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for sure they change

@ poster. U are nt wrong in suspecting her as hiding her phone from you  creates suspicion. But that is nt enough to back out. what u should do is call her and discuss the issue frankly with her letting her know how disappointed  you are ( be firm , don't be deceived by crocodile tears)and that she should stop henceforth. But make sure u take the phone and be strict about it. This is your marriage and u hv to save it oooo.

@poster, u better take Kech advice.

Its likely to be gono goten from another his partner, who got it from another patner, he has to treat it b4 it turns to somethg else. It dosnt cost much to treat such. some antibiotics will cure him . This also shows that he does not protect himself. it could have been HIV. next time use CD. Life is too precious to waste

@ poster, there is nothing wrong with yr wife, expecially if she is breast feeding. Some women dont see their menses for up to six month after child birth. Mine stated seeing hers afters six months. So relax. She will see it soon

Realy funny

Its unfortunate he was kidnappen. what a country

na wa for una

@ poster
Its outright stupidity. people shd learn to keep quite on threads if they dont have anything useful to contribute.

Nice

avoid her as much as possible. Stop playing with fire

@ Poster,

Pls take to @ Foster cat advise. wish u luck. Dont give up on what u need, for u are the one that is wearing the shoe

Putumpum

Hi adahna

But come to think of it, did u conduct a test to prove that she was pregannt or u just took her word for it? Because she may not be pregnant after all, may just be playing games on you (blackmail, money extortion etc).if she comes again, take her to your doctor and conduct Pregancy test to be sure yourself. Dont forget to do HIV test on yourself ooo.

Watever she might have done does not call for public disgrace. whaver u have in mind of doing should be done in private she will either continue to be your wife or your ex wife and the mother of your child. So there will always be an attachment to you for life. Handle it maturely and in private .Dont disgrace her publicly, it doesnt worth it. There are other marriages with worst things and no one heard about it. Be wise.

Am sure u will not be happy if your son comes back from school one day and tells u that someone called him son of a prostitute, for sure the boy will face all this in future since u have made it a public thing. BE WISE

When she told u she was pregnant, did u verify? Have u also taught why she would have gone to your pastor after telling u, it shows she just want to pin u down to her by using that option. But u should be brave and dont fall for it. dont have anytjing to do with her again because u u might be tempted to alwasy want to call her and plead or whatever , by so doing she is maintaning the contact. so be wise be a man. You are not the first to have this type of situation neither will u be the last.The worst that can haPpen is that She gives birth to the child and you both conduct a test and if its yours take up your responsibility of the child ONLY. NO ONE SHOULD FORCE U INTO MARIAGE.

This issue should not be alowed to die down like that to avoid more innocent citizens loosing their lives. It actually hapened a sone thro from my house and I wasnt a good thing at all. i suspect food poisoning. since the lady said she bought the said yam flour from Mushin, I expect the authorities to have swong into action and comb the market to conduct relevant test.

Congrats. You just have to go to the print media and pay them to publish it. When it's published make sure u buy it , make a copy of the page and keep it for your record purposes. Thats another certificate

I think You have goten enough answers already. Just go to your Pastor ( A man of God) and confess to free your conscience, He may call your Husband to tell him in your presence and pray for you both. U can now follow it from there trusting God that whatever is the outcome God is still in controll. B couragoeus and face it. GOd will strenghten u. Though its not going to be easy, but u have to face it all the same

@ truth2

Dont waste a lady's time if u are not ready to marry her. Their timing is not the same as men. if u have no future with her, then let her go and you move ahead.

ok oooooo

I agree with u ud4u. Why are we triabalizing the issue. this contentant were picked from those that aplied. they awere told from the begining that they should guard the TOTEM as loosing it has dare consequences which they were not told. But that tis the game , ful of suprises. I hope we know that the rules and penalties has already been writeen down by the organisers. We shouldnt expect the same rules in all GUS.

So let's just enjoy the show AND NOT TRIABILIZE IT. why will the organisers triabalise it wen they know the commercial impact on them?

Simply, in this GUS VI, loosing the TOTEM is the worst ofense that can be comitted and purnishable by EVICTION. lets see if Chisom will lose it too.