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 Foreign Affairs › Re: Zuma And Wives by chineloSA(f): 10:10pm On Jul 09, 2015 |
YerYer:Did Mandela tell you he doesn't like Zuma   1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: “I Have $100,000 In The Bank”, Majek Fashek Hits Back At Reports He Is Broke by chineloSA(f): 1:07pm On Jul 09, 2015 |
so this is how $100 000 looks like |
| Celebrities › Re: OMG! Yetunde Bustline Oduwole Breaks Down In Tears Curses Ex-bf Baba Tee (VIDEO) by chineloSA(f): 12:47pm On Jul 09, 2015 |
Jorussia: |
| Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by chineloSA(f): 7:00pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Lazy supper. Noodles and pan seared salmon steak.  2 Likes
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| Politics › Re: #Bringbackourgirls Marching To Aso Rock To See Buhari (Photos) by chineloSA(f): 5:35pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Looks like this marching to Aso rock hasn't worked. They should just go to Boko Haram headquarters and submit their petition.  |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Boyfriend Dumped To Marry Another Woman Breaks Nigeria Twitter by chineloSA(f): 6:38am On Jul 06, 2015 |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Boyfriend Dumped To Marry Another Woman Breaks Nigeria Twitter by chineloSA(f): 10:58pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
friedcorn:I am not Mary Magdalene as yet. I am still on my journey towards being a good and considerate being. I have also learnt that some of the things we do,do not end with us, some go to your next generation. That is life for you. The guy will be served with his humble pie at a good time. Mark my words. As for you, the way you defending this guy, it looks like you are doing it.  Be careful Mr Player. |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Boyfriend Dumped To Marry Another Woman Breaks Nigeria Twitter by chineloSA(f): 10:49pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
friedcorn:Karma has dealt with me so many times. I have a thesis of lessons I learnt. What I can tell you is, the guy is dishonest. What is built on lies can never last. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Boyfriend Dumped To Marry Another Woman Breaks Nigeria Twitter by chineloSA(f): 10:45pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Dragonking:You make it seem like the girl held a gun against his heard and forced him to stay in the "friend zone" If he was not happy with the friend zone, he should have "nicely withdrawn". The guy is not a victim at all. You seem to also ignore the fact that the guy is dishonest and not good hearted. The guy never loved the girl as well, it's not like he loved her otherwise he would not have revenged like he did. If he loved her he would have found it in his heart to let go. You never wish bad things for people you love. So please, he also didn't love the girl enough. It could have been lust and he was angry that she took time to give him what he wanted and lusted. When man are in last they become evil. Some can even rape a woman because of lust not love. Lust gets frustrated and evil. Love is patient and kind. This one na evil love. Yes the girl is eating her humble pie. But the guys own is on his way. 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Boyfriend Dumped To Marry Another Woman Breaks Nigeria Twitter by chineloSA(f): 10:23pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
friedcorn: looks like I hit where it hurts the most.I didn't wish him bad luck, he invited it to himself by his dishonesty. All I am saying is Karma will equally visit his dishonest self. The wife is a victim as well. If I was in her shoes and knew what my husband to be did, I would not have proceeded with the nuptuals. The guys is equally dishonest, conniving, hard hearted and full of revenge. He will likely apply the same tactics in his marriage. In marriage there are a lot of times where you have to forgive even when you don't want to. Judging by his actions I can say he is full of revenge and is not a forgiving person. Ugly heart  Unfortunately we are authors of our future. You do good you get rewarded with good. You do bad it will one day visit you. 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Boyfriend Dumped To Marry Another Woman Breaks Nigeria Twitter by chineloSA(f): 9:37pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Yes the girl was wrong, but the guy shouldnt have also done what he did. Karma will equally sort him out. The fact that he is now married does not make him immune to love misfortunes. The new wife may coincidentally dish him what he dished to this girl. What happened to honesty He was dishonest to the wife to be and to the girl as well. He may loose the wife the same way he gained the wife. I pity the wife. I would not want to marry his type. He may repeat the same drama in future. People like him are not to be trusted 8 Likes |
| Christianity Etc › Re: How Jesus Reacted To The Worship Of Mary by chineloSA(f): 9:46am On Jul 05, 2015 |
honourhim:If we worship her, what's your business. Are you the Chief editor/ interpreter of the bible? |
| Celebrities › Re: Karen Igho And Hubby Welcomes Baby Boy by chineloSA(f): 11:35pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
congratulations motherhood, beautiful indeed. |
| Politics › Re: Photos From Adanma Ohakim's Wedding Today In Abuja by chineloSA(f): 7:19pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
beauty full  |
| Pets › Re: Check Out This Cute Little Tortoise I Saw At Me Backyard *pics* by chineloSA(f): 6:59pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
That thing can release serious foul gas eeehn |
| Forum Games › Re: Try This, Its Like Magic by chineloSA(f): 11:50am On Jul 04, 2015 |
I used to use this in my "Life skills " training sessions to motivate students. And also the dot on a piece of a big paper demonstration. I used it to motivate students that whatever that you put your focus on, every other obstacle disappears. The dot on a piece of paper was to demonstrate that we all make mistakes in life and those mistakes look like dots on a piece of paper in our lives and we cant get rid of them. But if you focus on the bigger portion of the piece of paper, that paper can be used for different purposes and when that happens the dot cannot be recognized afterwards. The massage was ''FOCUS ON ONLY WHAT YOU WANT'' and it will be within your reach and the obstacles will disappear and most of us focus on what we don't want. |
| Celebrities › Re: Dencia Shows Off A 2015 Rolls Royce And Tells Her Haters To Take A Hike by chineloSA(f): 8:52am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Pride comes before a fall. Hope she doesn't eat her words in future. |
| Family › Re: Reasons Why Most Marriages Fail In Nigeria by chineloSA(f): 8:36am On Jul 04, 2015 |
You are not married?? Then honestly your point become invalid in married people's eyes. There is a lot of things that an unmarried person will never understand until they are married, no matter if you have been a marriage counsellor or marriage observer for as long as you live. Madam personally, I commend you for the time you spent writing this piece of article eeeeh. But let me tell you, there is a lot that we (married) people go through it cannot be summarised by this one page you wrote. The points you wrote are the points that you look out for before marriage ( before tying the knot) . You cannot look for effective communication only after marriage, that has to be done before marriage. Once you tie that knot,things become more complex than this one page you wrote. Things like extended family, religion, future goals and plans, values, how you were raised in etc. Let me share one personal story. My hubby grew up with an irresponsible father. So MIL raised him and his siblings single handedly. I didn't see it coming before marriage. So after marriage, trouble started. It was now expected of me to disrespect my FIL and join my hubby and his siblings to make him pay for all he has done in all these past years. I had to sit down and weigh things. I thought to myself: 1. I was not there when all this happened, so I have nothing to do with everything. 2. After all this they are blood, they can forgive each other after everything but it may be hard to forgive me. 3. What happened to forgiveness. Who made me judge. Have his kids not done wrong? 4. My bible gives me 10 commandments one of them is "Honour your father and your mother....... How do I expect a good and blessed life if I disrespect a parent? 5. If he can do this to his father he can do this to my parents. Etc. In all this I have to stand ground on a daily basis. Stand against my hubby and his siblings and MIL from influencing me into disrespecting a man that never disrespected me. Now they call him my father. He is not their father. So tell me what does my story fit into your points It's easy to say "effective communication" but it's not easy to do "effective communication in marriage" There is a lot that even scholars and counsellors have not been able to put all in one book. They always title their books "10 things that lead to failed marriage" etc. while acknowledging the complexities. Nevertheless, this can help the unmarried to choose and those about to marry to focus on some things to look out for, but cannot help sustain a marriage. But good write up I pray that you get married and come and write something again. |
| Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by chineloSA(f): 11:09pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
| Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by chineloSA(f): 4:55pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
Today its weekend in this side of the world,so I decided to try one Saudi dish called Kabssa. My students have been nagging me to taste Kabssa, and finally I have. Well it almost tastes like Jollof,though with a twist because of the ingredients like cumin, dry lemon. I used sea food instead of chicken or mutton. Don't mind my grey over boiled eggs. It tastes great, I must say. 1 Like
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| Family › Re: Help! My Husband Is Acting Funny! by chineloSA(f): 3:22pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
He is acting funny Then you should laugh because your husband is a ''CLOWN" 103 Likes 3 Shares |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Picture:meet America’s First Openly Gay Imam by chineloSA(f): 8:51am On Jul 03, 2015 |
Davivah:Well tell me what I have no knowledge of as you are saying. Give me knowledge. Protecting and defending your Saudi masters? |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Picture:meet America’s First Openly Gay Imam by chineloSA(f): 8:48am On Jul 03, 2015 |
Troycrown:Please give credit to Mugabe for this quote eeehn. Plagiarism is a criminal offense. |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Picture:meet America’s First Openly Gay Imam by chineloSA(f): 9:22pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
haul:I just look at him, because I live in Saudi myself and I m learning everyday in his holy land so I am not sure what he is going on about. 1 Like |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Picture:meet America’s First Openly Gay Imam by chineloSA(f): 8:27pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Jattuboy:I am not going to stoop to your level. Tell me what was ignorant in my post sir? |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Picture:meet America’s First Openly Gay Imam by chineloSA(f): 7:32pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Topisko:I have gotten to prove that the people who are the most vocal against gays etc and those who speak with so much emotions when homosexual debates are brought up, actually envy to experience homosexual experience so much that they hide this wish by emotions. Why are you emotional? Do they use your behind to do it 3 Likes |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Picture:meet America’s First Openly Gay Imam by chineloSA(f): 7:24pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Jattuboy:@Deltagiant,what did I say to you? He has started defending his quasi gods. There is a case that was concluded this year in the Kingdom. This Saudi national was dating a foreigner. The relationship didn't end well between the two. Instead the Saudi national reported this man that he was harassing him just to spite him after he left him. The guy was killed this year. Don't defend Saudis they are not saints please. And besides you don't live with them. The things that they do are unbelievable, even the things that they attempt to do to us foreign woman are unexpected. 4 Likes |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Desmond Tutu Celebrates 60th Wedding Anniversary by chineloSA(f): 7:13pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
See the way they kiss |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Picture:meet America’s First Openly Gay Imam by chineloSA(f): 7:07pm On Jul 02, 2015*. Modified: 7:56pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Deltagiant:Wait and see the attacks that you may get for being blunt about Saudi princes and Arabs I still wonder why majority of Muslim community think that if something is done by a Saudi then it's Islamic or acceptable. Why does it seem like Saudi's are held in high regard within the religion. Yes they are probably self appointed custodians of the Mosque or holy land but not of the religion. The interesting part is that Muslims are the first people to protect anything Arab or Saudi, when ever you state pure facts about them. No wonder they look down on any Muslim who is not practicing Wahabbi Islam. The are given the crown of being closer to God by their fellow Muslims. 3 Likes |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Picture:meet America’s First Openly Gay Imam by chineloSA(f): 6:53pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
bakjal:Though I am against gender segregation because I experience it's extremes here in Saudi Arabia. But on this one I agree with you. I cannot see myself bending and facing some mens butt or some man behind me facing my butt while praying. Yuuuck 1 Like |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Picture:meet America’s First Openly Gay Imam by chineloSA(f): 6:41pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
When are you lot gonna stop this gay/lesbian debate. Abeg,let them be. If you disagree with them ignore them. God doesn't have a deputy. So you are not his deputy. But I fear for his life eeehn. He will soon be a target for some Wahabbi, Sunni no Shia extremist fools. 2 Likes |
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