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Seek God's face and follow his direction. I tell you, you can never regret the decision you take thereby

Noted. All ur points are from your experience.
Being single can be really frustrating u know but getting engaged to d wrong person isnt more frustrating but hellish.
Dis life sef....

I'm always happy when I read stories like this. Congrats bruv. It pays to serve God. Funny crafting tho

Never permanent, it forms part of the stories that make the testimony.
It's but for a while for as many that are experiencing such.
God will surely make new ways

Big congrats to you. Am always happy when I read stories like this. God who has lifted you high will continually lift you higher. Cheers!

Rapmoney:
There are many introverted guys that are just so special in diverse ways that are hardly understood by many of our modern-day Nigerian ladies...this could lead to what I call a misrepresentation of attitude and character!

Psychologically, as humans, we all possess behavioural traits such as introverted and extroverted qualities. That's God's creation and whoever thinks that God's creation was senseless in the first place should better have his or her head examined!!!

Below are some characters of introverted guys in relationships. Ladies, you need to understand your introverted partner...better than the way you think you do :

1) Most introverted guys are creative: Ladies, because he doesn't talk much or brag about his exploits doesn't mean he is just another regular guy down the street! I tell you today, there's so much cooking up in that head of his that you might not know or never know. If you take a closer and more critical look at the lives of many great inventors and artistes, you will discover that they exhibited or exhibit introverted qualities wayback even before they ever came close to fame!!! I am not in any way saying that all introverted guys are creative but what I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!! Study him carefully and observe his passion; you just might be an instrument to push him to greater heights! He would rather think of how to create or develop something than spend time with you at the cinema

2) They are mostly shy: Even introverted celebrities are shy most times without you knowing. An assumed snubbing by a celebrity in an event or show might not necessarily be real! The young man might just be too shy to stand face to face, meeting folks he has never met before. So when an introverted guy doesn't feel like hanging out with you and friends every weekend, don't be too critical. They don't often like being in public places

3) They often love good women for real: Introverted guys are not like their counterparts who are fond of going out, meeting new people, talking and demonstrating a lot! They are mostly quiet and think deeply. They would easily approach a woman only when they admire, value and want her. An extrovert guy might just feel like talking which is a nutural aspect of his personality; this might send a false signal to the lady that she's being loved for real!!!

4) They need personal space most times: Many introvert guys hardly enjoy staying with a lady consistently for too long. They would rather need privacy to themselves so that they could merry in some creative imaginations! If you are coming to his house, you must call him on phone first! Failure to do that equals you putting too much salt in an already well cooked pot of Egusi soup with assorted meats!

5) They hardly entertain 'make-up jealousy': Don't try to make an introverted guy fall more in love with you by trying to arouse the spirit of jealousy in him! You might end up killing the emotional attachment he has with you and the relationship eventually! A lady can do this by answering suspicious phone calls in his presence romantically, telling him tales of guys who admire her and the rest

It is true that humans are dynamic in nature but learning about their psychological traits helps a lot in coping with them!

U must be an introvert yourself for you to know all these. 85% true tho

jenyfah:
Don't Laugh alone!
Dem say Boko Haram don poison beans after I buy half bag
for house. From the one wey I cook, I give my dog, Bingo,
make im first test am. 45mins later, bingo still dey waka,
dey jolly. Na im I come chop my own. After I don chop
finish, my gateman run come tel me say bingo don die, hey!
I run enter house, begin drink full gallon of palm oil for my
belle, chop 22 bitter kola wit 3 long bitter leaf stem, chop
walnuts with the shell no time to crack, swallow moringa
with aloe vera as treatment combo. Garlic and onions be like
sweet for my mouth. I come dey sweat as if na oven be my
bedroom. I dey think say my life don finish. I come outside.
Na im gate man com they tell me say the driver wey kill
bingo wan come beg me! If na u, wetin u go do the gate
man? Don't laugh alone.........

OMG! This is extremely funny. Cant stop laughing

ujuvals:
I dont know if this is the best platform to express myself but i just want to cry out as there is power in the social media. I am a young girl of 27 years. I live with my dad in lagos, lost my mum 10 years ago and have been sustaining the family for a while now as my dad's business collapsed due to some circumstances. I am a graduate and very hardworking, i have worked in few places in the past but i want to say i haven't been lucky.

I worked with a transport company in ikeja as at feburary and after working for 3months we were asked to stop with no pay on the note that the company was collapsing and they had no money to pay staffers. It was so painful because i live at iyanoba and have to go through a whole lot of stress and pay up to 700 a day for transport to be at work despite we worked weekends. I felt so used but prayed to God to take control and judge them.

I got another job in september at ikeja i didn't want to take it because i had my fears about salary issue after my past experience but looking at the situation at home where they depended on me for survival i had to let go of my instincts and take the job. It was very stressful, the distance, the constant work on the system and sometimes starving just to be able to save up for transport. Despite the distance i always got to the office by 7:30am to resume 8:00am so you can imagine when i leave my house.

When it got to pay time, i was told my boss travelled and there was no talk on salary till after a long while. i also want to add that on one of those occasions i was going to work i was robbed and my phones taken from me, it was so painful but then its part of life. My female boss eventually took pity on me and paid me for September, i told her i would like to stop but she encouraged me to continue with the impression that i was just tested on my patience. I continued work and now halfway into this month of November i am yet to be paid for October.

The worst part is my boss has refused to show up at work, he avoids calls and sends no message. I eventually got across to him with a strange number and when he picked he said he has a lot of issues his going through but i can stop coming to work; just like that. I asked him for my pay and he said no money at the moment i should stop.

I really feel bitter as i have no one to fight for me and worse is i have debts i incurred in the process of going to work. How do i offset them and start again when am practically cashless. My monthly pay is 40,000 and it can't be too difficult for a man his caliber to pay but i feel he just wants to cheat me knowing there is nothing i can do.

Please nairalanders what do i do? i feel so bad, i don't even know what next to do as am so confused.

Why are the employers taking advantage of the jobless graduates and using them? How bad can it be for someone not working and then after working you get tossed in the bin? I want God to intervene but i need help. Please pardon any grammatical blunders and errors, as i am not in the right frame of mind.

Thanks.

People are relly heartless. Can u imagine someone taking advantage of another person dis way. I feel for u but i am sure it will all turn to testimony. For your troubles, you shall get double promotion. But the lesson is by the time u also become a boss, dont try to take advantage of others because God is making you to pass through this period n trials for d great place he's preparing you for. Be good

Congrats. So happy for you

still part of his jokes. club and Christ. what's the relationship?

juddexy2:
Source: Facebook wall of a good friend, Edwin Ugwuodo Chukwunonso.
https://www.facebook.com/ugwuodo.edwin/posts/1046789995354230

Nice piece. It clearly depicts you're a genius. U're getting there because you can only go higher, forward and not backward.

sahara reporters again. adonblif it. until i read from a reliable source

Funny post

adeaks:
8.
Those that go to church just to leave the house


Some people cannot stay at home on Sundays because of the inevitable questions. Do you know those elderly neighbours/uncles that would ask you every Sunday if you went to church and if your answer was no, would proceed to lecture you for hours. Well some people go to church just so that those people can see them as leaving the house on a Sunday. They have no absolutely no interest in the service but can't afford to be seen as staying at home on a Sunday.

9. - Those that go to church to play Candy Crush

This is becoming very common now. I attend a very popular church in Lagos, and for the past two Sundays, I have had the misfortune of sitting beside guys who spent the WHOLE service playing candy crush. It seems when some people get to levels they can't pass in candy crush, they take it to church hoping the anointing in the atmosphere will somehow help them break those levels.

10. The selfie Champions.

If you go to a big church with very fine lighting and decor you would understand this. After the last service on Sundays, there are some strategic spots in the auditorium where people congregate to take selfies. Some people go to church specifically for those after service selfies. In fact they won't miss it for anything. Whether they gained anything at all from the service matters little once they can get those beautiful pictures.... of course you know ninety percent of them are ladies

And there are people like myself who observe all these while still participating actively in the service.

U're right

dis man talks too much. never straight to the point

Dis man is sound. tactically replying dos questions. still waiting for the 78m website answer

Didnt anyone notice d grammatical blunder by Saraki?
Distinguish senators, we've seen ur cvs

Well written. Balanced piece. Devoid of sentiments. Thumbs up

Rubbish
World Madness Day.
what's d difference btw them and lunatics?
There are many mad people. Just a few are in psychiatric hospitals

paragon40:
He should perform...that is what will benefit the whole country... Qualifications na for em and em family..

exactly. that's d most important thing not an intimidating CV
Impressed with their cvs tho

FTC for the first time. So what's the big deal about it sef

So how does that become news. In Nigeria, we are only surprised when they obey traffic and not the other way round

Hilariously hilarious

Sad news indeed. for such a good hearted nigerian. may his soul rip

Dont be surprised He is also reading this. Now He knows what you want

I hope it will not be huge disappointment after months of waiting..... Imagine Oyinlola, Isiaka Adeleke in the picture...

Nice post. A thinking nigerian

Flets:
Shame on the youths of this country and thanks to illiteracy/ lack of critical thinking

For 40 years +, Buhari/ Obasanjo/ Tinubu etc are dictating your future and you sit back and argue for and against.

How on earth will corruption personified in the person of Obasanjo have a representation in this govt and yet APC online activists continue to dissociate PDP's rule of 16 years rule from APC when Obasanjo who ruined the country for 8 years remains the pilot in today's FG.

What communion has light with darkness? what has corruption got with supposed integrity? What has Buhari got with Obasanjo?
Make no mistake about it, Buhari is as corrupt if not more corrupt that Obasanjo/ Tinubu because two cannot work together except they agree.

Thanks to lack of reasoning across the national divide... Nigerians will continue to be fooled.

so his father has a university, why did he go to babcock then. Why didnt he go to d university owned by his father? Am very sure Mr. Deji Adeleke will not allow any of his children to go to that glorified secondary school. Simply money making venture.smh

I think it's hightime RCCG focused more on the quality of their pastors than the quantity. Quantity is really affecting rccg. God Have mercy

OMG.....This is not funny at all. Is it that gospel musicians have finished in Nigeria dat dey had to invite Pasuma. I said it. The collaboration between the church and the world is reaching its peak. Since we dont see anything wrong inviting comedians to church, since we don't mind inviting secular artist like Korede bello just because he sang a song that has God in it, since we come to church for fashion parade. Then why will this not happen.
Infact I saw some gift items like generators, bike and the rest like a company doing a bonanza. My God.

ladyF:
Very educating

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May God provide a good job for you. Amen

When the hunter becomes the hunted