₦airaland Forum

Irony1:
You are just being mischievous. The lecturer making that comment about marrying Yoruba was borne out of what? Was it not sheer bigotry and tribalism.
Try and be sincere and stop pushing a false agenda.

Irony1:
The Yoruba lecturer made the fuss about Davido having ibo blood. Why are you people so insincere.

Irony1:
You and the woman are gaslighting igbos. The woman made that statement in response to Davido claiming ibo blood. That is a clear example of bigotry and tribalism.

Irony1:
The lecturer made a clear statement which was borne out of tribalism and ethnic hatred. So she clearly got what she deserved.

her comments is her expressing her love for her Yoruba ethnicity.

has it become a crime for Yoruba to express their desires and love for their Yoruba self love in the Yoruba region

can you go to China, Qatar and say to a Qatari or Chinese person that he or she is insensitive for showing self love of their Chinese and Qatari ethnicity... because that is what you are doing to the Yoruba woman.

you are the tribalist...

Gerhards:
The woman is ethnic bigot, simple

her comments is her expressing her love for her Yoruba ethnicity.

has it become a crime for Yoruba to express their desires and love for their Yoruba self love in the Yoruba region

can you go to China, Qatar and say to a Qatari or Chinese person that he or she is insensitive for showing self love of their Chinese and Qatari ethnicity... because that is what you are doing to the Yoruba woman.

you are the tribalist...

jaxxy:
Self love for ur tribe isn't bad if u are not indirectly anti another tribe which she actually is. Her statement was a noble statement to just promote y_o_r_u_ba heritage it was to be anti i_g_b_0 by responding to Davido's statement on his i_g_b_0 heritage.

She is supposed to be a lecturer who is exposed to different races and cultures not myopic ethnic bigot.

if an i_g_b_0 man said I won't allow my children marry outside i_g_b_0 tribe some of u y_o_r_u_bas will immediately call him a tribal bigot.

in the previous page, there is a picture and video of an i_g_b_0 woman saying she won't allow her children marry Y_o_r_u_ba and there was no outrage from Y_o_r_u_ba people and no Y_o_r_u_ba person threaten to k_i_l_l the woman..

it is your mind that is seeing the lecturer's statement as anti-i_g_b_0... it is only i_g_b_0s that are reacting to the lecturer all the other 300 tribes in Nigeria are not reacting...

you are the ethnic bigot and tribalist because other people's views and opinions that you don't agree with is seen as anti_i_g_b_0 by you and your likes even when the person did not say it in your i_g_b_0 region...

as long as she is in Y_o_r_u_ba region she can be as pro-Y_o_r_u_ba as she wants especially since she is not issuing death threats to non-Y_o_r_u_bas...

you are a serious i_g_b_0 bigot..

jaxxy:
Lol u seem confused,she made the response cos she was pained about Davido's statement on having Igbo blood. That's what made her a tribal bigot and utter those disappointing statements.

Is pro yoruba another word for tribal bigot? Cos I don't understand ur point.

her comments is her expressing her love for her Yoruba ethnicity.

has it become a crime for Yoruba to express their desires and love for their Yoruba self love in the Yoruba region

can you go to China, Qatar and say to a Qatari or Chinese person that he or she is insensitive for showing self love of their Chinese and Qatari ethnicity... because that is what you are doing to the Yoruba woman.

you are the tribalist...

professorPABX:
They are golddiggers only looking for free money and fame. It is the liberality of the Y_0_r_u_BAS that causes all this nonsense.

Several years ago (during the military era) as a student at a University in I_g_B_0 land, a lady, a co-student told me her parent will never allow her to marry an outsider. She told me sorrowfully.

Her name is ADAKU, I can never forget that name. Later, I was made to understand that first daughter don't marry outsider according to their tradition. Coincidentally, the lady (Adaku's friend) who told me first daughter don't marry outsider according to their tradition later married a personal friend of mine who is a Muslim from Niger State. We have less than 6% of the total population from the North and they are mainly from Kwara and Benue.

Some ladies said the family of the other lady agreed because my friend is a young Alhaji, her father is the MD of a popular juicy Federal Government agency in Lagos and after NYSC my friend is relocating abroad, which means the lady on completion of her degree is going abroad with him. No Y_0_r_u_ba family gives out their daughters because of wealth.

Outsiders marry into dynasties in Y_0_r_u_ba land. We have seen people marrying into ABODERIN family inheriting billions for their children. We have seen several marriages from outside Y_0_r_u_ba land into dynasties in Y_0_r_u_ba land. My sister is a victim. You can never find a Y_0_r_u_BA male or female marrying into their wealthy families or dynasties.

its not just dynasties they are targeting...

they are also targeting the Y_0_r_u_ba middle class and those above middle class..

if you are the son of a landlord or landlady they will make it very easy for you to have s_e_x with them regularly until you get them pregnant...

I came to the conclusion that they are escaping poverty in their region and they like people with money or generational wealth..

Arostar2023:
Have you considered the effects and impact of the woman's utterances on Davido's family and other people that had inter tribal marriages? If someone as highly placed and supposedly educated as that woman can make such insensitive utterances in a highly polarized nation like Nigeria....that says a lot.

Nigeria is not a highly polarized nation. Nigeria only exists on paper..

she made the comments in the Yoruba nation and Yoruba nation is not polarized..

her comments is her expressing her love for her Yoruba ethnicity.

has it become a crime for Yoruba to express their desires and love for their Yoruba self love

can you go to China, Qatar and say to a Qatari or Chinese person that he or she is insensitive for showing self love of their Chinese and Qatari ethnicity... because that is what you are doing to the Yoruba woman.

you are the tribalist...

jaxxy:
Obviously she's out of line and her statement should be condemned by all but threatening her kids and family is equally as bad and even much worse and thst is what I am completely against.

Such people paint those condemning her statements is bad light. What's our business in threatening her life and kids? That is completely wrong and unacceptable.

she's not out of line because she did not make that statement in the i_g_b_0_ region.. anyone like you condemning her is the real and true tribalist..

she is been pro-Yoruba in the Yoruba nation and it is paining you and making you angry then you are the bigot and tribalist and blackmailer...

oyatz:
When hasn't become a crime for Yoruba to express their desires for Yoruba spouses publicly?

This is the critical issue - The attempts by over zealous Igbo ,especially in the Obidients Movement, to silence or denigrate anything Yoruba.

This should be resisted and those bullying her be arrested and charged to court.

DomPerignon:
She said her children will Mary Yoruba.

How is that hate speech?

Is self love and ethnic national pride now a sin to you I_g_B_0_ Marxists ?

Eriokanmi:
Not true.
What we lack is discipline. You also need to consider what's called "comparative advantage" in economics. I give you what you don't have and in which i can do better, and you do the same to me. A country doesn't have to export most things to develop. No! There's so much corruption in the land. I've been to most parts of the EU countries. Many wish they had one quarter of what we had. They import much more than they export yet, their GDP is way higher than ours. You sourced for loans for developmental projects on which interests will be paid and eventually, you paid the capital from your foreign exchange earnings(e.g, crude). You got the loan and awarded contracts to your cronies and proxies at 3 times higher than the actual contract sum. Most parts of the jobs weren't done and the money ended in your pockets. By the time the loan was liquidated, nothing was left to move the country forward in all spheres. That's the way Nigeria is being run by the government of the day.

Visit Czech Republic, Hungary,Iceland, Poland, Ireland, and other poor eastern European countries. They call themselves poor but their GDP is way higher than ours. They import much more than they export.

When you vote the right candidate into power, someone who has no interest in dragging business with business owners but willing to create an enabling environment for businesses to thrive, Nigeria will experience true development. Only through this can we grow an export-driven economy. When last has the federal government looked into cocoa, cola, cotton,coffee and other agricultural produce? What of loans to local farmers. Bank of agriculture is gone moribund. Agric used to be our strength before the advent of oil. When they want to give out loan to farmers, they deliberately boycott BOA and give governors in every state to share. They'd eat 90% of it and the real farmers don't see anything.

Amazingly, these produce are even more needed now than ever, globally. We could see what PA Awo did with agricultural produce, the north was rich in cotton. Our steel was working. My grandpa's house was built with steel from ajaokuta back in the days when they first started, before it was shut down. There was a railway built up to itakpe , conveying ores. What has changed? The answer is simple...indiscipline cum corruption. Politicians would come to you, they tell you things they can't achieve in a decade and you can't ask questions. Someone came and said he built an entire city/state and you fell for his lies, maybe out of bigotry and you got stuck as he doesn't care about your existence now that he's in power . Who's to blame? The same person awarded contacts to his company he's operating by proxy but can you do anything?

In conclusion, being export driven is a panacea to every country's economic growth but not the actual factor affecting us as a nation. Even if you're the world largest exporter but your leaders lack discipline, those who export less will be better than you. New Zealand and Australia put together import 5 times more than what we import and export far less, yet they're much more developed with better GDP, why? You can answer that. With good leaders in place who truly means well for Nigeria, we will attain our full potentials but are you ready? Aren't you still blinded by tribalism or bigotry? In china, if you steal government or public funds,it's execution. Here, after a few media trials, they'd leave them alone and if they now join the ruling party, their sins are forgiven.

We're just suffering in the midst of plenty, needlessly. A prime minister of a developed nation was seen boarding a commercial plane last year cos his jet was not functional. Can tinubu do that? He had 3 private jets before becoming president. What if he channeled cost of 2 jets into agriculture in Lagos and employed people in his farms? How many manufacturing or thriving businesses does he have? These are the issues we deliberately set aside. See what they spent on building a VP's residence? Every leader just comes, eats and leaves without any meaningful programme in place. All we see is propaganda and lies. Had the 2bn USD spent on PHC refineries TAM, which has now been shut down, been channeled into agriculture, we won't be importing most of the agricultural needs in a few years to come rather, we'll be exporting them. It's a shame to note that Nigerian industries now import cassava starch because local suppliers can't meet up. Our leaders don't even feel ashamed of lying anymore cos they know you're still sleeping. Wake up!

Awo's agriculture is still there.. the north still produces cotton but it gets cancelled out and rubbished due to the hyper importation mentality of i_g_b_0_s.

It is western influence that devalues the naira which spoilt the purchasing power of every Nigerian and causes Nigeria to struggle.

you don't understand their hatred for black people globally especially those in Africa..

india annual budget is ₹48 trillion which is equal to $560 billion ( with a population over 1.4billion people

while Nigeria annual budget is ₦49 trillion which is equal to $30 billion ( with a population of 200million people )..

the point is Western powers claim Nigeria's population is the reason for ₦ Naira's bad currency conversion to the dollar..

but India with a population 7 seven times Nigeria's own is not affected by the same policy that causes Nigeria's bad currency conversion to the dollar..

if you reduce india annual budget to ₹28 trillion similar to Nigeria ₦28 trillion..

india's ₹28 trillion is still equal to $326 billion...

South Africa R2.59 trillion is equal to $138.5 billion due to the whyte boers that stayed there.

the Naira is a weapon fashioned against Nigeria and Nigerians by the Western powers.

Badb0y4lyf:
Bro I work in the export sector the exports are not translating Indians, Chinese and Arabs are the ones making the profit. They buy directly from the farmers and export and sell to their contact almost times two the price.

Why can't you also buy directly from the farmers and export and sell for your own profits..

grandstar:
Why is Ogun state so poor?

I suspect a lot of VAT that should be credited to it has been wrongfully credited to Lagos.

Imagine Oyo state sum is about 10 times larger than Ogun state

Because the list is fraudulent and false.

Raf4:
We have the pictures, history and many more of Lagos for at least 50yrs before Nigeria ever came to existence. Nigeria, thru her colonial masters, beneficially selected Lagos as her capital because Lagos already had all what it takes to be a capital city, even ahead of some capital cities in Asia and South America. I'm sure many cities in your region today were just farmlands, hunting forest or waste lands as of 1850 when Lagos was already a blooming port-city, transacting with the likes of Liverpool City port etc.

Lagos original Yoruba name is farm.

Lagos was a fatm

Zeebuy:
So you're saying the welfare of a people isn't a responsibility of their government?

Folks like you are the reason this country is a shithole

You better leave dederocs alone..

you can write to the Lagos Minister of Environment and tell him you are willing provide space for them in your house and feed them...

Folks like you are the true reason this country is a shithole..

Borrow2222:
Just look at their comments above and see the envy and jealousy.

Honestly, I just love the way SW keeps chasing them away; sometimes I also join SW to keep telling them to go back to their region.

It has really awakened the spirit of South Easterners. If you go to any South East state and see the individual developments, you'll marvel. With the rate of development going on in SE, in the next 10 years, SE will be a major driving force in Nigeria.

Let the hate keep coming – I'm loving it.

Its not hate...

Its one African spirit telling another African spirit to go back to their region.

kkonyeji:
Nwanne, there's absolutely nothing wrong in fighting for Biafra.

Daniel058 is right...

the place that will be called Biafra already exists so it is better to concentrate on developing that place instead of causing unrest there which will favor wyte people that want the gas and oil resources in the place

gasparpisciotta:
Must we use ethnicity to color every achievement?

What is wrong if the heading reads:
‘12 Nigerians in diaspora build a “world class” hospital in Anambra state, Nigeria.’

Bossman:
Well said. This is the first thing that came to mind when I saw the title. The country will NEVER progress when we must add tribe/ethnicity to everything.

Nothing is wrong with the title..

ethnicity is used in everything all over the world whether you like it or not..

Nigeria cannot progress equally, some ethnic nations will be more advanced than others because their own people re-invest into their ethnic nations within Nigeria.

Nigeria cannot progress until all ethnic nations within Nigeria develop their own ethnic territory.

opes:
Only Banza has played fewer matches than him.

This picture shows who the 1st four strikers to call-up should be.

Mdcool26:
*File photo attached by admin

You are wicked..

Feed the child very well and make sure he drinks water.
If you are giving him medicine also make sure he eats very well and drinks water.

He should not drink too much carbonated drinks like pepsi and drinks that have sugar in them.
Even fruits that have sugar he must not eat them.
He must not take cereals as breakfast, he must take proper food as breakfast or plantains..

For now since he does not have teeth you can give him cereals.. but once his teeth are complete stop cereals

Orch1981:
I can't leave the woman I truly love with all my heart because of just sickness but I can talk to her so I can get a second wife if only you need children but if na me I no born again but we love together

If you can get a 2nd wife then your wife can also get a 2nd husband.

BlueStripper:
Dear OP,

This is indeed a very sad experience and I can only imagine how you feel.

Please don't over-flog yourself. Medical Quackery is something we are yet to address in Nigeria.

Now back to the issue at hand. We will look at it from two sides:

1. If you are financially stable and really want to have healthy children with your wife in the future, then you must sign-up for preimplantation genetic diagnosis (PGD) whenever you want a child. Do not have much children because this process isn't cheap. So maybe 2 children.

2. If you are not financially stable but you want children, then father from outside and bring it home. Also make sure your wife truly understands the situation at hand and agrees to your plan.

DO NOT DIVORCE YOUR WIFE OR MAKE HER PAY FOR WHAT SHE KNOWS NOTHING ABOUT. DO NOT TAKE A SECOND WIFE.

As for your son, love him. Just love him. Love will keep him with you for long. But please, do not act in faith and impregnate the mother again or without proper medical counselling and PGD.

I wish you all the best and may Allah help you and your family in this tough time.

You are evil and you have a mental problem..

The man obviously deceived the woman in order to marry her.

So they either divorce and he takes the child or stay married and both of them care for the child if the man plays away match then the woman too should also go and play away match with someone that is AA.

kelmicheal:
Na nairaland you want see am? Go osun you go see am

Funkybabee:
Don't mind them, you you are doing well my governor

doncartel:
He’s currently the second best governor in Nigeria today after Alex Otti.

Osun may soon challenge Tokyo as the most hi-tech and advanced state globally.

tuhits:
he have done more than anyone. Prove me anywhere.

gokay11:
Governor Adeleke is actually performing beyond my expectation.

By the way i reside in Osogbo.

peculiar2233:
That means you are blind or you don't live in Osun State. Our able governor should be called Mr. Project, his second term is certain 💯

Aduke96:
Well done Mr governor.
Dance and rejoice you have really done well for the people of osun and not desperately promoting yourself on social media unlike a certain governor always on front page while we see nothing.
Thank you for fixing ajenisua road fountain. After many years of Apc propaganda of fixing the road from the junction to fountain university entrance,Leaving the road to oke osun for years.
We are so happy and grateful 🙏

yourshopkwikguy:
Come to Osun state to come see his works Broo, he isn't that bad

If he has achievements it will be posted on twi:tter..

for now he has not done anything.

Even his minister of environment rarely posts on his Twitter compared to the one in Lagos

OriOko88:
You have to be on ground to see all what you mentioned. You'd see his achievements when his 2nd term campaign starts.

If he has achievements it will be posted on twi:tter..

for now he has not done anything.

Even his minister of environment rarely posts on his Twitter compared to the one in Lagos

OriOko88:
How do u know he doesn't govern. Are u in osun

Go on tw:itter and see how rarely both the osun governor and his state ministers post on road constructions, school buildings, housing e.t.c

Angelfrost:
Okay sir... What is the official language spoken in

Chevron
Coca-Cola
NNPC
ShopRite
Airtel
Glo
Etc

They employ people from different tribes in Nigeria... Do they use different languages in their Abuja, Lagos, Cross River and Port Harcourt branches?!!

What do we communicate and write in across social media platforms in Nigeria?!! What is used in China, Japan, Sweden, etc?!!

Define Official Language and its relevance to my submission above?!!


Sigh... Maybe Education is truly not working in this 3rd world country.


I greet you all.

I have already answered you...

the language depends on the tribe that is plenty in a department of any company..

Angelfrost:
You are not making sense...!

English is not the official language of the countries you mentioned.

In those nations, their official languages are spoken with fluency by those who are well educated (I'm talking basic education here), and those who make grammatical errors are called to order and corrected.

Anyone who paid attention to his teachers in Primary and secondary schools shouldn't make that error you made earlier... Instead of accepting correction, you are here making obtuse justifications.



...The wealthiest people in Nigeria and across the universe are not incorrigible dullards.

Thank you.

You too are not making sense.

English is the official language of Nigeria on paper.. the language spoken in companies in Nigeria depends on what tribe most of the employees are from.

Eriokanmi:
I just thought likewise. The devil is really attacking many pastors homes through their children. I remember when Bishop oyedepo's son said he battled masturbation and porn movies for years. I'm sure it would be deeper than he had said, before God rescued him. May God continue to uphold religious leaders homes, our homes too

If this daughter had masturbated then this news won't happen... masturbation is for people that don't want to have real sex.

Meanwhile the same Asians that disgraced the police by giving them money while recording the police are spraying money in the video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_pZtRm7DYZU

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Is it not your likes here on the forum that usually declare that Igbos will never rule this country?

So what do you call that?

Obasanjo is an igbo man..

Let igbos contest in a popular party and see if they won't get elected..

hosemujica:
Don’t wast your time with us . Tribalism is well and alive in Nigeria we are the least people to accuse anyone of racism or xenophobia.

We are worse just take a look at the politics section on this forum and see for yourself.

There is no tribalism in Nigeria.

Stop saying nonsense.

IbeOkehie:
Wetin? Now I think you're joking. So let's agree to disagree. Because the economic realities are different.

I appreciate your spirited Africanism. I used to hold such opinions when I was younger.

Good Luck to Nigerians.

You're the one joking.

I am not agreeing to disagree with you.

You are either a bri:tish paid keyboard warrior who hates Africans or a racist hater of black people..

MadamExcellency:
You are unaware that the government of APC has been printing Naira like pure water production in Nigeria. Printing Naira is the cause of inflation and devaluation of Naira.

So india and S.A do not print money for their population