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Mixed reactions.. What would be yours? YES OR NO?

She is my long time friend and has a very calm nature. She got married last two years, she lives at Owerri working while her husband stays in Lagos tho she will soon join him.
Now 2 of her husband's sisters are with him in Lagos, whenever she comes on visit, I will go meet her up but it amazes me to see how she behaves timidly towards them. She will be complaining heaven and earth to me and basically turn to house girl. In the morning, one will leave for work, the other will be on bed browsing and chatting. She will ask that one to help clean the house and she will ignore her. My friend will end up washing all the dishes, sweep, clean and put everything in order. ( meanwhile that house is so dirty and untidy. They don't even help their brother wash his clothes.
I asked her what her husband thinks about it, she said that his sisters are not in his house as house girls. So she decided to stay like that but she always cries and complain.
Imagine every time she comes, she will take days to wash and keep the house in order. Wash curtains, stove cookers, the back of her pots and everything. Then two weeks later, she will travel back to east and they will start their mess all over again nawa oo. What kind of nonsense is that?
Well I told her that as she makes her bed, so shall she lie on it. She has no boldness and courage and strong will, that's why she can't call them to order ( she is older than one and the other is 2 years older than her) so she has to manage until they get married and leave her house for her. Husband not even helping matters.
She has even started telling her parents that she will stay away from her marriage until those ladies leave her home. It's making me worried because this is my childhood friend.

Ok

You can also change with time..

1. Get his weight in check
Being underweight or overweight can have negative effects on a man's sperm, and it can kill a couple's sex life because weight problems can affect a man's libido and performance. Sticking to a healthy diet that contains a good mix of fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, grains, and dairy, and fitting in physical activity on most days of the week can help him reach or maintain a healthy weight.

2. Get More Folate
Folic acid isn't important just for moms-to-be. Men who had lower levels of folic acid in their diet had a higher rate of abnormal chromosomes in their sperm, according to a study by researchers at the University of California, Berkeley. When sperm with abnormal chromosomes fertilize an egg, it may result in miscarriage or birth defects. More than half of first-trimester miscarriages are caused by chromosomal abnormalities in the embryo. This doesn't mean your guy has to take folic acid pills: A good multivitamin or foods that are high in folate, like beans, leafy green vegetables, whole grains, citrus fruits, and folate-enriched cereals, breads, and pastas, will help him get the recommended 400 milligrams of folic acid he needs daily.

3. KICK THE BUTTS
Smoking cigarettes can cause low sperm counts and slow-moving sperm. To give his swimmers a boost, your guy should stop smoking. It's better if he quits as soon as possible, but he should definitely aim to be smoke-free at least three months before you try to conceive. "Sperm production takes about three months, so any changes the man makes today won't show up in the semen for at least three months," says Suzanne Kavic, M.D., director of the division of reproductive endocrinology at Loyola University Health System.
He should avoid marijuana or other illicit drugs too. "Sperm may be damaged by these drugs, and women are more likely to miscarry if their partners use recreational drugs like cocaine, marijuana, and any of the other typical amphetamines.

4. CAN THE BEER
He doesn't have to give it up completely, but it's a good idea for men to limit their alcohol intake if they hope to become a dad. Alcohol has been shown to reduce sperm production and cause sperm abnormalities. One to two drinks a day is fine.
He doesn't have to give it up completely, but it's a good idea for men to limit their alcohol intake if they hope to become a dad. Alcohol has been shown to reduce sperm production and cause sperm abnormalities. Dr. Kavic says one to two drinks a day is fine.
Another reason he should dry out a bit: A lot of men don't perform as well sexually when they're inebriated.


5. SEE A DOC
A thorough checkup before trying to conceive will give him an overview of his health and fertility status. As in your pre-conception visit, he can expect discussions about his body mass index (BMI), any medications he uses, lifestyle factors that may affect fertility and pregnancy, any genetic disorders or history that may pose a risk to the future baby, and what he can do to ensure you have a healthy pregnancy. He will also be given any needed immunizations to help prevent him from passing on illnesses like chickenpox and the seasonal flu to you during pregnancy.


6. CUT DOWN ON CAFFEINE
A study of Danish men found that sperm count and sperm concentration were slightly reduced in men who had a high soda and/or caffeine intake. Men should limit their caffeine.


7. BLOW OFF SOME STEAM
Stress can increase abnormal sperm and reduce its concentration. Sleeping and eating well, exercising regularly to work off pent-up energy and tension, making time to hang out with his guy friends (or sit in front of the tube and do nothing!) and other activities that he finds enjoyable or relaxing can help keep his stress in check.

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A Family (a man his wife and their baby) who just came back from a dinner out of the house in a restaurant, perceived the smell of gas in the house.

The husband upon entering the house turned on the light to see clearly and immediately there was an explosion that killed the man on the spot. The explosion also affected the wife who is currently in the ICU unit.

The baby, being far from the explosion was saved.
Utensils were found to more than 200 m from the scene of the explosion.

Lesson:
1. When you perceive the smell of gas don't turn on the light by contrast, proceed to open your windows and shutters, gently, so as not to create sparks.

2. Close the bottle of gas. Don't you turn on the light bulbs until you are sure of the dissipation of the smell of gas.

3. Also do not open the fridge or the freezer because it could also create sparks.

4.If you are outside of your house, moisten the key with your saliva before introducing it into the lock.

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Buhari said after the storm there would be rain abi na after the reggae na Blues..

slyIsaac:
Wikipedia at work.... Tat mean yhu go copy name join when yhu dey copy from yhur friend...


Tat said I don't understand why africans can be so dumb... Am sure some alfa or pastor haf already started given false prophesies about the meteor....... Smh

you're ok now??

No be small throne .. Nna eh!! The crying tools we have in this 2016 is becoming outrageous, the other time it was Psquare now this, ok ooo.
But with the level of her grammatical..... I believe she should be crying this hard for her GP and grade after school.

The other time, so many people trekked, now it's time for crying and soon others will join. Anyway guys it's time to see the real look of your "SLEEPING BEAUTY OR CRYING BEAUTY"

Really? This maybe a set up.
Buhari said he knows what he is doing. Besides, he junketered out of his country to borrow 2.8 billion whatever.

Hmmm

Ok

I don't know what it could be if its not ukwu

Ok

Zarah.. Enjoy yourself my dear, no be your fault.

Hmm..
More generally, a meteorite on the surface of any celestial body is a natural object that has come from outer space. Meteorites have been found on the moon[1][2] and Mars.[3] Meteorites that are recovered after being observed as they transit the atmosphere or impact the Earth are called meteorite fall. All other meteorites are known as finds. As of February 2010, there are approximately 1,086 witnessed falls having specimens in the world's collections. There are more than 38,660 well-documented meteorite finds.[4]

Meteorites have traditionally been divided into three broad categories: stony meteorites are rocks, mainly composed of silicate minerals; iron meteorites that are largely composed of metallic iron-nickel; and, stony-iron meteorites that contain large amounts of both metallic and rocky material. Modern classification schemes divide meteorites into groups according to their structure, chemical and isotopic composition and mineralogy. Meteorites smaller than 2mm are classified as micrometeorites.


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I read and copied the above information through Google, I am not a scientist. Just wanted to understand the situation .

Hmm.. Implications

Is that story for the gods?

CASTRATION!!! What are they waiting for?

Hmm
Fayose is buhari's worst nightmare.

Sometimes, I feel that ladies should not swoop or give in speedily to advances coming from a man about to have a broken home. This is because there may still be chances of them reuniting especially during the court session periods. In fact that's why courts delay divorce cases incase somewhere along the line the couple gets back together after having done so much thinking and deliberations.
The presence of a second woman can quickly destroy what would have been repaired. And it's a young marriage too. I don't like this issue.
From Stella's number of years in marriage and challenges encountered even before her husband died, she should have fought the temptation and given this couple an opportunity to try working it out.
Well it is well.

Again, seems the guy has a thing for women that their name initials are S&D.. Check am, Stella Damascus and Doris Simeon

Hope he is already at the hospital not waiting for you to create this thread to wait for Nairalanders' reply?
Op don't worry you will be fine op as I sensed now that you are the one suffering from the pain. I am sorry ok. Just get medical help and everything will be fine. You should not choose the option of having sex as a solution because a bigger problem may erupt like what Igbo people call "Ibi"


By the way, did any biatch kick you there? As in like this....

Nice job well done

Hmm na wao

Na local road

Your boo

Iyaa!!
Pregnant Okorocha always taking glory in other people's achievements.
Come and pay me my 5 months salary under Nikachi Nigeria Limited.

Phyno come and see oo

The man is not human

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]That's a testimony....insecurity everywhere...going by recent happenings, it's risky for her to walk at that time[/color]

but commercial buses has started working by that time and it's just a 5:30 and house is vlose

She went for night vigil last night and was returning this morning by 5:30am when a guy accosted her and started dragging her handbag and was even shouting "give me that bag" repeatedly hmm..
She actually went with her bag in order to pack our phones, Chargers and power banks to be able to charge them at the church. She said she was given a plastic bottled malt drink and she put everything in the bag which made the bag heavier and which also helped her as the guy was drawing the hand.
According to her, she held on tight to her bag and was shouting "Jesus" repeatedly (naturally she has a very high pitched voice) so I can imagine why the guy later took off. This is even happening at 2 poles away from their church and let's say 15 buildings away from our house, all in the same street.
The fool kept dragging with her and she tried running away from him but the guy gave her a century kick that got her sprawling on the ground and writhing in pains yet holding on to the bag and shouting, she managed to stand up and the guy tore the hang of the bag away and the bag fell off from her hand due to the weight.
She said that she and the slowpoke wasn't aware that the bag has fallen off and that they were both dragging the hand of the bag until she noticed instantly but then a group of people that were passing by heard her screams and started coming towards them. The "minus one" with his last energy snatched it from her and then noticed that it was just a rope and then dropped it and took to his heels.
Thank God with me oo. But my sister's leg is too swollen and she can't even walk now, still in pains, I wonder what that excuse of a man hit her that can be this bad, a shoe kick cannot be this bad. Anyway she will be fine. Our phones and all got home safely.