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WackyJ1: yes the married men. Well i'd like to believe that those men went through the long process of dating in order to know who their wives were before tying the knot. And i didn't really consider the marriage angle, there really should not be cheat from anyone once marriage sets in.
For the married men, they don't need backup just the first reason given: variety

nah from the guys as well, and also from my own personal feelings (i would never cheat but whenever i get temptations i sit down to analyse why). Do women really know why guys cheat? Don't they just jump to assume that guys are dogs and liars?.. Guy's reasons are just short and boring because they usually cheat with their eyes wide open, they walked into it..
But for the ladies, there are so many reasons, some so ridiculous as i said that you wonder whether the female specie has any sense at all, sometimes they don't know they're going down that path until they find themselves there. One reason eg is self delusion, they see the sign but choose to ignore that the sign is a sign.

Mingle87: All men r bloody cheaters

fatjustice: is it advisable to stay together in matrimony when love is no more there and your wife claims she is with you because of the issues not because she loves you? what is advisable

WackyJ1: Well, i won't go into much here, i am writing an article on why women cheat and it is also 8 microsoft pages long, with contributions from some guys around me who have seen many cases it will soon be complete.
but as for the reasons why men cheat, first reason is that "Variety is the spice of life, they may not necessarily feel anything for the girl but they just want to taste something different. as for the other reason, they just want to have backup in case their current babe goes astray because guys are becoming increasingly aware of the tendency of ladies to cheat these days (after all the stress they go through in the relationship, they have to live with the fact that it may all be for nothing later).

190: Don't like anyone

190: chikk be nice to me remember we are dating

WackyJ1: That's the reason why men cheating and women cheating should never be equated, so far as i know guys cheat for just two straight forward reasons.
But for ladies they are so varied and most times ridiculous.

Bootylicious: I wish i had known dis years back.. I could not help but share on my website and in courtesy of you http://abidemionline.com/relationship/how-to-stop-your-man-from-cheating/

passionate88: no b only d characters of men, if ur friend go out go shine congo then she tell u wetin she do, talk d truth how u go feel?, wetin go b ur reaction?. U fit even tell her say she don sin make she go confess to God, bt men go wan hear d full gist and d map to get d treasure even if na just once.

costan306: if u chop egwusi 2dae,try okro 2mao.dats the rule of the game

bolaino: awww that's so sweet, thanks gurl, *hugs n kisses* who runs the world?

Truckpusher: If you're into a serious relationship that is tending towards marriage and particular bad habit keeps manifesting over and again ,and there is no indication that you're partner wants to make a drastic change now.In that case sometimes ultimatum can be given by both parties to clearly define what and why this would never be tolerated......fortunately only alpha males and secure ladies has the heart to give ultimatums....ultimatums wasn't meant for every Tom,Dick and Harry...

djeezy: He who loves less controls the relationship and it's usually the party who sets the ultimatum. Well for me if my girlfriend sets an ultimatum for me and I decipher it's for the best interest of the relationship, I'll accept it in good faith but if it's for her own selfish interest, it's never gonna work.

bolaino: lol, why u hating gurl?

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Hmmmmm.....now l am wondering if you are already cheating on him!

Anyway, good post and most likely you are one of the very "rare" virtuous women still left!

No cheating please!

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bolaino: thanks dear, I like u a lot too dear,

baba dey: Babe,seriously,they are for kids. When given an ultimatum from anybady,I don't do it deliberately. How to handle it,you ask?.. There is nothing there to handle,it must be stopped even if it takes you 99 years for you to stop it from that fellow but with love cos "Hatred paralyzes life but love releases it. Hatred confuses life but love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life but love illuminates it".

*sitting on ma chair,waiting for chikk babe*

ideology: one of the most difficult task in life is changing peoples mindset, just like you said some people don't even believe in love, the truth is what they believe works for them, so they keep suffering thinking its normal. anyway just keep doing your best to spread the goodnews, people like you are going places, amen, enjoy your life to the fullest.

PrettySpicey: How To Stop Your Man From Cheating:

1. Realize you can't a STOP a cheating casanova from cheating. So ...
2. Date and marry a matured principled man who has of his own accord decided to be faithful.
3. PRAY. Everyday, everytime, for God to give him the grace to overcome temptation.
4. Be the best wife/partner ever. And finally ...
5. Deliver food and SEX on time, everytime he WANTS them. And be creative on both counts.

C'est tout.

follymog: @chikk listen: everytin use to be well but since im more mature and observant,i noticed she was nt the person i used to know although i didnt tell her a word instead i maintain a smooth interaction and dcd to check on tins i never use to check. Guess what i found

She was seein some1 else and i saw wit ma eyes she told the guy on her bbm i'll miss ur kiss and there lots more like sending open pix in small clothings...So i said nth again and for 2months she told me how her schedule has been tit for not takin time to visit me like i did. Then 1 sunday evening we were talking and laughing on phone and i asked her how is ur guy? She became furious and told me to stop such...then she came over 1day to see me,and i asked her again and she denied again then i asked her telling her i won't ask her again...i told her the guys name...his number...pin...and everytin i see they've been doing. What do u tink chikk

She started apologizing on phone,then the oda nit sheading croc tears...this guy still calls her everytime and she feels she can handle it. Just like u sed...i just want to make sure i've done all. Now it appears she nows what she want

stacy: A man that will cheat will always cheat.

baba dey: When you live your love life on "do-and-dont",you are bound to mistakes especially when its from those self-called-love-doctor.

Babe,have you watched the movie "think like a man"?. @ the end you will see (which some don't get),love can't work when you place it on some theory. Every author with different "do and don't".

I still blame this on hollywood and bollywood

Chikk babe, love isn't a theory nor mathematics.

baba dey: For wat!!?... I aint gay babe. Bisexual,not in my dictionary. So,why meet him madamoiselle?

I want my luv story to be like indian film..kuchi kuchi hota hai

Have you watched titanic?

bolaino: I disagree wit u, it has everything to do with romance, this is a tale of friendship, understanding and love on nairaland, most of them are atheists and pastors on nairaland,

cdamsel: which 1 I go come follow na

bolaino: Well, nairaland has become like a part of my life (for now) I can't imagine going a day without checking out what's going on here, and I've seen lots of different folks from the comic to the sadist, but all in all I've got so much love for my nairalanders,

Well my favorite nairalanders are the freethinkers on here, and the first on my list is MUSKEETO, I love d nigga, d nigga has a sense of twisted humor, he is one crazy motherfuckha,

I like, Rossik, Ooman, logicboy, sauer, and most of the atheists/freethinkers,

I've also got love my religious folks, I've got love for Ihedinobi, frosbel, goshen360,

Then the other folks I've got love for are, kenyatamoore, tenderly, ezme, 4words, shymex, BEaf (the nigga's bleeped up) well these are the names I can think of for now, share yours.

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baba dey: Did I mention or think of 190?... U see wat I'm saying.. Try watch the movie. I wanna ask u a kwestion sef,is it true,when truly in love,the feelings like indian films we watch

baba dey: Azin love?... Your too much luv theories and rules of romance has made you a biscuit to the extent you don't know wz luv in tokyo

₪ö offence babe

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