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hollawaley2:
so boring as fuvck!

Lol ....... Even the guy asking the question sef. His name should be 'Boring'.

pp802:
She cheated, which is very wrong. Now he embarrassed her publicly. The truth is, he has also shared in the embarrassment and shame. The stigma is also on him! It should have been sorted out privately.
For God sake, she's your wife......your better half, your body! There are ways to handle this maturedly without calling attention!
Malhandling her and exposing her bra publicly is uncalled for!
I'm not supporting her, but I feel something caused by her husband, led her to infidelity. Maybe there are things he's not doing right.

I wholeheartedly agree he shouldn't have gone this far and had ridiculed himself alongside her. He should have shown maturity in handling it. In essence, what he wants world to know is the reason he may not be with her anymore but this event has removed all the 'may'. He lost her by being brash but then who knows how it feels like to be in his shoes? What I know for certain is that that relationship is burnt and should he attempt reconciliation after disgracing her like this, he should as well get a coffin. Worse situations have been better managed with a better outcome but this........ Hmm mm, either way is end of the road for them.

Can't just imagine myself not belonging to the body of Christ. The sweetest ever. Best decision ever is being there. Welcome all.

CaptainJeffry:
I guess she's a sinner-muslim

Hahaha haha........you killed me oooooo

Would have been surprised if that raghead has said something different. Not disappointed.

Well, having read this, I see no cause for alarm. Akintola too has head, so also his disciples or cotravellers. As long as my head no dey involved, magana yakare. Their heads, their problems.

mikolo80:
fela was comfortable in only pant should he be allowed

This cracked me ooo ooo..... Hahahahaa

She had this thought out before the day and I wouldn't be surprised if she's not alone in this. She was flying the kite. All these other ones of 'it doesn't matter', 'my daughter was called to bar in hijab' are nothing but hogwash. Rules are rule and must be obeyed. Osun state or is it site of Osun has it been the same since that nonsense we toyed with and someone who ought to know has just demonstrated literacy without education. Shioor!

Heart of gold runs in that family. So comforting to know some people still care for others.

okooloyun1:
The woman should warn her husband not the lady, if I am d lady in question I will get the woman pictures also and do the same.

Oh yes! She should do that also. The wife has taken this too far na. Now, the side chick go kukuma press to be the main chick. No need to hide anymore.

Melvinsofty:
u slapped an innocent person threatened her also...menn there is no law in this country the foooool still feel very big to post it on social media

Enjoyed every bit but that brutality against the innocent girl irked me no be small. His rating dropped when I got to that line.

Love no be by force. The idiot should also be killed to rid this world of evil. He and his like are evil raised to power ten.

Impressive!

Politicians no dey stay around when God dey distribute shame.

The party NO people don't understand is what baffles me. She resisted your incestuous advances but you didn't repent. Now, she you dey shack where you dey now? Guys should understand its their bodies and if or when they say NO, work by that and not assume things. Yes, I mean even at the introitus!!!

I feel sad for this country after reading this nonsense coming from presidency. They have come to the conclusion 'no shaking' whatever they dish to us. It's unfortunate we have found ourselves in the hands of charlatans masqueraded as being on messianic mission in 2015. They brazenly lie to us and they know we can do nothing. Hmm mm, God, pls deliver us.

Na away! Looks like robbery to me jare. Why not allow the fight end properly? Anointed one I guess.

Savage!

raker300:
Who else notices that it's always the northerners that are drumming up the war cry?

Biafra is mentioned, north wants war
ND is mentioned, north wants war
Middle belt don't want arewa, north wants war

What is giving these folks this level of guts

You blame them? They believe they hold the security apparatuses. False sense I dare say too.

ggoldmine:
why do you ask? I don't think the religion is necessary in this counsel. Also, he hasn't said the HOD thinks less of him. I think because they are of the same religion, he feels more comfortable sending him on such errands as buying food and the rest.

@Op, just be yourself and stop trying to please anyone, you'll be much happier that way. Relate with them as you would with people from your tribe; greet, be friendly and nice... just be you. Believe me, if you met people from same tribe as you, you might act same.

You just said my mind. Great advice there. Kudos.

Nothing like 'good relationship' with any wild beast. Quite unfortunate.

Wondering what his madness could be called.

OmoAtlanta:
No married woman will give an honest answer because she doesn't want her hubby to be dated, even if she ones dated a married man.

No excuse but alot of factors

1. poverty, how many parents can afford pads for their adult females. many can't even feed them.

2. bad economy, many work are dominated by men and if a lady go to look for job.... the men take advantage

3. immaturity of single guys... you know why ladies call most men adult babies, they share the smallest of secrets

4. marriageable ladies are more than men, they become desperate

5. the wannabe, ladies love material things. they want to flaunt and make jest of their friends. only married men can provide for frivolities

6. some ladies believes they should enjoy before getting married, so they just have fun and lock up after marriage

Forget about karma these karma that, alot of married women who never dated married can testify. their husbands are chasing other ladies.

the truth is, these are things we don't have power over. No matter what we do, it will never stop.

Well thought out indeed.

nextstep:
Pre-selection. I'm going to get scientific here.

Pre-selection is a theory that states that females are attracted to males who other females are already attracted to. You see it in birds, lions, humans.

The evolutionary advantage is that: men can fake success, but the presence of other women in a man's life means the chances of the success being real, is, well, more real. Success means the man has access to material wealth and social capital, which increase her chances of survival (particularly if she was to get pregnant; also ensures her ability to pass on those same strong genes into her offspring). She's got nothing to gain by being with a man other women don't want (which strongly correlates with being poor, unhealthy, unfit).

This is why only the strongest, fittest, healthiest males in the animal kingdom get all the girls, and the others are left to steal p*ssy here and there.

Even in this modern society, certain boxes get checked in a woman's subconscious mind when she sees married men with children. He has enough to take care of his loved ones, and some of that can extend to her. It's not her fault, you see, but her genes.

It's also quite practical... how many struggling men can give her what she needs? The only advantage of a young man today is he has energy and free time. Otherwise he is not as mature, wise, calm, gentle, experienced, resourceful, wealthy, or well connected as the older man he will become. As time goes on, the young man will transition into an older man, and acquire these traits through hard work, intelligence, and persistence.

As an aside, an older, poor unmarried man probably has less drive, ambition, or even luck, and would thus be much less attractive.

Very scientific, factual. Very intellectual!

goingape1:
it only happens in Naija!

Naija ladies are gorilla in nature so you won't blame them! they always go for the ripe bananas.

Wrong assumption. Ever watched golddiggers? It's universal.

And this is what 'sexy' is in Uganda? Hmmmm

Abudu2000:
Op in 2017 u need more than just Instagram comments to backup your story. The fact that people are commenting on an unverified news doesn't mean we should believe that...

God gave you brain and you are using it jare.

They just can't stop disgracing themselves and not this country by wild, unsubstantiated,spurious allegations. Now if tact is not employed, relationship between the two nation's would quickly go south just because some people talk first and reason after. Shioor

That a man slept with you or rather you slept with each other doesn't mean it has to result in pregnancy. However, this possibility and others like infections etc should have been thought about when you both decided to have a go at it and efforts made to prevent undesirable outcome.

Every relationship has its ups and downs. Relationships involve great work and till date, none is perfect. This is the moment you have to be truthful to yourself. There are certain things or situations one can overlook, forgive and move on. Is this one for you? If your answer is NO, then I'd advise you let her go. All those other options you stated there would bring you regrets for the rest of your life. Take it easy.

infogenius:
Another foolish father in the making.

This kind of man has his balls doing his thinking for him.

Quite correct. The guy is so stupid and an ass for a husband. See how he bad-mouthed his wife, the one he said 'I do' to, the one he promised to cherish, love and to hold? What exactly was he looking for?. She's ex and that should be it. I love the way the babe give am thunder! What a man!!! Even if she's bad, you are not supposed to expose her, howbeit this much and to who? An ex? Toor. Who told him this his so cherished ex couldn't have turned out the way his wife did? If she was this way he described her abinitio, would he have married her? What happened is change and it can happen to anyone. Very reactive person.

PointB:
Don't you think you should change your moniker? It's great irony when juxtaposed with your mindset.

I tell you. That moniker doesn't sit well with that kind if mentality. It is gross abberation.