₦airaland Forum

Aareona:
Earlier this year, I went back in time to few years back when I was doing so well in Nigeria. The noises from friends and all nurtured the decision to move abroad inside of me. I became so restless till I finally leave. The first day in Canada was the day I knew this place isn't where I can be forever. Most of us would have come back before the time we had in mind except for the fact that I don't still have enough. If I want to travel to naija for vacation now, I will need up to $4k. If I take that away from my savings, I don't know how I can recover.

No one tells about the downside of this place. I feel lonely, depressed and empty most times. Because no one to talk to, just everyone in my workplace goin about their business. If I make attempt to talk to them, they just waive it with a smile. It's been 3years here and the people I still talk to on video call are friends from Nigeria. It's been 3years and my savings is still Short of $20k despite how much my friends in Nigeria do tell me how easy it is for me to make money abroad but I never tell them my situation. I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good. I know a lot will come at me with the usuall "come back to Nigeria na", please this is not an attempt to denigrate your abroad heaven, just for me to rant out and be fine

I think most Nigerians abroad are only there because Nigeria economy isn't good.

In fact, most would have come back home if the country it good.

The loneliness abroad isn't for the faint hearted. You've to be mentally strong to live in some places abroad especially where there are few numbers of blacks. In most cases, everyone minds their businesses including the blacks that one would think should be friends with you.

Leaving friends and family behind for greener pasture is not easy.

You'll be fine.

Reminderz:
olosho dey most of these girls mind these days ... 99% of them will cheat for that amount even lesser...

The money too much sef for some

Everybody has a price..

benqo01:
Oh u think say Spain go win? Dem give Dem 1.14 odd na so we carry Argentina and Germany ticket burn

I don carry am omo 24 odd

How far?

benqo01:
WC is a shocker more to come infact Costa Rica will be winning

If e sure for you, stake ahm

how can she claim she lost that such weight within a short period of time ? make it make sense to me

And that new body is not a gym body looking at the arms

ShoeWorld2:
Teni use to be a fine girl with nice body structure...
It's possible that she lost weight without surgery but you know we're humans and we're always against what we don't understand instead of seeking for knowledge.


I sell beautiful sneakers at affordable prices

Peterobi90:
Alright.. this ship has sailed..

Can't he still join him ?

I think he would have been a better pair

Abbeytoy:
You don't need to agree with me, but those are the best politicians we have right now

Tell me the quality your preferred candidate have better than Wike? And aside old age, Tinubu is better than them all

Baawaa:
Eleyi,you are mad which road do you constructed

I will keep saying it that until we have execution order for corrupt politicians, Nigeria will keep having people like this that have nothing to offer in politics.

Moh247:
Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good...
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Some women might be dangerous when they find out things like this... they might end everything including the man.

JASONjnr:
Let him do fact check on Tinubu's name, age and academics first....

All he does is push irrelevant topics that's against Peter Obi to the front page.

All their fast check here is to balance the equation whenever their principal f up...

He can't do fastcheck on their principal, na "slowcheck" they go do.

They want to de-market Peter Obi so bad for baba blue

NotKnown:
Lol see what our mods have resorted to.

Just look at the one just above me

How come whenever Mr agbado the white powder sniffing dealer has something you need to fact check you do eyes right and look the other way?

Have you fact checked BATman's fake Chicago certificate he got from pinterest or the fact that he's using someone else's identity?

Una go chop corn tire.

Cry me a river Nigeria must be great next year.

You get!!!

Just so that can balance the equation...

ebenhealth:
he is old, yes. He has dementia, agreed, as long as he is still smarter than Obi, Atiku and you, we his supporters will still vote for him

Lol... I can see he's smarter than you not me...

Anyways, we shall see.
At least, you and your household will share in it if he wins.

Some of us aren't in Nigeria. We will continue praying for you guys

Okoroawusa:
This is why I will be voting for Bola Ahmed Tinubu in February of 2023

Lol ..
Make I no talk...
Is this Tinubu's project?

You want to vote someone that's dementia.

Tinubu is old. This isn't me trying to paint him black.

We've seen videos where this man dey yarn okotomeow meow

He should go and rest... he's money and power already.

We shouldn't put our future and that of our innocent children in disarray because we want our "person" at the helm of affair.

Osinbajo would have been a better option for APC but due to selfish interest of Tinubu.

Even though, I don't support what he did but the lady didn't act well. She should have ordered using her sense. Probably, the guy had given her the impression of a rich guy

Konjiboii:
The rule of splitting the bills dictates you should tell the other person in time before the date. In your case if you both had that discussion before hand and she still chose to act dumb then you did well my young Padawan. And if you invited her out without stating going dutch but pulled this then that's a bitch move, not what a true alpha or RP will do

but from what he (Soludo) said, what exactly did he say his crime was/is ?

There's no allegation against him whatsoever

N3TRAL:
If Soludo had supported Peter Obi, Frank Edoho would argue that he is supporting Obi because of Obi's competence. Competence when defined in democratic parlance is largely subjective and the Ex-CBN Boss classifies the Labour Party candidate as incompetent.
Frank Edoho, who falls within the "exposed and educated" spectrum is advocating that Peter Obi deserves Soludo's support because he is Igbo.

That is the reality of the "Saint" Peter Obi project.

Let's face it. The last time an Igbo person led Nigeria, more than half of Nigeria's population were not born. Igbos are humans too. They have feelings. They also want to produce a Nigerian leader even though the bulk of them go about screaming that an Igbo President won't make them richer or poorer .

It is the thought of decades of political subjugation that fuels the fire burning in the heart of most Igbo people to fight for the control of Aso Rock. Predominant in 5 of 37 States, the most crucial concern for political analysts and statisticians is how this populous ethnic group can install a leader they've chosen without the support of others in an ethnically diversed democracy as ours.

famouscargo4u:
How low can people go? Even the court confirmed that he worked there and got the salary he earned then to determine that hus income was above his salary. By the way, it was Haskins and sells that metamorphosed into Delloite.

Nigeria court ?

GoooodHardDick:
they're not bringing anything to the table at all

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You never hear "we are the table"

Penguin2:
coupled with his selfishness as he would rarely pass the ball to another person in front of posts.
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Now, you Ronaldo's fans are coming to term that he's selfish in front of goal.

MrReeseG:
Omo!
I'd expect that you'd use the map o
It's some distance

How ?

Something that's at most 10 mins if there's no traffic. How's that a distant... na wa

You frowned at something (people advising OP) only for you to do the same.
Na wa.... of course, he needs people's advise and that was why he brought it to public domain.

HomeTutorsPro:
See as una dey decide somebody pikin fate!
Na so angels and demons dey sidon dey reason our mata for heaven/hell/where ever.
Babe don dey plan for thanksgiving say God don finally butter her bread and una dey here dey pour konkiri for person agbado and ewa.
This is not good oo.




As for you the man in a dilemma, this is NAIRALAND.
Any advice you receive here should contribute not more than 10% of your decision-making reason.
There are people who court women for years living in same house with them and still see hell after marriage.
There are also people who marry within weeks of meeting and enjoy bliss in their marriage.
Just follow your heart and don't let nairaland rob you off a possible good woman.
I am not saying you should go ahead and marry her.
I am saying she could be a good woman.
Just make sure that trusted relatives check her out thoroughly.
And hey!
December is too early.
Just give it a little more time.
Another 3 to 4 months won't be a bad idea.
All the best.

Savedday:
And they don't love.

Generally, girls don't love but are loyal to their feelings.

Donwilson88:
Look up and listen if he has been along the corridor of power and no positive change was felt,So what is he going there for?

Dont be surprised, Nigerians go still vote for him and later come and be crying.

I will keep saying it that until Nigeria pass and sign execution order into law for corrupt leaders. People that shouldn't be in the corridor of power and funds will keep going there. They have not to offer.

Until Nigerians know this here....

Gboom:
Conclusively, it was the same set of people that rule in PDP that are still ruling in APC

Nigerians would say they only want a particular party, these set of thieves would decamp to that party and Nigerians would blindly vote them in.

Lmao, e be like say some people no dey think for this country...

Lol...

When you start seeing Failure as an option... Awon werey gbogbo.

Comparing failures bunch of thieves....

Telling us failures get grades.

Well, I no blame una.

Until we sign execution order into law in Nigeria, most of you thieves that have nothing to offer won't stop going into politics.

Lol...
within 4 years, it can be fixed but the president would have to be brutal and step on toes....

You see all those looted funds ehn.... he would get them back and fix things.

But you know how Nigeria Politics is, corrupt politicians under a running party can never be castigated or prosecuted.

Imagine there is execution order/law for any corrupt leaders....

Fearyourcreator:
Smiles... Even if he doesn't ... Its a logical thing ...
Nigeria can't be fixed in 20years

Hezzyluv:
Even if Peter Obi comes, he would not find it that easy.

That's if he doesn't want to step on toes....

LagosEmir:
It's obvious Buhari will be neutral in this election

Obi stands a very good chance with this Buhari declaration

Yes doesn't like tinubu na

As in ehn...
Since God don talk say e no go use him hand destroy the world again.
Na Man go use him own hand destroy ahm..


I dey laugh Nigeria in all this

Stephen0mozzy:
Mutually Assured Destruction


This is how sick humanity has become.

I am a fan of Marco Reus but he's not always luck with injuries especially when it comes to going to the world cup.

I could remember he missed the 2014 that his country, Germany went on to win.

Which means he wasn't counted amongst the winning team then but could have made it if not for the injury he had.

He would be missing this 2022 edition too due to injury again.

Benrosaria:
Sorry it’s immigrant causing this as a result of karma metted on your colonial masters

I have that feelings too. Maybe na Naija people sef dey ginger dem for back door.

This Muller guy just don like Barca

For these reasons, send him back to her. I dont think you should be the one to pay for the prize of your mum's actions and inactions. Na advice though. You can't handle him at the look of things.

E go soon they carry girls come the house sef...

Whichever way, do what is right now.

FeliciaOja:
I still blame her for over pampering him. Always giving excuse for his bad behaviours

Lilsameey:
They cannot frustrate him.

E be like say you no know how this whites behaves at times.

If you watch when Obafemi Martins was in Inter that year, you'll understand me.