₦airaland Forum

Borrussia:
Thank God you made mention of several centuries to come, but its only gonna get worse in my own cognition, let's refrain from the idea of using white women as an example but our very own. Most Nigerian women are exclusively dumb and cynically pathetic.

I can even begin to incogitably think of how local and myopic they are, bunch of ignoramus. Even the so called Nigerian feminist with little knowledge have girded themselves to the fact that the cannot be convinced of an obvious fact, and had accustomed themselves to impertinent hullabaloo of intending competitions with the male, If there is any woman on this forum that can indubitably state a pandemic fact without loathing her counterpart should please step out, I'm a worthy opponent

queensmith:
Without quoting you directly I am going along the statement you made that you hardly ever see women in intelligent discourse.

No doubt the politics section on nairaland will put women off - their attitude towards women is not one they even try to hide. I dare you to go to the politics section and ask 'why are there no women' and see the nonsense responses you will get by men with the brain capacity of goats. That men frequent the politics section doesn't mean they are intelligent. I wouldn't bother mounting my high horse here - i welcome you to go yourself and sensibly decide how many posts are indeed intelligent.

I will draw your attention to Obiagellis post on Buharis proposed welfare package, she was insulted by goats who didn't even try to suggest why the insults were warranted. Only a handful of individuals could accurately pin point the flaws and were graceful enough to make adjustments. These same goats wouldn't dare talk if the OP had been a man!

How many women want to face the boys club? Why should they? We are not trained or even encouraged from birth on how argue with men! We are even told to be submissive and some religions teach that a woman is half of a man. Please tell me in the face of these cultural and religious barriers how many women do you expect to flock out?

In the face of this, elitists remain unperturbed, again I draw your attention to the occupation of Nigerian women in the best institutions worldwide - you may never find them on Nairaland, they may not live in Nigeria but they do exist and if you look hard enough you will find them!

I use the term intelligent very carefully, and I can confidently say I have only ever met a handful of Nigerian men I will deem intelligent. Or will indeed sit down and listen to for more than 10 minutes, I am definitely not making observations from sports bars and football stadiums.

iPrevail:
Lol...

I believe that in a century or two all these is bound to change, when intellectually-dearth species of females have gone extinct.
Somehow I don't fault them, women were deprived of the kind of exposure men had because they were considered weak and inferior.. I'm sure I don't need to lecture you what collective opinion can do to a person's character.
Now we have women making breakthrough in technology and science... Imagine this had happened centuries ago.. We probably wouldn't be having this argument.

Papertrail11:
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Papertrail11:
this is not me flirting or anything just reaching out to my fellow nairalander and exchanging ideas
wink

Papertrail11:
what a coicedence...I think we have a lot in common though. I like someone who has a quest for knowledge and to know. Smart, intelligent, sasssy likes to dominate her own world and err loves to rock though. sent you a wink though

Yareey:
Beide zijn onjuist wat wil je zeggen?

Hebben ze jou ook gebannen vorig keer?

redhook:
This question is so easy! Take look @ the amount of women in leadership positions in national or state politics, that own successful businesses, that make up our workforce, our security forces, or those of male or female nigerians in the diaspora, the ratio of female students that out perform the males in our schools and institutions? If u are honest in your research u would find that nigerian men add more value to all these sectors more than the women and keep in mind that women are the larger population! Our women in this country are too focused on superficial crap or things that don't add value to their independence or the betterment of nigeria! It needs to change! Even this nairaland we are on is a nigerian mans creation!

Papertrail11:
even in relationships or dates you cant even hold a decent convo with girls nowadays they seem to much of a bore even wen they girls that is brings up topics we even make more meaningful contributions in it than them.......

A lot of you guys might notice this also Im sure you have girls on your bbm w.app you try to have a decent convo with but watt dey fumble replying wif k kkk ok brb and all dose shit no wonder we have sort of a decline wif guys toastn girls nowadays nobody has d time nonsense...again

For married couples this is imminent too most esp d females dey're brain dosent make dem think of waiz to spice a relationship up ....not everything is about moneyyyy you know

iwatch:
who bad don bad... It has nothing to do with looks. I have experienced both

iwatch:
sorry.... Do u mean all beautiful ladies are mannerless?

iwatch:
I can be friends with her, honestly. I guess I have been over reacting that's why but I have forced myself to gradually get it off my mind and its working so far. She really advised I do so.

I need the women here to help me get rid of something and which is what led me to miss this angel-- my reaction to a girl's attitude is intolerable. I have short tolerance for their demeanor and I think it will cost me a lot if not handled properly.

I can't seem to tolerate a girl's attitude in any form, as in what they do when a guy approaches them or trying to get close to them.

Case in point, I met a girl at a wedding sometime in March and she was the chief's bridemaid. Next day I got her number and we got talking. Mostly via whatsapp and I was being irritated by her monosyllabic replies and I politely asked her why she is fond of doing such or am I bugging her and the next thing I got was insult. Though I had the mind of starting something with her but at that point in time, I lost complete interest, irrespective of her curves and beauty. she even went as far as blocking my numbers.

That's one.

Sometime last year, I and a girl made arrangement to meet. I asked her what time should I be around, she gave me time. I said okay. I was 30 minutes late on D-day and when I got to her area, I called her. Next thing I heard was that she hasn't had her bath and therefore she can't come out. She further requested that I should wait for her at a nearby eatery. To be candid, that was the last she ever heard from me.

I experience things like this and it turns me off. I consider such an insult on my person.

I was talking with a big bro and he said I have ego issues and I am intolerant. He said if I want a girl, I should learn to be patient and tolerant but what I dont understand is whether a man has to take some jab of insults just because he wants a girl. He even went as far as saying have I ever seen where a man had been slapped just because he wants a girl? The moment he said that I flared up and told him I won't tolerate such. But he insisted that it's just women's thing and how they behave.

I need advice from the women on here mostly. Am I doing wrong to often give up on the basis of a girl's attitude? I need help

iwatch:
winsh

iwatch:
hermaphrodite

iwatch:
are you HE or SHE?

iwatch:

iwatch:
mummy, I wont lie to you. Being romantic comes out naturally for me if I meet the right woman. This girl didn't believe I could be that romantic and soft cos if I mention my real handle a lot of ladies here will be shocked. I literally caused havocs and attack in the romance section on Nairaland
.. Have changed since last year. Many part was due to my anger.

When I told the girl in question that we were both careless else we would have ended up

Hopes are not lost on this one. It just depend on how I play my card which I am gonna do quite well. If in the end she gets taken, fine.

olexjay:
la picture la absent, la post la nonsense

Airforce1:
When is she gonna show us her husband?

Ajiaj:
just passing* to know if Guys(boys) watch the series on zee world(married agn...nd co.just passing* to know if Guys(boys) watch the series on zee world(married agn...nd co.just passing* to know if Guys(boys) watch the series on zee world(married agn...nd co.

mulattoclaro:
ashawo detected. Olosho detected.

mulattoclaro:
God thank you for my brazilian wife. Girls in Africa nowadays are nothing to write home about especially their Nigerian counterparts. Wasted girls. Men shine your eyes very well and always check and dig in the background and past life of any girl you intend getting serious with. Most of them are prostitutes. In fact 99.9% of them are prostitutes.

Daniel058:
I sometimes thinks about it... I want to have between 12 to 14 kids from my wife to be, the worst part is that I have not found her. Pls is it possible my people?? I need your advice...

cracky2:
I sincerely believe that no human being likes defeat but sometimes, we fail to reinforce when we get defeated. Ever since President Goodluck Jonathan failed his re-election bid, no comment, press release or briefing on what former gallant mama peace thinks about the lost, has been heard. or has anybody heard

xtremeinv:
Inspired by research suggesting that the emotional well-being of many of his employees could be improved by a raise, the owner of a Seattle credit card payment processing company has just announced that he will boost their minimum salary to $70,000.

The New York Times reports Gravity Payments founder Dan Price will slash his own $1 million salary to $70,000 and use a majority of the company's forecasted $2.2 million profits this year to help pay for the bold move. Many of the workers affected by the raise include sales and customer service representatives.


http://www.motherjones.com/mixed-media/2015/04/ceo-just-raised-his-companys-minimum-salary-70000


THIS GUY IS A LEADER.
WHAT DO U GUYS THINK?

annyplenty:
Most married men complained of being bored of their wives soon after wedding and they start nursing a feeling of getting an extra spice from outside, I mean from another woman.

What will make a man get bored of his wife not too long into the wedding?.

cronsberg:
Women: A demonic snake like creature that bleeds a whole week out of every month yet never die
d ogun wey dey follow U 4rm villa no be here o.

Let me ask you people something, have you ever seen a woman brain/heart surgeon? Yet even a woman nurse want to be paid same as a surgeon because they are women.
Have you ever seen a woman oil rig worker e.g off the coast of nigeria, or deep in the north sea, or deep in the alaskan oil fields. Not a single woman, yet even if she is a pump attendant, she wants to be paid like those working on the rigs because she is a woman.
Majority of the riskiest jobs in the world are manned by men e.g Military, Oil rig workers, Underground miners, Nuclear plant operators, construction workers, Refinery workers e.t.c therefore men deserve better benefits, but no, women want equal or even better benefits even though majority of them work in offices and other very safe jobs. Mind you even the small salaries and benefits men get are spend on women again. Women are the most selfish tight handed creatures on earth, she can be earning a million naira a month, but try asking her to dash you one kobo, or buy you recharge card, or take you to a fancy resturant dinner, or buy you a BB phone e.t.c thats the moment she will frown face and dismiss you.

[color=#006600]Quatsch!! Damn too narrow minded.

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dear women, its your greediness that will kill you. . and I thought I heard it all. (

FrancisTony:
Yes! Francistony is an effiminate dude because he doesn't share your "women and gay hating" ideology.
You can even call me a tranny because I don't care. Let your achievements speak for you.
"Captain save the whorès", you say? Funny how you tagged your fellow humans whorés because they are females.
My manhood can't rise? O' yes! Proudly team flat manhood.

Thou shall not use the name of God your Lord in vain!
Provide biblical proof for this balderdash.


LOL! Without an egg, what will spèrm fertilise? Zilch!
I can see you are a Christian.
Okay! Why was Mary egg fertilised without spérm but no spèrm can produce an offspring without ovum?.
Going by your silly logic, women are the owner of kids because they owns the egg which forms the baby. Spèrm only helps in fertilising it.


Unnecessary junks borne out of hate!


Oh well, seems you haven't seen a female geek.
Strength? I guess you haven't seen a woman beating a man? When I say a man, I mean strong man? So, don't lump all women together.
Wisdom & logic? Visit Education section & check "Mathematics Clinic thread". You'll see geeky females killing Mathematics: Integration Differentiation etc


Chai! So much of hate.
Has Chimamanda digged your gold before?

obowunmi:
Hi,

Many of you may remember me.

My mother has been pressuring me to get married. I come from a very wealthy family.

I began dating this girl (fine babe) who I really, really like(not love bit I can manage her) but things just suddenly went haywire because she says I'm a player. Now she's left.

I've learned that one should always put God first. This dating life don tire me small.