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mamagee3:
Ghetto neighbor had s3x with my younger brother… she is Black American

I found out after she came to my house to tell me the story because he didn’t pick up her calls…

What do I do?

Is he a minor?

Report her to the police if he is a minor

Otherwise ignore her and advise your brother properly.
STDs are real and can derail his life . So can unwanted pregnancies. Especially since it seems like you guys live in the west. He can’t get to run away from his responsibilities.

drimzsmoke:
I know, and I was not trying to treat her PCOS, she didn't present because of that. I was talking about her hirsutism!!!

This is what you said
🤷🏽‍♀️

drimzsmoke:
What she has is called PCOS and it has a treatment!!

Beautiful

mustyNEMESIS:
This thread motivated me to start cooking… I just started cooking last year. The biggest motivator is GboyegaD”. His food post always make me look lazy… so I started watching YouTube channels how to make naija foods… that’s how I started cooking… and guess what?? I enjoy it to the fullest… I work from home, so I have all the time to cook and try different naija dishes…. And today, I cook all my food myself…. Even though nah only me dey eat the food for the house…. I used to pay a lady to cook those soups for me, but not anymore…: my soups now make sense pass the ones they used to make for me lol…

So yes, this thread is a big motivator… Infact, I registered an account with Nairaland because of this thread. I’ve been a visitor here for over 12 years…

HueyNewton:
Coco, did you move housing?

A little 🤣

drimzsmoke:
Don't mind her, she's catching cruise, when it's time for marriage, she would know what to do
What she has is called PCOS and it has a treatment!!?

PCOS is Symptom management. No real treatment

Williams150:
I don't think she born with the beard,I think she appear it by herself...

How?

kay29000:
That's if she uses shaving stick. I use an electric clipper, and apply aftershave afterwards...no bumps or ingrown hair.

That’s good to know.

kay29000:
Madam, shave off the gaddamn beard first. You carry beard like man and you want man to be attracted to you. Shave every three days, dress appropriately and men will approach you.

Shaving often will give her ingrown hair and bumps.

Whiting, spinach and rice

If it were someone else they’d claim it’s a terrorist they killed

ComeToJesus:
I agree with you. It has some cultural underpinnings too..

Thank you for agreeing.

It’s not a complex issue. The cultural “underpinning” there is that their culture much like Nigeria’s adopted culture of female subjugation doesn’t favor women.

A modern society where divorce rates are high often (not always) but often reflect female exit power. AKA women who are empowered to remove themselves from bad or potentially dangerous relationships. This is progress.

Long lasting marriages whose longevity depends on divorce stigma/women’s shame of being called divorcees is not a flex.

Nigeria should absolutely have higher divorce rates. So should India.

Before people accuse me of wanting broken homes, that’s not what I’m saying. I’m hoping for better marriages. Not bad ones that women are told they have to stick to.

ComeToJesus:
My dear lady, In every society, there are deviants and people with dysfunctional behaviours. That's why laws are put in place to checkmate these. Humans will not always want to behave appropriately,not just men

Somehow they happen to be more brazen in societies where men dominate women.
One wonders what the correlation is 🤔
https://www.reuters.com/world/india/indias-struggles-with-high-rape-cases-low-conviction-rates-2024-08-15/

ComeToJesus:
Indian women are so loyal and virtuous.. Lived and worked amongst them, they are so faithful and do not flirt.

No matter how much the woman earns, she doesn't lord over her husband, though there's a coded subservient pedestal that the man operates from.

Yet their men rape them and kill them indiscriminately.
It shows there’s no benefit to being that way towards a man. He’ll still pay you back with evil.

What do you men actually what?

chidiokay:
Cococandy these calls for celebrate ... the handwork, and resilience nite and day are beginning to pay off

how about you take the gurlz out .... single mom rocks !

I believe that unfortunately the majority of these divorces comes from the north where men easily cast aside the children they married in order to marry more children. I’d love to be proven wrong though.

The type of divorces our society needs is happening but it’s nowhere near where it should be. I mean the divorces where women aren’t staying in physically, emotionally and financially abusive relationships just because they feel too powerless and financially inadequate to leave.

If we say marriage in 🇳🇬 should be limited people who don’t actively hate each other, only 25 percent of the couples will remain married.

Salmon Rasta pasta and ribs for lunch

Just coffee and oat milk for breakfast

TheWinterBird:
Breakfast

Blueberry Bagel, Eggs, Shrimps, Orange Juice (avec beaucoup de pulpe /with lots of pulp).

I’d totally gobble this down

But they let white people walk all over them

Yahoo yahoo final boss

Thousands of residents of Gobir in Sokoto State have stormed the forests to confront bandits and rescue their abducted relations, citing the continuous failure of the security forces

Solid plan.

Wondering why they haven’t done it earlier.

Other states needs to follow suit

DelilahMakinde:
Read up on hepatorenal syndrome.
The liver is like a third kidney and vice versa.

I know about hepatorenal syndrome. You guys just like to argue on this forum.

I said more likely to cause liver failure than kidney failure. That doesn’t mean it’s guaranteed to never affect the kidneys.

But It’s primarily the liver and it doesn’t always have to end in kidney failure. If this man suffered from alcoholism to the point off kidney failure, he’d have long been sick from liver failure before the kidney transplant.

And I don’t know what transplant laws are applicable where he is, we don’t give kidneys to patients with compromised livers. So he most likely had a healthy liver when he got his transplant. Can’t have a healthy liver with alcoholism. Hence my belief that his kidneys failed for different reasons.

I didn’t say what I said so that I can be on here arguing back and forth. It was just a simple factual statement that didn’t need a rebuttal.

I’m sick of y’all and y’all’s need to counter everything. Even true statements 😫

They’ll still blame her

EponObi:
Brother, come off this road. Few months ago, TG Omori himself, in a tweet, attributed fake drinks as the cause of his predicament.

Fake drinks as in laced with stuff that’s not alcohol?

So then drugs?

EponObi:
It's actually the other way round. It's from excessive alcohol to kidney disease to liver disease.

Let's even agree for a moment that liver problem caused by alcohol leads to kidney disease, it doesn't change the fact that alcohol is the causation.

Liver failure doesn’t always lead to kidney failure.

So not knowing what happened to him, it’s irresponsible and cruel to litter the comments about alcoholism on his case.

Also it’s not the other way around. Liver usually goes first. How can the kidneys go first when alcohol is primarily metabolized by the liver? Some people can develop liver disease, change their ways and their liver recovers . Then they never go on to develop kidney disease if they stay clean.

I’ve taken care of so many patients in liver failure from alcohol abuse whose kidneys are still functioning okay. Not in their best condition but definitely functional whereas their liver has already failed.

You just want to be right so badly so you can feel great about the judgement you’re passing on him.

EponObi:
See this ignoramus and social media addict forming Rambo against people with correct knowledge, opinion and facts.

Excessive alcohol and drugs affect the kidney. No need distorting medical facts.

Drugs affect kidneys. That’s a facts. That’s why I didn’t hire the comments talking about drugs only alcohol Z

But Alcohol primarily leads to liver failure.

If someone develops kidney problem without preceding liver failure, it’s most likely not from alcohol.

BeigJawnson:
Check this...

So he would have been in liver failure before this.

Just like I said right?

Amigoss:
Trolls? Fake empathy from opps?

Keeping it on social media isn't going to impact his healing either...

If it makes him feel better, that’s a positive.

Chances are he already knows the grim reality of his situation. So he’s not seeking a new kidney from the internet

But don’t discount emotional health. If it makes him feel better for one day, then so be it.

kendrick9:
Lol what high horse
I'm speaking based on the fact I've had first hand experiences of trauma....not once!

That feeling cuts too deep for me to rationalize how any human can behave this way...

kendrick9:
Come back to me when you've had experiences.
I can see from your posts you have no clue or maybe you're in too deep with sharing your life stories on the gram...

Like I said, not everyone grieves the same way.

You’re choosing to have a problem with it and that’s on you!

BeigJawnson:
And same liver damage can leads to renal failure.

True.

But he would’ve been in liver failure before this. No?

kendrick9:
What's the end purpose.
Social media validation??

Maybe words of consolation will from his followers will make him feel better?

I need some of you to get off the mindset that’s everything posted on the internet is for validation.

What validation? Will any comment or post made in reference to his situation make it any more or less real? It’s already valid regardless of what anyone says. It’s a real situation he’s going through. No one’s post can validate or invalidate it.

There’s a reason why people feel better when you commiserate with them. It’s human nature.

Get off your high horse

kendrick9:
It's just something I can never get my head around.

Same goes for those who lost their loved ones and immediately posts on their social media.
Like how tf are you even in the right frame of mind.

Everyone grieves differently. He’s actively grieving the possible end of his life.

Maybe for you social media is a place of happiness and sharing good news or happy memories. So you can’t understand how someone would share their hard moments on the internet

But for some people, they deal with stuff in the moment. They don’t feel like hiding it first then come online after some months or weeks to bring it up again and receive condolences all over again.

You don’t understand it doesn’t make it wrong.

Besides when is he supposed to post it? When he’s actually dead? What if he doesn’t feel like dying quietly? You can’t tell people how to deal with life changing potentially life ending trauma.