FXKing2012: Sacrifices must be made for development to take place, but Africans usually dont like making sacrifices (except sacrificing to deities) which is why Africa is so underdeveloped.

some of us here shld be more sensible when posting or commenting. Before any good government destroys people resident in a good country shld provide an alternative. You can not waske up and destroy peoples resident without compasation or alternative,keeping them stranded and devasted just like that. That does nt show demogracy and good governance. Even if it is an ilegal structures.

ocman: RUBBISH POST

Your brain has to be well checked. you have a very big problem

pictures: The bankers should be held liable. They are the ones aiding corruption in
this country.

How, should they be held responsible? Did they steal money?

Toaskarity: Common brigde! Are we this poor! Brigde a village here can pay and build a new one in weeks!! Shame on anambra state govt! Shame on the so called rich ppl in onitsha! Shame at the ppl of asaba and their govt!!!! Tufia!! Are ppl really waiting for fed govt to build a new one!
What's wrong in taking care of urself? Assuming no one else has brain inthat part of the country,lemme suggest one. Why not both state govt come together and build a new d brigde then tax any plate number that isn't from both state that uses the Bridge even the city of asab and onitsha can do this without any external help!! What exactly are the leaders in nigeria doing?? Do they just go to office,gossip and home??

It seems as if u are not a Nigerian. How do u expect state govt. And individual to do Federal govt. Work. The bridge is federal Bridge and not a small bridge. Maybe u were thinking it was a minor Bridge at ur back yard

That is the end of the case. Someone stole N93M and being bailed with the sum of N10M. Nigerians when will this corruption ends. This is the highest encouragement to those that are willing to steal money in this country.

This must be taken serious,because The Boko Guys that have killed so many people and still be killing. no body is killing them. Even some of them that were caught, are being released secretly. The only people they have power to tackles is just armless people who are not killing anybody.

Massob guys are not killing anybody and they are not carrying weapons.why are they killing them and leaving all these hausa Boko guy to go free.

They should reduce Data plan, i mean Internet bundle.

Nigeria 2 Mali 0, whether you like it or not

By WOLE BALOGUN

The man who survived a near-fatal fall from the Third Mainland Bridge into the Lagos Lagoon at the weekend has said it remains a miracle that he’s still alive. Mr. Shola Oladimeji, who described his survival as an act of God, was driving a Sienna bus with registration No. EKY 974 BB shortly after the environmental exercise on Saturday morning when the bus plunged into the lagoon from the Third Mainland Bridge.

He was rescued by local divers who went into the waters and fished him out. In an interview with this reporter at his Lagos residence last night, the Osun-State born Oladimeji said it was by divine encounter that he was rescued from the waters of the lagoon, saying only God could have accomplished such an implausible feat for him. He denied that he was on high speed as reported by some sections of the media, saying he wasn’t driving beyond 50 kilometres per hour. His words: “I was coming from the office on Saturday morning.

I had gone to attend a meeting. I got to the Adekunle Junction by the BRT, then I started driving on the Third Mainland Bridge. Everything was going on smoothly. I was not speeding at all. I wasn’t even going beyond 50. All I remember next was that I saw my vehicle plunging into the lagoon. “I didn’t know how it happened. I wasn’t drunk. In fact, I have never tasted alcohol in my life. By the grace of God, I’m a Christian, a worker and minister with Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministry (MFM). If you know that church, you will know that alcohol couldn’t have been an issue.

I’m a Sunday school teacher and assistant zonal coordinator of House Fellowship. “When I saw myself going into the lagoon, I wasn’t scared. What came into my mind was how I would escape. When I landed in the water, I was very conscious. I wanted to come out of the vehicle, but something was hindering me. Then I remembered I was wearing the seat belt. So I removed the belt and then saw an opening in the vehicle. Then I tried to come out. “I don’t know how to swim. But when I came out, I tried to come to the surface of the lagoon so that people could see me for immediate rescue. I saw some people around, and people saw me, but before I could do anything, I was back in the water. I came up again the second time and went back. When I came up the third time, I raised up my hand, and the local divers saw me. Then they quickly rushed and held my hand and rescued me. “I didn’t sustain any injuries.

I had never spent a minute in the waters before, not to talk of knowing how to swim. Never. But I didn’t panic; in fact, I just had the assurance that I wouldn’t die. All is to the glory of God. The local divers took me to their place and gave me some treatment. Then I said they should take me to LUTH. By then, no official of state had been there. “I found myself in the water, and I found myself swimming. All I have to say is, it’s the power of God. I’m a practical Christian. I believe in God and I believe in the miracle of God. Everything that happened on Saturday is just God. “I wasn’t unconscious for a minute, I wasn’t afraid for a minute.

“I don’t know when they took my vehicle out. By then, I had been taken away. Of course, I couldn’t find some of my effects, including my phone.” Oladimeji looked relaxed when speaking to the reporter. He was sporting a red T-shirt with blue stripes and boxers. He said he had no fracture, but there was a bandage on his left leg. Some of the fingers on his left hand were also plastered. The Lagos Island Unit Commander of the FRSC, Mr. Saddiq Abdulrahman said on Saturday that the lone occupant of the vehicle survived with serious injuries.

He said that the incident occurred at about 10:30 am shortly after the environmental sanitation exercise at the Police Post on Km. 6 on the bridge. Abdulrahman said a rescue team of the FRSC and the police got to the scene of the incident at about 11:45 am.
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Etisalat is one of the best now. i am not promoting any network but seeing is believing. i am using Etisalat as i am typing now. I will be very grateful if they will still continue in this very way.

Sincere 9gerian: Rochas Okorocha is a very likeable person, powerful orator and I sincerely wish he could succeed as governor of Imo. However, so far he has disappointed persons like me.

In my opinion, many of his policies and actions are thoughtless, overly populist and unsustainable.

Many look at the beautiful and powerful speeches he gives every now and then but some of us look deeper than that.

Anyway, he still has lots of time to make amends

I hope your were not paid for the write up to criticize Rochas. when you were mentioning of the things he has not touched, why not mention some of the things he has already done like the schools. Rochas is doing something but remember that Rome was not built in a day. With time i hope he will touch other areas which have not been touched.

Nice one. Chinese has one of the best technology after japaness

nahinbdis: Much has been said on the need to rehabilitate this key road, and I was somewhat pleased to see that rehabilitation work on the road is in progress. Both sides of the road have been largely fixed from Ore to just before Ofosu, and then from the Edo State boundary up to Oluku in Benin. Work is ongoing at Ofosu area and also at Ugbowo end in Benin up to Dawson junction.

I think this is rather commendable going by the fact that the road has been largely problematic. Some pictures taken between 14th & 15th December 2012 - my last trip to Benin- are shown below

Nice one,I travelled on the road on thesame date. great work was going on there nice one

OCTAVO: I see it as a silly attitude when men refuse to eat just because they have a little misunderstaning with their wives. They purnish their stomach because of unnecessary pride.
Some starve themselves even for days. I just laugh whenever this happens. Will I have to beg you to eat again? Lailai!
Men are just too egocentric and always expect to be treated like some lord!
As for me, it‘s when he refuses to eat that i even scatter the house more with nice aroma.
I torment his stomach more but pride won‘t let him request for food.
Men, what is it with this your delibrate starvation?
Even if you eat outside, you still have to come to momma someday.
*Winks*

The poster, you have not married and that is why you are sounding like this. If you marry you will understand better

At 34 she is still making guy. she should wait until when it is 40. she is still young. when she miss this last Bus.she will be the one begging guy to come and pregnant her

[quote author=tchidi]Dunno about others, but I have a strict 'no sex b4 marriage' rule!! If u can't wait till we r married, (not even traditionally sef, church!) Then back off! She should hold fast to her values! If he loves u, he'll love u even if u don't give him a child... My 2 cents sha! [/quote
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I hope you are still tender. by the time you have reached a bit older in age you will understand as a woman.

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GEJ is the most corrupt Government since the history of Nigeria. He encourages,promotes,harbours and protect corrupt leaders. If you are under his Government and has the courage to loot money,you are a free man.

Hysmady: Acer is the best laptop i've used so far.am still usinq it.

Thank you

How good is Acer Laptops? please,anybody with any Idea. I want to buy an Acer laptop but need to know how strong,fast,reliable and everything about it before i acquire one.

This Sanusi is a devil.Nothing good ever come out of him and he will surely suffer on this earth.

It not the matter of Data allowance increment, the question should be how fast or speed is the internet.all the increment is rubbish if the speed of the internet is not there

Pimples: If they like, let them increase it to 500GB. So long as their speed does not improve of what use is it?

Good speech,when the speed is useless,what is the need of data increment?

Osiris.211:
Imagine ibo ediots kidnapping wife of speaker in south west?

This is tribalism, these south west guys purposely point out those guys just for hatred.

10 Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women.

1.) Giving A Woman Too Much Power.

Guys usually get into trouble when they allow a woman to have too much (if not all) control in a relationship. She decides when you go out, when you have sex, and which friends you can keep. She may even decide (not suggest) what color of clothes you wear to a party.

Relinquishing a majority of control is a classic example of a man believing he doesn’t deserve to be with a certain type of woman, or a man who feels too weak that he cannot make decisions on his own. If you’re a good man and deserve a good woman, you deserve a good relationship. Swinging the power meter closer to a 50-50 deal would be more beneficial for you. An even platform feels a whole lot better than a 80-20 deal, and you can’t afford to be on the 20 end of the spectrum.

IMPORTANT: Women are not called the weaker sex because their bones are not strong. It is because they have a lot of difficulty resisting evil. When you give a woman too much power, you will be disrespected mercilessly.

2.) Trying to Invoke Too Much Control Of Your Own.

Even though you shouldn’t relinquish complete control of the relationship to the lady in your life, you also shouldn’t hoard it all for yourself. Power struggles can create a competitive environment, and there is no place for competition in a relationship. Truth be told, most people like some level of control in their lives and this includes their relationships with significant others.

Men should attempt to work with their mates to maintain respectable levels of control. Whether it’s your heavy-handed decision-making or a demanding attitude, women don’t like control freaks, and an over-bearing guy reeks of insecurity.

3.) Believing that today’s good deeds will still be good tomorrow.

Women have short memories. Flowers and candy mean you love her today, but tomorrow is a new day and a new chance to prove your love all over again. A man often lingers on his good motives and may not understand how his sweetie can throw a hissy-fit while wearing the new dress he bought just three days ago.

Being a good boy scout doesn’t mean you are no longer obligated to do your chores. Keep doing the things you know are necessary for relationship success. Women appreciate a good deed, but they appreciate continuous good deeds even more.

4.) Being domineering or overly possessive.

If your lady tells you that she likes possessive, egotistical, iron-fisted dictators–you might be in for the perfect relationship. That is, if your name is Joseph Stalin. However, most women don’t tolerate the overly jealous types and no woman wants a domineering man.

Biblical principles tell us that a man should lead. However, this worthy duty calls for an enormous amount of responsibility and maturity. A man should never believe that his mate is beneath him spiritually, or emotionally, and a relationship should not view women as possessions.

5.) Allowing family members or friends to dictate what happens in the relationship.

This is an absolute NO-NO. If you are married and allow your in-laws to have any measure of control in your relationship, you are undoubtedly treading on paper-thin ice.

Your wife should not be subjected to this either. Even if she allows you to use a bossy tone with her, she most certainly doesn’t appreciate it coming from your mama, your aunt, or anyone else. Women don’t like being told what to do (see Mistake #4), and it irks them even more when it’s being dished out by another woman.

You should not allow your wife’s family to make decisions that directly affect your relationship. Everybody has an opinion, but it’s the couple’s opinions that matter most. Outside opinions or ideas shouldn’t be used to influence your relationship bond.



6.) Always kissing up.

She’s your beautiful queen. A sugar-dumplin’, honey-spiced, chocolate bunny pie. But she’s also a human being. Which means if she commands respect, she also has the ability to return it.

Some people deserve respect simply because they exist:

a) Your mother – because she’s a woman and ushered your nappy-head into the world.
b) Women in general – because they’re women and the Good Bible tells us that we’re supposed to be respectful.

Outside of that, all other respect is earned. Don’t be so apologetic (unless you’ve really screwed up); don’t assume that she’s always right; and don’t take the blame for something that isn’t your fault.

More importantly, don’t place your lady on such a high pedestal that she forgets where the ground is. A truly level-headed sister wouldn’t want to be that high, and may eventually resent being in a relationship with a big pushover.

7.) Complacency.

If you are not exactly where you want to be in your life (financially, academically, or spiritually) it’s okay. That’s life. And while women tend to focus more on the future, you shouldn’t worry about having the world in your palm when you first meet.

Over time, most women will expect to see progress and eventually, results. Don’t sit idle and allow life to pass you by. Even if you’re not the biggest fish in the pond, being tenacious and goal-oriented is all any woman could ask for. If she’s asking for more, you might want to reconsider the type of woman you’re with.
8.) Choosing a woman based on appearance alone.

This is really dangerous, but all men know that it is extremely difficult to look past the sexiness. Physical attraction is important for both men and women, but we sometimes forget to investigate other critical attributes we need in a woman.

Since we are from the ‘Planet of Imagery’, male judgment is often clouded in the beginning of a relationship. A man’s interest in physical compatibility may keep him from thinking about other crucial attributes until it’s too late.

Don’t forget the essential qualities like compassion, compatibility, and whether or not she makes any sense when she speaks.



9.) Placing someone (anyone) or something before your mate.

This includes friends, relatives, co-workers, animals, your car, your hobbies, etc.

Granted, there will be times when you want to hang with the boys, or occasions when you have to spend extra time working on that important project. But those things should never hold more meaning than your relationship. When a woman feels that someone or something is more important than her, you will surely have problems getting her to respond to anything you have to say.



10.) Yielding to temptation from other women.

For some odd reason, women are frequently more attracted to men who are attached, or already married. This isn’t a good thing if you’re in a strong relationship and have a weakness for lust. Your wife or girlfriend isn’t stupid–she knows that you can’t help but look at other women from time to time. But that’s as far as it goes.

If the tempter is cognizant of the situation and isn’t a woman of good moral character — (and she likely isn’t since she’s obviously seeking to tempt), she may not care about disrupting your relationship — especially if she knows you’re interested in stepping out of line.

Be vigilant when this happens. It takes a lot of patience and integrity to go against the grain. Being tempted is natural. Yielding to it is not very wise.

Angelahoney:

No I'm not. I'm as logical as you. Fact is many men think they're the only ones who can reason. They see women are emotional beings. But I expected my husband to ask me why I decided to use cat fish to cook egusi soup instead of goat meat.

. You are really stubborn,this is why you are having problem with this man and you refused to be corrected.Let us put this action this way. Assuming you told your child to do thesame thing your husband asked you to do and he or she moved and did the thing on his or her way as you did.How would you feel?

vb0mb: Good write up but generalization is a falacy.

Are you with your senses? what the poster wrote are all correct.

you can trace the child if the child is alive but the great mistake you made was the agreement you made with them including the money you had already accepted and spent.Those people can be traced through the phone number and the Bank account and the cheque. I will not move further,because i have given you the two things to locate this people. professional knows how to do that when you are ready.

[quote author=chaircover]Short answer = [size=18pt]NO[/size]

why because you are focusing on the trivial things such as salon money rather than his character. Is he hardworking? Is he reliable? Is he caring? does he love you? Is he a man of integrity? Does he communicate well? How does he treat you? and a whole heap of other things that make up a person, not just common 2k saloon money.

Do you know that it is easier to make money than it is to change your character?

Anyway, you dont love him or find him sexually attractive so your marriage is going to be a struggle from day one.

Please free the guy and let him find someone who will love and appreciate him for the little that he has/is/can give. quick question though apart from your super duper mega fantastic salary that you are bringing in from your oil and gas job, what else do you bring to the table?

You are right though; keep on praying for the one that will have pass marks in all your marriage criteria boxes. He is out there somewhere. . . . just be patient you hear.


True speech.The poster is not ready for marriage,at 30 let her still wait more for a person that will suit all her criteria.As far as this guy does not have money up to this lady,she will never be in love with him base on her nature and way of life.She has seen money and that money is what deceive alot of ladies.Before she knows it,time must have gone,Had i know,will follow.

Glo plan is the best,followed by Airtel frankly speaking.