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HealthRe: Bauchi: Illegal Abortions Responsible For Mysterious Deaths In Azare by Cityguy: 11:42pm On May 30, 2020
MightySparrow:
result of 'illegal' jabbing of girls under hijab, burkha, and ba ashiga. The spirits of the children deprived of their destinies are angry.
Hahahaha........no be small thing. Who go bliv say e dey sweet them like that with that pseudopiety? Jabbing so they 200 dey die from abortion!
RomanceRe: Lady Slaps Her Husband, Pours Soup On Him For Going Out With Side Chic by Cityguy: 11:30pm On May 30, 2020
This one is challenging her chi, telling her husband to 'meet me at home'. I would not kill you buy mehn, she would wish she never raised her hands in the first place. Rude and uncultured. Who even told her her husband can't go out with another woman when 'she us alive'?. Lubbush. Hahahaha......that man I see in that video is a rattle snake that has had its tail stepped on. Watch out for stories of black eyes and bruises soon. That was gross disrespect na.
RomanceRe: Hijab Doesn't Stop Sexual Harrassment- Muslim Lady Cries Out by Cityguy: 11:18pm On May 30, 2020
Top notch hypocrites dem are.
BusinessRe: Nigerians To Pay Stamp Duty On ATM Printouts, Some Whatsapp Messages - FIRS by Cityguy: 11:14pm On May 30, 2020
OK na. Let them tax calls acknowledging receipt too. Iranu abasha. These guys at this rate would soon ask us to pay duties for using the loo. All they want to do is tighten the noose around people's necks until they drop dead!
CelebritiesRe: Simi And Adekunle Gold Welcome Baby In US by Cityguy: 11:09pm On May 30, 2020
'Orinwole'. A good name too. Tot they even stopped this citizenship through birth stuff. So why travel there for birth? Finally, the photoshop no good at all, why her head come big like that in that shown pix?
PoliticsRe: FFK: Osinbajo Appointed Chairman "Use The Toilet Committee Of Nigeria" by Cityguy: 9:29pm On May 30, 2020
But is it true that they made the VP chairman of use the toilet (also refereed to here as 'shitty' matters) committee? Didn't read that anywhere else na
RomanceRe: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Cityguy: 12:26pm On May 26, 2020
dingbang:
I just doubt she will remain faithful because she is sexually active and will collect dk from outside.
Habaaa!!!
RomanceRe: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Cityguy: 11:00am On May 25, 2020
Renida:
Women like men looking stupeed. Don't give up. Look for her friends or families and speak to them. Do not speak to her directly, it won't work. Plus give her two weeks or more to reflect like 4 weeks.


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She is not stupid anything. She is hurt and perhaps seen it that this guy seemed to care more about money than her. For one, we dont know if the said 'policeman' at the bank contacted her, harassed and embarrassed her. That part is missing. Secondly, did you read where Op himself said he was not picking her calls because he felt she was up to something? He IGNORED her then and here she is, pained and you feel that is stupidity? It's not pls. Like you advised, he should give her time and reach her through proxies. You never can tell, she may soften. Next time, we should lean to give people benefit of doubt.
HealthRe: I'm Ready To Sue One Of The Biggest Private Hospital In Lagos by Cityguy: 10:39am On May 25, 2020
mrkings84:
What happened?
Why do u want to sue?
Important
HealthRe: I'm Ready To Sue One Of The Biggest Private Hospital In Lagos by Cityguy: 10:38am On May 25, 2020
Sue but what's going to be your charge?
Christianity EtcRe: Should Christians Share In Muslim IFTAR Meals? by Cityguy: 10:32am On May 25, 2020
We used to exchange greetings and food at celebrations with my neighbors. However, last year, one of the wives told us their Imam told them our food was haram and that after then, whenever we gave food to them at celebrations, they would just collect and throw away. Since then, all those special greetings and exchange stopped. I no get food to waste. We are still relating ooooo.
RomanceRe: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by Cityguy: 9:15am On May 25, 2020
abbasajao:
Only God knows number of relationships Nairalander comments have scattered.
I tell you. Only few come ts here should be taken seriously. Some just talk out of their imaginations. How can people generalise that undergrads are unfit for marriage? I tire sef.
FamilyRe: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Cityguy: 2:02pm On May 24, 2020
Upworkwriter007:
If your husband/wife cheats on you, then part ways. If you can't part ways, resolve it anyway u can. I feel like all these discussions ain't necessary.
Exactly. Forget about all these bones things. Your placenta was never tied to any other persons. If you can't stand a relationship, platonic or otherwise, wisdom dictates for soundness of mind and peace that you AVOID. You have no right to kill anybody by yourself for cheating. Dem no write your name for hin dick abeg.
FamilyRe: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Cityguy: 2:00pm On May 24, 2020
Eulalia:
The best is to.marry in the Lord and save yoursself all these stress. I mean a regenerated born again man and woman of God. not just any pretender forming born again because he/ she wants to get married.

Shalom.
You can't determine pretence of his/ her salvation from the start. It is a matter of hindsight. We see 'firebrands' (by man's standard), even dem GOs with such issues. So long we refuse to admit our frailties and recognise we can only TRY to meet up, we would always find ourselves disappointed when things like this happen.
CareerRe: My 50-Year-Old Boss Shows Massive Cleavage Whenver We Meet, What Could She Want? by Cityguy: 1:39am On May 22, 2020
Lol. Op, all this for only you! Started sex talk on way home and her husband addiction? Resumed second day and she has started to appear to leave 'massive cleavage anytime around you'? Fantastic! Lucky you oooo but then to answer your your question ' what could she want?' Even a primary 3 student know answer to that given events you recounted. Be careful sha oooo, express dey front.
FamilyRe: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Cityguy: 1:17am On May 22, 2020
Emperor4tune:
if she has not given u any child my guy move on & forget about her.wetin be woman where u dey worry anyhow
Bros, e never reach this. People, especially can say anything when in that mood. Remember too he has one good thing the ex may not have- ability to yansh her scatterly.
FamilyRe: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Cityguy: 1:14am On May 22, 2020
DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.
No one would be himself after hearing such below the belt punches. You are a strong man. It is enough to make one look for sniper. However, be calm. This is the time for the ex's change. Yours is coming too. It's patience you need. She is the greatest loser in all of this. She paid evil for good someone did her and you're also reaping a bit cos you used sex to 'reformat' her brain back then stealthily. Tou knew she had someone. We all can see now that it takes more than 'iiiii..,....oooooo......asssshhhi' to keep it all together. In.all, ka sa maa dupe.
FamilyRe: Man Catches His Wife In A Hotel With Man, Says "I Have The Right To Kill You" by Cityguy: 1:03am On May 22, 2020
Oga, you've got no fucking right to kill nobody cos you caught your wife with the person. You can't be the accuser, the judge and executioner in your matter in a sane society. If your wife likes, she may say she is tired of staying with your ass and you ain't gonna do no shit about that!
AutosRe: Tokunboh 2010 Black Volkswagen Routan Se Space Bus by Cityguy: 7:55am On May 21, 2020
Morning. How much is it?
CelebritiesRe: Emeka Ike Blasts Suzanne Emma, His Ex Wife (Video) by Cityguy: 9:35am On May 14, 2020
I nor know Emeka Ike, na Emeka Plastic I sabi.
RomanceRe: I Would Have Spent All My Money On This Girl by Cityguy: 9:33am On May 14, 2020
Ladikwa:
I thought she loved me not knowing that she was just after my money. But I was not able to spend much because I am broke for now, but I have a land I am in the process of selling to start a business which she didn't know, because I didn't tell her cause I don't trust her that much.

Well we broke up because she has a guy that is the main boyfriend, without me Knowing thinking I was number one.

I just look back and imagine how much this girl will have chop from me. Though I love her and am hurt after the breakup, but I'm grateful that all the amount of money I would have love to spend on her, to show my love I can use it build my business and help those around me.

And it taught me how not to trust girls 100%, and to be very careful about loving while using my head. If she knew about the land I wanted to sell she would have continued pretending to love me.

"Guys be careful, don't trust these girls 100%"
My guy, you are still hurting. Don't worry, this phase shall pass but all this talk about 100%, girls trust etc, you don't need that. Na situation make you dey yarn all that. When you find love, all those material things don't matter anymore and if you do better than when she was with you, you wouldn't even remember what you spent. Ndooo, after the storm comes calmness.
PoliticsRe: Kaduna Realises N1.9m From Lockdown Violators In 2 Days by Cityguy: 5:16pm On May 12, 2020
xreal:
Another means of IGR


This will make the lockdown to be extended.
You see them gloating over this. They now feel it is a revenue generation drive. Nigeria, hmmmm, ur problem set tire ppl.
EducationRe: Afe Babalola: How FG Can Reopen Schools, Universities Within Four Weeks by Cityguy: 5:14pm On May 12, 2020
greall12:
Keep your advice.
The guy dey see as reserves dey plummet daily grin. School can wait, life has no duplicate. They are just coming from different directions all because of their selfish interests.
TravelRe: 30 Northern Youths Hiding Behind Baskets Of Pepper Inside Trailer Caught In Ogun by Cityguy: 5:11pm On May 12, 2020
MetaPhysical:
For every truck intercepted and found with hidden persons sneaking Southward, I wonder how many trucks make it through undetected and what their number of successfully smuggled migrants might mean for South in few months to come.
One is surprised given the fact that there are supposed checkpoints along the way. The security structure is compromised. Even a cursory look at all these detections would show that they are mostly by state run apparatuses. There's more to it than meets the eyes.
TravelRe: Bayelsa Intercepts Two Busload Of Almajiris by Cityguy: 5:04pm On May 12, 2020
LibertyRep:
What's with this attempt at smuggling the Almajiris down South lately?

The Southern leaders should jettison party affiliation and take tough measures against this nonsense now.
They want to abdicate responsibility and shift their problems which they created down south.
TravelRe: Bayelsa Intercepts Two Busload Of Almajiris by Cityguy: 5:03pm On May 12, 2020
Sonoyom:
Remain in your Region
I don't know why they are hellbent on infecting and infesting south with their menace. When they yansh themselves with reckless abandon, who dem call? Abi dem think say na only them sabi fire down? Now they think the best thing is to ship their wahala to ppl who control their libidinal excesses which ordinarily, God in His wisdom gave every reasonable person ability to exercise over. Send them back mbok!
TravelRe: Abike Dabiri-Erewa: Chinese Don’t Want Africans In China by Cityguy: 11:25pm On May 11, 2020
LibertyRep:
Then Nigeria Government and indeed Africa should return the favor
Abi oooo. What is difficult in that?
FamilyRe: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Cityguy: 11:23pm On May 11, 2020
gamapoy539:
She has a crush on one of your neighbours who might have been eating her work behind your back and probably the real father of the child. and she is mad at you cos you didn't appreciate him enough for a job well done. Use your brain; if your neighbours are all women, her reaction wouldn't be the same.
Better run a DNA test on that child ASAP.


Modified: To the angry and inconsequential homo sapiens quoting me, have you all eaten today?
Hahahaha.....NL! The land of oroshirishi grin. This made me laugh. Had to read it more than once to habituate.
Op, in the light of wisdom quoted above oooo, whatever you tell her, don't ever tell her to do her worst oooo oooo....ehn ehn!
PoliticsRe: COVID-19, Kogi: Sagay Advises FG To Send NCDC Officials Back With Full Security by Cityguy: 11:13pm On May 11, 2020
RomanceRe: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by Cityguy: 11:11pm On May 11, 2020
fineboynl:
If you have dated a big girl before you will easily relate with this. Big girls is my term of the opposite of a big boy and not oloshos or Gold-diggers.

Here are my experience. I have dated a girl that has so many girls she called her children. she help them alot, like securing a job from her contact and as well as writing the application letters herself for them and arranging the cv.

She called me always and never flashed and it's calls that runs into hours per day. I will even get tired and tried cutting the calls to discharge her.

I and some of my friend dated girls of this trait. It's not that they have so much money but they have a niche for themselves. They do anty to your younger ones or girls around by taking them out or buying them stuff. Your family developed a feeling that this girl doesn't want anything from you.

They will never allow you spend any money on them, they come to your house with cab. They will never follow you to a gathering where your friends spend money only on drinks and foods. And if it happens by accident they will pass the money to you to at least pay some of the bills.
She doesn't like going out while others pay for her drinks.

They never collect transport or any money from you.
Kini koko of this rendition?
EducationRe: FG Warns Vice-Chancellors Against Reopening Universities by Cityguy: 11:09pm On May 11, 2020
Is any one contemplating that?
CrimeRe: #JusticeForJennifer: 18-Year-Old Jennifer Gang-Raped By 5 Boys In Narayi Kaduna by Cityguy: 11:07pm On May 11, 2020
Everyone is condemning them here now. Those that raped her didn't come from space. Some of them could have typed similar comments of condemnation in the past. These are possibly young guys who would be livid calling old men haggard and perverts upandan. Is this not perversion? Is this not shameful and barbaric? It's a shame how hypocritical we lot are. Rape is about betrayal of trust and should be condemned, severely punished as well. Such cases unfortunately end up being swept under the carpet with the victim living the rest of her life scarred. I pray she gets justice.
N.B Why would what rapists enjoy in the process be a concern to anyone? I pray this doesn't get anyone inquisitive enough to want to 'experiment'. If a cliche, abeg it has lost its taste jare.

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