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THEN:- Because wives were responsible and subjective.
NOW:- Because wives are independent and authoritative.
So in Conclusion, it depends on your priorities and prerogative. Different strokes for different folks. But if you can get a mixture of both these days, you better thank your stars!
Oloshos everywhere nowadays!

BluntBoy:
8 years after NYSC, I am still a virgin

I have never even kissed a woman before.

Very good of you! But don't come back here to ask what you should do with your wife on your honeymoon!

LordNapoleon:
You really want to sleep with a girl before you graduate, what if after sleeping with her and you graduate with HIV-AIDS?

in other words he should remain a virgin till death? Instead of you to advise him on how to overcome fear and use protection, you are here adding to his problems!

She has just initiated the baby to the life of olosho

Phew... I've not read a crooked and boring story like this, in a long while.

Pataricatering:
take your kids how ? Their kids not his ! When will you guys learn that women now have rights and you can’t take kids away like your wife has no right to her own kids ?

The kind of equal rights that you wish for, doesn't exist in decent marriage. Better remain single or try babymama style.

Op, I've been in a similar situation, the painful aspect is the audacity with which your wife is carrying on, as if you don't have a say in her life. She's your wife and you must stamp your authority. She either obeys you or leave. There can't be 2 captains in a ship. Don't be surprised that someone close to her e.g her mum, sister or friend is/are the ones encouraging her. By the time you give her the expulsion option, she'll come back to her senses. Remember the only action that warrants divorce from the Bible is Adultery.

Freeman59:
Bro, take a day or two off work, go home send that adulterous woman packing. What rubbish? Did you say she's your wife?

She should go and live that useless life of hers elsewhere.

If you decide to stay on, bro I can assure you that you will die young thinking of all the rubbish she may have done with that guy.

Yes I said it, your wife is cheating. What baffles me more is the confidence with which she confronts you with it.

This is the simple truth.

CaptainJeffry:
This case is delicate and requires maturity when handling. By your actions, you have simply pushed your wife into the arms of that dude.

his wife was more than willing and ready to go into the man's arms. She didn't need any push from her husband, all she needed was the freedom she seems to have gotten now!

fibonacci2526:
Why everybody dey sell their phones?

some people like to taste Egusi, Ogbono, Vegetable soup at once. Just don't mind them o, it's called longer throat

coolebux:
The truth be told
Everything he is achieving now, Messi have already achieved them before him
But Ronaldo's greedy nature will always make him ask for things that are bigger than him.

Even if Real increase his pay, Barca will still increase Messi's.

I get am before, no be property. Right now Ronaldo is world best, and no player is bigger than him. He deserves whatever he's asking for.

duduwest:
He should concentrate on How to play football afterall Madrid help him too to achieve all he achieved

Him go concentrate die? Is he not the best right now? Abeg try talk wetin make sense jare!

cooker:
Are you a cheater?

No he's a Leopard

Joshmodest:
Mercy is just trying to shift blame away form her head and sue the tailor to court...after all dis yeyebrities don enter yawa..d next thing is to blame it on somebody and sue to court..

you sure say you dey follow this story??

anochuko01:
that's too harsh.
simply ask for a refund naa

a refund of what exactly, inconvenience, disappointment, expenses, tears, emotional trauma, deceit, frustration...? How much exactly can make up for all the pains? It's best to sue her sorry ass!

devilmaycry:
mehn....
sowiee bro...

I wonder why some people can't spell simple words correctly SORRY!

@Op, believe me your wife is the type of woman that likes to eat her cake and have it. You probably didn't notice from the onset that she is a cheat by nature. She simply doesn't see anything wrong in sleeping with her ex & you at the same time. She can't change. You either decide to stay & suffer emotionally for ever or get out and suffer the pains for a very short while. I'm speaking from experience!

Jman06:
But you didn't chastise the woman that started it all the way you did above. Remember if she hadn't started cheating first the man wouldn't have reacted the way he did.
Sometimes women take faithful men for granted and cheat on them, this is why some men resort to cheating as a way to keep their women on the defense, because the woman will be fighting hard to keep off his side chicks and have him all for herself and would not have the time to cheat. It is a mind game !

I'm not trying to justify the fact that the man cheated in revenge but all the vituperations you poured on him were uncalled for considering that he was cheated on first.

you really made sense.

RadicalTrump:
fake accounts

just like your moniker

Threebear:
This irrelevant talentless husband snatching prostitute at it again?

when another lady teaches you how to love your husband better, you call her husband snatcher?

jonnytad:
Then it is also wrong for you to work in shell, chevron, agip or evn use 2016 brand Lexus or Toyota.

so pastoring is a job/profession? There is nothing I won't hear from gullible mumus

clevvermind:
So it now a sin for pastors to own private jet? Nonsense.

No, it's not. Infact they should even own airlines. I can see say your mumu never do

Lilmisshy:
It's only PM news I know that like to carry this type of news.

at least the news is different from how politicians are stealing & lying

BornAgainMay:


Please, before we all marry let's be careful of the kind of woman we plan to put at home.

I thought so too, until I got married. Truth is you'd never know a woman completely. They're chameleons by nature! NB : Most of them.

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

which kind hard to decide? Abeg move to someone who can truly love you.

Smellymouth:
We will gradually know the real and fake hustlers.. Finally her source of wealth don dey show face. Be mindful of the people you wish to be like.

But did she steal him and kept him in her wardrobe?
If she leaves him, he will still find another slay mama.

When two adults are involved in consentual act why blame only the lady?
Never underestimate the power of Pussay..

me I don't think there is any power in this pussy o. Otherwise, Maje wouldn't have tossed it aside in the 1st place

Ajengogo:
You were just saved the agony of becoming a chronic drunkard... Cheer up man!

hahahahaha, no be lie

Lilimax:
Na lie. The little girl is his niece

And you are Lai Mohammed's daughter?

costandi:
This one is for those accusing Lilian of dumping Ubi cos he doesn't meet her high standards. There are a lot of untold stories and blurred pictures that we don't know or fully understand, so we should always know that it's not in our place to judge.

which 1 is judge again in this matter so, we should not talk about people who post their lives on social media? Abeg, next time you don't have something reasonable to say just sidon look!

From her actions y'all can tell she gave the man hell while they were married. Most women these days want to be independent, rude, disrespectful, free to bleep other men and still bear Mrs. I swear most of them today are olosho masquerading as wife. You can't eat your cake and have it.

yarimo:
Senator ABARIBE I wish am close to you while making this useless statement on nigeria army, So ABARIBE when you went to bail NNAMDI KANU you don't know he is a terrorist abi? Justice BINTA NYAKO please ABARIBE must produce terrorist NNAMDI KANU before you he likes it or not.

surely if a little bit of this same frustration was expressed on fulani herdsmen, hundreds of innocent Nigerians would've still been alive today. Why spew these much venom on a man that never maimed or killed? If only there were less hypocrites like you, this country would have been better!