₦airaland Forum

carefreewannabe: since when is singlehood a problem in the first place?

Fxwarrior: She doesn't want to see you.She's right to insist you wait awhile.No girl wants to suffer.If loosing a job will make you shift your marriage. That means you're not ready.What if God forbid you marry her now and loose your job,will you send her to her parents? We should have enough sense to know when a lady is right. In this case she's right.Don't push it.
Try to get closer,apologize and continue the relationship.You can even start building your own house too.

Joavid:

adaobi123: Okay

adaobi123: I've been around with a lot of non-black people. I can be friends with non-black people but not relationship wise. I just dont click with them. I guess its incompatibility Most of them would rather go out get drunk and they see it as fun. But I don't

Each to their own.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
you are missing the point COMPLETELY:
A) if someone is uninterested in you, then you should accept that fact and search for someone that gives a damn about you. what would be the point in being with someone who doesnt give a flying fukc about your being?!

B) now you used a trick to understand/discover that this babe is a GOLDDIGGER, and yet instead of running away from this demon, you gladly went on to date her.......as if you were Barbie and Ken. i seriously wonder WHEN you are going to wake up and understand that you are dating an animal, a broke aaass who.re that probably resent you as a person and only values what you NEVER POSSESS to begin with.

C) the whole issue here is not really about the gal (goldigging who.res are everywhere these days), it is about YOU not accepting who you truly are. if you are not meant to be together then accept it and move on with your life. the minute you want to force, by any means, to date someone that you obviously know despises you, then YOU are the problem, not the gal(unless you believe that any gal you lay your eyes on should be attracted to your person?).

D) getting babes, just to get a babe is a waste of time and energy IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A WORTHY FULFILLING R/SHIP. instead, look for someone that is compatible with your person, someone who actually likes you for who you trully are, so that you can build a lasting r/ship based on common needs and desires with her.