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RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 6:12am On Aug 10, 2016
Vikky014:
HELLO..NOBODY TOLD U NT TO MARRY A NON VIRGIN. U CAN AS WELL MARRY A COMMERCIAL SEX WORKER. IT IS UR CHOICE. BT LEAVE THOSE DT WANT TO KEEP DEMSLFS FOR A REASON BEST KNOWN TO DEM ALONE....I WONT B SURPRISED U HV DISVIRGINED A GIRL BEFORE
U nailed it wen u told him; "he cud as well marry a prostitute and dat he shud allow ppl wu want to kip dirs to kip dirs "
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 6:08am On Aug 10, 2016
MzLarem:
We were..you just didn't take your time to see that the only thing i'm against is the slut-shaming of ladies who ain't virgins and the broadcasting of your virginity status.
We never were! Forget abt hw eva way u paint it. Sincerely u dont believe dat virginity z a thing of pride. I do!
U r apparently supporting d right arguments so dat u can comfortably make a case for d wrong sides.
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 10:29pm On Aug 09, 2016
kobosmalls:
I consider it an act of folly to ask a woman about her virginity and making conclusions based that,. Its absolutely unreasonable.
Why would I want a virgin over a non virgin for a wife?
What's the advantage there?
An employer will always prefer an experienced applicant over a fresh man.
In my opinion, I would say that the virgin will most likely commit adultery since she's never had multiple sex partners,she would always fancy the thought and even act upon it.
Dats ur thinking
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 10:28pm On Aug 09, 2016
MzLarem:
No one is doubting that..infact it saves you from unwanted pregnancy,Stds and in most cases,it makes the husband value her more.
Hahaha. We r nw on d same page it sims.
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 10:24pm On Aug 09, 2016
Vikky014:
Tnx swthrt
Uwc Vickky dearie
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 10:17pm On Aug 09, 2016
Vikky014:
GOD BLESS YOU.
God bless you plenty! Plenty!! smiley
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 10:07pm On Aug 09, 2016
Vikky014:
tnx sir...blushing..she is a pastors daughter. though i heard dt pastors pikin na dem worse pass..bt background helps alot. hw ws ur day?
I am not surprised u r a pastor's daughter. D pastor who fathers u, z a gud man and will b proud of u. My rgads to him on d gud work.

Ur head shud not swell in pride. I am saying ; carry on!

I had a gud day... d best in d past 2wks. Am feeling like mysef grin
And ur day?
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 9:54pm On Aug 09, 2016
MzLarem:
Cant change what exactly? cos the guy made perfect sense and i'm with him on that also..so what's your point?

Let me put my opinion in four sentences..

1. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin(till marriage)..its beautiful and God is pleased with it

2..'non-virgin' ladies are not less of a lady or worthless

3.Your virginity is your personal choice,it shouldn't be broadcasted

4.The pride of a woman is not centred on being a virgin.


All in all..i'm responsible for what i write not what you understand. Good evening.
What i know z dat virginity has a positive impact on d virgin, her family, her husband, d society, human health and existence etc
Gud evni
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 9:46pm On Aug 09, 2016
Vikky014:
exactly. dt is why i tell people dt virginity is never bc of lack of opportunity. it is a decision
You r a great gurl Vicky! Reading u gives me some confidence that women can be trusted with tangible responsibilities in d society without dem ending up betraying d collective goodwill n support for d gurl-child, gender equality n stuffs.. which Diezani, Odua, Patience etc greatly bruised.
U r grt! Am proud of ur education, ur associations, ur inclinations, parents etc i do not know.
Carry on Vicky!
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 9:21pm On Aug 09, 2016
Adaure4ever:
hmmm. I am well disciplined in nature and I do a Girl child youth motivational speaker abt Relationship and Career as part time pet project.
Premarital sex is NO NO.
Gud smiley
Be mindful of what u think and what u teach.
Thanks
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 9:17pm On Aug 09, 2016
MzLarem:
well,i didn't read that and i don't think i'm willing to go back to
That's ur choice: u r making it.
... Ur life; u r living it.
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 9:06pm On Aug 09, 2016
Adaure4ever:
I get ur point, but no one is above mistakes, if a girl is no longer a virgin, She should go and be crying abt it?
Or develop a low self esteem?
Do you know that many girls who turn into hardcore lesbians were hetrosexually virgins?
I am not against Virginity but the overrating of it.
I never said that. And i refuse to allow u goad me into ur deductions.
My stand z simple : VIRGINITY Z PRIDE and THERE IS PRIDE IN VIRGINITY !!!
If a gurl z lost her virginity for whatever reason, she shud live her life, pursue her goals and also understand dat her circumstance places a moral burden on her to help oda gurls esp d yonga ones to learn the right LESSONS of life.... D world gets beta dat way

I dont know. But I do know dat any gurl wu can kip her virginity on principles, can also keep away from masturbation and lesbianism... I knw dat to be true.

I am pro - virginity. Dats one of d things i stand for. Anybody can stand for wateva dey lyk.... in dir own rights... I have made my choices
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 8:55pm On Aug 09, 2016
MDsambo:
So just Bcuz yhu are not a virgin then everyone too mst not be a virgin?


issorite..
She z neva gonna sell any reasonable person a dummy!
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 8:52pm On Aug 09, 2016
Vikky014:
whteva rocks ur boat sir..evrylady dt wants to marry will definitely b located by her man dazzall...and marriage is a package. u cant evn know it by cohabiting in d name of trying to know ur partner well bc people can pretend jst to achieve a goal
You are just a great gurl.
I luv ur maturity, and disposition to life as ur views clearly reflect...
You are a daughter of ur mother and am proud of ur home i do not know.
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 8:45pm On Aug 09, 2016
Timflex:
Virginity being the pride of a woman or not is really relative. While I would not want to judge a woman by her sex life, I would be lying if I told you I don't want a virgin for a wife. Then again, I know that being a virgin does not guarantee a good wife. I know a friend who's wife was a virgin when he married her, but believe me when I tell you that woman is the devils incarnate. Put simply, I want a virgin who ticks every box of what it means to be a good woman. That's not too much to ask considering the life of self control I have led. But, if I find a good woman with high morals who is not a virgin, by all means i 'll wife her.
I am wt u on dis!
Its simple n true
MzLarem and her folks cant change it.... endless truths
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 8:39pm On Aug 09, 2016
Vikky014:
ok virginity is nt the pride of a woman. hving sex wt a guy dt is nt ur husband is the pride of a woman righthuh .well the issue is the first question guys ask a lady bfore they decide on any form of relationship wt u is Are u still a Virgin?..so mayb ur answer will determine whether it is ur pride or nt....so forget d whole story


the bitter truth is sex outside any form of commitment is foolishness on the part of d lady bc sme1 will want to marry u one day. and u cant rewrite ur past no matter what
I luv u Vicky
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 8:36pm On Aug 09, 2016
MzLarem:
And why are you guys concluding the OP is not a virgin..what makes you think a virgin cant stand up for a 'non-virgin' based on d virginity ish..change that mentality..its a fallacy!

BTW,she didn't say its wrong to be a virgin or no one should be.
The OP z a virgin like iya ronke. Read fairlyusedpant here
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m): 8:34pm On Aug 09, 2016
fairlyusedpant:
Babe, you are right, that was how iya ronke told baba jimoh that she is a virgin and she is proud of it, baba jimoh was surprised and shocked because she had 3 kids, he kept on wondering whether the kids were plants or animals, but to cut the story short, iya ronke has won 7 awards for her virginity, the latest one she won was '' award for the purest virgin in osogbo'' when baba jimoh decided to enter iya ronke promised land, we did not know when baba jimoh was shouting '' mo gbe, i have die, mo ku, edakun epp me'' people were asking ''kilode na, what happen?'' he said he entered iya ronke promised land and his thing disappeared, buh we thank God that he later saw his thing after he walked out of the promised land safely
D first tym we met on a thread, we disagreed... But here i lyk ur story if its a joke and... nothing else
RomanceRe: Virginity Is NOT The Pride Of A Woman. by Chikpat(m):
Dear Adaure4ever(f).
No thanks for dis thread u have created on virginity. I do know you have a reason for it. Whatever, no thanks!
I sincerely wish to tell u dat ur thoughts as succinctly expressed here truly reflect the level of debasement or moral decadence that our society is presently besought with.
But then ;

You CANNOT change the moral lessons and values handed to us by our forefathers, our religious indoctrinition etc because you have obviously, assumably, willingly allowed ursef sleep arond wt some guys.

In d good old days, d bride price n marriage procedures of virgins were different from non-virgins.

VIRGINITY Z A THING OF PRIDE... GREAT PRIDE . Get it into ur head!!!

Pitiably, u have forever lost what u shud hav treasured forever.
Keep ur defence n excuses.... You r not gonna sell a reasonable person a dummy.

How can a gurl who has no regard for d teachings of her parents, her religion, her society etc have a better attitude dan a gurl who greatly regards same? A gurl wu cannot honour the words of her elders, her faith, society!

What do u call attitude? What do u call brain?? And what do you call intelligencehuh

Do not allow prostitutes to mentor you and wen u hav d opportunity to bear n raise kids ; do not mentor dem like a prostitute or to become prostitutes!!!
PoliticsRe: Aisha Buhari Visit To America Is 2016 Best Scam. Photos by Chikpat(m): 7:51pm On Aug 09, 2016
OP, go get a life. Occupy ursef wt skills, values, disciplines dat improves ur person and ur society.

You can surely be more reasonable dan dis.
And

Do not let ppl lyk Fayose, Dino, etc to mentor u.

If you acquire gud skills, values, disciplines etc, you will mentor dem instead.

If only u have ears......
I wish you the best.
PoliticsRe: Finally, Fuel Will Be Sold At 60 Naira Per Litre by Chikpat(m): 10:18am On Aug 07, 2016
Mumu
PoliticsRe: Pdp's Markarfi's Committee Waylays OBASANJO (picture) by Chikpat(op): 9:30am On Aug 06, 2016
olamik123:
Same bird on d same feather👆Obasanjo Ebora gbogbo Nigeria
Obasanjo can be conteoversial, funny, corrupt? etc. He never fails to fyt on d same side in all issues... Dats principle!
CelebritiesRe: "You Applied Makeup": Fans Tell Harrysong. Singer Replies by Chikpat(m): 8:53am On Aug 06, 2016
Smellymouth:
All these fans be like nairalanders grin cheesy.. No chills..

You for nor beg na.. undecided

But why this guy dey like wear make up? huh embarassed
Hehehe. He can make up or make down...
Dats his life n he z living it.
PoliticsPdp's Markarfi's Committee Waylays OBASANJO (picture) by Chikpat(op): 7:52am On Aug 06, 2016
The Sen Ahmed Makarfi-led national caretaker committee of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) yesterday opened subtle overtures to former president Olusegun Obasanjo over the current state of affairs of the party.

Makari led his committee members to meet the former president who was attending a forum of farmers at the Shehu Musa Yar’Adua center in Abuja, the same venue for the inauguration of the party’s national convention committee, scheduled for August 17 in Porthacourt, Rivers State.

While preparations for the PDP event which held at the main auditorium of the center was yet to begin, Makarfi mobilized his committee to greet Obasanjo who is a renowned farmer at the farmers meeting.

Although it was not clear whether the meeting was at the instance of Makarfi or Obasanjo, a female staff of the foundation led Makarfi and his committee into the hall were the farmers met.

About six minutes later, the caretaker committee came out of the room and returned to the venue of the inauguration of the zoning committee.

About an hour after the end of the inauguration, Obasanjo came out of the farmers’ meeting and walked briskly into his waiting black Sports Utility Vehicle (SUV) which was parked at the entrance to the main building.

While attempts to reach the spokesman of the committee, Prince Dayo Adeyeye, was not successful, another member of the committee who was at the meeting declined to comment on the matter.

Obasanjo, a former president and Board of Trustee chairman of the PDP, had resigned from partaking in the affairs of the party, following his face off with one of his successors and immediate past president, Goodluck Jonathan.

The former president further distanced himself from the PDP when he publicly supervised the tearing of his membership card in the build up to the 2015 presidential election.

While Obasanjo and Jonathan fell out over the later’s second term ambition, the former PDP BoT chairman had also said he would rather tear his card than be in the same party with Sen Buruji Kashamu, who at the time was regarded as the leader of the party in the South West.

Meanwhile, as PDP prepares for its national convention, the party’s Board of Trustees (BoT) has warned that the party is not for sale anymore.

The chairman of the party’s BoT, Sen Walid Jubrin, who spoke during the inauguration of the national convention committee led by the Rivers State governor, Nyesom Wike, also charged delegates to the convention to refuse to be bought over by money bags.

However, chairman of the PDP national caretaker committee, Sen Ahmed Makarfi, said no aspirant has been zoned out of contesting any position in the party, following the rezoning of party offices.

But the BoT chairman who was apparently making reference to influence of power stakeholders in the party, said, “Like the chairman has said we are passing the era of impunity and selfishness. We are going to learn from the past and move forward with fairness and justice.

“It is always go for communities to come together and sit down and agree on a suggestion on how to go forward. The decision of the community and family is what should be and not that of an individual.

“But where such opportunity is given it is very difficult for one to stop any member of the community from participating. It is a suggestion but in most cases it pay everyone to follow the suggestion.

“This party is not for sale. This party must be a party of very conscious people. If it were left to me, I will tell every delegate to reject anybody that come with money.

“We are an honest and upright person. This party will not want somebody that will come and buy his way into office. The BoT will no longer accept any leadership to be forced on the party.”

While he expressed confidence that the leadership crisis will be resolved before the August 17 national convention, he regretted that over 15 court cases are pending so far.

On his part, Sen Makarfi said, “I recall when we last met here to inaugurate the zoning committee and I mentioned on behalf of the caretaker committee that the convention would be an all-inclusive one and that offices to be contested for would be open to all and sundry, that doesn’t mean people cannot come together to zone offices. If zoning does not favour you and you still think that you have the best chance of winning, the political landscape is there.

“It’s up to you to campaign across the country to get enough delegates to support you. Zoning doesn’t mean you have been excluded, it is meeting of the minds. And it is for every aspirant to assess by himself or herself whether he or she has the capacity to garner more support than. Collection of people that come together to have a common position.

However the cost of expression of interest forms for National Chairman is N1m. For Deputy National Chairman and national secretary it is N500,000, while every other position costs N300,000.



Chibuzo Ukaibe
Leadership Newspaper
PoliticsRe: Jibrin Vs Dogara: APC Leadership Is Incompetent – Deputy Spokesman, Timi Frank by Chikpat(m): 1:47am On Aug 06, 2016
Who z Timi Frank?
Incompetence in APC's leadership starts from him.

How come he z Deputy spokesperson of d party and yet nobody knows him?

He shud;
1) resign as he z occupying a position biga dan him.... Or cud it be d guy don see say dem go change am wt nothing for him in d nxt convention... kom dey form shit for now? Of kos dats wat he z!
2) he shud be a gud party man and a gud Nigerian or forever gerara hia mehn!

Sounds lyk Dino dem... Corrupt guys protectin d interest of Corrupt Bukola.
Who cares?
PoliticsRe: I Have No Personal Problem With Amaechi, He Was My Boss Says Gov. Wike by Chikpat(m): 1:43am On Aug 06, 2016
Dats an indirect way of trying to reconcile wt a patriot he has bn insulting everywhr else.

To err z human.... to forgive z divine.
I can trust Amaechi, a true son of Obj will be stingy wt forgiveness here.
Not after all d insult n pdp orchestrated murder in Rivers.
PoliticsRe: Kwankwaso Climbs Ladder To Inspect A Flyover Project: Pic by Chikpat(m): 9:18am On Aug 04, 2016
He z an Engr. He shud hav removed his agbada... Dats all
PoliticsRe: Buhari On Course To Make One Naira Equal To One Dollar by Chikpat(m): 12:02am On Aug 04, 2016
S6un:
Current economic forecast says 1000 naira will be equal to one dollar by june 2017. The shambolic incompetent government only needs to remove the three zeros from 1000 and

Yes 1 naira equal $1 grin
This z nt making d least sense at all
PoliticsRe: Presidency Plots To Remove Dogara, Others - Linus Okorie by Chikpat(m): 8:38pm On Aug 03, 2016
Ichieboxy:
Mechie onu ma imaghi ihe iga ekwu...Ana ekwugheri ebe Nile ...smh
Hahaha... Eyegere mmadu grin

Jiri nwayoo gafeee....

Ka ndi nwere isi kpakarita ukaa smiley
PoliticsRe: Presidency Plots To Remove Dogara, Others - Linus Okorie by Chikpat(m): 8:55am On Aug 03, 2016
annnikky:
https://www.naij.com/911789-bdget-padding-lawmaker-exposes-buhari-plotting-dogara-others.html
Why are Igbos in d National Assembly fooling arond, shaming demsevs n dem ppl?
PoliticsRe: If I Stop Talking, Nigerians Will Suffer – Fayose Boasts by Chikpat(m): 8:55am On Jul 29, 2016
which Nigerian has ur silly talks helped?
go n sit down Mr Fayose
PoliticsRe: Reps Gather 113 Signatures For Dogara, Jibrin Probe By EFCC by Chikpat(m): 3:24pm On Jul 28, 2016
Chikpat:
aways think, talk and write like an educated person even if u r not

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