Benita27:
Have been reading the whole story like all day. Inasmuch as the guy couldn't stand rejection, the girl was also at fault here. Why would she lead him on if she wasn't interested in having a relationship with the guy?. You define your relationship from the beginning, and spending on you would be his call to make to avoid being indebted to anyone.

SNOWCREAM:



Twitter and false Drama.
How did she get his account number and bank?
Only reasonable excuse is if the guy has been transferring to her, but according to the guy's complain, they just met.

I refuse to chop bread wey no get dough

Gloriagee:


Wen a guy that has vowed to protect u is bold enough to humiliate u in the presence of ur mum.....

There are good guys and I pray u find urs. My hubby isn't perfect but posts like this help me appreciate him more

Stay blessed

Gloriagee:
You must be a genius to see the obvious love seeping from the tyrant of a hubby. I mean he hit a 7 month preggy lady and threatened to cause her miscarrying.

With love like this, who needs hate? With love like this, i'm sure those over pampered wives are missing the pummelling of a lovin hubby wen mum is around.

I bow indeed to your superior wisdom , knowledge and foresight.

Dilijingsly:
I don't no what happen here

chemystery:
I don't go crazy over all these cos even when i get such money i won't lavish it on stuffs like a room that won't give me 30 out of 24 hours sleep per day. A good bed/[/b]bedroom [b]does not determine good rest or sleep.

sapiosexual1:

Ofcus formula is started if a mom can't breastfeed immediately after birth esp for those who underwent CS, have retracted nip.ple.s, were separated from the baby for some time after delivery.
There could also be some rare instances where milk isn't produced in sufficient quantity for a while, obviously due to ductal problem. Buh 9weeks!!
My sister, this woman in question just wanted to feel like a hipster mom and she got served with a life lesson.

sapiosexual1:
So after all the noise about exclusive breastfeeding, a Nigerian mom introduced supplementary feed at 9weeks! I think thats wickedness and she deserves what she got.
There is a reason why exclusive breastfeeding is advocated, it's not just a slogan or a cliché.
Pls pls pls leave God out of this, Nigerians often do stewpid things and then annoyingly go hyper-spiritual when the consequences arise.

Fame333:
Milk formula ain't that bad especially for working mums. Exclusive breast feeding work in a situation where you can stay with your baby 24/7 for six months. Boys are even worst in sucking excessively. Some people can only tolerate certain level of milk in there system and maybe in this case there is soya in the formula. May God continue to protect us.

faustinalove:


my dear, i met a priest here in abuja and all he could do was to take sides with my ex and blame me for getting pregnant begore church wedding. u know how d catholic church can protect its own(especially d rich ones). He found out my ex is d currrent youth president of his parish at lagos so he had to protect him.

Doxie69:
Op I read your story to the end,same thing happened to my sister but she kept her pregnancy,everybody in rhe family supported her, the child she has is a darling to all,nobody jokes with her.

She's was a single mother until she got married again and the man is not a divorcee, the husband is fully aware of her past.

She has a child for the husband now and they hard to travel down to Lagos from Abuja for her to select the car she want.

Maybe if your parents and siblings were more supportive to u when your ex started showing his true colors, you won't have let go of the pregnancy.

In all I still woud not condemn you for what you did.


If I narrate my sister experience @ Op you would see yours is even better.

MaQuin:
they should go and marry they ain't getting younger abi until dem reach menopause? mtchewww by the way nice cake




Modified : To all those quoting me that marriage is not an accomplishment ,what's my biz if they ain't married bla bla here is my reply: Marriage is important because God ordained it from the beginning God created Eve for Adam cos he Knows Adam will need a help mate God Himself said we should be fruitful and multiply so you guys should keep deceiving yourselves that marriage is not important #irest my case

ajokebelle:

shey their kids don't go to school ni.

TheAdvocate:


because yu are asking for advice here.

tomquest:


Oh yes some men gain weight and pot belly. That's a topic for another thread (probably there's a thread on NL which explores the subject).

Talking about pregnancy, do you think that the weight gain during the process is irreversible? I could mention [b]well known Nigerian ladies who are still in a fantastic shape even after putting to bed.

[/b]From my own little observation, too much food coupled with lack of exercise is the biggest contributor.

histemple:
For those of you asking if he had unprotected s3x with her, he could have unprotected s3x without contracting the virus.
A man contracting the HIV from a lady is very slim except there are cracks. But a lady contracts it immediately a male carrier ejaculates in her, no matter the quantity of fluid.

Back to your concern OP. You may have to be sure that she isn't pulling your legs to watch your reaction. She may possibly be trying to gauge how you will tolerate or discriminate against disability.

amtaken:
No pun intended please but this advert would have been better if it was done by a mother of 4 or 3 eg Omoni Oboli.

mickeymimi:
Annie & her kids, Peros and Sumbo kids are all sharing one love (tuface)

All the kids comes first before her. He had them before he married Annie.

You married tuface and its so unfair not to accept his kids. She is their step mother and 2nd mother to them.

This is hard but relaxes situation }
Annie should reach out to the baby mamas and try to build a talking relationship with them for the benefit of the kids in order to stop
her hubby hiding and sneaking behind her her back to do things for his kids. She has to make it easy for him and show interest in them. .

She and her children should always send birthday presents and gifts to the other kids and encourage communication between the children. She can start by by asking dad to give them a call and her and kids saying hello to them and their mums , then ask if they would like to visit them. Find out about their schools , birthdays, allergies, what they like , pet names etc.

Trust will start building between the baby mama s to be able to release their kids to one another for visit or go on holiday with them. It enable her Hubby to open more to her.

She has to do more by accommodating them.

In a good situation Annie's kid could also be at the birthday with their dad. Even though she could not be there , someone *Annies sister or cousin* can take and look after them them for the few hours of the party .

A smart wife will be way ahead of Hubby in this game. I can see Sumbo playing this kinda game better sha!

mrMeen:
Eh you me like having sex without contom. On a serious note i doubt that because fluid exhange of the mouth(saliva) does not cause std's i could be wrong you could be right on a side not let me ask google.

sleek82:
As a matter of fact, if you have not travelled outside the country, you wont understand the fact that the medical practice in Nigeria is suicidal.......where you can just go to any pharmacy and buy antibiotics or a doctor will just write something for you and tell you to go buy it at any pharmacy.....in advance countries (though i have not been to somany but in Canada) that doesnt happen....even if you are dying in front of the pharmacist, they will never sell you any antibiotics without a proper, well detailed precription note from a doctor and all your details would be written on the drug container. The only drugs you can buy at will are pain killers and cough syrups

sleek82:
sometimes this is not the fault of the person that gave the injection but the fact that after the injection was given, it wasnt rubbed well and in turn caused an abscess

kaziblake:
My male friend fiancee parent also refused him to marry their daughter because he is from abia and she is from anambra state..He his even on nairaland.
Anambra sees their selves superior to all igbos

legalspices:
Hello fellow NLs, am at a cross road here....I have been dating this Igbo guy for over 5yrs now, am Yoruba tho but we both didn't see it as a barrier what matters to us is the love and connection between us.....he is well known by my family and accepted too but the problem is his parents...his brothers and sisters are indifferent about it...but his parents frowns against any of them marrying outside Igbo...his kid sis is over 30 and still single cos of this issue.



Wont I be treated like an outcast?? My kids?? Whose MIL or FIL doesn't show up for their son's wedding?? She won't show up for my 'omugwo'??

A part of me thinks I can handle the situation, but then another part is asking me to move on.

Words of advice pls....I really love this guy

floragregs:
and u just believed the story without hearing Seyi's part? What if the security guy was very very rude?

EgunMogaji:


Any Nigerian husband in Nigeria will sleep with many women in the course of a marriage.

If you can't deal with that then stay single.

Who do you think is maintaining all those runs girls? The jobless single youths?

PS:

Apologise to your husband for invading his privacy and never do it again. My wife knows better.

Does he have the capacity to provide you a good home, does he have the capacity to provide a good future for the children?

Think. Oh and if you ask your friends then you're doomed. They'll give you feminist feel good advices while they hide much more worse in their household.

olac21:


Cmon not that she's not happy with the man she's just hurt!you guys should encourage her a bit to give the guy one more chance and preparations are at top-notch,so she should calm down and engage the guy in a one-on-one talk!that's it dear!

Zellie:
Err.. Breastfeeding is actually a form of natural birth control. A woman secretes oxytocin into her bloodstream by the posterior pituitary gland when she's breastfeeding, for milk let down. Oxytocin contracts the uterus and also secretes prostaglandins that strengthen the contractions, making it impossible for anything to stay in the uterus..

Infact, oxytocin is sometimes used to induce labour (to aid contractions when it doesn't start early enough) during childbirth ... So its not a myth, its actually a fact, that breastfeeding is a form of birth control!

garfield16:


I don't blame you since you are a product of a failed educational system but still you could have used some initiative and googled it before you responded.


"Sex is determined by two chromosomes, X and Y. A female is XX, a male is XY. Since women completely lack the Y choromosome, they always contribute an X chromosome to the baby. The sex is determined by whether the sperm that fertilizes the egg is carrying another X or a Y."


This is science not T.B Joshua voodooism.

tankara1010:
Fani Kayode is so happy lately...he now has son to carry on his legacy! I feel for him...took 4 women; three women gave him all girls, finally last woman one try, gave him a boy!