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Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 7:10am On Apr 06
He frowns upon vulgarity except when it’s from Trump

2022 frowns upon it

2025: oh gimme a break everyone does it.

Idk who lives with these people but this level of cognitive dissonance and outright hypocrisy would make me question everything they’ve ever told me.

Would actually be scared of being in the same house as them. You think you’re living with a human but you don’t really know the precarious mindset they are harboring.
ijebosb:
Brutal community note at the bottom.
But, this level of hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance is necessary to be a MAGA Republican.
Reminds me of any of Raumdeuter's posts.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 4:28am On Apr 06
100%. What would you do any differently if you were a Russian agent trying to destroy the West? Nothing. This is Putin at work through his favorite agent..

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 9:59pm On Apr 05
He actually doesn’t have to believe it to say it.

Sometimes you meet people where they are because that’s how best to relate to them.

I believe in NOTHING the Quran teaches but if I’m a leader who has Muslims in my community , it wouldn’t make me two-faced to address their religious celebrations the way they see it.

There’s nothing in his speech that says he personally believe Jesus was killed. He merely acknowledges that it is what Christians are celebrating
DeepSight:
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Two ways to view this. On one hand, it could show how broad minded he is considering that Muslims do not believe that Jesus was killed at all, not to speak of being resurrected. On the other hand, it could show him as simply a two faced politician for saying what he does not believe in.

I like the man regardless and such warm statements are beneficial to the world.
Crime › Re: Dozens Killed By Herdsmen In Mbalom, Gwer East, Benue Attack (Photos) by cococandy(f): 9:49pm On Apr 05
Just disgusting all around
ibedun:
We also have
Councillors
House of assembly members
Council chairman
Commissioners
State governors
Senators
House of rep members
Police commissioners
Military officers and personnel

And 36 states in Nigeria- receiving monthly allocations etc etc 😏😏
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 9:38pm On Apr 05
Wow, now is a good time to point out that Mamdani is a Muslim. Generally, Muslims do not celebrate Easter.
Yet, Mamdani acknowledges and celebrates the holy days of Christians. This is what fostering inclusivity and respectful recognition look like.

Crime › Re: Dozens Killed By Herdsmen In Mbalom, Gwer East, Benue Attack (Photos) by cococandy(f): 7:42pm On Apr 05
Yet we have a president 😐
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 12:39pm On Apr 05
Y'all ready for the 3rd Reich: American Edition?

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 8:21am On Apr 05
PDPGuy:
Trump’s approval rating is about to rebound!
Imagine if he didn’t start the war in the first place?

Then nobody would have needed rescuing.He shouldn’t get credit for throwing a cup of water on a grease fire he started.

Happy Easter bro.
Family › Re: My Husband Assaulted Our Maid While I Was Away I Don’t Know What To Do by cococandy(f): 7:14am On Apr 05
FriendsAndFans:
If you end up divorcing, where will you go with the 2 young children? A 4 year old and a 9 months old.

It's very difficult to be a single parent even if you have a well paying job.
It's all upto you tho
Away from the rapist for a start. What an insane question
Family › Re: My Husband Assaulted Our Maid While I Was Away I Don’t Know What To Do by cococandy(f): 7:13am On Apr 05
ProfGday:
The blame is yours, cos how can you tempted your husband with a 19yr old maid?

The best you can do is to stay in that marriage and accept the blame as yours. Forgive your husband and let bygone be bygone.


The maid should be well compensated for all the trauma she went through in the hand of that he-goat you called husband.


Your husband should be flogged naked 101 times on market days as a reparations for his crime.
Do you rape all 19 years olds you come across?

This is 2026 and this forum has not changed one bit

No wonder the country is in shambles. This is the crop from which the leaders are being chosen
Family › Re: My Husband Assaulted Our Maid While I Was Away I Don’t Know What To Do by cococandy(f): 7:12am On Apr 05
So the best thing for the children will be for her to stay with a rapist ?

You people are crazy
correctyourself:
Here is a true experience.

I heard of similar issues with a family and the matter got to the husband's office and the man was sacked as a result of the issue. Till today the man has not been able to get well paying job and both the wife, man and children are lacking what the family needs for decent life.

Leaving the marriage wouldn't be good for the children.

Lastly, having seen the person whom your husband is, never you keep female house help to avoid similar issues, try and pull the issue over so that it wouldn't affect your thinking
Family › Re: My Husband Assaulted Our Maid While I Was Away I Don’t Know What To Do by cococandy(f): 7:11am On Apr 05
You guys are insane.

Jesus Christ
SpencerForbes:
Even the elders of nairaland are weak and speechless 😶

After thinking this through, here is my take on the situation. Firstly, you must ensure the girl is properly settled and compensated for what has happened. Following that, you need to have a very serious sit-down with your husband to make it clear that this must never repeat itself. If you let this slide without a heavy consequence, you are opening a door that might lead to your own daughter being the next target. Give him a very strict warning; it is going to be incredibly difficult to rebuild the trust that was once there, so you must give yourself the necessary time to heal.

Alternatively, if you are financially stable enough, you should consider leaving the house for two weeks or more. If he is truly remorseful and cares about the marriage, he will come around and look for you. However, if you are the one who goes back begging, you have effectively given him the audacity to do even worse because he will believe you have no other options or anywhere else to go. If he comes around, he should be watched closely, but if this behavior recurs, it proves he has no respect for you—and a marriage where there is no mutual respect is simply not sustainable.
Family › Re: My Husband Assaulted Our Maid While I Was Away I Don’t Know What To Do by cococandy(f): 7:11am On Apr 05
immortalcrown:
My own advice:

Leaving the marriage is risky. What if he becomes unavailable when you later forgive him and wishe to have him? His action was very wrong. But I advise you to continue with the marriage since he doesn't starve or assault you.

As for him, he should be arraigned ona two-count charges of rape and attempted murder. If at all you should separate from him, let his jail sentence be the cause, do not divorce him.
Are you well?

Seriously?
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 12:45am On Apr 05
When their ignorance gets exposed they start flailing about fishing for distraction. Their favorite topic to divert to is gay men. Very Sus

IjeBos:
Clearly you didn't know they don't "pay 5% of their GDP to NATO for defence" or you wouldn't have written that they do.
Or did you forget the post you wrote?

You should really seek medical help for that short term memory loss of yours.
Family › Re: My Friend Brought Back His Promiscuous Wife by cococandy(f): 9:11pm On Apr 04
adamkkk:
normal thing


Bt with the sacrifices he made for that woman, i would not expect that level of betrayal.


Anyways, i wish him well. Although i have this conception that a cheating wife is more dangerous than a snake.
So, It’s normal when your friend cheats but you feel like you need to disturb our peace with a silly thread when his wife cheats back? Don’t you have a job you need to get to? Or you want your friend to marry you too?
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 7:45pm On Apr 04
Govt sanctioned ethnic cleansing disguised as crime prevention to sound acceptable.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 3:06pm On Apr 04
Obrigardo:
You must always mock the maga idiots for life.
Don't let them go away scot free
They are all grand fools in this grand delusion
Let’s pretend I’m MAGA:

This didn’t happen.

Trump never said this.

Or if he did, he didn’t mean it like this.

Or if he meant it like this, you’re taking it out of context.

Or it’s different now that he’s the one doing it.

Sorry I can’t find anything to defend my delusions with.

How about I tell you that you’re emotional for pointing out my cognitive dissonance?

Wait you can’t stand how steupid I sound? You must be fragile for not wanting to stay back and waste your time going back and forth with me while I lie, gaslight and deny reality


Phew. That hurt my brain trying to pretend to be brain dead like them. You tell me which step I missed. 😂
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 3:01pm On Apr 04
It’s nothing to brag about that you’re so steupid people can’t stand listening to you. It’s neither a difference in opinion nor fragility on their part.

It just shows how seriously deluded you guys are. I see new guys walk into this thread thinking they are about to have a conversation with sane folks only to be met with most insane reality deficient people they’ve ever had the displeasure of meeting.

And of course they try but how can you have a conversation with someone who has gruel where their brain is supposed to be? It’s impossible. After a few tries, they realize the insanity and move on.

It doesn’t mean you won. It means they’ve realized like others before them that people ought to be in straight jackets do not make fine conversation partners
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 10:16am On Apr 04
DeepSight:
Cococandy, Ijebos, nateevs, budaatum, obrigardo, basilico, benalvino3, GracieX3, LordReed -

Pls listen to this clip. Its just a few seconds.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/yhkGy9f_vcM
Not in the least surprising

If they could, they’d find a way to say descendants of enslaved African Americans aren’t citizens either
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 10:04am On Apr 04
When I first moved to America, I didn’t let conservative hysteria about men who wear makeup and she/they/them pronouns rid me of my common sense.

I did go and still go to church faithfully. But used my god-given brain to assess who actually practices what Jesus preaches about love and neighborliness. And shocker, it isn’t the conservatives. They are stuck in hate. They mentally can’t progress past the point where they see others as humans who deserve to enjoy the country like everyone else.

And that’s why we don’t have great amenities like other first world countries . The conservative fear that non-white people might benefit too. They’d rather all suffer and die than live in a world where other communities are happy.

Leave it to democrats to actually do the things conservatives claim they want like America First. All other developed nations have robust safety nets for their citizens who pay taxes. Citizens who shouldn’t be ashamed of asking to benefit from their taxes.

This here may not be the exact same compared to what should be done. We are still far behind as this is something that should have been guaranteed federally decades ago but wasn't. But a step in the right direction is step I’m always happy about.

Kudos to Virginia democrats

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 9:50am On Apr 04
If you’re wondering how Donald Trump bankrupted so many businesses, we’re now getting a lesson in real time at the taxpayers’ expense. “But He’s a greaT bUsinesSman” 🤡🤡

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 9:11am On Apr 04
Welcome to America where we want you to have more babies but can’t dream of doing this because if we did, then black people might benefit from it. And we can’t have that. Instead let’s fund isreal to the tune of trillions while their citizens enjoy free healthcare.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 8:03am On Apr 04
What about the “liberation of Iranians”?

Are you guys still on the “let’s liberate them” train or have you joined DJT in wanting them bombed to the stone ages and keeping their oil?

Remember this was supposed to be for the “liberation of Iran” 🤡🤡🤡. Now we are boasting about how many of them we’ve killed?

Anyone expecting a sincere engagement from you morally decrepit leprechauns only has to themselves to blame honestly .

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 7:06am On Apr 04
That’s someone’s child 😔 and all he/she ever did wrong to deserve this was have a desire to serve our country.

I fvcking hope they haunt DJT and his family forever!!

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 12:54am On Apr 04
This

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 6:04pm On Apr 03
Once it’s over, they will try to disperse like slimey maggots exposed to sunshine
IjeBos:
He asked what pillar did Republican House Member Miss Jewish space laser hold?
Here is Trump with pillars of the current Republican Party.
Why don't you post a picture of Biden, or Obama with 'Antifa'.

Again, it's like watching someone play with jello at a mental institution.

It should be clear that no one who supported Trump with take responsibility for it once Trump is gone.
They'll pretend Trump and all his sycophants were democrats.
No amount of logic or facts will change their view, just mockery.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 5:37pm On Apr 03
Your average Republican doesn’t actually care about morality or righteousness. They’ve said it here themselves. They don’t need the president to be a good person. But they’re the first to start ranting about holiness and godly family values when it suits them.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f):
They know that.

But if they don’t center it around kids they won’t get the traction and propaganda they’re looking for.

That’s why they fake care about kids when they’re trying to scapegoat these people.

Who cares if people are transitioning and detransitioning? Idgaf. They can do whatever the heck they want with their bodies.

I certainly care if they’re kids and that’s the stance of most humans on this earth no matter how these folks try to exaggerate it.

Ask them to vote for kids welfare, meals in school, free healthcare for childcare, clean unpolluted environment to preserve the future of these kids and watch the excuses start creeping in. “Who will pay for it? bla bla bla”

They care about kids when they’re hiding behind them to be hateful.


DeepSight:
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I know it does happen hence my concerns. Nonetheless Madam cococandy is right that the incidences are exaggerated in terms of frequency.

Some of the cases I have heard also have nothing to do with children but trans women (biologically male) acting inappropriately in women's spaces or in women's jails and I think even one case of serial rape by a trans woman in a women's facility.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 3:59pm On Apr 03
DeepSight:
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Thank you m'lady. I know already you are correct in this. It still leaves me with concern because of a few cases I have come across which are very disturbing.
I really want them to use that energy to focus on holding people who have actually harmed children accountable
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f):
Children are not engaging in sex change in America.

You should know by now that right wingers are nothing if not liars. If there’s nothing you can swear they’re telling the truth on, why would this be any different?

You guys really bought the right wing lies of elementary school sex changes and bathroom debacles. Name one thing the right wingers have been truthful about since you started paying attention to the things they say?

Why would this issue be any different?

Gender affirming surgeries are so rare in minors that when they occur, it’s mainly on straight boys with big chests who want to reduce their feminine appearance by removing excess fat tissue from their chests. They are 97% of the so called gender surgeries the right wingers are lying about.

If these people cared about kids the way they claim to, they would stop scapegoating trans people and focus on exposing the Epstein club!


DeepSight:
7. Non discrimination against the LGBTQ Community (This is different from the crazy wacko stance of the extreme left on these issues as I have mentioned above re: issues such as children engaging in sex change, use of bathrooms, participation in particular sports for women, use of gender pronouns, etc.) - I am also opposed to gay marriage or a gay couple adopting children..

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 12:49pm On Apr 03
Two ijits discussing the damage they helped cause with their braindead audience of podcast listeners.


Nothing genuinely pissed me off more than a clearly ignorant man who loves to hear himself talk. There are many of them in this decade and there are way too people willing to reward them with views and clout.

Make podcast bros illegal again. Steupid hoes

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 10:20am On Apr 03
LordReed:
MAGA has rotted his capacity to reason. He used to be reasonable now he is just a lemming like the rest of them.
It’s just useless pride. Smart people have the capacity to recognize when they’ve been had and take their L honorably.

With him, it’s devolved to supporting pdfilia under the guise of “we don’t need our leaders to be good people”.

Such a disgusting show of absent inner values.

Doesn’t matter how much I support a person in power, if they show that they’re the opposite of everything I believed them to be, I either withdraw my support or risk aligning myself with the values they currently display.

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