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Maeve7:
Looks yummy.

I love space in the fridge but I hate it when it teils me what to eat. I wish I was like you.

Thank you

Fridge clean out meal for breakfast.

Left over salmon from yesterday.
Last piece of passion fruit in my fruit basket and last veggies I had left (asparagus).

I love fridge clean out and reset days.

Red states will always want their slaves. That’s why they went to war against the United States. So they can secede and freely keep their black slaves in the field.

They’re still mad about the abolition of slavery. They keep saying “the south shall rise again”.

I wouldn’t live in a red state as a black Person. But some of us are too dumb and blinded by religion to see it happening. By the time they overthrow the 13th amendment in their states, it’ll be too late for black people there to get out.

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BloomingDale:
In Mississippi it is life imprisonment without the possibility of parole for any arrested illegal immigrant. Don’t know if they have signed it into law. For each illegal immigrant arrested $1000 is paid to the bounty hunter. Mississippi need prisoners that will work for free.

armyofone:
Did you hear about Nigerian doctors, nurses and engineers no longer getting visa to work in the US per baba new policy.

Ummm - increase India Engineers and reduce nig medical professionals coming here to work?

This would literally break my heart because I know Nigerian healthcare workers who I’m praying for them to get a visa to the USA and come work here.

The cruelty is beyond comprehension.

Okay yes. Exactly!!!

pocohantas:
No lies. After all, if it weren't Toke and Tiwa, they will say you are in your own marriage and encouraging Annie to leave the same marriage they have agreed is bad for Tuface.

They’re forever cognitively dissonant. Claiming it’s logic .

@bold, if that’s not the truth I don’t know what is.

And I forever ride for ladies who are girls girls.

It takes maturity to see through the societal BS, accept the name calling and still stick out for other women. Even women who are pick-mes- actively contributing to our collective pain in life.😫

I think the Atlanta lady knows what she signed up for. I honestly don’t see her as delusional. She’s in a business arrangement and carries herself accordingly IMO. But I could be wrong.

pocohantas:
Reminds me of that phrase I learned from you - COIGNITIVE DISSONANCE.

For years Annie Idibia was the model virtuous woman on NL. At some point we were even asked to be like Folorunsho Alakija, a rich woman who decided to tell us how she washes her husband's boxers. But the day she dared leave her community husband, boys her son's junior dragged her rep through the mud.

Tuface should never have married Annie. Agreed! At the same time, Toke and Tiwa who weren't in the limelight when Annie featured in African queen or Tuface impregnated women are the reason for all this. Tiwa had Edible Catering Teebillz. Toke's husband stood her up at their wedding and impregnated his ex (the straw that broke the camel's back). How dare they leave? They should have stayed, lose their sanity, finances, reputation, home and friendships like Annie.

These ladies are just girls girls. Especially Toke.


See ehn, you can never please these guys.
The day you stop being their model virtuous woman, they will drop you like a hot potato and pick the next victim. Let's wait for the one in Atlanta...

Fiscus105:
You have phone, you can update yourself ok.

Well, you might also be in their league, if yes, you won't know what bad influence is.

Translation

“I don’t know what I’m talking about. I just want to hate on two divorced women because they’re divorced. At the same time saying I don’t see any problem with them leaving their bad marriage. But I can’t own my opinion so I deflect and obfuscate!”

You still haven’t answered me on what their bad influence is.

Fiscus105:
If you cannot see that those two women are bad women influence, which every decent person should avoid like plaque, ......I mean "DECENT" OOOO, IM NOT TALKING SOMETHING ELSE BUT "DECENT", THAT PERSON HAS SKELETON IN CUPBOARD.


ADAGE. ....SHOW ME YOUR FRIEND AND I WILL TELL YOU WHO YOU ARE.

BIBLE ......CAN TWO WORK TOGETHER WITHOUT AGREEMENT? AMOS 3:3


BYE.

Fiscus105:
I don't not shame women who left, but strongly against bad influence

If you urself can't see, the two friends are bad influence, well.

What’s their bad influence?

They left bad marriages?

You get!

I hope younger women are paying attention and learning. It’ll never serve any woman to promote that virtuous image ahead of her own wellbeing.

We’ve always been bitter feminists for saying this. Promoting divorce over “minor issues”.
Time proves us right.

Tightpussy2024:
The bolded!

Nigerians will celebrate you for being the loyal and virtuous woman. They will scorn "other hoes" that backed out or he left,and attribute his "choosing you" over them to being your virtuousness.

Then when things go south:
1)They start noticing you have your fault too and aren't completely innocent(maybe confronting him for cheating).They start looking for minors flaws on your part to balance out the fact that he didn't do you wrong.
2. Or asking what you expected when you agreed to marry him
3. Or asking why you didn't leave earlier.

It always ends like this . Society love for God-soldiers women is fleeting.
The only person that has had their sympathy was May Edochie and not because they cared for her,but they were angry that of all women,it was a divorced woman with kids he chose.if it were a younger ,childless ,prettier woman,he chose over May Edochie,they will not side with May


In all,it's is good that Tuface divorced her,if not,she was never gonna leave him and continue the fight as God's own soldier.

Ishilove:
She has known Tuface since her teens, so she knows the good, the bad and the ugly side of him. If she decides to use drugs as a coping mechanism for his philandering, then that's on her. I really cannot make excuses for addicts. Addiction is a choice. It has always been a choice

Oh I’m not making excuses for her. That’s my way of communicating my disdain for her choice in staying with him. Like I’d have to be a drug addict to make same decisions.

However, let’s agree to disagree on addiction. The first try is definitely a choice but once you’re hooked, it’s no longer within your control unfortunately.

I know it’s so difficult for the none addicts who have to put up with it. It’s exhausting. And no one should be forced to tolerate a drug addicted family member or friend because it can be draining in every possible way. And of course they won’t change because they can’t.

I’m sympathetic to the people who have the disease including her (if she does).

Basicend:
TBH, if it Tiwa Salvage and Toke Makinwa that is described as your closest friends, and in the act of taking care of u at this core state, then, I may understand why the lady could not sustain her marriage.

You are a picture of your friends.

I know 2 face has issues with fidelity, but Annie obviously may not be called an angel.

Fiscus105:
Ooooooooh, you made Tiwa and Toke ur very close friends and you are not preparing to become single mother.

How will those people be a close friend to a married woman, without poisoning her mind and making the marriage unbearable for husband.

I usually tell married woman, wen u married, avoid man as friend, the same way you avoid single mother(DIVORCEE like plaque) no good advice that would ever come out from them.

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sweetkev:
Annie in a rehab and being cared for by her close friends Toke Makinwa, Tiwa Savage etc.

Wrong people lol

Right. Because they’re two women who left bad marriages instead of staying like Annie did. Thus compromising her mental health in the process.

This is what I’m talking about. Y’all shame women who leave. The ones who stay are expected to suck it up and be okay no matter what the man puts them through. As soon as they can take it anymore and leave (or die), the rhetoric changes to “why didn’t they leave sooner”. All the while actively shaming those who left. Women will never do anything right in y’all’s eyes.

Cc otherway

We4all:
I know she won't take it well, but it's time to move on. I didn't know she was close friends with Tiwa and Toke.

They might not even be close friends but Tiwa strikes me as a girls girl. Toke too. I could be wrong but that’s the impression I got.

Annie was and probably still is a pick me. I feel bad for her because so many people tried to tell her but she was one of those who wanted male validation so badly.
I don’t even see her as someone who’d stand up for another woman who’s going through something like this.

Male centered women are dangerous too. Even to themselves

Are you freaking kidding me?!!!!

nateevs:
You are incoherent. When you can explain what TDS is, then feel free to hit me up.

Don’t expect coherence.

This here is the mind blowing aspect of it all.

nateevs:
For someone who has black children in the US, it will not be "greatness to greatness" for them, when white racists people start to push for Brown v Board to be abolished.

bemeruca:
Its price gauging.

Gouging.

Ugh 😑

otherway:
Now you blame it on people encouraging her as though she has no mind of her own.

Cococandy.. Continue.

Have a nice day.

I have not absolved of her of any blame in staying with him. I remember we used to be marriage-hating evil feminists when we talked about Annie and why she should leave him. Maybe you’re new to this forum.

Of course she had every reason to leave him.

But it shows a lack of intelligence if you can look around you, the society you live (if you’re in Nigeria) and not see a direct correlation between how you people treat women who don’t stand by their men and Annie’s mental prison.

We don’t even need to go far. Yul and his wife are still trending. Check every post about them on social media and see how everyone is vilifying her for not fighting for her relationship. She has shown remarkable courage in leaving and shutting out the noise/negativity.

A regular Nigerian woman who can’t handle that much vitriol would’ve stayed to keep the peace. After years of such mental abuse encouraged by people like you who never see what the man did wrong except “be human”, if she succumbs to the inevitable mental illness, you’ll turn your mouth to start asking why she didn’t leave.

You people are scary.

And just like clockwork. Another male who doesn’t like what he’s hearing is dismissing it as emotions.

Boy be original. get your own brain and say something you actually thought of or get the fck out of the conversation.

otherway:
I have always known you to be very logical but with a sprinkle of emotions.

Please try to take the emotions off and be logical.

These days do we blame wife beaters or the wife that choses to stay with a beast?

Mind you, she hasn't even had a child for 2face when he was sowing his seeds all over.. So it is convinient to blame it on love shey?

Why did she not walk away to find a mna that won't be fvking around?

Now you chose to marry a wild animal and then complain that the animal is acting wild.
Maybe this will sink in.

otherway:
May GOD BLESS you.

For people like cococandy please understand that nobody forced her to remain with 2baba.

Imagine chioma now coming out to be ranting about David's sexcapades habba!

Of course no one forced her. I’m glad you guys can say that NOW. But as usual it comes after the damage is already done.

While it’s happening, some of you guys were using her as examples to young women. Telling us that’s how an African woman is supposed to be. To love and respect and submit to her man. Despite his weaknesses. After he’s “only human”.

Y’all were gassing her up. Encouraging her to support the destruction of her own mental health in order to preserve the “African customs” of a philandering disrespectful husband whose wife quietly bears it all and submits to his authority regardless of how it affects her.

Now she’s broken, the tune has changed. “No oNe fOrceD heR “

Ugh 😑

otherway:
That is how you see it but unfortunately, majority of the people who actually watched the series agree with me that beneath what you are seeing is an emotionally damaged lady who just can't let go of the past mistakes of 2baba.

And the question again is emotionally damaged by who? Because she certainly wasn’t emotionally damaged when she was the bright eyed teenager who feel in love with him. I remember when she had a thriving career and then he sucked the soul right out of her. Every blog, gossip column, forum, newspaper etc kept talking his roving eyes and disrespect to Annie.

Yet she felt she had to marry him because they’ve been together for so long. Even though he had multiple babies on her while they were supposedly together. The marriage didn’t make him sit up and respect her either. If anything it got worse.

Ask yourself if your mental health would’ve remained the same if you had to spend all your time and energy convincing the world that the disrespect they can obviously see you partner meting out to you is not real. That she loves you despite publicly being with other men and that you’re actually happy underneath it all. If you don’t become emotionally damaged make I no know wetin cause am.

May Tuface kind of love never find anyone you care about. And I’ll say amen for you.

Ishilove:
"I come in peace".

So there is some truth in the allegations... It is alleged that Annie is a drug addict and her addiction is what has been straining the relationship for a while.

Oh well, I hope God heals their marriage.

I heard that too. Heard it’s actually both of them who run the drugs but she’s the one who’s using. All rumors obviously.

I personally would have to be on drugs to deal with a man like Tuface. There’s no way I’m raw dogging that kind of reality. I look at women who put up with such situations and I try to imagine the shape of handbag, the color, make or model of car and the type of access to “high to society” that would make me accept such behavior . And the only reasonable answer would be drugs.

If she’s on drugs I understand . I hope she gets help and gets better. Addiction is such a terrible disease.

otherway:
Have you watched Rich, famous and African?

Please go and watch it on Netflix and you just might understand my point.

Look at Zari and the other two baby mamas of the other guy then marry their lifestyle with that of Annie.

Aniie really demonised 2baba in that reality show just because he is human. Habba

Erm I’ve watched it. She didn’t demonize him. What are you talking about? If anything she was all about him to the extent that we were getting ashamed for her. Because how is she so openly loving and defensive of a man who has been publicly embarrassing and betraying her for so long? I don’t think you understand what demonize means. His actions against her and their marriage have been public. Everyone knew and they made fun of her for not leaving. She stood her ground and fought for him during each of those arguments. You must live in a different reality if you saw it differently

I’m guessing all his actions that hurt and embarrassed her throughout their marriage was his “just being human”. Would Annie have been accorded the same humanity if she did that to him? Some of you are just plain crazy. Lord have mercy.

Emotionally damaged by who?

The type of hellfire that awaits men like you…

otherway:
Annie is just emotionally damaged and no man.. I repeat, no man can cope with that nonsense..

They used to praise her for tolerating all kinds of misbehavior from him. Yet he did this. Smh

Can’t stop won’t stop my eggy breakfasts

Unfortunately his voters are more likely to be affected by these price hikes. We tried to help everyone but they prefer to suffer. 🤷🏽‍♀️

armyofone:
Ummmm interesting. No more boiled, scramble, fried eggs for breakfast lovers

Automatic intermittent fasting mode for God's children

Looking for alternative fact eggs

Cheesecake factory with all them cakey/eggy dessert

And vp Vance should visit the store he campaigned at where he complained about price of eggs to tell them they are just 7 days in and got 4 years to fix egg prices.

Toh! Man shall not live by eggs alone.

And the eggs they voted him for are even more expensive.

nateevs:
What's been awesome about the first few days? He has done the following so far:

1. Pardoned violent rioters
2. Pardoned a drug dealer
3. Threatened to remove birthright,
4. Sacked 18 IGs from Federal Agencies,
5. Frozen all Police Reform Agreements. Agreements of reform including the proper use of force and discrimination by Police.
6. Started full implementation of ScheduleF of Project 2025.
7. Frozen the DOJ's Civil Rights Division. This is the department that looks after voting rights, election law, discrimination etc.
8. Issued order to DOJ cancelling all job offers to young lawyers after the hiring freeze signed by EO

... to name a few. These are just a few I have been noting myself.

Are you truly celebrating this? Shit is coming to a bus stop near you soon Dayo.

bemeruca:
we have 4 time zones here. - think!!

Here where?

bemeruca:
Its 2am over there. Go and sleep.

Over there?

Did you move out of the USA already?

Lemon pepper salmon and spinach omelette for breakfast

Tallesty1:
Any man who has been with a woman for as long as those two have been together will hurt when she leaves. It doesn’t matter if she cheated or even attempted to kill him. The fact that he regrets the situation doesn’t mean he wants her back. After all, God regretted creating man. He regrets it maybe because it was his mistake that lead to the divorce so the divorce is his fault even though he didn't initiate it.

He cheated with one of his old time friends. Mind you he’s been accused of cheating in the past. Maybe the fact that he did it with an old friend is the straw that broke the camel’s back. After him and Melinda have been together for decades. Of course he regrets it. I think it’s an issue of having a conscience.

That’s a big betrayal that even he wouldn’t forgive if Melinda did the same to him. Especially if it’s a friend they hang out with all the time. He’d be imagining what was going on when he’s not around.

I don’t know why people are quick to blame the wives before researching what actually happened

🤭🤭

pocohantas:
Bill Gates himself has clearly said he regrets the split from a woman who he has known since the 80s and married in the 90s. A woman who has seen him through a lot. But you with 1kva generator and funny brown shoes - thinks it is all about money.

The men without the money always crying on behalf of the rich men. Must be some coping mechanism or schadenfreude for you lots.