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TV/Movies › Re: Zee World Movies And Soaps Official Fan Page by Chinum: 1:26pm On Jun 11, 2015

Someone should give us an update on "breaking free" and "eternal love" please cry

Family › Re: For Ladies Who Grew Up In The Village. Did You Do This (picture) by Chinum: 9:20am On Jun 11, 2015

Blizzyblinkzy:
Do i really sounded that way? It might be d way u read meanin in2 it... Its not an abomination growing up in d villa, Just dat i can't use my foot in mashing palm kernel. On a more serz note doesn't it look irritating?

N:B: Am not trying 2 form. I do it with mortal n pestle not with my foot.

The way ppl reacted to ur post should tell u dat sth was wrong wif it. Next time try to make ur point without seeming condescending.

@ bolded, so u even pound kernel. One would have thought that u never laid ur eyes on it. U also keep laying emphasis on not trying to form. Pls stop it. That mode of forming went with the 20th century.

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TV/Movies › Re: Zee World Movies And Soaps Official Fan Page by Chinum: 8:21pm On Jun 10, 2015

Forwetinnah:
All these AMEBO Landlord wives...make una no go house go put reins on your horses, siddon dey blame bednis for your promiscuous husbands. Nonsense!!

Haaahaaa!! Vikram the Rebel, you and Sugni blend biko. That's a man right there!! So Vikram wasn't happy in his first marriage arranged by his sister Aka Mama Adi. .una see wetin I dey talk? I can't help but smile whenever i see Sugni/Vikram talking or being cosy, awww. Gulabi the voice of reason...
Sugni waiting for Vikram in the rain, love kill her she Die. Ohhh!! Hukum is all about the money, very greeeedy man. Which is more honorable; Marriage or Sardakhai??
Landlord Jwala please take a nap, a very long one.. you have no honour for Vikram to tarnish . Well y'all heard, Vikram wee mally* Sugni ( when the right time comes) kiiikiiiikiii. When will that be though??

U funny, aswear

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Family › Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Chinum: 8:15pm On Jun 10, 2015

SAMBARRY:
I know na

Ojare

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Family › Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Chinum: 8:14pm On Jun 10, 2015

ladynice:
thanks alot

Wasere joor cheesy

Nairaland General › Re: While Using Hypo As This Happen To You? by Chinum: 6:28pm On Jun 10, 2015

paulabola:
Nairalanders has this ever happen to you while using hypo to wash, today I was using hypo to wash my singlet all of sudden my eyes started peppery me with tear coming out as if I was slicing a bulb of onion so also I was having a running nose & peppery me @ the same time.

You must have reacted to certain chemicals in it. Or maybe d detergent u were using has some ingredients dat reacted wif d hypo. Try n be careful next time. Also look it up in the internet.

Family › Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Chinum: 6:16pm On Jun 10, 2015

SAMBARRY:
don't mind her lady nice

Na joke na.

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Family › Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Chinum: 3:49pm On Jun 10, 2015

ladynice:
pls wat is e and o

e means ekuse o
o means okuse o

cheesy

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Family › Couples Need To Be Financially Compatible by Chinum(op): 12:29pm On Jun 10, 2015

Relationships and investing are both complex subjects in their own right – mixing the two can sometimes be a recipe for disaster. Here’s what you should (and shouldn’t) do with your money when you are seriously involved with someone.

Love and money point one: Single versus joint accounts

Couples and experts alike have debated over single and joint accounts for as long as most people can remember. The two sides are both striving for the same goal – creating a stronger marriage while maintaining financial responsibility.

The arguments go something like this:

1.) Joint accounts create a sense of unity that is vital to a relationship. If you separate the money, you take away a degree of integration that should be present in any long-term relationship, or

2.) Separate accounts allow each the ability to retain their independence, actually strengthening the relationship.

Which side is right? That depends.

Before you can even consider planning a financial future with someone, you have to look at what type of personality you each have. If you managed your finances, made your own investment decisions, and had qualified retirement accounts before you got involved, you will probably be very hesitant to give up that control to anyone – including the person with whom you may spend the rest of your life. On the other hand, if you were prone to spur-of-the-moment spending and liberal use of credit, odds are you would more readily opt to open joint accounts. In the end, the accounts should only be merged if (and this is absolutely vital) both parties have the same type of financial personality.

Love and money point two: Both parties should be accountable for the money

Realise this doesn’t mean that one of you has the right to ask for money whenever you feel like it. Often, I’ll receive letters from couples who complain that the husband or wife feels like a child receiving an allowance. In some cases, this is a valid argument. More often than not, when the entire story is told, it turns out that the party in question simply cannot handle money.

Love and money example: The story of Kent and Elizabeth

We can all take a lesson from Kent and Elizabeth Washington, a real couple whose names I’ve changed. Before they met, Kent owned a restaurant and made around $40,000 a year. His wife was an elementary school teacher who brought home about $23,000. Elizabeth was given $200 every week to buy groceries, and take care of small household expenses. She became so frustrated at receiving her ‘allowance’ that she actually gave Kent separation papers because he refused to change the way the finances were run. She felt that, as an educated woman earning her own salary, the money was rightfully hers.

The truth of the matter was, at one point, both had separate checking accounts. Elizabeth took her weekly paycheck of $442.31 and deposited it into her account, just as if she were single. The total household expenses were just over $35,800 annually including rent, food, etc. Because she brought in 36.5 per cent of the income, Kent decided that she should pay the same percentage of the bills. This worked out to around $13,067 annually. Two weeks into the new arrangement, Elizabeth had spent her paycheck and not paid any of the bills. She went to her husband and told him he needed to pay them. Kent refused. In the end, the bills were not paid, and she had no money left. This led to the current arrangement of an “allowance”.

The moral? As cruel as this sounds, Kent was absolutely right. If you or your spouse cannot be responsible with the finances, you do not deserve to have control over them if you have any hope of building wealth as a family, securing a comfortable retirement. This is especially true if you have children. The fact of the matter is, if Elizabeth had been on her own, her monthly expenses would have been higher because the cost-savings of living with someone else would have been eliminated. In only a few months she would likely be facing the possibility of bankruptcy.

http://www.punchng.com/business/am-business/couples-need-to-be-financially-compatible/

Celebrities › Re: Photo: Abeg, Who Mumu Pass Between These Nollywood Stars? by Chinum: 12:18pm On Jun 10, 2015

Omo, I confuse o.

All of dem na d same tin.

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TV/Movies › Re: Zee World Movies And Soaps Official Fan Page by Chinum: 11:41pm On Jun 09, 2015

Acidosis:
...stopped watching this movie cos of that bloody cheat & liar called Arti

we ryk her ryk dat tongue

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TV/Movies › Re: Zee World Movies And Soaps Official Fan Page by Chinum: 10:56pm On Jun 09, 2015

Svelteb:
Hunch Abeg who carry Hunch keep ooo? ... Aunt Maya was my 1st suspect bt nw I'm avn a shifted view.....Mr. Dubey

Chimoo

. Na so una want tk dash my boy hunchback? grin

abeg oo

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Family › Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Chinum: 8:56pm On Jun 09, 2015

Shollypopzz:
Bullsh1t!! There should be a clause or an exception to your statement. It was some people's culture to kill twins, It was some people's culture to bury people alive with a dead King, it was some people culture to enslave people, it was some people's culture to marry off under-aged children. Shouldn't such culture be rubbished??

The whole idea that a wife should call a younger SIL auntie stems from the ideology that the wife is a property that has been sold to her husband's family. They have ownership and she is to submit to their will, even those of the kids. The culture is very condescending to women and as women, we don't have to condone it; we can change it. One should not condone ignorance because it is one's culture.

Culture changes. As long as humans create and define their culture, it will always change because humans change. Nothing is stagnant, so we shouldn't expect culture to be permanent.

@op: I blame your husband 100%. What husband would keep quiet while his younger sister is telling his wife to call her auntie?? Instead of facing your SIL, face your husband. If your husband agrees with his family, there is nothing you can do about it. In fact, his younger sister has the guts to tell you to call her auntie because he allows it.

GBAm GBamer Gbamest

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Family › Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Chinum: 5:46pm On Jun 08, 2015

ArchEnemy:
Call her aunty and let sleeping dogs lie. It won't make you any lesser

Na like that e dey start. Aunty ko, brother ni.

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TV/Movies › Re: Zee World Movies And Soaps Official Fan Page by Chinum: 9:58pm On Jun 07, 2015

JUMAYIN:
Who is enjoying DID Lil masters

Those kids been giving me joy since 1960. kiss

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Family › Re: For Ladies Who Grew Up In The Village. Did You Do This (picture) by Chinum: 8:33pm On Jun 07, 2015

obayaya:
Nsukka Dejee o

Yes na

Family › Re: For Ladies Who Grew Up In The Village. Did You Do This (picture) by Chinum: 7:06pm On Jun 07, 2015

TundeCole:
Now this is a wife material. One kiss for u Baebae!

Wife material because she fit pound kernel? undecided

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@ ideyhere, u go gurl. No mind d Blizzyblinkzy of a mama trying to convince us she is from Jamaica while her DP states otherwise

Family › Re: For Ladies Who Grew Up In The Village. Did You Do This (picture) by Chinum: 6:54pm On Jun 07, 2015

wisekriss:
Olodo!!!! How am I sure u not from Nsukka. .. I wonder who seeker for ur comment since u ain't one. Jezzzz I hate chic that form. Ode!!!

Abeg abeg abeg. Going by d bolded, ur mentality ain't different from hers. Just leave nsukka out in ur rants ejoorr. undecided

Family › Re: For Ladies Who Grew Up In The Village. Did You Do This (picture) by Chinum: 6:45pm On Jun 07, 2015

obayaya:
I think different parts of Igboland have their own way.. The picture the OP posted is probably from Nsukka axis... I'm from that axis

This thread seems to be pulling out my fellow nwa nsukkas. I hail o

Family › Re: For Ladies Who Grew Up In The Village. Did You Do This (picture) by Chinum: 6:33pm On Jun 07, 2015

chimkaire:
...no, nwanne...not from Nsukka . Deeje

Nt from nsukka too but grew up thr. I hv this funny habit of calling anyone that has stayed or schooled in nsk nwa nsukka.

Family › Re: For Ladies Who Grew Up In The Village. Did You Do This (picture) by Chinum: 6:23pm On Jun 07, 2015

chimkaire:
Prepared differently where I come from. It's either pounded and proccessed manually or at the mill. Saw it being prepared this way living in Nsk...

Nwa nsukka like moi

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Family › Re: For Ladies Who Grew Up In The Village. Did You Do This (picture) by Chinum: 6:21pm On Jun 07, 2015

Blizzyblinkzy:
Like serz i neva grew up in d villa not 2 talk abt pounding/mashing kernel with my foot

Why do you sound like growing up in the village is some kind of abomination. undecided

Family › Re: Right Age To Get Married As A Guy! by Chinum: 5:59pm On Jun 07, 2015

obitee69:
Your idea of responsibility is financial. Anyone can decide to be responsible but can u back it up financially? E.g rent hall for wedding, house rent for a 3 bed, marriage rites, having a kid etc. Can you do all that if you earn only 3million per annum?

If u can't do al these that u mentioned with 3milllion naira per annum, you still won't be able to do them when you have much more than that.

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Romance › Re: See The Crazy Thing A Lady Claimed She Did To Her Man who cheated on her(pics) by Chinum: 5:38pm On Jun 07, 2015

ephemm:
That's harsh!

But she's my mum, life goes on...
Mummy now knows her boy is now a "big boy".

But the jealous b1tch is outta my life for good, she just opened the door wide for the other girl the guy was texting.

Don't be too confident bro. I'm sure she probably would have dumped ur cheating ass before going on a revenge mission. tongue

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Politics › Re: 11 Years Legal Age For Sex Bill: Sen. Chris Anyanwu Sponsored It by Chinum: 10:11am On Jun 07, 2015

cy4cent:
WOMAN

Ok. Thanks.

Politics › Re: 11 Years Legal Age For Sex Bill: Sen. Chris Anyanwu Sponsored It by Chinum: 7:16pm On Jun 06, 2015

cy4cent:
If senator Chris Anyawu's daughter is sexually active at 11 years, I hope she will be happy.

she is supposed to be a mother, advocating for the right to education, n protection of female children at that age.

What does an 11 years old child know? some are even barely out of primary school. what happened to at least 15 or even 18 years?

I wonder the kind of society such women are building!!

Abeg Chris Anyanwu na man or woman.

TV/Movies › Re: Zee World Movies And Soaps Official Fan Page by Chinum: 4:43pm On Jun 06, 2015

mistytohcute:
so I told my mum that all the movies(not series o) airing on zee world was dubbed in English

cuz I've watched vivah and 36 China town before and it was in their Indian language

my mum just screamed (o tu ti beere) u have started again, ITK (I too know)

so my question is am I correct or wrong

Merely seeing that the words being pronounced do nt rhyme with d movement of their mouths is enough to tell one that it was dubbed.

Business › Re: Lending Money To Friends Who Hardly Pay Back: how to get your money back by Chinum: 10:10am On Jun 06, 2015

@ lalasticlala, sorry for mentioning u here, but u closed the other thread so I didn't hv anyother choice.

Abeg no vex again, I was only trying to air my discontentment & not provoke you. Even this thread was created after I did mine. But it's all good. Afterall you can't be everywhere @d same time.

Now bye & don't vex again.

Investment › Re: Lending Money To Friends Who Hardly Pay Back by Chinum(op): 9:20am On Jun 06, 2015

lalasticlala:
The topic made FP week ago

While this thread was created on the 21st of May.

Investment › Re: Lending Money To Friends Who Hardly Pay Back by Chinum(op): 9:14am On Jun 06, 2015

lalasticlala:
We've featured it

This particular topic was posted around 10am while d other similar topic was posted around 1pm.

Does this mean that what they say about you guys looking @faces b4 featuring a topic is true? Cos going by the normal standard, first come, first serve.

TV/Movies › Re: Zee World Movies And Soaps Official Fan Page by Chinum: 7:22pm On Jun 05, 2015

Forwetinnah:
Some1 please tell me why I would have missed today's episode of Breaking free . Superman Vikram to the rescue as always
**and Vikram drops the bomb ** "I'm in love with you" . Oh my sweet Lord...oh wow! Butterflies****
Awwww. Sugni don't look surprised, you *rove* Vikram too. . Champa said it on the day of the carnival

Lool

Politics › Re: Reasons Osinbajo Was Locked Out Of President Buhari’s Security Meeting by Chinum: 7:19pm On Jun 05, 2015

ZeezaRapture:
if you are the one in ur dp then you are too matured to think towards that direction.

No need to get personal bro, just focus on d topic ok?

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