₦airaland Forum

Zonefree:
Chef Chi says Hello.

Exactly.

advanceDNA:
how is thinking shes a man and insult..? It's just an error .....My statement to her was to let her know further explanation is not needed....and I was right..someone else still tried to invalidate the video

no mistaking her for a man wasn’t the insult. It was the generalization you made afterwards about women while speaking that I was talking about. But if she’s not offended let’s not drag it

madam, apology not accepted.. ....me I don't know why you are always on beast mode, bringing RPGS ans nuclear war heads to packer and broom fight...
..everything is an insult, everything is misogyny once we mention ur genders BS,u think we are bashing ...madam its not my fault ur gender does alot of BS ooooo

I don’t know what’s beast mode here. Are you guys not used to women challenging you? Because I’ve never said anything to you that your fellow man wouldn’t say to you. Why is it beast mode coming from me? Sorry I’m not demure and cutesy. Lmao

.....if I tell you children also create false pattern of reports against their parent, and more common a step parent they dont like you will still call me a liar...

okay that’s not what this is about. I’m not saying people don’t make false reports. I’m saying it’s unbelievable to me that police would tell people to stop reporting issues.

I mean, this is just small community awareness and u already feel they are silencing ur gender...
Okay ooo.

Okay. Well it figures because I can’t find anything about it online. In any article, official police statement or anything of that nature.

Make she no chase her dream na. In 10 years time she’ll know how far. lol

Only a fool puts their life and their future wellbeing totally in the hands of another person in the name of marriage. No matter the love and how much he provides financially, it’ll get old one day and if she took the risk to not invest in herself, she’ll have no choice but to smile, grind and bear it when push comes to shove.

She doesn’t have to do 50:50 but she MUST invest in herself.

Zonefree:
An average woman will always discard her dreams, passion and career for a reputable diçk.

Women don't chase their dream. When you see an average Nigerian woman chasing her dreams, poverty is the cause.


I wish her safe delivery.

When there aren’t even enough health care workers in the first place they’re kidnapping the ones that are available?

“The exact number of patients kidnapped is still unknown,” he added.

What are they even going to do with sick people?

Calitoscassius:
I wondered, that was i asked, i mean, it doesn't matter how many times a female calls the UK police over domestic violence or abuse, they would still turn up. i don't know about the US though.

Or male. At least in the USA. Police will definitely answer at any time whether male or female and no matter how many times.

advanceDNA:
yawn!! Insult?? Misogyny.?? ......everything is insult and misogyny..

U called it lies...another person gave evidence yet .... u are all over the place still foaming in the mouth.....madam go and rest

1) Yes you dished a blanket gender insult in your response to her not knowing she was a woman. You thought it was a man so he could join you in insulting women. 🙄

2) I’m sorry I said you were lying. My impression is that you were saying something you were told first hand not something you saw on the internet. My Apologies. Usually when I’m saying something, I distinguish how I got the information and that removes the burden of it being true or false from being my responsibility

3) I just saw that video and I’m pressed to believe there’s any police department in the world that would stand behind that statement seeing as a death from domestic violence in that district can be held against them for discouraging people from coming forward. I’m going to research when this happened and see what police department this is and if they actually sent this man to act on their behalf

advanceDNA:
Oga why u dey explain...nor dey shàlàyè too much give woman....it's of nor use....they will still tag ur explaination as lies......once their gender starts doing shameful BS....they will always call it lies and bashing when they get called out.... Na saint them be....they don't ever do evil....

The person you’re even quoting is a woman.

Look at how misogyny makes you people act. Dishing blanket insult to anyone you perceive to be a woman.

I’m sure if you knew she was a woman even though she was trying to corroborate what you were saying, you’d have still found a way to insult her

1stGenAmerican:
That’s the gist of it, really. The men are accustomed to beating on women and ‘resetting their brains’ so instead of leaving that behavior behind in Nigeria, they bring it to the West with them. They want to bully and abuse their women while taking all of her earnings, trying to control the finances, wasting it on what he pleases. The women gets fed up and the next time he attempts a brain reset, she calls the police and he’s arrested and sometimes deported. The man then lies, saying how the woman kicked him out of his own house for no reason—-sometimes a house where he hasn’t paid a bill because he’s been busy forming big boy with his own money while she’s been paying the bills with hers.
Same goes for children. They don’t correct, they abuse and commit horrendous acts on children, beating them like animals, then act shocked when they’re carted away to jail.

Bingo

advanceDNA:
Who is this one.....??

Tell us exactly what the police told your pastor.

What does who I am have to do with it?

advanceDNA:
Yes naaa...the police raised the issue through churches ...it was fvnny

The police went to the church and told the pastor to warn his congregation?

Please

Sometimes you just have read the lies, shake your head and move on

This forum is notorious for spreading gargantuan lies about women who live abroad. I know the whole world is patriarchal but we have a special type of archaic patriarchy where the thought of women existing as respected members of their families who can’t be easily mistreated gives them heart burn. That’s just it.

That the reason for the obsession and why you see the incessant useless lies. Like women can do anything and there’s no justice for men. They’re just upset that they can’t abuse their wives and have it swept under the rug as family matters.🙄

1stGenAmerican:
Your friend is lying.

1stGenAmerican:
Never. Same with UK police—never.

EreluRoz:
You don't understand evil, asiwaju is under attack

You’ve got to be kidding me!

And in the end, nothing substantial will happen to the owners of the compound and the financiers of whatever scheme was going on there. 😒

michlins:
until the daycare standards rise, safeguard your own kids your own way.

I know people who have no business going out daily but will dump kids at daycare with the excuse of leaving the stress. In my opinion,if you earn 150k monthly, you have no reason to leave your child at daycare especially for a state in Lagos where transportation will eat at least 40% of your salary.

You have not provided any solutions. Just for them to stop working.

I’m assuming you’ll take on their bills as soon as they stop working?

michlins:
I have a child and until he can fully express himself, no school for him.

That’s great. But not everyone can be in that position. That’s why instead of blaming other parents who don’t have a choice but to entrust their young kids to daycare so they can go earn a living, we should hold the daycare centers to higher standards

mmadu4:
THEN DONT GIVE BIRTH . simple

Tell your fellow men

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 @ bold

GloriousGbola:
you little no good t-wat - i have been married for 18 years
in the nigerian parlance i am a big boy
i live in festac, an arena of willing and ready women of all ages
if i was a womanizer, i would not need nairaland when women of easy virtue are readily available

you must have been dropped on your head and then stomped on by the failed human being who shat you into the world - if you think that supporting the rights of women is simping.

i have been surrounded by strong women all my life, and i am not intimidated or worried by them.

it is losers and failures like you who need someone forced by society to be below you; someone you can punch down on who have issues with women

original lbj quote


modified for you


keep it up

10 years from now the women you are trolling would have gone even further in their careers and achievements and you will still be nothing but a failed troll sucking on my diik

michlins:
the person earning the least money should take care of the child until he or she is old enough to start schooling. These days, there are avenues to earn significantly from home if you are serious about it

Earning significantly from home while also being the stay home partner is spoken like someone who’s never cared for an infant a day in their lives. Unless you’re not actually doing the work. Nobody will pay you significantly for sitting at home and pretending to work while in reality you are tending to a crying baby every 30 minutes, changing a diaper every 2 hours. Rocking the baby to sleep, feeding the baby every 3 hours then burping them for 10 minutes after that . Keeping them entertained or they’ll start screaming.

Infants are a full time job. Realistically working from home while nursing an infant is easier to say than do. Only people who don’t know what’s involved speak flippantly about it like this

Gerrard59:
The global economy has distorted the family system. Chai! No wonder birth rates are plummeting here and there.

Unbridled capitalism

Don’t get me wrong I don’t think socialism or communism is the answer.
But there has to be a balance to how capitalism is run otherwise there’ll be no one left to create this system of ever growing profit that’s clearly unsustainable

radautoworks:
your fbi agent was on the clock

mine doesn’t sleep

travelzcruix:
you are right anyway.

So you’ll vote a woman ?

travelzcruix:
I can never support a
Woman candidacy when it comes to sensitive positions like that. The world is run more on compromise, back door agreements. Men understand the importance of this strategy. Put a woman there and watch her burn treaties overnight. Russia, US all coexisted with each others not overstepping his boundaries. The middle East is in utter collapse. We need men at this time. The world needs peace at any cost. We don't need a hot headed Magaret Tacher at this point.

Yet yall are causing wars and strife every day. The world needs peace. The Middle East is in utter collapse. But wait, a woman can’t lead because all these wonderful beautiful wars weren’t caused by men at all

Talking stupid while the facts are facing you has to be a special male characteristic that only a few misogynistic men have

Black people fawning over a racist white man will never not be funny

Gerrard59:
Is it really that bad in Nigeria? No vex, but I don't know why a part of me is yet to believe that things are actually tough for Nigerians. I find it hard to believe.

It’s hard to believe because you can’t really believe in something you’re not directly experiencing

But if you have family members in Nigeria, just use their grocery list and compare what things used to cost versus what it cost now. It was hard for me to wrap my head around before but now I’m getting the hang of it.

Mind you what was attainable 2 months ago can be very different two months later.

lexy2014:
who is the victim that is being blamed here?

The parents

One person must stay home. Great.

By any chance are you thinking the person who must stay home has to be the wife? In that case hope we are not going to hear about how women of nowadays are entitled and want to reap where they did not sow. How they’re liabilities depending on men.

michlins:
while I understand your major concerns being money, parenting and career can never be balanced. One person must be stay at home if you value your kids and their lives. If you prioritize your career, avoid parenting.


The major problem of our society is the dysfunctional kids people churn out on the daily without adequate provisions for their welfare

This can also happen to a young child or toddler at a regular school run by a wealthy person who feels they’re above the law. And the young kid may still be unable to accurately say who did it to them.

You people need to do away with this mindset of victim blaming. It helps no one except the perpetrator.

desiredhome:
Why give birth to a child you barely have time to take care', 80% of the blame goes to the mother of this innocent baby .....

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emperor4love:
The idiotic parents that put this baby in day care such age,did there parents did so to them

lexy2014:
you carry this kind tiny baby of about 6months to daycare.

what happened to parents care?

mmadu4:
the parents of this innocent child should be publicly beaten and then sent to jail for being stupid and dumb enough to send their probably 8 months old baby or less to day care in this our Nigeria wey everybody dey vex .

We learn everyday

Thank you

Fujiyama:
^^^


'Fine' is an Irish/Gaelic word, loosely translated as 'group of families' or 'population of'.
'Gael' is also an Irish/Gaelic word and it means the same thing as 'Gaelic', the race the Irish are descended from.

The party's name 'Fine Gael' is loosely translated as 'family of Gaels'.

Before we proceed, what’s Fine Gael? That’s what these people named their party?

Oh My God

What of all the many many innocent people still locked up in there?