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onyekabe:
There is this my brother, he has never been married. But now he said he has seen a woman he wants to marry.

But the problem is that his family members are not in support of the marriage because the woman is a divorcee with 3 kids under the age of 10. The kids live with the woman.

The question is, is it wise for this man to marry this woman and take responsibility of the kids because the woman says her kids must be with her.

No don't try it, are you a young man? If you are, then it is risky because you may end up not having your own Children but train the children of another man. The end result tomorrow might be a terrible disaster. Please, get yourself another woman because this interest of yours to marry a divorcee with 3 little children might not be ordinary.

If they are serious, they will find their way without Saraki because he is scheming for his personal benefit.

Hybrid600:
See the chat in earlier thread here https://www.nairaland.com/4595471/chat-between-mom-whose-child



http://www.fox2detroit.com/news/local-news/michigan-store-manager-fired-for-callous-texts-denying-mom-time-off-to-be-with-son-on-life-support

Thank God, those that condemned her can see that this is Nigeria where we are not wanted to exist in. Pleased to know that it happen in a sane country where their children are the key for tomorrow and treated with absolute care and not Nigeria where her children are not recognised and not wanted for existence.

Mr Olawore is a dubious man and a scammer, for given a fake cheque and asking the police that is only powerful when it comes to civilians to beat the man is not right. Mr Olawore should be arrested and cursed. SARS must go.

Nigeria is a sorry sight, President Macron should be shown the port.

We should ask the governor which of the cemeteries he buried the money to build the school or show us the mansion he bought in Dubai so that it can be auctioned and use the money for block school buildings. Nigerian governors are vampires.

It is very sad the Fulani's are forcefully grabbing peoples land which i see as stealing. How can someone say, giving land is better than dying, so they are intentionally killing owners of the land so that they will run and leave their villages for them. Mr Buhari, you are not being fare, and i think presidency does not think before talking and don't weigh what they say. These days the presidency dares Nigerians. What can they do? Nothing.
It is sickening to know that our tormentors are foreigners and yet, the president is telling them to kill none Fulani's while he pretends not to understand what is happening. How can one suffer to plant crops and you tell your people to take their cows to the farms and destroy their crops, i think is total wickedness.

That is another opening for the children of the politicians, pass or fail.

He wished they die in Maiduguri so that police will pay their families stipends so that he will pocket the rest for more mansions in Dubai. How can Buhari retire 21 qualified AIGS for this man, we can now see why we are recordings mistakes here and there in this government because the president is employing his families that knows little to nothing. If only the South will stop playing the second fiddle who only does the job for the man at the top.

obaataaokpaewu:
A good man that appointed a thief is no "good" man
Quick one, if they said that Army are getting their own allowance, what is so special about Police allowance that they have to wait for budget to be passed first

Don't forget the soldiers in Kano, Kaduna or Maiduguri also protested for same none payment of allowances and the agos at the dismissed them with reasons that military does not protest and they called it mutiny. Our able lawyer of the down trodden fought their case and won, but not before a woman amongst them died from no medical care. Our leaders are simply wicked. Well, if senior police officers that were qualified could be retired for Idris to become IG, then he can do what pleases him because he now dictate the pace for the president. Idris could have also bought mansions in Dubai with the officers allowances like his brother. What a shame.

Funny enough Pa Ango, just thought of you two days ago that i have not read about you in a while. I must say i'm shocked at your visit to the south because you never saw or said anything the way it should but only to down play the south in favour of the north always. I would have thought you have perfected the breakup as you said the north was ready for the breakup. I miss Pa Junaid, Pa Balarabe and one other Muslim cleric pa, they say things as is, not minding where they are from, they don't take sides. I remember you all sirs. Well, i still don't trust Pa Ango. My opinion does not matter though.

MadeInTokyo:
Buhari is now on his own
Buhari is a political orphan

I don't trust pa Ango.

Who are the culprit, are you saying he should with his family members the he id defending? I'm really surprised that he had identified these people as Libyans. yet, he is sending his family security operatives to protect them. I think president is happy with the massacre.

salford1:
What is the proof though. Seems rugged man has some personal beef with SARs. If SARs are disbanded, what do you replace them with, Soldiers?

From my experience, all forces personal with guns are no different from SARs. It would be nice to also present alternatives when people call for them to be disbanded.

Before SARS was created for maximum collection of money on the road, did we not have sanity, or how many armed robbers have they personally cut without having people calling them to it?

Don't blame them because your pay masters knows that Nigeria is a bribe taken country of which DANA can pay those shameless Nigerians at any of the borders to pass substandard goods. Asides Japanese, other Asians countries are known for fake products to Nigeria. If a business man says produce like this, can't you people say no, we have standard. Imagine ordinary umbrella, we have to ask people abroad to buy for us because the Chinese have substandard specification for Nigeria. DANA, bear it until you purge yourself over the rice. If it has no health hazards people will not talk. I think Nigerians are getting wiser even in the face of hunger.

Hofbrauhaus:
Good

No group has monopoly of violence..You kill my people, I kill your people. Since SaiBaba wants to wipe out all the christains in Nigeria, we must resist him...

Not only Christians, Moslems and all none fulani tribes they are killing.
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tempest01:
My take is that the Niger Delta youth should not the drawn to this. When they finish in the middle belt , they will most likel The y move to the south west.


Let the middle belt and the south west identify the problem and then request the SE and SS to join them in defiance. They brought in the nepotistic government of the day. And are likely to vote them in again.

Are you sure Niger Delta is not part of their plan?

You may have to stay for years at home because Chevron, Shell are no longer doing the best practice slogan we use to know because the Nigerian politicians have high jacked them and dictate to them who they should employ by sending their children, families, friends and concubines for employment pass or fail, all for contract favours, what a shame, international organisation indeed. Nestle, do you know anybody who knows anybody there? You will be disappointed for Dangote because it carries only name because theirs is a little above FG salary at entry level 8. What makes you think you will earn 300k or no job, you may have to grow grey hairs while waiting. Maybe you already have politician/s, military, rich people, business associates of the said three companies and not by merit. If you have good result Dangote may consider you for their level 8, shocking you may say. An Indian calls the shorts in Dangote so it is a slave driver style. Good lock my dear girl while job hunting. This is Nigeria.

kolawoleibukun2:
the vice president is a pastor. he sits down there and watch christians get butchered. the vice president and oyedepo na paddy paddy. all them sit down there. Yemi Osinbajo get church inside aso rock. he sits down becos of his position way e no won lose and keep quiet for christians to be massacred by muslims. this is not a war against herdsmen. it is muslims killing christians.
you see the imam way save christians from being killed? if to say na ghadaffi boys why dem no kill that imam? is the imam also a part of them? is he from libya? i am not sayign all muslims are bad but the religion is rooted in evil. it is a religion of kill.
i don study dem deep all they want is kill in the name of allah. the religion reserves a reward for killers who commit evil in the name of allah. they are insidious.
some muslims good but the worst muslim na that silent bystander. he go just lock up. say nothing. just sit down like dove. but in his heart he believes that a spiritual justice has been served to the victim.
aisha buhari, a mother way carry her own children for 9 months sit down innocent children and fellow mothers like her are massacred. she did not hold one single address. this is a woman that all women look up to as the number one woman in the country. that is the role model for my daughter. abi?
when patience jonathan hold her conference everybody take am do laughing stock. even aisha buhari day laugh when dem day mock mama peace. e don reach her turn. why she no hold conference to address this issue using her office.
they tell us she has no office but she was the first one in the family to assume the office in aso rock.
she no get office but she makes international trips to muslim countries. to represent us or herself? who pays for the trips?
buhari has not eve held a briefing to address nigerians. let us know what he feels. no briefing. but these killing will never stop the senate from celebrating and partying. no one loses a sleep.
dem say obi ezekwesili is silly. charly boy is silly. so far so good the way things day go very soon the cleansing go reach our make we all see as e day be. as we all keep quiet day live our lives day go when people are dying.

redeemers should be held responsible. their pastor is a vice president. the blood of those Christians who also voted for buhari hoping that hey were voting in a redeemer pastor day upon osinbajo and adeboye head.
i no see the reason why a pastor go see all these things. instead crying out the way dora akunyili did. he day protect him money. he won carry the money go heaven? osinbajo wife still day busy day tie aisha igele when women and innocent children are dying.
with her long nose like Pinocchio. dem day form class. class no day in time of crisis and war. throway class for corner people are dying/ wicked women and their heartless husbands and pastors.

Allow Aisha enjoy herself i beg, she don Looby her way get United Nation job so Nigeria don small for ram.

TissuePaper:
He had better go check himself for internal injuries

Yes, you are right.

Activist indeed, hypocrite.

Sowore is.

dre11:
[b]…say, we will unveil youths’ candidate in Abuja soon





http://thenationonlineng.net/2019-youths-commence-moves-to-unseat-buhari/

Just hope people are sincerely serious because their are some old people who are ready to vote for the youth. At lest, so far, is only Sowore that we know and that's the person we are campaigning for.

I was beginning to think our colonial masters is deliberately allowing the Fulani to kill everybody in Nigeria before they give voice to the massacre in Nigeria being their favourite tribes. In fact, the British should come out sincerely and tell the would who are the Fulani's and where they are from and they should not be coward about it.

They will continue to take false action while looking the other way for the killing to stop. They will stop the escalation after they have supported to massacre innocent people. I wonder what the military will do when other country overrun Nigeria. Meanwhile, they are busy planning to overrun Nigeria for somebody's selfish ends.

Mr Sanni you are very right because the same people in government will steal all the money again through giving all the names of their family.

doctokwus:
Which root of which matter?
This is just scholarship.
When secret recruitments in CBN,NNPC,FIRS and many other parastatals and agencies,of government officials sons,daughters,relations and even girlfriends and concubines were exposed,what did Nigerians do?After some noises in social media,everyone forgot about it and life went on!
The havoc this government would cause as Nigerians are literarily allowing it to get away with all kinds of frauds,corrupt acts,misgovernance and blood letting,is probably still in Genesis.
If we don't rise up to say enough is enough and boot it out,now or at the elections,we would then get to Revelations.

After seven months also, DPR is not been heard of, it must have been secretly done too. The north, elites and politicians are employing their children, pass or fail. These group of people are destroying the country. Keyamo who sold his soul for pudding will say the president does not know what is happening, if only he knew, is an insult to the president who he say does know what is happening in his domain.

Premium times, they always say this confidently without because they have people backing them. Just because Ciroma is denying does mean he did not say so. I will stop reading premium times in protest for sacking the innocent man who reported right. I did not hesitate in removing premium times from my book mark.

While he is stealing we should be praying for him to see more to steal, ole, is it about prayer, is about using the money you are stealing to help the down trodden. See how bloated he is now. With all he has amassed, what has he done for the industry that he came? If he shot any film, asked how much does he pay none celebrities? They says some 5k, 7k, 10k and or work for free to expose their face he says. Does he pray before stealing. He is replicating what Richard Mofe Damijo did who asked up coming comedians to come for competitions and they were never paid their prizes yet he got the money out from Delta state government. Thieves.

PrettyCrystal:
A man has reportedly revealed why he ran away from his marriage. According to him, he tied the knot when he was 25-years-old and was a victim of domestic violence by his wife who always beat him because of her big size. He claimed the last straw that broke the camel's back was when she sat on top of him for almost 20 minutes which made him to faint in the process, he had to abandon the marriage.

Below is what media outlet, Human of Abuja shared online;

" I got married when I was 25 years old but I couldn't stay in the marriage. The woman I got married to was way bigger than I was so she used to hit me. I could not retaliate because I was scared of her. One time, she sat on top of me for close to 20 minutes and I fainted. That was the day I ran away from my house. I left the house for her and I never went back".

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/06/i-left-my-marriage-after-my-wife-sat-on-me-and-i-fainted-man-reveals-photo.html

You very well did the right thing, no one should die carelessly because of husband or wife. God will give you someone who will see you as her husband and respect you.

Shameless stealing leaders.

Mr president is very comfortable with all the killing believing that when the killings continues none fulani will succumbs to his Islamic agenda.