Funny enouh, i am not beign jugmental but, a way to rekindle the love amongst men.

Samantha124, shalommy, will you guys be confortable in a threezome with your guy and his male friend kissing and caressing in rush. will you still see him as a man?

Shalommy:
It's a big lie. They'll only criticize but no one will hurt you.

lol, i dont know were you get your ideas from but, where i come from a man trying chyke his fellow man can easily effortlessly declared "death penalty" on his head.

Chimezie198:
a guy can compliment his fellow guy using "you look good, fine boy, you're cute". But if he should start using "my baby boy, sweetheart", or starts caressing my bears or going to the extent of spanking my yansh... Omooo guy you go collect 2by2 plank from my hand.. which kind nonsense be that one?

Well, I understand it's normal for you ladies but it ain't normal for my fellow guy to do the same with me whether he's abnormal or normal. He shouldn't near me at all

its not normal, its high time we start holding women accountable for some of their excess.

Samantha124:
Just because it's illegal in your country, it doesn't mean there aren't any LGBTQ people in Nigeria.

Let's take for example Bobrisky... How come he/she has never been arrested?

lol, homosexualism is frowned upon over here that you can seriously be lynched to death for it.
And as for bobrisky and his fellow, over here we dont take them serious cause we know all their charades are all for the gram. Deep down bobrisky, james brown and likes are all as straight as an arrow.

Samantha124:
In SA homosexuals are open about their sexuality, you'd even find them in some villages.

There's hardly any societal stigma except for few minorities... So if I was a lesbian, I wouldn't be afraid to come out... I will never exchange a comfortable manly chest for boobs, no ways...

Men are just configured differently from women... There's even a book titled "men are from Mars, women are from Venus"...

Sama,
Do you think the "homo raz" in SA is cultural or as a result of white influence?
Causd on a norm homosexualism is an un-african thingy.

Heard a story of a girl who complained of body ache to her mother on her wedding night, only for her own mother to end up caressing her clitoris in guise of releasing her stress. They both ended up making out.
Funny and crazy thing is, she confessed to have enjoyed it.
Damn!

The female gender so crave for attention and soft care that they dont mind which gender its coming from, so long they get their princess treatment.

There is this play/game were people stick their thumb up someones crack especially when the person is bending, i some much detest that shit.
I nearly killed a niggha the day one tried that shit with me.
Damn!

Samantha124:
One of the best kisses I've ever had was from my female classmate back in high school... Damn! She's such a good kisser..

But I'm straight...

sorry, but i disagree you probably afriad of the scoietal stigma that comes with coming out the closet.
Like you said you enjoyed.
Am not even comfortable with a bro touching any part of my body besides a handshake moreover a damn kiss

Someone once said, a woman is like a machine without settings to be configured by whosoever conquers her.

The floor is wet,
The truth is difficult to challenge.

Damn

A good "switching music" will suffice damn! Bloody gen z

SweetBuns:
Men do the same thing too

This is an open platform for mature reasonning, you free to defend ,oppose or counter the claim, with your own solid facts.

(old skool way, lets go!!)
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~ They cuddle each other.
~ They engage in passionate kisses.
~ They call each other pet names.
~ They feel each others private,( boobs,clit,etc).
~ Whem they watch porn, they are more intrested on the gender who posses same attributes same as them.
~ their phones are littered with half naked pics of their own gender damn!
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Dear esteem nl jury, with this aformentioned points of mine i propose the motion that, this gender are all "homosexuals biological" .

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Ps....> this thread is not a bashing thread but, a sphere for intellectual exploration.

Mantul:


What later happened

I gave her the break she wanted but, a long lasting one. Just stopped calling her, and like every nigerian relationship where the male stopped beign active, the relationship dies a natural death.

Eazie351:
Whether you feign the breakup or not, she don breakup already. Sorry bro

Aswear man, the moment she said that i just smirked but, deep in me i already gave up on her.

luminouz:
All these women shock stories dey taya person na....

Be like say una get extra food for house.

Some cant get enough it, if not we wont be seeing threads like, " my girlfriend of three months just cheated on me, what should i do"?
Lol.

Bahamas95:
I don't remember any so I don't think I have been shocked by a loved one before.




Na me don shock two of my ex before, but that's a story for another day.

lol, hope say you no leave them for alter japa.

Damn! didnt know how, but somehow that girl kinda managed to flip a damn switch in me. Unknown to her,she subconsiously activated "grind mode" in me. Damn you woman lol.
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Ps...> this all happened way back though.

She: babe,
Me: yes, sweetie
She: can you be strange to me, for one week?
Me: (perplexed) how?, what do you mean?
She: i mean, i want us to feign a false breakup for a week.
Me: why?
She: nothing babe, just that guy i told you about that says he has a crush on me.
Me: (unperturbed) yeah, so??.
She: he said, he wants to buy me a phone and date me. The problem is that he says that i was already in a relationship. I really wanna get this phone from this maga o!
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Me: (in my mind) Damn you woman !.
i knew that i was broke but, why did you had to rub it in damn you.
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The above scenerio is not a cut from a telemundo series but rather are convo between i and my then girlfriend.
She had lost her phone a week before, so i gave her a spare android phone(samsung j5) of mine i had, so she can still be on. Only for her to come out of the blue with that 'knucklesandwich' damn ! That hurts.
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.which begs the question,
"have you ever been shocked by an undeserving attitude from someone you loved"?

Googledotcom:
[/b] Choice.

Do you know that there are some people who are shortsighted and there are those who are longsighted ?

You have a point here, nice reasoning.

achorladey:


I believe you believe that inside that building the spirit of the Lord is present. The Bible you carry says where the spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. They feel comfortable there.



Scope and style of leadership goes beyond leading from the front.

Judging from your pictoral illustration i can bluntly say, the hen is not leading but, rather protecting its chicks.

Adewale1603:
Because they are backbenchers from day one

you seem to get me.
For i think its a subconsious thing,
Many of them cant even tell why the do it but, they do it anyways.
I know of this cause i was was a victim of that mindset till i challanged myself one day.
I said to myself from today no more sitting at the back, at any gathering whatsoever ( "people wey dey siddon for front no get ten head, i said to myself lol" trust me the change was little but, it went a long way in my transformation journey.

Ayatullah:


Because you know deep down your soul that your pastor or Bishop is not a honest man even though he can shout and gesticulate more than Kenneth. Okwonkwo.

The truth is we do not attend church because of our spiritual leaders and the sermons they preach for every common man could stay at home and with is bible meditate on the word of God therein, but because going to church,singing praises,and other prosessions strenthens our conviction in God the more. Same way a person (fan) who owns a satalite dish will leave his home to go pay money and watch a football match at a viewing center.

lomprico:


Why is there back seat in church?

I know what you are driving at but, this thread is mainly for those who delibrately avoid sitting at front row in any gathering whatsoever, even if they arrive early enough.

LagosG:

Truth is many people who sit in front are self righteous people who commit the most evil of sins from Monday to Saturday

Are you for real?

Though most people say it has to do with "introvertsm", i am of the opinion that it has to do mainly with inferiority complex.
Should we put the church setting aside, most backbenchers are likely to still exibit such character in other gatherings like birthday parties, weddings, international forums etc.
They are of the believe that the front row is reserved for special people (dignitries). So they avoid it like a plague cause, they think themselves less worthy.
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Ps....> browsing through the thread i think majority of people fall under the "backbenchers" spectrum.
I will say they challange this mountain.., let this post be a call to reflect.

Some even go fight to seat closest to a power outlet, so they can charge their phone.

NaijaNaWaa:
So they can take their leave once the funds drive starts:
First offering
Second offering
Third offering
Church building fund
Pastors house donation
GO’s aero plane…
Haba!

Which one be GO's aeroplain again.

Think9ja:
For me, it's annoying sitting in a position where I get to see those hoes sing in the church when I know that by evening, they'll go and suck d!CK.

So I like sitting at the back with my earpiece on

If I have the power, no non virgin will sing in the church or even stand before the brethren. I like Islam for this

Prostitutes everywhere parading themselves as choiristers

Thunder go fire una one by one

though your claim might be a little bit prepostrous, i still in a way to certain degree endorse it.
Infact, left to mf there would be a composury "virginity test" for all choir aspirants.