₦airaland Forum

khiaa:
Of course people cheat and people forgive, but it's the reason they forgive that I'm talking about.
If a husband is truly repenting and the wife believes that he is sinsere and she can find it in her heart to forgive by all means try to work it out.
Now the husband/who.re who continues to cheat, deceive and disrespect his wife doesn't deserve her forgiveness, as a matter of fact he doesn't want or need her forgiveness because he knows that she doesn't have any where to go because she can't put him out of his house so she stays and he continues his whoredom.

That's why I believe that women should have a job to take care of themselves so they won't have to live with this abuse. This has nothing to do with feminism but survival.
The only men that have a problem with my post are the husband/Who.res, everyone else understand where I'm coming from.

the only people too who have problem with my post are stupid hating fools.."Men and women " all over the world cheat they are either forgiven or kicked out..it is not a "Nigerian men" something fucking AA thinking ur superior and more intelligent than Africans ....I have seen female cheats forgiven in Nigeria by their man like wise male cheaters forgiven so ur trying to make "male unforgiveness and continuous cheating" as a "Nigerian men" something makes YOU a terrible person

IjeomaOkeke100:
so is there any problem if she wants to chop you? are u not going to chop her too? my frnd abeg. if you have the cash give, if you dont have tell her to go get herself a better man that can provide coz u r some stingy rock

average Nigerian female fool with the lowest IQ in the world..does she not enjoy the sex?? is it not mutual pleasure?? your jst another uninformed dumb lady who thinks a "man" must "provide" for you obviously see relationships as "work" and am sure u will be among those shouting "gender equality" be depending on a man for the air you breathe while fellow women like you are out there hustling and competing with there male partners Alikija get only one head like you ,Linda ikeji get one head like you,Chimanda adichie get one head like you..Be depending on a man for menstrual pad shameless fellow
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Dimples129:
If she is working then yes! You do it regularly.

wait ,like he ain't working too bitch they should both share the chores and what she ain't working??I knw you will avoid that part wonder why all this cheeks abroad becomes sensless when they enter nairaland

every women should not tolerate infidelity and file for divorce, leave or throw shithead from the house. nigerian men think that if they own the house he can do whatever he wants. all that bullshitt about men being cheaters is natural... please!!!!!!! lots of studies showed that polygamy is lower evolutionary stage. during evolution, monogamy is considered behaviour of higher developed individual.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2380796/People-monogamous-relationships-likely-intelligent-children.html

plus polygamy was used due to have more offsprings in nature. for crying out loud, today its 7 billion people in the world. soon will start eating each other if people will not stop mating. maybe its enough

http://www.reuters.com/article/2013/07/29/us-science-monogamy-idUSBRE96S0XE20130729

guys in here, shouting that polygamy is natural, that its men world, i would say haven't reach very high evolutionary stage... still with the primal thoughts in their heads how to give more semenn to as many females as possible. as africans are very used to have big families (6-10kids), nowadays
in economy booming countries situation is totally different. u think that big families is beautiful tradition. however, woman and husband used to have many children because 1. half of them didn't survive back than, 2. parents needed to guaranty that they will have proper care taken of them.

i must say, if you transfer majority of nigerian men to europe or us- their ego would die within 3 seconds, because they expect to be the boss everywhere. however in other continents women don't need that because they have really strong positions in society and they can chose whether to marry a man, or have a kid on her own because she doesn't want to live with a man, or throw a cheating man away!

you think that men here willingly like marriage MAJORITY of time its societal pressure ....you will be forced to marry in Europe either man or woman can decide to live and die without kids some have kids without getting married it easy there cause society does not pressure you over there your free there I bet the day societal pressure stops in Africa or Asia OK let me say Nigeria you will find out that the word " marriage"will die naturally..which man here is happy with ,"marriage" which happens to be a bondage sef everybody likes freedom both man and woman

spoilt:
Men are so caught up in this whole man's world entitlement crap that the can't see their women cheating under their very noses. What you dont know wont kill you. Most men cant even fathom their wives cheating. How can anyone else possibly want her? women are sleek. Oh... . . . They're sleek!

I so much like you your a realist ..ladies cheat exactly the same way men cheat its just a mans head is way to high that he does not see what happens under..especially the older men..because the current younger generation males know watssup they knw that *b**ch ain't loyal*

khiaa:
This is my point. I think the women should throw those sorry a.s.s cheating men out of the house and stop forgiving him time and time again, because the men would not hesitate to throw her out even if he just thought she was cheating with no proof.

you sound very naive you chose to dump your cheating partner another lady chose to forgive hers how is it your headache?? does it concerns you?? the stupidity in you even made you generalize "Nigerian " Men" and in order to hide your inconsequential feminist hate for Nigerian men you claim your dating one who are you fooling?? don't American men cheat?? don't German men cheat ?? they are either divorced by their partners like in the case of tiger woods or forgive them like in the case of Hilary Clinton so for the fact you chose to dump your partner for cheating does not mean another lady will dump hers so shove your opinion and hate down your black ass and in case you don't know here in Nigeria men Mostly Owns the house,builds or Pays the rent sometimes before marriage

geometricaxis:
This is the problem with some of you people you always react with abuses and insults, this is why you dont get in well with others, why you keep repeating the same mistakes of your forefathers because you are more driven by the battle for your ego than the issues.

I am telling you this was the British (American apparently) Intelligence report on Ojukwu I used the word "speculated", all you had to do if you were a man of reason was to ask me to provide my source. Secondly, I said Ojukwu senior rejected him as a CHILD because Ojukwu was the child of a mistress and Ojukwu senior was a staunch Catholic..that was not to say he did not finally accept him.

I dont like to engage with the section of Ibos who are driven by ego, pride and not intellect and reason and so for that reason Dont bother to engage me any further because I wont respond....... just google "America’s Secret Files On Ojukwu"


But I will put it here for others: https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2013/02/26/americas-secret-files-on-ojukwu-2/


Who cares what the current Ojukwu inherited. His father was disgraced so who cares about the son. Listen The Ojukwu name is only relevant in the SE to thise clinging for an identity, to everybody else he was a reckless coward who led his people to war he could never have won against the advice of his own generals, killed millions of his people in the process, fed fat while others were starving, cornered food and aid for himself and his cronies while others starved (a man who clearly had no regard for the lives of his people) and then fled with his family when he lost, leaving his deputy to surrender. No doubt in 40 years your children will be talking about Nnamdi Kanu the hero. Like I said history repeats itself because a lot of you you are driven by ego/pride not reason and facts.

yet again your a fool! the same way awolowo is relevant only in the SW outside the west awolowo was a foolish coward who was deceived and used by the north after which he committed suicide out of pain and agony ..so you u claim to be enlightened but your stupid tribalist sense can't make you see that another man hero is another man dumb shit..Mandela was SA black hero but a white dumb Bleep,Hitler was a Nazi eastern Germany hero but was a Western Germany dumb racist brutal dictator,Martin Luther was an American black hero to blacks but a pain in the ass for whites ,Mahatma Gandhi was an Indian hero but to the British a rebel, so you see how inconsequential ur perception of ojukwu is?? I will not insult your tribe but you!! your a wise fool from the West with no iota of wisdom in you..the same way you worship Tinubu the drug baron is the same way SS worship tompolo in all fools will always be deceived so its not your business who a particular people call their "HERO"

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Richardabbey:
Y Arrest Dem I Hate Dem In Those Eastern Part . Leave Dem To Kill Theirselves Asap

oga hate and bile dey cause poverty and lack of progress in the end na bitterness go kill you and know what?? people you hate sef no even see you dem no send you they don't know a fool like you exist sef.

billyG:
Must he live in d shadow of his father,he abandoned apga,didnt his father abandoned his people & flee to ivory coast?can back & join NPN a northern party?

bro u see how stupid you are?? ojukwu joined a NPN?? u smoke ??

geometricaxis:
Was Ojukwu himself not rejected by his father as a child? Official British intelligence records speculated that is the root cause of Ojukwu's "rebellious" nature...why he joined the Army against his father's wishes etc

guy don't be an ignorant fool ojukwu had some friction with his dad Loius but his father never REJECTED HIM he even inherited his dads properties but this particular fat fool he calls himself ojukwu's son was outrightly REJECTED BY HIS FATHER HE DID NOT INHERIT even pure water from his dad browse about ojukwu's will ...this man was never seen by ojukwu as a "son"

pocohantas:
You pay your rent yourself.
Most people that'll come here to insult you have never done that for themselves. I only wish you keep your shii to yourself. You're a hard-working young man, that's the truth.

seriously??@ dp I no fit sleep again

Airforce1:
And I look at your picture up your profile , I shouldnt have replied you.

bros me sef tire see face like vulture wey get gonorehea

Airforce1:
And I look at your picture up your profile , I shouldnt have replied you.

bros the thing tire see face like vulture wey get gonorehea

urahara:
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Hmmmmmn , actually the stereotypes I had were as a result of what I read on Nairaland.

we fight on internet and in real life or off internet we live peacefully don't take the e wars serious

urahara:
Lmao , I will try to travel to the east one of these days.

now your talking, when I was younger the environment had way too much stereotypes we were told that in the WEStern Nigeria diabolism is too much in fact you need jazz to ward off their jazz but my guy I entered Ibadan stayed one year I enjoyed it no much ancient diabolism there sef its normal just like in the East here nothing much I entered Ogun state na there I flex sef the only part of Nigeria I have not been to is NORTH so baba its all stereotypes nothing more travelling enlightened me on Western Nigeria I realised its all stereotypes.

trustyshoess:
These days, women are just as educated as men are, so a woman can also be providers. Both can provide for the family and both can share household duties. It's not rocket science really
What feminists are against is the traditional gender roles where women are EXPECTED to be a quiet obedient housewife who's there to bear children, cook and clean and where men are EXPECTED to be the ones to get a job and pay all the bills. Feminism is about having the right to choose the kind of life that you want, and if that's being a housewife or the breadwinner then fine. If both the man and woman, earn a living , then they can both share the household bills and household chores. I don't get what's so hard to understand

and yet again u are unbiased ...your feminism sweet die its good and fair..BUT how come of all this people parading as "feminist" your the only one I have see whose not bitter and biased filled with "man hating" don't you think you real feminist should try and regulate and caution the bad ones amongst you who are making feminism look. very EVIL TO MEN

urahara:
loooooool@ the bolded.

Then how developed will you say s.e is .

SE is developed measuring from the "Nigerian " standard of development ..I bet my head you have not even crossed ore before sef jst watching bleeped up nollywood IBU and osufia and hear says village films and judging SE by it..

Alariiwo:
Who is the parasite and who is the host?

They feed you and also provide shelter for your people running away from alaigbo.
You don't see them doing attache with SS like your people do.

See pot calling kettle black.

look at u a disgrace tactically asslicking yorubas fuvcking northern parasite scared of losing its host..

bakynes:
Make my people (Yoruba) no follow any developer argue abeg una, when time reach wey all man go go hin Papa house, we go know who get Lagos.

oga stop pouring spit up and down I bet all the money ur generations made cant buy a grasshopper in eko Atlantic ..that place is not for tribalist poor nobodies like u its for the rich from all part of Nigeria and the world...so u better go and hustle hard

urahara:
How Igbo land is terribly undeveloped still baffles me

oga try and travel stop living on hearsays and nollywood village films try and travel!!"terribly undeveloped" your one of dem folks who also ignorantly think anybody from across the Niger is Igbo ..oga try and travel East is not "terribly undeveloped"

Dimples129:
Stupid is as stupid does

babe I engage my match in e fights but you...your jst a lost foreigner ...you no fit yab sef..if ur next mention is not reasonable you will be ignored I've got to search for my match for sweet e_fights

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Dimples129:
Same thing your doing

ur British believe me I did not even check ur profile before I knew cos I knw Nigerians and how our insults are ... yours was as light as a feather ...so I decided to be nicer

Dimples129:
They've come out the woodworks, talking in tongues

sometimes I wonder what you foreigners are doing here..

Dimples129:
Lace it up bitchè

taaa!! gbafuo dia. iwu otile aba

Pheals:
see there mouth the man fit swallow cow, y that of sis look like a wood pecker.... ok that's cool ( waiting for someone to quote me o)

why are you a savage just answer

DeadRat:

oga wetin?? so I cannot say my mind again?? dey well oo

Kondomatic:
Damn, just checked her dp.

Her nose alone is qualified to have two boyfriends. Apologies for disagreeing with you bro.

broda why are u like dis?? is it good?? which one be say ur fellow human being nose suppose get two boyfriends

DeadRat:
I Know You Dont Like our language but You Are Tryin To Please Her...

Continue! I Like Your Asslicking style

broda why?? u for leave make Im dey lick dry nyash wey g boys don use since...but u sef been dey the business of asslicking before na..abi levels don change??

generalbush:
Sometimes you drop lines like you smoke weed. Do you actually smoke?

that babe na female version of Nwamaikpe

Dimples129:
Watch the stupid people completely miss the point

you are you not a FOOL for being in the same bleeped up hateful movement with the lady op posted mumu wey dey call other pole "stupid"

YelloweWest:
Abeg he should shut up!

Nigerian men are too damn hypocritical.

Imagine the uproar if a first class Nigerian prince was marrying a divorced Nigerian actress that is a osu!

Who told him Nigerian young women don't work or are not earning A living?

you wey be hungry feminist say the truth are you working or do you Bleep a man for your rent?? oya again say the truth Nigerian babes dey like work?? only but very few ladies w"work" for their money in naija..others feels that money and success is transmitted sexually
.Oya again hungry feminist before you start forming "strong independent woman" remember we know about ur hypocritical leader who preach hate against men but bleeps a married man to live a flashy lifestyle "of a strong independent " Feminist of course u should knw of ur leader in hypocrisy Tone Mokinwa

yanshDoctor:
Ngige and okorocha better known as APC faithful Stewarts and including some IGBO politicians and populace that's hoping Igboman will grab power in 2023 from buhari you guys will be disappointed.


Buhari is already romancing Osinbajo and tinubu in a bid to buy support for 2023 and i believe tinubu cant be this foolish after what they did to him the minute buhari won the last election. the only way tinubu can support Buhari again is when there is guaranty to relinquish power to him or his boy the VP. and buhari needs Osinbajo so badly to contest the 2019, he does not need IGBO. the only way Osinbajo would join the race is when he can get the power by 2023. and nothing else.

he would not work for nothing, suffer for nothing and go back home for nothing who does that?


if Buhari is serious about relinquishing power to south east then you guys should start by requesting for Igbo Vice. if he cannot pick an igbo as vice then it means buhari doesn't and would never take the south east serious. buhari has not hide is hatred for the igbo people, he said it already and from his body action no one needs to tell you guys.


the votes from the south west is what counts to a typical northerner and not south east or south south.

buhari still doesn't believe the votes from the south south and south east that's why he was quick to send soldiers python dance and crocodile but he never send soldiers to fulani or badoo cults in south west. you guys haven't forgetting the 5%? have you? he is a realist who doesn't hide is feelings. his action speaks for him. since he won the last election he has never visited the west or east or south only when there is election.


the blame is now been shift to odigie oyegun which is to buy supports again. and APC is about to dump oyegun as the chairman of the party next year as election draws near. we all know who is behind oyegun actions against tinubu, oyegun was only working for his master.


buhari only needs to capture south west and north to win. if you guys want to play smart don't cry of marginalisation when the south west outsmart you guys yet again.

support Atiku now!! let look the betterment of the country by removing buhari rather than where the president comes from. Say yes to restructuring

who is this monkey?? u want us to support another northern recycled thief?? is like ur brain is peeling..buhari will not get shigbain vote from the SOUTH...he bleeped with SE and SS bleeped with SW by trampling tinubu using oyegun he bleeped up all round middle belt sef no go vote he ignored the Fulani menance there..

The so called Core North is thinking twice about him oga is like u are another kind of BMC..but ur own na AMC..Atiku media crew..Bleep off!!!