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No standby emergency van just in case. Lol how’s this a sport ?

phenylalanine:
You don't even fear for your life, a girl you met 3 months ago is already coming to sleep over, what if something happen to her who will believe your story ... Again you are just getting to know her, what if she knew the guy before you..

Of course she knew the guy before me but she said she wanted real romance and also that this includes doing away with past flings.

Azazyel:
I would strongly advise that you don't confront her yet. She would surely have excuses to counter you. She would even start attacking you cos she knows you haven't caught her. She would then start deleting chats and change her phone passkey. Just lay low and continue investigation till you get proper evidence. Don't mind those guys advising you to keep banging her. If you value your health, suspend it. Once you catch any STI, these same guys would be laughing at you and making jest. My brother went through the same thing. He lay low and continued investigation until he came across a chat where they were talking about their recent s*x in a hotel. When he showed her, she was dumbfounded. She kept begging but his mind was made up. Proper evidence is important in a case like this.

I haven’t caught her yet. I just have photos of chats and I haven’t confronted her yet cos i know she will deny and lie. I’d just lay low, remove all emotions attachments and suspend sexual activities or use protection if I must .
Thanks for your input . I appreciate

DaTruths:
If you confront her, she would definitely lie.

She might tell you she went but nothing happened, which is of course possible.

It depends on what you want from her anyway, if its sex don't confront her.. if it's love that can lead to marriage.. then you can confront her and hear what she has to say.

But she can only be more careful next time by deleting the chats before coming to your house.

If i were you, i would lay low and still be observing her and see if more things would unfold.

You can be snapping those chats with your phone and be keeping.

Yes I have taken shots of those chats already. I still haven’t confronted her yet

maxiuc:
Just dump her

Don't use her as sex object she will infect you someday

Thank you

Shigobaba:
You're dating a prostitute, what do you expect. Make sure you use protection or else....... STD, HIV

Yes I wil

Badadvisor:
How old are you?

30

DaTruths:
Over 90% of Nigeiran girls cheats.

Keep the secret and be lashing her, anytime you find another girl that makes butterfly fly in your stomach, dump this current one.

Infact don't dump her, continue lashing her.
But stop spending much on her, na she go use her hand japaa.

How do I clear my head ?
Will it not be wasting my time further?

baralatie:
Which one is we live 1 hour apart but different cities
Is it Accra and Lagos .because it is 1 hour apart but two different cities🙄🤔🤣

I said in the East .

DaTruths:
Over 90% of Nigeiran girls cheats.

Keep the secret and be lashing her, anytime you find another girl that makes butterfly fly in your stomach, dump this current one.

Infact don't dump her, continue lashing her.
But stop spending much on her, na she go use her hand japaa.

So I shouldn’t confront her ?

talk2hb1:
I can categorically say she is not cheating on you and she has never cheated on you.
She is Cheating with You!
Do Your Do, and move on. Ahbi Una don dey catch feelings?

Not about feelings bro. I’m at age of settling down. So it’s not bad to want to have a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. I had to check her phone to know if it’s worth the commitment.

superCleanworks:
you don love up & your mind is still therr that is why you are thinking of her and what she does with her vagina ON A MONDAY MONEY MORNING

This is the only time I get to drop this.

Lovemeharder:
Take the guys number, call him and tell him, someone has a special gift for him, that he should just guess the name of the person so dear to his heart, give him a clue of how the person looks like

How Wil this work

immortalcrown:
You are just suspecting her. But your caption implies you have confirmed the cheating. A suspension or an assumption is not used against a person.

Bro, I understand but the signs are there. Do I need to catch her pants down ?

Jeon:
When unah dy see relationship self?


This is the real reason why you made an approach. If not, you would've been gone for a long time.

Before her, I wasn’t sex starved. I didn’t start dating her cos of sex. We talked for a month and I felt some connection. I actually like her.

immortalcrown:
To you, "Are we seeing today?", means nothing but sexual intercourse?

But bro this is Nigeria.. chances of sex is high whenever a girl visits a guy.

We started a relationship at the end of August. She was the who wanted a relationship, and I liked her too so I accepted since I’m single.
We live just 1hr apart in 2 different cities in the east. So I wouldn’t completely say it’s a long distance relationship.

She visited, and I happen to check her WhatsApp while she was asleep. I found out she’s sleeping with a few other men, not a relationship cos I didn’t see endearing names or any romantic chats just stuffs like “ where are you? I’m at your house “
Are we seeing today?”

Should I confront her or use her for sex only , with protection of course

I’m a single, young and healthy man of 29 with no underlying health issues living in the east.

I graduated in 2014, with a second class upper degree. After my nysc , I tried to get into a graduate program in Nigeria cos that’s was the only thing I could apply to as my course of study isn’t really a professional one and thus not very profitable in our country.
All my efforts got no results. With my little nysc savings , I made several trips to Lagos, delta and ph for job aptitude tests and interviews but none worked out.
As a brilliant and smart person , I searched for teaching jobs in my state but couldn’t get any.

In 2017, While giving up on job searching, I attempted going for a direct entry for a second degree but I was cut off by a few marks.

Mid 2018, I was frustrated and didn’t know what to do. I started a Masters degree program, trying to further in my field with the hope of securing a lecturing job after I’m done.

While on it, i was self sponsoring myself. i was struggling to meet up with bills and payments in Sch so it was difficult for me.

I got interested in scam and was introduced by a relative. I wouldn’t say I have made so much but I’ve been a millionaire since 24, till date.
I’ve got a Camry muscle 011
A piece of land in a developing area in my city.
A Korope bus.
I live in a comfortable apartment.
Currently my closing Bank account balance is N2.6m.

I still don’t consider myself successful because most times I’m always sad because I’m not stable and can’t start a family despite all these. The problem now is that this isn’t a way of life to be proud of and I want to stop. I fear I might exhaust all I have. I do not even touch my laptop to work anymore cos I’m sad and unhappy. And pls I haven’t done any rituals of any sort.

Please, how do i pick up my life back and have a purpose? All day I sit at home doing nothing.

I am comfortable putting this out here cos here is a faceless forum and also, I won’t sink in all the opinions here but I’ could pick up a few things.

mejai:
Na this kind thing u go wan rush paint the bonnet and bumper, the rest of the car colour go dey different from the painted region.


Like someone said, call your friend and explain how e take happen to him.

What's the best thing to do?

Lol, Pardon me if I sound like a novice but I’ll like to get some opinions. I recently switched from android to the iOS last year, and I’ve gone through two iPhones.

Is there no way I can get music into my iPhone and have them always even if I change phones?

I use audiomack And I subscribe monthly but I always restore My downloads whenever I get a new device and this process uses lots of data .


Please help.

That's someone's salary as a lecturer in a federal university. With masters oo. lecturer 1

Sheriman:
I have ordered these on AliExpress and I got delivered

I wish to order. Please how can I go about it? Do they deliver to the east?

Good morning. Please, I need inputs from well informed fellows.

Good morning, please I need inputs from well informed fellows.

I need responses from well informed fellows.

I got into a conversation with my friend and he opened up to me.


He met this girl earlier this year and they got chatting. he likes her and she likes him too, he's sure. After talking and chatting for several weeks, they decided to meet. he got to her place, she lives in her mom's town and he didn't care to know why. On getting to her place, he met her cousins, she said her younger sister (about 18yrs of age) was in school so he couldn't meet her. he also met this little child of about 2years- a boy, which he had earlier seen in a photo she sent to him saying he's her younger brother. The age difference between this 2year old 'brother' and the younger sister that's in school is way too much, he didn't bother about it.


Fast forward to last month when she visited him, they got down. He noticed she has lots of stretch marks around her abdominal area and bellybutton, and also a stitched up area around there too. he got worried and asked her what's that mark , if it's from an appendix removal operation, she said yes.
My worry now is, could she be lying to him? Is it possible that that 2 year old boy he saw at her place belongs to her?


I need matured opinions.

I got into a conversation with my friend and he opened up to me.


He met this girl earlier this year and they got chatting. he likes her and she likes him too, he's sure. After talking and chatting for several weeks, they decided to meet. he got to her place, she lives in her mom's town and he didn't care to know why. On getting to her place, he met her cousins, she said her younger sister (about 18yrs of age) was in school so he couldn't meet her. he also met this little child of about 2years- a boy, which he had earlier seen in a photo she sent to him saying he's her younger brother. The age difference between this 2year old 'brother' and the younger sister that's in school is way too much, he didn't bother about it.

Fast forward to last month when she visited him, they got down, he noticed she has lots of stretch marks around her abdominal area and bellybutton, and also a stitched up area around there too. he got worried and asked her what's that mark , if it's from an appendix removal operation, she said yes.


My worry now is, could she be lying to him? Is it possible that that 2 year old boy he saw at her place belongs to her?

I need matured opinions.

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Lol. It's all a prank

Hello house.
Sometime last week, I was having a conversation with a good friend of mine. On getting to her love life, we talked about so many things. she told me she saw her Ex's missed call some days ago after several years. they broke up in 2013.

She said she doesn't have the number again in her phone but she could recognize the number. please house, what could this mean?

Goodinfo:
Account name, please

thanks man

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