₦airaland Forum

deb303:
was begining to think Djcuppy was d eldest...Smh for second daughters,they tend to be sharp more than the first

hmm...your definition of sharp is "been lousy?"

Sanchez01:
Most ladies can't even keep relationships and it is often times annoying that they can't really see afar. The emboldened are not far from the truth. There must have been an emotional disconnect at this point because money has been prioritised. She claimed she thought of visiting just so she could go and get her money! Who does that?? How about a friendly visit to find out if there are financial hiccups since he is just bouncing back.

The interest part soiled everything and clearly tells a whole lot about her. Perhaps she agreed to assist the guy all because of the interest, perhaps not. However, it speaks volume so much that it is disturbing.

very true.
would advice her to cook some nice delicacy and visit the guy on weekend and see the dude welcome her with open hands

sometimes the way some women act regarding money can be very shameful.

you probably have been bombarding him with calls.
recently promised a girl money by month end and she has literarily been harassing me with calls even when month has not ended.

call less and seek for an avenue to connect with his emotions; I mean he has to be alive to pay you back. so find out if every thing is alright with him

obataokenwa:
My people said... "if ones relation is dancing abnormally in a dancing competition, his people do scratch their head or bite their lips"

no sir...every state in Nigeria has it own peculiarities

there are some independent countries in African that can not even cope with the challenges of Lagos and Lagos is just a state within a country

obataokenwa:
The lady said nothing but the truth. Most people in Lagos are semi mad. I am in Lagos for about a week now and no day passes with one not feeling like going crazy either on the traffic or inside the yellow bus. I thought North is hot, but the polluted environment of Lagos makes everywhere so hot and not good for normal reasoning. Only those doing corporate jobs escape this madness...Traffic in Costain, is enough to make one act abnormal

but she is not just referring to Lagosians but to Nigerians in general... so she is dam wrong

EFCC keeps masturbating on top Deziani's matter ,just to proof they are hard working

which time this okorocha "cup" go full

me I need to buy their shares... heard it has great return on investment.


we can talk about Islamization later

tosyne2much:
I used to hear people say the higher the release of semen the lower your chances of being fertile

oga Tosin!
allow "Vaseline crew" to answer that ...am sure you are not an associate member

Depends on the days but MORNING RUSH by Olise and Maria is by far the most popular on Beat Fm99.9

then Sharing Life issues on Inspiration FM

Freshly Press on Smooth FM

if the recall is borne out of genuine desire for change , it would make a political statement but my problem is the seemingly "hand of Esau with voice of Jacob" tactics from Kogi governor

Desyner:
The man who never stole but swiss return money on his behalf

according to Buhari.. "it was misappropriated"

Habakus:
This is what was said of Ebonyi State:

Ebonyi, unilaterally, without discussion with the union tried to reduce the salaries by certain percentage and have also not made available records of utilisation of the Paris Club refund.

Where was it stated that Ebonyi State government misappropriated the fund?
And mind you, it says that Ebonyi 'tried to reduce' not 'reduced 'the salaries by certain percentage...
When I hail that man as one of the best governors in the county, I'm not just talking about projects and infrastructure, I refer to payment of salaries as at when due, several empowerment programmes currently ongoing in the state, etc.
I insist those NLC guys didnt do their homework well by actually visiting state and getting first-hand perspective of what is going on there.
By the way, Ebonyi state government is currently laying water pipes across in the state. The target is for every home to have access to portable water .

can you read what you posting at all?
when you reduced salaries unilaterally without consultation, that is tantamount to misappropriation... because that money meant for salaries is been diverted to something else

9jakohai:
True federalism might not solve the problem....because you cannot get leopards to change their spots.

A corrupt governor will always be a corrupt governor.

It is up to us to have strong institutions and better attitudes to governance.

what true federalism and possibly restructuring can do is to marge some of the states together. the truth most states are not economically viable.
if you marge them ,instead of having plethora of commissioners,special advisers ,special assistants ,special aids and all what not in one state;just have few ministers from one region and save loads of money on waste

Habakus:
A little trip to Ebonyi state should make them realize how stupid they by including Ebonyi state.
Ebonyi State Governor, Dave Umahi, is about the best performing governor currently in the country.

is not about been best governor, its how money got misappropriated on the wrong projects

is a Nigerian disease where...
1.money accrued is different from money appropriated

2.money appropriated is different from money budgeted for

3.where money budgeted for is different from money approved.

4.money approved is different from money released

5.money released is different from money spent

6.money spent is different from money well spent

Abia will never carry last ...

loving Ghanaian Architectural concept, very creatively unique unlike their Nigerian counterparts that make it look as if its one person that design all our buildings

in few months time he will become a former governor and for certain not a single person in that gathering would remembered his birthday.

am sure they must have done similar razzmatazz to Former governor, Ohakim, in the past but today ,who remembers him?

my uncle spent 100k to built mansion in the village, around 1980's .

fast forward 2013 he needed to renovate same house in readiness for my grandmother's burial and ended up spending more than 5million naira for renovation .

that simply means the house was actually a liability and not an assets.
there is nothing wrong in developing one's village by building ,but with what mindset, I noticed that people usually build to make one statement which is ..."I HAVE ARRIVED"

my take is ,instead of building a mansion in the village with no economic value; am sure every state has a city center, why not build in the city center so as to make it a revenue generating assets? you can even generate enough revenue from it to now build in the village

far better than premarital sex

Sabrina18:
kiss and tell guys, I hate them.

but the girl is smiling sheepishly, meaning she doesn't mind

try discussing the issue with an uncle or aunty in the family who he can listen to .
am sure their word would mean much to him

couragemath:
thank you @chukazu and others for your contribution. I really appreciate men like you taking out time keeping people informed. As said by chukazu, I calculated that moulding blocks is really cheaper than buying. but is it reasonable to pay someone 8k for moulding 10 bags of cement. please I look forward to you guys reply. Thanks once again.

the calculation should be based on " a Day's job"

and in if you calculate a day wage , the bricklayer should be able to exhaust the 10 bags of cement in two days and so 5k should be a good wage for the duration

as much as possible, do more of direct labour... what I mean, I had an experience where someone quoted 120k for plastering the house ,I tried negotiations and the least offer I had was around 90k

but some1 suggested we hire labourers and pay them on daily basis which I did, at the end I ended up spending about 45k

now that is massive.
so don't pay base on contract but on direct labour with maximum supervision

...so where and when is the burial ceremony?

now that "she " is dead ,you can as well do a "headcount "of your villagers to know the witch responsible. .

WetinConsignMe:
I actually don't agree with u on going to law school. That means only a doctor can own a hospital etc. You hire someone with the technical knowledge as in anything.
As for single terms,more advanced countries like US and UK, they are more experienced at this and none has single.term

there is different between owing a hospital and practicing medical services... and in reality ,the answer to your question is affirmative... currently you can't own a hospital if you are not a doctor .

MhizzAJ:
What is even wrong with this OP self

So u mean u can't fix this little issue with her privately
That powder that u talked about is expensive
It's not 3k please
Make dat relationship work

I love men that re 'givers'

and if the powder is that expensive, what would some1 be doing with such when there are better things to do with money?

is she masquerade to be using such powder she for kuku buy "Dulux paint " to rob her face

Evaberry:
Men and their problems

abeg op why are you complaining

this is a normal thing na

MOST women have a penchant for doing this

Ask married men and women.

if they are going to the market and the total sum is 10,000 it's either they add 5k or 10k.

Although she threatening to break up with you is wrong.

tell her how you feel and If you can't, then break up with her and leave us alone.

you trying too had to make him believe the geh is not using juju on him

why cant some women see beyond their nose?
this is someone that has promised you married ,the best she could do is to support him and build a future with him and not to extort him

that money can be better invested in a meaningful project instead her selfish desire... do you know how portfolio one can buy with 6k at the stock exchange?

it simply means she is not ready to stake it...she wants to grab and run

@OP...na for village she do this thing

WetinConsignMe:
What would I like to see? For starters I think the OP has some good ideas. I especially like his idea of scrapping the national assembly and making it voluntary so none of them is paid. Infact I think we should extend it to the presidency
But as for.going to law school, op does it mean to be a legislator u must be a lawyer? I don't think so. That's why they have aids and legal aids.
I agree with him power should be devolved to the states. But exactly how,?
I think one term limit.is tricky. What incentive.do.they have to perform well if they know.they wont be facing voters again
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as for going to the law schools, why should some1 who knows nothing about law be the one making laws and the very judiciary who with judges of many years of experience now be the ones interpreting the laws ?

talking of their aids, if the master is Brain-dead ,how can the so called aid be of use?

on single term ...if the elected office holders are not making tangible impact within eight years of an administration, why not cut Short?

the serious ones would perform creditably well, while the crooks will remain clueless.

in fact there is a saying that political office holders in Nigeria only do "just enough" first term so as to win a second term,at which they now gloat and become redundant through the second term.

Five years single term is more enough, there are countries with such systems doing better than us.

GenBuhari:
If that is what restructuring entails then it call could be written into the constitution. Mayor and another layer could increase cost of governance. Because we copied American system does not mean it is best system for Nigeria.

Personally would love us to adopt Abacha's 1995 draft constitution jettisoned by Thief Obasanjo in 1999 for our current criminal constitution.

Well crafted constitution that addresses all the grievances of all groups in the country is all that is needed.

the problem adopting Abacha's constitution is the individual behind it.. that is Abacha himself.

you can agree that his name and legacies do not resonate any goodwill among Nigerian .
so the foundation of such is already "dead on arrival "

you know the saying..."you don't trust an unclad man offering you cloth"

MVLOX:
U re very correct, just the young pple ask cha

yea. .they do have quite some nice piece.
if only you can read without prejudice, they have got some of the best research writers around.

I dont miss their AWAKE magazines ,very incisive

Saintsammurai:
ITS not everybody that fornicate and watch porn... but even if you do, dnt be feel guilty about it, you are still a son of GOD, this is why you must go to church and seek his forgiveness.

Go to Church

Tell me the name of the Church that Joseph attended in Egypt

Saintsammurai:
THE bible says, keep the sabbath day holy, the same bible says, seek ye first the kingdom of GOD and his riteousness and every other thing shall be added into it....You have mondays till saturdays to make money and provide for your families, you cannot go to your place of work on sundays, instead of going to the house of GOD, if you do that, then you will go to hell and wont make heaven.. THE time has come for the true worshipers of GOD to worship him in spirit and in truth. And the truth is, If you have a job that requires your service on sundays, then quit the job, because its GOD over everything... GOD will provide a better job for you...Let us tell ourselfs the truth, you cannot claim to love GOD and go to work on sundays instead of going to church to worship him.. so dont deceive yourself, Going to your place of work on sundays will only land you in hell and you are not a true christian...bible reference: Exodus 20 verse 8. deuteronomy 5 verse 12, exodus 31 verse 16.

oga the Sabbath day is not Sunday.

the sabbat day is "rest day" and you can chose any day to rest and dedicate to God.

God didnt create Sunday to Monday, God created "first day" to " seventh" ...it was humans like you and I that did the naming from Sunday to Monday, that means you can so decide your own Sabbath day.
the calendar you are following was invented by the Romans ,that also means your Sunday to Monday were "christened" by them... mostly names of their gods. did they consult with God before doing so?

any day I decide to dedicate to God and rest from my labour ,is my Sabbath day ...the reason Christ stated that "Sabbath was made for man ,not man for Sabbath" ...so you can make your own Sabbath.

this is mental slavery!