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Pimples: If they like, let them increase it to 500GB. So long as their speed does not improve of what use is it?

Good speech,when the speed is useless,what is the need of data increment?

Osiris.211:
Imagine ibo ediots kidnapping wife of speaker in south west?

This is tribalism, these south west guys purposely point out those guys just for hatred.

10 Dangerous Mistakes Men Make With Women.

1.) Giving A Woman Too Much Power.

Guys usually get into trouble when they allow a woman to have too much (if not all) control in a relationship. She decides when you go out, when you have sex, and which friends you can keep. She may even decide (not suggest) what color of clothes you wear to a party.

Relinquishing a majority of control is a classic example of a man believing he doesn’t deserve to be with a certain type of woman, or a man who feels too weak that he cannot make decisions on his own. If you’re a good man and deserve a good woman, you deserve a good relationship. Swinging the power meter closer to a 50-50 deal would be more beneficial for you. An even platform feels a whole lot better than a 80-20 deal, and you can’t afford to be on the 20 end of the spectrum.

IMPORTANT: Women are not called the weaker sex because their bones are not strong. It is because they have a lot of difficulty resisting evil. When you give a woman too much power, you will be disrespected mercilessly.

2.) Trying to Invoke Too Much Control Of Your Own.

Even though you shouldn’t relinquish complete control of the relationship to the lady in your life, you also shouldn’t hoard it all for yourself. Power struggles can create a competitive environment, and there is no place for competition in a relationship. Truth be told, most people like some level of control in their lives and this includes their relationships with significant others.

Men should attempt to work with their mates to maintain respectable levels of control. Whether it’s your heavy-handed decision-making or a demanding attitude, women don’t like control freaks, and an over-bearing guy reeks of insecurity.

3.) Believing that today’s good deeds will still be good tomorrow.

Women have short memories. Flowers and candy mean you love her today, but tomorrow is a new day and a new chance to prove your love all over again. A man often lingers on his good motives and may not understand how his sweetie can throw a hissy-fit while wearing the new dress he bought just three days ago.

Being a good boy scout doesn’t mean you are no longer obligated to do your chores. Keep doing the things you know are necessary for relationship success. Women appreciate a good deed, but they appreciate continuous good deeds even more.

4.) Being domineering or overly possessive.

If your lady tells you that she likes possessive, egotistical, iron-fisted dictators–you might be in for the perfect relationship. That is, if your name is Joseph Stalin. However, most women don’t tolerate the overly jealous types and no woman wants a domineering man.

Biblical principles tell us that a man should lead. However, this worthy duty calls for an enormous amount of responsibility and maturity. A man should never believe that his mate is beneath him spiritually, or emotionally, and a relationship should not view women as possessions.

5.) Allowing family members or friends to dictate what happens in the relationship.

This is an absolute NO-NO. If you are married and allow your in-laws to have any measure of control in your relationship, you are undoubtedly treading on paper-thin ice.

Your wife should not be subjected to this either. Even if she allows you to use a bossy tone with her, she most certainly doesn’t appreciate it coming from your mama, your aunt, or anyone else. Women don’t like being told what to do (see Mistake #4), and it irks them even more when it’s being dished out by another woman.

You should not allow your wife’s family to make decisions that directly affect your relationship. Everybody has an opinion, but it’s the couple’s opinions that matter most. Outside opinions or ideas shouldn’t be used to influence your relationship bond.



6.) Always kissing up.

She’s your beautiful queen. A sugar-dumplin’, honey-spiced, chocolate bunny pie. But she’s also a human being. Which means if she commands respect, she also has the ability to return it.

Some people deserve respect simply because they exist:

a) Your mother – because she’s a woman and ushered your nappy-head into the world.
b) Women in general – because they’re women and the Good Bible tells us that we’re supposed to be respectful.

Outside of that, all other respect is earned. Don’t be so apologetic (unless you’ve really screwed up); don’t assume that she’s always right; and don’t take the blame for something that isn’t your fault.

More importantly, don’t place your lady on such a high pedestal that she forgets where the ground is. A truly level-headed sister wouldn’t want to be that high, and may eventually resent being in a relationship with a big pushover.

7.) Complacency.

If you are not exactly where you want to be in your life (financially, academically, or spiritually) it’s okay. That’s life. And while women tend to focus more on the future, you shouldn’t worry about having the world in your palm when you first meet.

Over time, most women will expect to see progress and eventually, results. Don’t sit idle and allow life to pass you by. Even if you’re not the biggest fish in the pond, being tenacious and goal-oriented is all any woman could ask for. If she’s asking for more, you might want to reconsider the type of woman you’re with.
8.) Choosing a woman based on appearance alone.

This is really dangerous, but all men know that it is extremely difficult to look past the sexiness. Physical attraction is important for both men and women, but we sometimes forget to investigate other critical attributes we need in a woman.

Since we are from the ‘Planet of Imagery’, male judgment is often clouded in the beginning of a relationship. A man’s interest in physical compatibility may keep him from thinking about other crucial attributes until it’s too late.

Don’t forget the essential qualities like compassion, compatibility, and whether or not she makes any sense when she speaks.



9.) Placing someone (anyone) or something before your mate.

This includes friends, relatives, co-workers, animals, your car, your hobbies, etc.

Granted, there will be times when you want to hang with the boys, or occasions when you have to spend extra time working on that important project. But those things should never hold more meaning than your relationship. When a woman feels that someone or something is more important than her, you will surely have problems getting her to respond to anything you have to say.



10.) Yielding to temptation from other women.

For some odd reason, women are frequently more attracted to men who are attached, or already married. This isn’t a good thing if you’re in a strong relationship and have a weakness for lust. Your wife or girlfriend isn’t stupid–she knows that you can’t help but look at other women from time to time. But that’s as far as it goes.

If the tempter is cognizant of the situation and isn’t a woman of good moral character — (and she likely isn’t since she’s obviously seeking to tempt), she may not care about disrupting your relationship — especially if she knows you’re interested in stepping out of line.

Be vigilant when this happens. It takes a lot of patience and integrity to go against the grain. Being tempted is natural. Yielding to it is not very wise.

Angelahoney: No I'm not. I'm as logical as you. Fact is many men think they're the only ones who can reason. They see women are emotional beings. But I expected my husband to ask me why I decided to use cat fish to cook egusi soup instead of goat meat.

. You are really stubborn,this is why you are having problem with this man and you refused to be corrected.Let us put this action this way. Assuming you told your child to do thesame thing your husband asked you to do and he or she moved and did the thing on his or her way as you did.How would you feel?

vb0mb: Good write up but generalization is a falacy.

Are you with your senses? what the poster wrote are all correct.

you can trace the child if the child is alive but the great mistake you made was the agreement you made with them including the money you had already accepted and spent.Those people can be traced through the phone number and the Bank account and the cheque. I will not move further,because i have given you the two things to locate this people. professional knows how to do that when you are ready.

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why because you are focusing on the trivial things such as salon money rather than his character. Is he hardworking? Is he reliable? Is he caring? does he love you? Is he a man of integrity? Does he communicate well? How does he treat you? and a whole heap of other things that make up a person, not just common 2k saloon money.

Do you know that it is easier to make money than it is to change your character?

Anyway, you dont love him or find him sexually attractive so your marriage is going to be a struggle from day one.

Please free the guy and let him find someone who will love and appreciate him for the little that he has/is/can give. quick question though apart from your super duper mega fantastic salary that you are bringing in from your oil and gas job, what else do you bring to the table?

You are right though; keep on praying for the one that will have pass marks in all your marriage criteria boxes. He is out there somewhere. . . . just be patient you hear.


True speech.The poster is not ready for marriage,at 30 let her still wait more for a person that will suit all her criteria.As far as this guy does not have money up to this lady,she will never be in love with him base on her nature and way of life.She has seen money and that money is what deceive alot of ladies.Before she knows it,time must have gone,Had i know,will follow.

Glo plan is the best,followed by Airtel frankly speaking.

Tiwanna: my dear a girl that loves you will always stand by you in any circumstance you find yourself. if she cant do that, then she is just in the relationship for the money you spend on her and not love.

My sister you have said it all.If any girl treats you bad when you don't have money that girl is not for you. A girl that loves you will treat you good whether you have money or not. Love does not base on money alone.

onila: I have noticed Nigerian parents believe taking their daughters to all girls schools will make them stay focused, but unfortunately, when these girls come out of school, they became desperate for men and become really promiscuous after high school.

I know many of my friends who went to all girls school = have a baby out of wed lock or are really promiscuous

you are right,you post made sense.I myself have seen it alot.Most of the girls i know very well that went for girls school,like and chase men more than the ones that go for mixed school.i have two of them now around my area that have given birth.

so they are still recovery this issue.when are they going to be through with it? Nigeria Telecommunication.I bow for una.People's business has suffered.

ayosmiles: I used to have this girlfriend I loved so much that I would go to her place, sleepover and cook her breakfast. On weekends I would help her tidy her room before takin her out. When she left me, I thought she felt I was too attached but now she's back beggin me to come back, sayin she made a mistake and no guy could care 4 her like me.

Guys, is it wise to do those things for your woman? Girls, will you appreciate a guy that does that?

Are you a man or a woman. Plz, don't be a woman man ok. Wise up and be a man.unless you are created as woman in man appearance.

Liberty reservew is ok and well secured as it has so many pass keys to put before u can gain through

Aro Okigbo: God bless you for writing nothing but the truth. Those who think otherwise should just be READY for the REALITY in the later stages of their marriages.

My wife is 7 years younger than I am. Even now, after 3 kids, we almost look like age-mates.

supported.That is how it suppose to be.

This post will provoke the ladies but it is the only truth the man said.All ladies may try to oppose this but it is the only truth. A man must be more older than his wife,whether they like it or not

Please,i need help from anyone who knows better. I need a mobile software that will enable me to view Microsoft word and Excel on my Nokia Java phone.

whether you like it or not GEJ is one of the worst,useless and dullest president Nigeria has never have

I voted for him but i regreted voting for in active and caward president

blacksta: The Level of corruption in Nigeria is at a all time high under Gej. I cannot fore see how this nation is going to last another 5 to 20 years , eventually something must break.

I believe something is about to break.The level of corruption has gone to the highest in this regime.They have decided to do whatever they like,without listening to common people who elected them into that office.

God must surely expose them and they must bear the consequence of their evil works.

This useless president,and all the people waking up and producing these nonsense and corrupt policies have created hard ship in Nigeria.This is the worse regime i have never seen.

This will bring up the cost or price of computers now.common man cannot afford for a computer set now.

THIS IS APAPA UNDER BRIDGE WHERE SO MANY ILLEGAL BUILDINGS WERE DEMOLISHED.

This is part of a demolished site at Apapa, along Mobile road under bridge,where most of the Housa keep loads of iron parts. At Marine Bridge.

If you are OND holder,quickly submit your CV to this email charlestrust@gmail.com.

This is for people in Lagos and Eastern part of Nigeria. First people to submit will be having their test on Saturday 12th May. This is urgently needed.

Poster,to be frank with you. you are a man, forget all about you level has changed and she is not the type of your choice. All those speech are useless.

there is no way this lady will work in your company without you having sexual feeling with her one day.it is impossible,you know it very well in your mind.

you better look for Job another side for than to employ her in your company.

I don't know how some people thing and make comments.What is the big deal with my wife washing my car.My wife wash my car whenever i don't have much time left to do the washing.I don't even tell her to do it but she will look at how clean and thirty the car is and do the washing without being told.

we are happily leaving,it does not show any humiliation or using someone as a house help.