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What issues of migration now Which turn?

What's the purpose of taking a picture with the suspect.

I have never seen this level of mumu . Loosing ones life over an ordinary bird.

It's called "TRAUMA BOND"

It's when in an abusive relationship, both partners or one partner cement and enforce a relationship through pain and suffering. The victim eventually believes that the pain and trauma is a form of love.

SimplyFacts:
I don talk am before. Mercy Johnson's family & social media are like 5&6. I hope there's no crack in the wall already.

My observation too. She tries so hard to prove she is happily married.

SimplyFacts:
I don talk am before. Mercy Johnson's family & social media are like 5&6. I hope there's no crack in the wall already.

My observation too. She tries so hard to prove she is happily married.

The way Mercy Johnson is trying so hard to prove to people that she is having a happy home
I have seen some videos of her and this man. This man is zombified. He is told what to do, how to do it and when to do it.

What does the iceband do for a living if I may ask?

Can you provide for yourself financially ( accommodation, food, clothing, car ) just basic needs?

Are you ready to provide for her?
Are you psychologically, emotionally, financially ready?

TMKsouth:
Ooo la la - post grad ? Hope you aced it though.

I assumed you were Venda judging by the name. So what nationality are u?

Still busy with my postgrad.

Venda I am 100% Nigerian, Igbo to be precise.

TMKsouth:
I've been mugged by Zimbos, Mozambicans, and some South Africans countless times in Joburg. And they sell those stolen electronics to Nigerian traders who unblock and resell them. That's the bitter truth.

Haven't seen u around in the longest time.

It's the bitter pill that us as foreigners and Nigerians do want to swallow.

Post grad studies are showing me flames that's why I've been MIA.

Odinaka00:
You will never get any like for this comment cuz you said the truth. We re always quick to call Black South Africans xenophobic but we tend to shy away from the bad things some foreign nationals do here in SA, a Zimbabwean will stab you to death just bcus of your phone, a Mozambican will shoot you to death just to hijack your car and ship it to Mozambique to sell. A Nigerian will deliberately drug a young school girl and use her for prostitution business inform of human trafficking. There re many crimes that black foreign nationals commit here that we shy away from. As we condemn xenophobia let us also condemn things that lead to these xenophobic attacks cuz me as a person, if a foreigner does any of these crimes in my community here in Nigeria, I go retarliate oo

1000% truth, I was onces mugged by a Zimbabwe, if it was not for other Nigerians who told me that he is Zimbabweans, I was going to mistake him for a South Africans. We shy away from the truth. When its Europen countries and Arab countries we are quick to accept criticism and deportation. When it's an African country we insult their citizens.

BSsniffer:
Usually I'd call south africans xénophobic but honestly these somalis are moving devils, cursed afro-asiatic bastards with terrorism in their blood....imagine stock-pilling arms in another man's country Even in other parts of the world these skinny nigger somalis act like they better than other africans when their country is a poster child for an african hellhole. Skinny goat fvckin nignogs

;DYou said the truth. Your choice of words is too funny

Parents give us life. A teacher teaches us how to live it,but my dad served as both.

This is just a very sad story Since the man is isolating her, it's very likely that she is being abused if she is still alive of course.

There is no way that they did not have 2 witnesses. Looks like a Catholic wedding and also South African. Both its compulsory to have 2 witnesses.

No matter how smart you are, some Narcissist will outsmart you. She was outsmarted by a Narcissist. That man doesn't want the child.

Sterope:
The wife that knew about his baggages and still married him.

So both are not angels. They should tolerate each other. He created the situation and he needs to manage it accordingly. Feeling insecure in any relationship doesnt produce good outcomes.

Even a relationship between a parent and a child, employer and employee, etc. Insecurity creates havoc. He made the bed and he should lie in it.

culf:
I pity 2baba, he is truly strong, having a bad wife is terrible, May God help help us all.

So Annie is bad and 2baba is good? The same 2baba who has kids all over and can't manage the situation. He is just as bad for creating a situation that makes his wife feel insecure.

Raydos:
Look, I'm not a hater of SA, I'm just a passionate black man who wants to see African successful Before he dies!!

Truly you are not portraying it in any positive light. There are so many orderly cities in SA. PE, Mossel Bay, Cape, Rustenburg, Polokwane, Bloemfontein which cannot compete with Lagos in terms of orderliness..Nevertheless, I am not defending anything, I am always lefts gobsmacked when my own people who have never been to SA continue with the propaganda. It always sounds ridiculous.

Raydos:
Became more developed and also became more Unliveable!!

You can't even walk through Jo'burg street at night without getting robbed, It's even worse when you're a Female, You'll get raped and killed!!

But you said "everything" started deteriorating

It depends where you live. Joburg is not the whole of SA remember.

Raydos:
Since black people took control of SA government everything has started deteriorating and going downhill, South Africa is one of the unsafest countries in the world now, White people are migrating to another country each day!

Black is a cursed race!!

Who lied to you.
SA became more developed since black government took over. The SA you see is not the same SA I found here when I moved to here.
Propaganda is not doing justice. Yes crimes has increased, but what if the Apartheid government was not accurately reporting their stats??

weyreypey:
Used to the strikes. But as you said this was on another level. It is traumatising to business owners. Expect some of them to exit.

The smaller foreign businesses may exit, but the local ones you find at the malls, they will not.

Most if these businesses are their SA born, white owned businesses. They have nowhere to go. Even other African countries are not making money for them as much as they make it in SA.

Shoprite exited Nigeria and Kenya and now focusing on SA and they made a hell of a lot.

In all this, I still ask myself why does an ordinary Nigeria worry about what's happening in their country.

They are burning their country, their economy, their infrastructure. What does this have to do with any Nigerian.

SocialJustice:
Na wa, see the rubbish this girl has reduced herself to.

She reduced herself and not you

MrMacinterchi1:
Are you sure u understood his comment? maybe you should read it again .

I responded to the wrong comment. Thanks.

SenatePresdo:
If Sex is not important in Marriage, why then is cheating a problem?

Sex Is a very important aspect of marriage, do not be deceived.

Sex makes couple feel closer and Happy, when the sex life is nothing to write home about and the person that ought to make you happy becomes a source of your grievances, the Union would start to deteriorate.

How then are people expected to have babies?

I can foresee you in this court again your future wife divorcing you for this same issue.

Fiscus105:
But u re just dodging my question o

Women need lower body counts far by male gender

On many occasions females are victim of sexual immorality

That's why you can go out and boast about ur sexual escapades but man do

Its total rubbish created by man to downplay their immoral behaviors as men. Sexual experience is a personal experience and I have no right to dictate to anyone in terms of number.

This shouldn't be about gender. Your attitude is chauvinistic and misogynistic. You make it look like man have a right to sleep with whoever and there are no consequences. Men pick up diseases. Men impregnate in the process. As a woman I can choose not to settle with a man because he has so many babbymamas, or past STI's that's body count too.

You men can sometimes think you are some special gift from God to women. No ways. We are just as equally disgusted by the number of exes and number of babies dead or alive you guys have.

Emaprince:
Are you a psycho?

Transactional seex is a crime or what?

What makes this scenario an abuse? Is the girl not above the agen of consent?
She is a full fledged woman who is busy enjoy the material gains she gets from the man while the man is only having sex with her..so?

Just like many other single women who enjoy lavish life style courtesy of the sugar daddies like the deceased...I see no problem here.

Transactional sex is prostitution and it's illegal and a crime in most countries including Nigeria. But since it's a man's world it's not a crime in their eyes because they benefit from it. It's not a crime because they continue protecting their exploitative ways. It's a crime especially when one is exploiting young and vulnerable University girls who are still young and cannot provide for themselves yet because of laws and chronological age they are supposed to be adults.

The man new he is married and was not supposed to be with another partner either than the wife. He walked himself into that hotel to perform transactional sex ( prostit..ution) and he shouldn't be made out to be the biggest victim.

dalass:
And the old papa who dated and forced the girl nko?

He should be ashamed of himself in hell that he left a solid wife and beautiful children to be killed by this girl young enough to be his daughter!

I truly pity the family left behind because the whole world now knows what killed their father!

He really should be ashamed of himself.
I am on this girls side. This man thought he was going to continue exploiting her and he met his match.
These rich men think they own this world.

I hope and pray more victims of the deceased come out to share their stories. He was into transactional sex and abusing young girls.

May his dirty soul RIP.

IJEYdiamond:
Some rich men can make some women look like shit some are manipulative... some feel that they are doing you a favour by giving u stupid change... because its their mind set..

Home and abroad... ladies if u meet such men flee... even if u have an experience with them... flee from them so that u dont do something and regret later.. No be all rich men be human beings... some r beast ooo... forget the money they have ooo.

True. This man is being made out to be some innocent CEO who found himself in a hotel with an evil girl.
No ways, he knew what he was doing and he met his match.

Fiscus105:
That's why you don't mind body counts again

Body counts apply to females only

Hypocrisy. Men sleep around and do fivesomes and even ga.ysomes and once they are done with their immorality they turn around and want vir.gins. Haba

Some women as we speak are married to bisexual rubbish and some husbands are continuing with their philandering ways gallivanting all over just like the deceased until death deletes them.

I hate gender hypocrisy..

Fiscus105:
Fucking different married men's dicks, old enough to be your dad at tender age. Drinking and smoking as well, when she finally got married to an innocent and inexperienced guy, she would make the marriage toxic but claim victim card as usual.


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Which innocent man Where do you find them??