woman who doesn't want you to be infected with salmonella thus says NO to sea food, its a bad thing abi?

From your No 4, so if a woman is domesticated and hardworking enough to cover the house chores and still have sex with her man, its a bad thing abi? If she's to deny her man sex, I'm sure NL will hear it.

Your number 10 is a typical naija man's dream of a woman. I wonder what is the problem again.

People, give your lives to Christ. Marine girls do exist, yes, but only God can save you not this list.

Caracta: Ogugua pls ban this guy. He is a bully!

First assignment.
Congrats Ogugua.

@OP, this your story is not enough to bring you to NL o. If she told you that on phone, you should go talk to her face-to-face. She might have been serious or not, but you'll never know until you talk to her. Her countenance and reactions to the matter will help to tell her off. Its an insult, yes, but I don't think that ground is solid enough to end your relationship. Go talk to her and find out WHY she said that. As some people have said, there must be a reason. Find out first

Ok, @OP, I don't think you should judge NLers based on their posts. Even though some people tend to be stu*pid in derailing thread, and posting inconsequential comments when important matters are being discussed, I don't think it means that they're like that in real life. Also, people that make reasonable contributions may not always be the nice ones.

But I'll advise you to fear those 'holier than thou' posters cos its better to meet someone who's 'bad' online and who turns out to be nice in reality, than to meet the 'good' ones who turn out to be bad.

LastApostle: Legendary: adjective; very famous with good and great attributes.
Since we are dealing with humans and not fairy myth suffice to say we call 'human' legends our heroes.

The question is...do you consider 190 and idowogbo to be your HERO and HEROINE? Go back to these individuals previous posts preferably their last 10 posts and see if you still got a hero.

I am not making case for anyone but I love exhibiting maturity in sensitive issues!

Don't know why I do get emotional on kids insensitivity!

Wow!!

Speakdatruth: i will neva pick idowuogbo wahala n fight fight replies 2d brilliant replies of mrbrownjay or baseless nigeria girls hating 190 comics 2d intelligent vivian chinaza or d creativity n rebranding of dexplorer n gud interestin humor of xynerise.

Ok na!
#will be back with the names of my nominees

Popowaa: Yes and no.Some are just the opposite of what they are in real life online.i wont be shocked if Mr Cork is married to a black woman in real life and 190's serious gf is a nigerian. You can judge someone based on his/her comments here but u may not alwz be right when u meet the person in person.

....And with a black 'behind' too.

@Op, Yes and No.

How are u?

Hmmmm.
Thinking..... I dey come....

[quote author=sweet-tease]Not all oct born are librans, scorpio is also an oct sign
we can start with out bdays, oct 20th is mine
I hope i find a NL bday mate [/quote]Good idea! 16th all the way!!!!!

The first time I'm seeing a reasonable thread this section.

@purebarbie..there are no enough Librans in here for a contest. You gotta give some time for people to identify with each other. Maybe we should try to bring in some unique ideas that'll always keep the thread alive. We don't have to be opening new october threads every year and we can't allow this one to die. Or what do u think?

#nice meeting guys anyway

[quote author=buklan4real@yah]really appreciate............... tanx so much.
dis issue is happening presently i was unable to slip al tru yestdy
for d past 24hrs i avnt eaten[/quote]Seriously? Because of a man? Hmmmm. Na wa o. Ok na

[quote author=buklan4real@yah]ok. pls wot shud i do? he betrayed my trust[/quote]Madam, under normal circumstances, I'd have agreed with flytefalls but the circumstances surrounding this your story are not normal at all, and that was why I didn't know what to say initially.

Please, did you say 4YEARS fiance? Does that mean you've been engaged for 4years or what? I don't understand seriously. Your story is not clear enough and that's why I didn't want to respond.

If you've been engaged for 4yrs, and now another girl is pregnant for him, don't you think you're being taken for a ride? And if you're to take flytefalls' advice, you'll wait for another 9months to prove paternity. If along the line or afterwards the guy decides to stick with his baby mama, what will you do?

I suggest you take your 1million dollar question to your man. Ask him why he did it. Plead with him to tell you the truth. If the truth happens to be that he doesn't really love you enough to marry you, then whoever is advising you here is really wasting time. You have to be sure that the man you're fighting and sacrificing for is really worth it.

#MY OPINION