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She seems like a typical African conservative .
An oxymoron if ever there was one.

They are often hypocritical and “blissfully” unaware of how contradictory their whole existence and the things they say clash against each other.

pocohantas:
I will. Person no fit hold crocodile dey chase wall gecko. 🥳

🤣🤣

Starz825:
You see that your first paragraph....na true

Girls are so easy to nak

Long as you can speak their language...
He don happen

And boys are not?

Tflex01:
Ladies don't need abs and muscles, normal morning jogs and aerobics is enough... Once your woman starts going to the gym, start planning to get a replacement.

Life shouldn't be hard.

This is obviously a fake story

But to respond to your post, both men and women need muscle mass to age well. Only cardio is not enough to grow adequate muscle mass. Some kind of weight lifting has to be involved. It doesn’t have to be heavy weights either.

richeeyo:
What was she expecting

She’s expecting that her supporters don’t storm the capitol, shit in the chambers and try to hang the vice president. Like normal people you know?

Maeve7:
Dinner last night. The rest of the family had chicken wings with fries. I resisted.

Honestly this looks more delicious than wings and fries to me

Pray for us 😭

GloriousGbola:
The man wants a military that answers only to him and that he plans to use to storm sanctuary cities. If he gets his way, America will start to see what we take as a fact of life in Nigeria, government sanctioned massacres by the military.

He wants to destroy regulatory bodies. As I Nigerian I know what happens when you have poor regulation. Collapsing buildings, proliferation of dangerous drugs, planes falling out of the sky.

If he and his cronies succeed, federal jobs may become like civil service in Nigeria, populated not be dedicated professionals, but lazy clock watchers.

Russia has become a paper tiger because of endemic corruption and a culture where advancement is tied to loyalty rather than competence.

This is the future team trump will bring to the united. states.

Cousin9999:
He didn't convince anyone, crackers are mentally ill and freakishly insecure, and he fed that. Also, watch the movie Idiocracy.

if I could give this a million likes

We’re living in idiocracy

And I often feel flabbergasted when I come here and see people who don’t even understand the tip of the ice berg of the issue giving full blown Ted talks and analysis on it😭

GloriousGbola:
https://www.nytimes.com/2024/11/25/us/politics/trump-boris-epshteyn-investigation.html



The third worldization of America will be televised

It literally breaks my heart.

The reason being that this isn’t politics as usual. Maybe in the short term, nothing too terrible might happen that we can’t persevere through. Maybe we might have to tighten our pockets more to withstand the price hikes that are coming because of his tariffs (so much for improving the economy 🙄).

Maybe we’ll ignore a few more emboldened racists and misogynistic assholes. Maybe we’ll pray harder that a trigger happy police officer doesn’t hurt our loved ones and get away with it due to qualified immunity he promised them.

Those are “little” things. But the long term effects of the institutions he’s plotting to destabilize will be felt by our children. And the judgments of the extreme right wing judges he’s going to appoint will be felt by our children’s children. Coming back from this man will be a nightmare walk back from the grave.

We just handed Putin our country. Exactly as he prophesied it was going to happen.

Sorry you can’t handle your cognitive dissonance being pointed out.

Also I don’t post in the food section for you to behold.
And Idc if it’s ruined for you or not.

If they ask you what Trump policies you are familiar with and have personally experienced, you won’t even know what to say. Just talking to talk. Mtchew 🙄

Botragelad:
I was just asking a legit question about how supporting some policies automatically makes me a Trump supporter, but instead of answering, you went off on one, moaning and groaning all over my mention.

Let me reiterate, I don't care if you're getting your knickers in a twist over my comment, just focus on your beautiful family and keep feeding them. Scrolling through your photos on the food section can be a beautiful sight, don't ruin it.

Botragelad:
Did I ever say I was a Trump supporter? Just because I like some of his policies, don't mean I'm sipping on the Trump Kool-Aid.🤦🏼

Cococandy, sweetheart, you'd best stick to the foodie stuff. You are a bit too emotional for these sorts of convos. How are you?

Lazy response.

Usually dumb people will ignore clear facts and questions to counter with cliche responses like “emotional” or “ stick to the kitchen” when responding to a female. TBH I wasn’t expecting better from you. So I’m not surprised

Botragelad:
Stop crying about Cyprus decision to join NATO. You're only crying because it's NATO, but if they were joining BRICS, you'd be keeping mum, wouldn't you?

And, if joining NATO is your definition of slavery, then what does that make you for using the English language? You're using the language of the very people you're accusing of enslaving others.
Just stick to sucking on Putin's propaganda trash! 😂

How are you pro NATO, pro USA, anti Putin but a Trump supporter?

Do you understand the amount of cognitive dissonance you have to possess to support Trump but be anti Putin?
Trump is a literal Russian asset.

Nothing makes sense with you people.

Mood11:
Juicing is one of the best health decisions I’ve made recently.
Pineapples and oranges with some ginger juiced fresh

this is so fresh. End product is very clean and appealing

Tallesty1:
There are Nigerians that do 50/50?

Well they may not use the exact term but when the man is only responsible for certain bills and the woman has to sort out the rest, na wetin we go call am?

Tallesty1:
This data is inaccurate. It should be more, Nigeria women are hardworking, like really really hardworking.

I’m thinking this is just for the households where the women are the major breadwinners. It will probably be a similar figure for the households where the men are the major breadwinners (25-30%). Then the rest of the population will be tied between the 50/50 couples

It’s only medically necessary to wait for 6 weeks after a normal uncomplicated pregnancy and birth.

Additional wait time might be necessary if there was surgery, trauma or other complications associated with the pregnancy. If none of that is applicable and the mom feels up to it, after 6 weeks you guys can get on with your bedmatics.

Breastfeeding doesn’t prevent sex

Maeve7:
Thank you
It was really good. I don’t know why I haven’t had bulgur for a while.

Same. I loved it every time I’ve tried it. I don’t know why I don’t cook it more often

Maeve7:
Bulgur

Oh I love this

This part.

For people who claim they’re patriots to give power to Trump whose ultimate end result is going to be the disempowerment of the USA is crazy.

Like the dude is a Russian asset. Strange world

IjeBos:
As Us retreats from the World stage, countries will start building their own alliances.
Going to be hard to come back from that.

Ex0rrcist:
But let's be real about the issue of homelessness and illegal immigrants being everywhere. Blue president opened the border to them, there is no reason why red states should use their resources to cater for them, and most border states are red that's why they dump them in the blue state. At least that's the way I see it.

Homeslessness is not a result of illegal immigration. Most illegal immigrants already have a place to stay before they come even if it’s a subpar place. Some of them might end up homeless at some point but they’re by far not the majority.

Homelessness is primarily a result of lack of mental health care and disability. Red states are notorious for lack of access to affordable comprehensive health care. More than half of homeless people have a disability or mental health condition. Then High cost of housing is the second closest reason.

IjeBos:
Have to be honest, a friend called me out on this when I complained about a homeless encampment near my alma mater. I immediately felt foolish.
She asked me what Jesus would say or do.

And I realized it was odd that so called Christian Republicans are the ones fighting not to help Homeless people while Blue State Dems do everything in their power to.

Matthew 25:34-40

Listen. With a homeless encampment, it’s a bit more permanent so I get it. They need more permanent structures for those types of encampments.

But this warming center is only temporary and only open when the temperature drops to below 18 degrees Fahrenheit . That’s negative 8 degrees. Any living creature outside will die

They know that and they have no excuse. Just soulless for the fun of it.

AmazonTopaz:
I am shocked to hear this. If I ever find myself in America I will avoid red states like the plagues that they are

Like I said before should the anti-Christ be true. Christians are going to believe him. Truly, those going to heaven would be very few despite thee being billions of Christians.

Pls do.

They don’t believe in fair wages or unions protecting workers. They claim it’s cheaper to live there so they don’t need to pay well (story story).

But even adjusted for cost of living they are still beneath the so called expensive blue states. As someone who’s been in several coasts of the US, I’ve always had more money in my pocket at the end of the day living in a blue state. When you are a professional making $60k a year for example and then overnight your income doubles or triples just because you moved to a different state (no added qualification), that one extra dollar you’ll pay per gallon of gas or milk won’t make it even. You’ll still have more money regardless.

They claim blue states have a lot of homeless people and crimes but they pack their homeless people in the middle of the night and come dump them in the blue states because they know we have social programs designed to help the poor and lowly. By so doing they over stretch the programs we do have and then turn around to make a mockery of the situation.

If every state took initiative like the blue states, the problem would be evenly distributed and no one place would appear to be riddled with homelessness and crime.

What they really want is for people who can’t afford to live be put in private for-profit prison where they are used by mega corporations for slave labor.

When you come, consider
Massachusetts
Minnesota
Washington state
California
Connecticut

The swing states can be a hit or miss but if you have family or a support system, then give it a go.

The only red states I’d recommend are Texas and Florida. Because the likelihood of diversity from plenty Nigerian people in the area might be to your benefit if you’re a newbie. But have a timeline to get out as soon as your money starts rolling in

ObaIgwe1:
Well Trump 1st 2 years was better before Dems with China brought covid, and Trump is gonna investigate that now. How can you forget the checks signed in Trump's name and given to many Americans.... Plenty free money under Trump.

Don't worry, all doubts will be cleared this time around and if not fully cleared, we will get another extra term for Trump.

I think you’re being sarcastic

But if you’re not. Or at least for the benefit of those who don’t know, Trump opposed the Covid stimulus checks.

But after it was passed , he put his name on it and claimed the glory. Very on brand for a lot of republicans too. They always vote against any measures to help the public. But as soon as it’s passed despite their objections, they jump in to take the glory.

Because they know their constituents are the epitome of stupid and have no idea how things actually work.

wirinet:
Not exactly accurate. The quality of male sperm starts generating at much later age than female eggs. Men replace sperm cells every few weeks. It's from 70 years and above that the quality starts degenerating.

You’re wrong. It’s starts as early as 35.
There are so many dependable resources with meta analyses that support these studies.

But I know y’all not interested in listening to anything that tells you men are not the everlasting hunks you’ve been raised to believe


https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3253726/

There has been recent evidence of increased rate of first trimester spontaneous abortion with older paternal age. For paternal age ≥ 35 years, the risk of spontaneous abortion between 6 and 20 weeks of gestation was 1.27. This elevated risk was seen even when evaluating only those couples where the maternal age was < 30 years. When divided by trimester, the risk of first trimester miscarriage was 1.56 and risk was 0.87 for second trimester loss.59 Spontaneous abortion was likely due to chromosomal abnormalities . It is plausible that, because spermatogenesis continues throughout a man’s life, such continued replication can result in mutations. This was illustrated by Singh and colleagues, who studied semen samples that were collected from men between the ages of 20 and 57 years visiting fertility clinics. They found that the percentage of sperm with highly damaged DNA was statistically significantly higher in men aged 36 to 57 years than in those aged 20 to 35 years.

Orlu13:
dey deceive urselves....there is nowhere male virgins are talked abt...men don't need to be sexually pure, only women....stop talking crap

So the men don’t need to be pure but the women need to be pure.

Enlighten me . Who are the men sleeping with in this imaginary world where women are pure and men aren’t?

AmazonTopaz:
@cococandy

I just read your signature. You are so right. Empathy and kindness are two traits that I look for in people. Empathetic people would never vote for Orange Hitler and Republicans.

Many religious people claim to be so moral yet they are so hateful. Yikes. I wonder what they are learning from their holy books. No wonder they say that "there is no hate like Christian love."

They are sadly giving Christians a bad name.

The religion would be growing instead of shrinking if they didn’t present us a group of hateful people all the time.

A bunch of them Utah conservatives went out in the streets to protest the construction of warming centers in their city . Because they believe it might benefit homeless people.

I saw the video of location of the center and it wasn’t even in anyone’s neighborhood. So what’s the issue?
They’d rather have people freeze and die in the sub zero cold than for those lowly homeless people have somewhere warm to stay alive.

I’m sure after they voted against that, they went to church and sang praises. Much like their forefathers would come back from Sunday church and go attend human barbecues of black people.

Something is seriously wrong with them. I’ve never seen a group of people make their whole personalities be about being anti everyone else but themselves. Jesus Christ would be ashamed to witness this if he were here today.

SMH.

AmazonTopaz:
I am going to say this, hopefully I get to revisit it soon.
The Americans who are not in his cult but voted for him are going to miss Joe Biden.

I am talking about the Latinos, Muslims, Blacks and those who stayed at home and didn't bother to vote. It's only a matter of months. Six months is me being very generous. There are no indications that Trump is going to govern as a moderate. The Project 2025 people are going to be in his cabinet and his demented cult have been misled to think that he won a mandate they will not slow down. They will try to implement all that they have promised. I pity the idiots who believed that Trump had no ties to project 2025.

Now they’re openly admitting project 2025 was the plan all along. And he’s already placed some of the authors in leadership rolesaa way. These black men on here praising him will be in the fields picking cotton again while chanting his praises. Shameful and pathetic.

But we were “fear mongering” when we pointed it out in the beginning.

💯

And they’re always the ones bringing up the rainbow people as if to say that’s all democrats are running on. While actively ignoring every piece of tangible policy that’s being presented to them.

The same party that doesn’t want children indoctrination is asking for Ten Commandments to be taught at schools and pupils are to be instructed to pray for Donald Trump because we’re not North Korea 🤣🤣🤣.

The same women living with men who are sexually abusing their children and covering up for them are worried about hypothetical scenarios of trans people going to their bathrooms.

Let see how all this plays out.

AmazonTopaz:
Republicans are evil. I tell Nigerians this but they think life and government begins and ends with abortion and LGBTQ people, Nigerians are just as dumb as they are and that's why you have many Nigerian Trumpers. The difference though is that if Trump were a Nigerian politician they would hate him but Americans or his cult will keep defending him. The Nigerian and American electorate is similar. People don't vote for policies they vote for bigotry. In Nigeria it is religion and tribalism. In the USA it is sexism, racism, LGBTQ phobia etc. Bigotry wins. Republicans don't govern yet voters keep electing them. In a serious country they wouldn't even be a political party. With this kind of electorate I don't see America maintaining its number one status in the coming years. Nations are going to move on from their shadow. They are already planning to.

Lonestar124:
35years is too far for women to get married oo, to avoid bearing disformed and hormonal imbalance children..

Let's stop misleading our younger generation, we are not wiser than our fore fathers.

It’s male old age that causes deformity in children not female old age.

That fact that you have over 200 likes for this comment shows that a lot of people still have some learning to do.

You’re not wrong.

So many people have been of the opinion that a simple civics test should be required before voting.

Different figures online but the highest I saw was that 26.3 million Americans believe chocolate milk comes from brown cows. And you know who they probably vote for. The stupidity is endemic. But it’s all planned and maintained strategically in order to get these results.

Use a reliable 3rd party fact checking tool or website and see for yourself what states are consistently uneducated or under educated. With less access to healthcare, quality public education, high poverty rate, low standard of living, having to be financially subsidized by the blue states. All red states. And they keep voting for the same decade after decade.

It’s by design.

AmazonTopaz:
This is what pisses me off. I am a pro-democracy person but maybe just maybe a low information voter who has no idea how the government works shouldn't be voting and I say this for not just America but every where because that's how these foolish voters kill Democracy. Just look at Brexit for instance.

We were lied to while growing up. Americans are not intelligent people. Europeans are by far superior. Experience is the best teacher let them learn about the government they voted for. I give it 6 months they will start missing Biden. I am sure of it.

Whatever Trump does to them, they’ll still find a way to blame on immigrants and the “deep state”.

A lot of them paid more taxes after Trump went in the first time and increased taxes for poor people like them.

Their ability to afford homes decreased because of trumps tariffs.

Many of them lost multiple family members during covid directly as a result of Trump vilifying scientists like fauci and encouraging them not to take covid precautions seriously. After they buried their loved ones, their support for him increased.

They are getting sicker with more and more recalls everyday because of Trump deregulations of food industries.

Prices of gas and food went up exponentially during that time partly due to corporate price gouging and the effects of covid on the economy. Those prices are coming down now. Gas in some places is already down to 2-3 dollars per gallon (something that didn’t happen during trump’s presidency. Yet they are screaming “economy economy”. Trump’s presidency will make it go back up and they won’t even notice.

It’s easier to fool them than to convince them they are being fooled.

They will find a way to justify it or blame it on someone else

AmazonTopaz:
Sexism and racism did play a role but she did well with White voters that's what's shocking. She got over 74 million votes after campaigning for 100 days. She did well. I blame it on sexism and racism too but then the most important thing I blame it on is mis/disinformation plus the fact that the average voter is a dumb idiot.

Democrats cannot message to stupid people. Let stupid people experience what they voted for. The Democrats have candidates to counter that they have a rich bench. Harris was among that bench just accept it that your country folks are big time fools. In Europe Trump wouldn't even be a candidate. Look at Brazil Bolsonaro might go to prison but look at the United States they elected a criminal for President. There is no messaging this there is nothing Democrats can do other than let Americans experience Trump and Project 2025, your country folks are evil, fools, stupid, idiots and whatever curse words exists in the dictionary. Such a shame. America shouldn't be lecturing any nation with a dumb populace like that.

🤭🤭🤭

Onegai:
Stricker321

PS: let me add this, as an older woman.

Biologically, women's sex drive increases with age. Because we're socially conditioned to view sex as dirty, we spend our teens and 20s being ashamed of sex. By your 30s and 40s, that shame is gone and our hormones are actually pushing very hot.

Speak to older women, Dr's and sex store owners, their biggest clients are wives. Not single girls. I can tell you the names of the best sex vendors in Lagos. My very spiricoco friend can give you prices of intimacy gadgets off her head.

Menses feel more intense and so does Ovulation. The week of Ovulation for me is always horrid, I could jump a man daily. . Far too many of my friends discovered porn in this age (let me tell you this very honestly, if that Balthazar guy comes to Nigeria, he will beyond busy. Even me I watched the video and told my older sister "don't watch those videos, you'll faint with lust".

Heck, I watched one briefly yesterday, love that guy so many wives are secretly watching them .

Yet they're not sleeping with their husbands. Ask yourself why a Hot woman is not banging you. After years of neglect and disrespect on both sides and telling her "don't look at my phone if you don't want to cry".

And decide if you want to believe she hates you or if you want to fix things and be enjoying your lustful, hot, incredibly sex.y wife.

Also, Men in their 40s tend to have their libido taper off (which is why they start exercising and having their midlife crisis and drinking all sorts). Y'all actually need more help medically.

By 50s, women get hot flushes and the period ends and libido tapers. But if they go to a Urologist, they can get Estrogen to normalise things and resume business. Men then need Viagra.

Old people have a lot of sex.

Have a good one.

PS: sexual incompatibility is rare, saying this because I'm related to a Dr who treats it (it's usually medical or psychological). There was a white guy who said his ex-wife was frigid. Years later, he met her new man and was shocked to find out how hot his "frigid" wife was.

Some people know how to drive cars, others just have driving license and can move a car.

As for the physical aspect of sex I'll say this: Naija men are crude farmers, everything is a hoe to then. They literally "smash" and fall asleep in 2 mins.

Sex should be like driving a Toyota camry: you start the car, warm it a bit, then move to 20km/hr then 50km/hr before you enter express with 100km/hr. Slow to medium even strokes, gentlemen, not using the force of Sango, Amadioha and Thor to brutalise person's privates.

You got this, boys 🤟🏽