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lolipopandy:
can I send my plate

As you wish ma’am

FloraEC:
Don't think I can eat it tho, just remove the mushroom and give me others

Thanks: That’s just the mushrooms that I haven’t sliced yet

desire222:
The stew look sumptuous. Please what's that white pastry on the kitchen counter ?

Thanks

Prestonn:
Beautiful and looks delicious... I need bread with this

It really doesn’t have an outstanding taste that I can describe. It does absorb the taste and flavor of what you cook it with

The texture is what I like the most. It’s chewy

FloraEC:
I swallowed spit Never tasted mushroom at all, what does it taste like?

Lock her up

missjo:
I have no idea who taught you that but ok

So what is the BASIS for gender inequality in African societies or in Saudi Arabia?

I will break it down further,what fuels it and gives it life?

Probably the same person who didn’t teach you that social aspects of any community includes but is not limited to their culture, language, food, religion, traditions and even ways of dressing. Basic social studies but what do I know?

You could pick religion as a cause of inequalities in one of the mentioned societies above. I don’t disagree that different causes may call for different approach. It doesn’t make it any less a social issue as long as it’s affecting human beings.

If it involves one human relating to another in any form, then it’s a social issue despite the branch that it falls under

You don’t like mushrooms?

I used to be like that too.

cutiereborn:
Remove the mushrooms n I will have mine with white rice

yes

Mariangeles:
Make I bring rice ?

It tastes good

Yuneehk:
I haven't tasted lamb before but this looks appetizing. Wouldn't be bad for the cold weather over here. Enjoy

Thanks

WildChild00:
bonappetit' senorita'

Cultural issues ARE Social issues

missjo:


What is prevalent in Saudi Arabia, does it stem from a social issue or a cultural issue?

We don’t even have to that far. In the most progressive countries in the world, feminism is still truly justified. When we start going to countries where even basic human rights are issues like in naija and Saudi, asking for women’s rights seems like asking for gold.

However, I can’t understand folks who really (for real real) can’t see a discrepancy in how women are treated compared to men.

Is it like one of those people who can’t see different types of color stuff? It might actually be worth studying. Like a post-humous brain study type of thing.

There might be a difference in sizes/shapes of the different segments our brains in proportion to size and gender, Causing this inability to relate to what’s actually true and happening. Just a thought

ornicus:
Send her to Saudi Arabia where her son will be signing permit for her and where they are Celebrating the dubious privilege of driving.or Pakistan where he folks will Bleep her up with sharp water for fucking.then her eye will clear. Taking the hard earned privileges for granted.

[quote author=Acidosis post[/quote]Movement taken too far but what do you expect from a group of terribly emasculated grown a$$ men?[/quote]They are feeling emasculated because they aren’t being allowed to lord it over someone else’s life. If one’s manhood and strength only comes from oppressive traditions, then he shouldn’t have been blessed with such strength in the first place. True strength does not need the weakening of another to manifest.

I believe women can achieve a lot and attain far greater heights without necessarily comparing themselves with men. A lot of women are doing great things whether in marriage or not. When you think a group of people are responsible for your woes, it's only a matter of time before hatred sets in.

Again with hand-in-ass definitions of feminism.
Who said anything about comparing men and women?

And if a set of people are truly responsible for the so called woes, does ignoring it make it go away?
So men are not responsible for the greater number of violence against women and children? there’s no social construct that limits women’s power both in our traditional practices and corporate institutions?

If you folks who call yourselves humanists in a bid to counter feminists really do care about all humans like you say, you won’t be blind to these social inequalities.
Telling us MGTOW is the fault of feminists is like saying ... you get it.

Acidosis:
Don't even bother defining feminism because those behind the movement are yet to come up with one holistic meaning. And an attempt to define feminism in the manner you've done is like saying Boko Haram is simply an anti-western education sect.

you chose to believe it’s undefined because that gives you the opportunity to define it in a way that suits your agenda. I’ll pass.

To the best of my knowledge (based on common knowledge in this part of the world), it takes a group of man-hating, bitter and frustrated people to call themselves feminists.

Or a group of women who see social injustices that are gender tailored and decide to speak up against it. Common knowledge is not often accurate knowledge. I’d think your know better than that.

And you must realize that every cause has an effect. If MGTOW is the effect of feminism, then embrace it!

fully embraced. They can take a hike and the world will be better for it. Except that in a true misogynistic fashion, MGTOW will seek to hurt and kill others for them not getting their way. Inciting gun violence and murder because waah waah, gone are the says when men could say jump and women would say how high. If they would just leave already without physically hurting anyone . No need to be dramatic about it.

Hatred for men beget hatred for women.

This part is very funny. Like is that upside down or what?
And I know your definition of “hatred for men” means asking for respect for women. Any woman who has the nerve to ask for that is hating on men. Can’t love men in a real NL way without being able to take demeaning social standards as part the package right?

If you’re equating the two (a movement that’s against hate on women and the disenfranchisement of women versus the one that wants to pack out of society because women can now be treated as humans like men) and you don’t know what the problem is, then I’d say the problem is you. No?

missjo:
I really do not know what you are even going on about. I clearly stated earlier that i am not for labels. I have said shyt about mgtow here and have had one too many confrontations with the head honcho ubunja on the same issue,so i honestly do not what you are trying to join me with or what the problem is.

I did not type blisters about feminism,i merely made a similarity between hardline feminists and mgtow. If you want to gain clout,at least be noble enough to state my comments accurately and do not malign me. Good day

I’ve adopted the title of bitter feminist to make their jobs easier. They don’t have to retype the whole thing over and over again. We all know I’m bitter. Now let’s get to the point which is what’s bolded in your comment.

Anyone who can claim they want equal rights for women and men but are anti-feminist is confused IMO.
I think I actually prefer those who can truthfully state that they are against the feminist movement because they think women are beneath men. That honesty gives us something to debate about because they it’s clear what we disagree on.

For the dishonest run-around-the-bush-without-making-a-point type, I don’t know what to say.

doitforu:
That’s why I stayed away from the weekend madness. These people are not interested in a dialogue, they know what feminism is and they don't believe women should have equal access to opportunities that men have been enjoying since the inception of mankind. However, they can't say this in public so they 1. They invent and distort ideologies that are not about feminism to the movement 2. They define the whole movement by the ideologies of a radical few.

If you call them out and hold their feet to the fire and force them to acknowledge and discuss the real movement, they attack, gaslight and they try to dismiss your argument by discrediting you as ”angry” ”emotional” ”bitter”

Lamb sauce. Add mushrooms and serve with rice

The Nigerian Police Force had claimed that prostitution is what got the victims to the hotel rooms

The NPF are as useless as their fellow citizens who share this same thought

missjo:

I can't engage you,too much anger projecting

. You only need to learn the meaning of false equivalence.
How you also assume i am anti-feminist is quite funny considering that i have participated in equality matches in Sacramento and you are in your cubicle typing internet speeches when you have never held a placard in your life. Do not teach me about women rights, i have enjoyed those rights mor than you have and probably ever will . Bye Felicia

Gas light

So you did enjoy women’s rights but have shyt to say about those who made it possible for you to do so.
Why not go back to being seen and not heard, barefoot and pregnant with no voice or voting power.

Make the mgtow happy again. Let’s bring them back to society since seeing women be human like men is driving them back into the caves. Relinquish those women’s rights you enjoy and go back to the status quo they want. Then you can talk about feminism and we will take you seriously.

Phew. Couldn’t have said it better.

Commending you for the patience to still educate in these days when knowledge is available to anyone who is even slightly interested.

Being willfully or maliciously biased isn’t an excuse and just makes me want to throwaway both the poster and their comments. No time or patience for obvious gaslighting.

doitforyou:
FALSE EQUIVALENCE.

I am going to assume you meant to say MGTOW is a response to the feminist movement. What you are NOT going to do is compare a movement that seeks to fight for women to gain access to opportunities and rights that men already have so we can have a gender equal society, to an alt-right movement that seeks for men to separate themselves from a society that they deem harmful/non beneficiary to men. You compare feminist women that came before you that fought for all the rights that you now enjoy to incels. Do not conflate misandry with feminism, even the radical of feminists (feminists that believe that society should do away with patriarchy, they challenge existing social norms, objectification of women etc) cannot be compared with the mildest of a MGTOW. Do you know what MGTOW hardliners do? They shoot people. Please can you post for the class what these extreme feminist ideologies are?

lol talking about "I spent most of my life in Western countries" Feminism started in Nigeria before your grandparents were born and they made voting rights possible for women, and made it possible for women to run for office. There are some men that still believe women think and behave like children so they shouldn't vote. You can be anti-feminist if you want, no one cares, brave women will continue to fight for opportunities that you will undoubtedly enjoy. I just couldn't ignore your false balance. You have the nerve to compare feminism with a movement that came out of online white supremacy groups. A bunch of social rejects that live on the fringes of society. I don't blame you, it's times like this I wish time travel was possible, so I can throw you back to the 20th century.

Feminists asked to be treated with the same respect and social consideration accorded to men.

The fact that it upsets some people so much that they want to leave society rather the respect women should tell you how important feminism is needed.

If you for a second think given women equal consideration as men is the same as men not wanting female human interaction because they are not getting their way, then I have nothing to debate with you about.

Deliberate gas lighting is old tactics now.
If you chose to be ignorant about feminism, it’s your loss. Not mine.

Gone are the days when I spend hours debating with someone who has purposefully chosen to decide what they learn or not. Wasted efforts

Acidosis:
Like Feminists?

Your stupid comment probably got you noticed. You give yourself too much credit. I don’t need any MOD to wash away your foolishness.

WorWorBoy:
Lol. My comment must have hurt really bad, you report my moniker to the Mods. Pele ooo

The killer is definitely familiar with NL if not an active member

theButterfly:
With the way guys here bash women I wouldn't be surprised if he's a Nairalander and/or comes on Nairaland. In a more civilised society hotels w|o cameras wouldn't even be running, but in Nigeria anything goes.

No one is to blame for your failure and inability to get the women you desire. I understand rejection hurts but
being jealous that they are sleeping with other men won’t cure you. It only serves to make you less and less attractive to them.

Add that to the loser stench emanating from you, it’s like a snowball’s chance in hell that you will ever be able to get the type of woman you desire.

Men who are driven to hurt women for sexual reasons and those who support them often do it because of long term rejection issues. The pain of seeing another man get the fvck that was denied you can be searing.

I would have said it shall be well with you but you’ve crossed the boundary. So I hope you rot in hell.

WorWorBoy2:
Getting rid of prostitutes is a task that must be Accomplish. Sorry I have zero tolerance for h0es.

How about stop killing people?

Is that less of a crime than a woman having sex with whomever she wishes to for whatever reason she wants to?

Emmasnoop:
Stop ashawo mumu olosho.

It’s in the middle do the street that your fellow men will strip you naked and burn you alive. Keep it up. The trap will catch the mouse one day.

iCauseTrouble:
We won't stop killing Prostitutes like you

Maybe then all these violent crimes perpetrated against women will drastically reduce, no rapes, no serial killing like the ones in port Harcourt, no domestic assaults or armed robberies from their criminal minded asses.

This part. Dear lord it would be heaven.
(Of course for the dummies we have to spell it out that not all men are violent)

But most violence comes from men. If all the mgtows and those who think like them would kindly varnish from the surface of this earth, the peace on earth would surprise even God himself.

oh lord

baby124:
See what your fellow members look like! That guy will not get a second look from hot babes. I understand his frustration!!! I will even protest for him because he obviously missed out on a lot of genetic abilities, so women will never even date him.
On a normal day, will you even be friends with this guy as a man? But believe it or not, these are the people setting up the doctrines for your new and revolutionary group . The internet is truly an amazing thing!

the extreme point when you up sticks and leave the matriarchy behind by moving to a cabin in the woods.

Wouldn’t it be nice if all these Nairaland ‘alfa’ males get to this point and move into the caves

So that we won’t have to read their disgusting opinions on the internet anymore. HEAVEN!

I can bet that this unidentified killer is a Nairalander. Most likely a popular one.
You and your like will come to your painful end one of these days. Your cup is running high

iCauseTrouble:
Another Olosho spotted. Repent before we read your own news here