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i beliv d poster had made a point, no offence to any sex, male/female, wives shd really hand out with their guys, like they did b4 marriage except it never was there far b4 marriage, i ve seen alot of , sisters i consider left overs lurring guys way from their wives, really its got nothing to do size, colour or shape, eg i have a couple of clients who ve cuties for wives n still hand out with some shits after work n even on some "supposed work trips" i dont seem to get it n i ve asked several times y dy do it n d answers , we dy explore am not angel n pray my wife when i get there wraps me up in her hole cos from what i ve seen once u start in r stucked.

i know shit happens, but its scarry, i know a bank ED in one of the 3 leading banks in naija paying armed robber salary [for that kind service u know] to a babe i wont date, no offence n all of a sudden the guy who didnt have a child now has a male child frm d babe, ur guess is as bad as mine d negociation pass zimbabwe own, a house in ikoyi a Honda jeep, a shop on awolowo str ikoyi that she goes to, later american relocation, as at date d child in is school in the states while d "mum" shuttle naija n us 1st class see me when bross no dey gree.

there is this other case of a GM in another bank that a babes family has kept in "Cooler" for the last God remembers years this guy is minimum 25-35 older than the babe, they actually married sometx back to finally cement d mugu, the babe's elder sista got a job in the bank without interview n no experience at 2nd level, funny she cant spell her colleagues name, she writes her own name with small n capital letters, she doesnt know d difference debt n credit or she constantly pays much over what customers present by their cheque, sometx i feel like going their but i know get account for the bank she for pay pass my cheque, cos i know how to get babe attention.

these things are real so sistas make una step up una act with una hubby make una no carry last., siddon look dey cost oooooooooooooo

wow!!!!!!!!!!! never any1 wld write on this.

April 11, 1996 would probably be d very saddest day of my life thus far. i lost my dad, we had breakfast that same morning 2geda, God dat day stood still like some1 said i couldnt really cry out of shock!, u know both of us, were kinda of cat n mouse for the better part of my adulescent years, i was in 400L in d uni. frm when i left sec sch till i gained admsn to uni we always fighting/cruelling/arguing with eachother until 4 months to d day he died, for some strange reasons we had a very long talk one night sometime in january from about 10pm till about 5am the next my mum was so scared, cos u know once i had left home on protest n it took a lot of convincing to my mum the next morning that all was well, boy that day really turned things btw us, it was as if a heavy load was lifted off us both in btw the talk we cried knowing we beefing eachother wrongfully, frm then on nobody got a reply for anytin until he asked 4 my opinion perhaps save "junior', at least it was expected-last child.

we shared the same birthday, both temperamental, blunt, aggressive n pragmatic, funny enough we never took NO for an answer always probbing till we got what we wanted i guess it affected us both, somehow trying to out-do eachother somex i pity my mum cos she always in d middle u favourate child n hubby, i laff these days. the only consolation i hold on these days are the 4 months or so we had the together, boy were they great, he stopped my pocket money from age 17, u can immagine getting at least half that 10yrs after in cash, i was floating.

i visited the morr everyother day as if i worked there, i cos i cldnt really understand y he cldnt wait for me to get out of sch, just 1 yr to go, after our heart to heart talk, my greatest joy wld have been him witnessing my call-2-bar ceremony, [cos i left home earleir-on because i we quarelled when i said i'd never go 2 uni except its was 4 a law degree, laffffff, phew!!!!!!!!!! that wasnt meant to be.

it was during the burial dat i actually cried, since then death to me had remained in a box i pray God allows my mum see her 90th i wldnt feel it that much then. perhpas some1 shd go upstairs n negotiate with God what it wld cost to buy back life, at least i wld trade my wig n gown for dads life.


for my dad i lite up a candle i pray it burns for so long till i meet him face-2-face.

thank u dad 4 all d scolding they were really worth it perhaps i might trayed 2 far away.

my regard always.

my broda, its really tite, i'll suggets u really put alot in perspective, aside d pay, ur family really comes 1st, not because dy r not going with u but because dy r a part of u. plsssssss consider i still ve friends there who live n work there but not in d oil industry, n dy live in absolute fear, so if u have anoda choice pls think properly no sentiments .
i live n work in lagos, i dread going to ph my friend go married fear no let go.
take care

lots of line u didnt include;
1. did u ask of their father b4 ur wedding;
2. were dy actually married or she just had the 2 children out of wedlock;
3. how did u meet her, morally;
4. was she divorced b4 ur wedding;
5. do u both have kids of ur own;
6. honestly, 4give my bluntness, didnt u ever think d kids would never ask for their biological father? cos it seems dy actually knew u were not their father
7. didnt u legally adopt them, d kids i mean n were ur grounds while applying for the adoption.
when u give honest answersto this questions u r most likely close to resolving ur confusion.

take care

congrats 1st!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thats what am talking about dis forum is for real pple n matured aduklts. really cool n sweet, wish mum, dad n jnr sweetest days. for those searching be honest n real no flashing or unnecessary effffeeessy.

happy married life

wetin una dey halla for una don forget the name of the place, "SHOPRITE" , a place for buying n selling, wetin u get!!!!!!!!!!!!!

although sometimes i feel embarrased the way things dey arrange for there. almost everywhere u see crowd go to, as in shopping centres that u dont pay gate fees na so e dey bi.

The main issue is that their prices which i tot shld be d complain here, has sky-rocketted astronomically, as against the reason for a mall like it, it ought to be a discount store. they get goods at a sales on returns from manufacturers or n direct importers who usually display these goods at there own risks, meaning no sales no pay but trust naija dem dey get discount and also dey make profits from the same sales.

lets leave trivial issues n face the real matter, pple dressing is not an issue to bother atleast dey didnt force us to come or go there.

yeah, i had to read it again, it is really a masterpiece. dont mind so ignorant and educated illiterate on this arena i want to proudly say this the best thread that has ever been posted here and it has nothing to do sex, male/female neither is d beta, we all should pray we settle into the nest we desire. i sent a copy to mailbox for printing in "COLOURED" cos i want to frame it up 4 eternity n my sweets she kinda got the message i hope isnt pretending, cos i have just 1 life to live, i need it 4ever. i hope we all try to apreciate n treasure those little details that made "us" gell when we were courting n hold on to them 4ever, it works, as we have seen.

men GOD bbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbblesssssss UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU.

thanks.

my brother, may God in his infinite mercies bless u abundantly and unmeasureably too. 1st i was withdrawn 2 read read thru, but then i realized it might as be worth my while cos am at the crossroads rite now. i need my fiance to also read this i ve just sent to her mail perhaps we'll talk more on it.

quite educative and rewarding for us, i ve realised most weddings as u stated were done on or for d wrong reasons rather than selfless desires to be together.

Big up bro.

quote from femisnistic,
LOL, all of my spewing is just to prove that homosexuals, according to the bible are no worse than any other "sinners" yet people condemn them like other people's "sins" are better. Just because other churchs don't claim that they take in liars, cheats, etc doesn't mean that they don't. Honestly, I do think that Gay people shouldn't muddle their reputations with xtianity, but they have to start somewhere.

I'm going to stop responding to this thread since the only way that you can even get through to most xtians is by being one, most ignore logic and use their faith to back up any personal idea they have, lucky for them, the Bible makes it easy. [/b


U shouldnt, stop i tot u r d happiest bitch around sleeping with a sis like u. a sin is a sin however, self inflicted sins or better still self cultivated sins are stupid n foolish even worst.
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1st i have 2 commend feministic 4 her defense of dis shameful, distateful and unnatural taste or perhaps prefrence of chioce. that d law allows freedom of shit, it surely doesnt teach u shit.

natural there are only 2 kinds humans male and female n God in His infinite wisdom had create "US" 4 eachother y in devils name would u rotten slot compare the natural way of life to filttly ways. without even reading the bible rationally u know its wrong, perhaps u have being fucking ur father n ur brother helping ur mother all in the name of freedom of choice, if ur supposed brain would tell u that any act of man that he/she isnt proud to declare openly [forget 4 west n their shameful at least u of african by blood] its a shame. call a spade a spade, what is shady is shady!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God gave that rotten hole of urs so that so guy shall Bleep u not a babe like to leek like DOG

haba guys, i cant believe am reading this from intecllectual i would want to believe we "most" of us r. every1 got d right to decide his/her own destiny its even "recorded" cos written is too far fetched a word, banning generators SHALL never solve anything when i was growing up i dint know how a gen looks like not mention have 1, now i have 2, a diesel n fuel. if we had constant power supply will need any extra spending just to leave a normal life, meaning get home move around the apartment without hitting my head/leg againt something or ironning my dresses or just generally relaxing at home?

its really depressing, lets stop battering ourselves, i guess we are all adults n working class persons lets pray n do all within our might to turn around our naija for our tomorrow cos its already here.

na2day which side u dey self, anyway thank God sey u get 2 palli so dat mean say u sabi d koko, tell n allow dem wey get only 1 struggle get d 2nd e fit mata 2mrw.

anyway residency allow u similar privileges a passport should only deffirency be na paper no bi palli

i had to send this after reading some more, , Eziachis is ignorant n permit me moderator, sorry! no foul language. thank God 4 pple like lucabrasi n iceland whether we like it or not, as the law reamins the way it is today until ammended, i know, n we all know ppple are corrupt not only naijas so we shouldnt put ours in total isolation.

ovadose im really impressed 4 ur second thread means u r amiable n willing to see things objectively even with some "little" pls bear with our society its here but we can get it reduced if not totally eradicated.

thanks akolawole

hmmmm,

its really depressing, how young naijas outside n within see n think of naija. here is a guy except we dont have d fuller details lby egal implication isnt a full blooded naija guy, [married to a briton], 4get d colour, or location. i want to believe she knows the benefit of having dual nationality like the hubby has though, he still cannot n doesnt comprehind it himself.

the point is everywhere in the world there are rules for doing things or having things done, naijas always cry foul if we dont meet the criterias for getting things and are refused. like some kind n intelligent response said earlier, did she meet the criteria, does even the guy meet the criteria, u cant live,work es n pay ur tax overseas n " demand" the nationality of another country, its unthinkABLE its even fraudulent!!!!!!!!!!!! who pays 4 the service u want the embassy out there to render u.

a friend of mine once brought his young son born in the US home without proper documentation he was stopped at the airport and we had to regularise his sons papers to allow him bring the child in as a naija pickin.

For those who think naija is all crap go n find out, there are so many naijas out there whose ONLY wish is that they never left our shores in search of the proverbial greenland. lots of naijas r well paid out here n r living d good life than so many of them working as dish washers, nannies to old diseased infected people [who 4 our information their own children have abandonned in old persons homes 4 fear of getting infected], cleaners, doormen, n all sorts of shit jobs just to survive, some cant even feed yet dem dey oyiboland.

poster if u truly need 4 ur wife to be granted get the word, "granted" naija citizenship meet the criteria, n she'll be granted not given n really u'll need it one day!!!!!!!!!!!!!, dont allow ignorant advisers mislead u its it a bit tough the stress involved but once u get it its done.

Ask immigration lawyers out there in the uk they'll explain better to u.

well, well, well

i guess the things we do 4 love is the craziest we could ever ever imagine, but we did n still do them just that its done in the state of mind when all we thought we were doing was the rite thing to do.

perhaps i ve not done so badly, but then i guess i have taken some shit risks though some were 4 my selfish gains, u know now, like leaving lagos at 8pm 4 Ilorin n got there @1pm, driving late in the nite to pick a broad n all the lot guys do 2 get a babe.

am still single, im sometimes most times.

relationship things no easy either babe or guys, make we no lie, some of us guys mumu pass the babes we dey call mumu.

sha na groove.

life goes on iys a learning the only 1 am against is violence no babe should remain in a relationship wey the idiot guy dey beat her. dat 1 don pass luv tay tay.

cannibus,

1st i am light years ahead in life, age wisM n babes levels, ok, it hurts to realise u aint there yet, ur parents married @ 18/14 dad/mum agreed no diggidy cos that was the "NORM" n survived remember the word "survived" u cant even exist talk less of surviving, just cos seun allowed u thread here doesnt add age or maturity to u.

i rather not engage ur fragile mind/mentality on a discussion demanding mental stability, cos i KNOW its an exercise in furtility, pls grow up 1st, get a life 2nd then "ALL OTHER THINGS SHALL COME WITHIN UR REACH" ofcourse it doesnt mean u'll still have them, its just that u'll ve a glimse of them n perhaps rationally "think" of how 2 get them.

Sorry, like they sang "I GOT 9999999999999999999999999999 PROBLEMS A "BITCH"!!!!! SORRY A FEMALE AINT 1.

ordinarily, i wouldnt waste time dismissing this thread, but then u need education, so here is it;

1; u r 222222222222222 young;

2. terribilly immature;

3. how can u commit?, when as u stated u r "just" 23yrs, u r obviously on ur parents pay roll;

4. get a life boy! when u get there u'll understand what the word "commitment" entails get the word "entails not means.

i want to take that we should not encourage foolishness or perhaps kids on this site, there be a yardstick for accepting pple here.

we should learn here, share thangible experiences possibly from work, life n society, not stuffs meant for kiddergattens.

of all the thread posted in response to ur "confused mind" keziah gave u d best advise. candid n true. if it slongterm u desire be real n ask as much question as u possilbly can, both of u should have a no holds bar date n thrash out issues at least he has opened up this early grab the oppurnity with ur heart, if He is worth urs.

wish u luck, n  be honest 2 ur sef

ayusman,

its easier to plead for apology after ripping people of hard earned N3k, he knew his limitations , i.e logistics artists etc, that shouldnt be my problem but his, i paid n i deserve to be served not ripped.

no apologies would change the fact that the whole show was a fraudulent act, take for instance;

1. medium sized bottled water was sold for N200;

2. small chops of puff puff n rolls N500;

3. one unknown energy drink N1000

4. Can beer N500

and the list goes on.
man if even if the venue was in heaven those prices were really outragoeus and the end of the day we really never watched the show, that made "US" pay such riduculous price while waiting for the show to start.

adeolam,

thats the problem with us, pple no offence intended to u, but a gig is a gig, d bargain was 3k, i paid what i got was not half my fee, if he did a second show thats not my bit, he should taken all of these into contemplation when arrranging for the show, all the pple dat watched the 1st show as u said there was a second left dejected till i have not heard an apology on air ot "US" his teeming fans, i really dont watch naija shows cos of things like this or miscrants disturbance after d show my crew made me go n i did, c what i got back , saddness cos i felt riped off.

Hey guys'

Please can someone tell what AY thought he was doing yesterday evening at the AY Live Show 2.

I have come to realise why most Naija artist fail even before beginning.

Imagine a show billed to commence at 5.00pm ONLY commenced at about 6.47pm and after some funny displays we the audience were hurriedly entertained, most of the artist billed and advertised as acts for the day never showed up for the show, save for P-Square.

To rub salt on an already insulted ego, Ay a boy who just started life displayed his ignorance of life long slogan the customer is KING by ASKING us the audience to leave the venue at about 9.17pm that the "show" is over no courtesy, in his words; "we have 2 exit doors one on the left and the other on the right choose 1.

Please, please, please some1 tell the next time around he, his wife, baby girl n family would entertain and also watch their shows live"

well. well, well,
different strokes 4 different folks. but which way u really honestly appraise the language n message expressed its certainly deprissing. how can one feel n express that said feeling insulting.

i wouldnt take that if i were a babe, n i'd also advise a friend whose female 2 watch that kind of guy, he's just plain sore. shhhhuuuuuuussss.

he could read up man.

sorry i intended to write man, lafffffffffffffffffffffffffffff . pls forgive me slip of fingers. am a solicitor, perhaps 2 much hitting on the keyboards all day long.

thanks a million, d car looks n sounds ok. n at a good millage 2. i actually saw the accidented spot n made enquiries, n it was confirmed.

nice 2 know we still some naijas with real clean bills n intention.

reach out when u feel d need or seek legal opinion.

cliveland.

brauneyes ma,

i noticed u r online please i just sent a further request, kindly response, as am not varsed in ur terms, if the car was only involved in a minor front accident which fact the seller did inform me of and d millage is that low if the repairs is proper done which i can confirm was, should i have a further fear.? Pls i need ur prompt response.

i'm referring to honda accord 2000 model imported from new york, NY, last year
regards

Cliveland.

brauneyes ma,

i noticed u r online please i just sent a further request, kindly response, as am not varsed in ur terms, if the car was only involved in a minor front accident which fact the seller did inform me of and d millage is that low if the repairs is proper done which i can confirm was, should i have a further fear.? Pls i need ur prompt.

regards

Brauneyes,

thanks, i saw ur response, i noticed it was reported that the car was involved in a minor front accident with another car, has a recorded inventory of owners, does it means i should not buy it, as u report it doesnt qualified for a back?

i need perhaps some more other infomation or maybe education.

Brauneyes

kindly check this VIN for me;

1HGCG5645YA049654.

UR PROMPT RESPONSE WILL BE APPRECIATED.

THANKS.

brauneyes,,


its really surprising n annoying, i looks like we've been busy buying battered cars n posing down here in naija, im looking at getting one soonest, im sure going 2 post the VIN 4 ur confirmation. its just that i cant really at this point spend 2.5 - 3m for a brand new car, cos i wld ve just decided on that straight away, im planning stepping up as we say in naija n im looking at a camry 2000 model or an accord of same year make, [babyboy] n im scared most are salvage or retiltled cars.

thanks 4 d naija support, man u r an angel this is what i believe one should learn n see up here, n not trivial issues which we see sometimes. i do hope when legal issues come up requiring legal opinion i might be of good use to others here.

some pple sha, am not married "yet" but if we really analyse those kicking against it they dont have a clue about what its all, aged ones who have wasted their lives, i mean youth chasing shadows n now suddenly realise themselves so they want to use theor yardsticks as the bases for a good relationship, except u get there by false pretance, matrialism, economy, family n most pathetically "peeeeers" my friend married a banker i must get one myself ,

if u meet some1 whose weaknesses u can live n bridge on get a live man/woman its and would surely be worth ur while!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what is blackcat talking about, common friend if u really love n appreciate the sister that should surpass all the fears and until we start looking at our parent sin the eyes the will always ride us like cows,,, who the hell them better than the so called "OSU" skip this rubbish i will marry 1,000,000,000 the babe of of my dreams as long she stand by me.

my friends its a long way from tomorrow, most of the marriages these days are so pathethically celebrated on materialism, n look around they crumbling like packs of cards, am a lawyer so i know the statistics that much, i actually have a reference that i usually use, i had a big egbon/colleague that we juniors used trip for but he unfortunately the wrong babe, the rest is history today, as i write they in court 4 divorce,

honesty is the key, ask yourself if u feel it if not get out

osu or no

please go ahead n marry the of ur dreams am actually at accross of some sort , i have a longtime babe from the yoruba speaking tougues n from akwa ibom bu the dad is freaking me out, saying we cant get married cos am not yoruba, its killing,

these old folks should alow us settle with our happiness n their misfortune, like someone once said they want us their kids to leave the lives the couldnt achieve, what a pity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!