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Exkandayee:
Who carry This rubbish go fp

This post deserves frontpage

If you don't complete this story now, you will have to pay for the laugh

Very educative. Thank you Op

Texas is two continents away from mine.

Anyways, if you send me VISA, I go show

I don't want this persons above me to distract me.

I want to use this opportunity to thank you guys for allowing me to be on the front page.

OP, something worth mentioning is your very interesting way of conveying and articulating information.

I love your articulation.

Okay

This day ehnnn, I suspect every new storey building higher than 4 stories.

I am using this reply to appreciate every one of you for your feedback, suggestion, advice, and counsel.

At least, now I know what to do right and what options I have.

Cheers �

Raalsalghul:
So he knows what he's getting into: with the father alive/around, there's usually much drama.

Now, it is clearer.

But, can we do a court agreement or bring in a lawyer to make it legal to adopt the child with the agreement of his father?

Such that in the future, there is a legal binding?

Eyinju112:
I’ll be using myself as a case study
All the guys that comes my way are mostly single fathers, and I’ve never thought of that been an issue for me, in fact my present fiancée got this little boy of 5 and I see the both of them as my sons,, I always wanna have my little son around me( his son)....

We’ve been dating for two years until recently when he started seeing my kid sis of which I’m older than with 10 years taking my look so closely, coupled with the fact that she’s our last born and I’m her immediate elder sis, she runs to me for everything even till her school fee and blab last bla...

The love I have for my kid sis is massive, then this day I was telling him my plans for my sister studying abroad immediately she’s done with her secondary school, that was when my BF unleashed the question he had always wanna ask...
“Tell me the truth is angel your daughter?”
I laughed and replied no, but I realize he wasn’t convinced, then this night I was sleeping I just felt him examining my breast, I asked him what’s happening, he said he wanna confirm if I’ve breastfed before lol

I laughed and pulled him closer to sleep, he couldn’t sleep, he asked again are you sure you’re not the one that gave birth to Angel, that was how I got interested in his question and I asked, if I was the one that gave birth to her, what will happen

I got shocked when he replied me he’s gonna back off lol at this point when we planning marriage... wow, he said he can’t marry a woman and have her bring a kid in the house...

If you’re a lady reading this don’t ever fall a victim if he says he can cope with the child, that’s a cajole.... the fair truth is men of nowadays really can’t manage a woman and her child, there will always be issues....

The case of this your man seem more like selfishness.
Like how you accept him with his child and he will reject you with your daughter?

makavellidon:
bro my advice if truly deep down in ur heart u truly love i we advice u guys to seat down 2 iron ds matter cos 2 me i see knw wrong settlin down with lady that already gotten a child if truly u care about her tell her ur mind n if not set the goals straight

If it is in terms of financial capability, that is not my issue. I can take care of the lady, her child and two other children self.

What I am more concerned about is the long term effect on the home, my sanity, our own children when they come and any other thing that may occur.

If anyone has married a single mother. Please I will appreciate your counsel.

Das1mama:
U have d answers already if u want to be truthful to yourself. 1, are u ready to settle down as a man? 2, while growing at your teen days i believe u would have a particular goal and settings how u want your home to be? 3, does the lady in question have such qualities if yes go ahead, if no let the sleeping whatsoever lie to avoid stories that touch. Shalom

You own na straight to the point.
You seem to have everything figured out right from the begining.

Sadly, the imagination of the home that I had was just how big and how luxury it will be. I never bring wife and kids to the picture.

Now, I need to define what I really want and see if it align. As many people here has advised. It is supposed to be more logical than an emotional decision.

Thank you for your suggestion and counsel.

Eyinju112:
Let face the reality
It’s cool if a man brings in a child into the relationship, but when a woman brings in one it will definitely be an issue soon or later....

Can please throw more light on this?
You may just be saving Someone's future

Raalsalghul:
Is the child's father alive?

I didn't confirm yet

BadRadio:
Dont give her false hope by trying to lead her on with what you've told her already... you've to be bold and tell her what you think now that she has opened up about having a child. She told you about it so u can be sure of ur intentions and decisions with her. If you continue with her without saying anything about what she told u, she will assume u dont have a problem with it.


My brother do it fast. Tell her joor!!!

Thank you, boss!
I will do as advised!

I only hope it will not break her

BadRadio:
Then keep it as friends. Let her know that too so she does not assume something else.

Based on our conversations before the "opening up". She already knows that I have intentions to date or even marry her in the future.

When she told me about the child. My response was also welcoming, I had rather not allow her to feel broken.

Although within me, I was not so happy about it.

Do you get the point now?

Jeon:
Go and get a child so that you guys can continue

From her or from where?

BadRadio:
just decide what u want to achieve with her... if you want to explore her sexually ... let her know quickly... do not lead her on with uneccessary lies. Go straight to the point and tell her what you want. Dont waste her time. Most single mothers are already bitter and broken withing and can be dangerously cold blooded if you try to do anything stupid. Dont be in a hurry to start shouting the "I love you" crap... your approach must be logically rational rather than emotional.

This makes serious sense to me.

My initial intention was just friendship cause she is very intelligent and beautiful. Have we eaten out a few times, we got really interesting. That's how we started to talk emotionally.

We have not had any emotional relation, I have not even told her that I love her.

Although, within me, I would love to start a relationship with her that may lead to settling down. Then she told me about her child.

I am now wondering what to do. I don't want to break the promising friendship.

Princecanada:
Do you think the child will be a problem in the relationship? Is the child male or female?

The child is female, 7 years old.

Hi guys, I need help with what to do.

I recently just met a lady, we seem to connect on a major level. I am interested in her and intend to take things to the next.

While the thing is still unfolding and we are learning about ourselves. She opened up to me that she has a child.

I am getting to love her, but how do you think I should approach this matter?


Can I continue

MrBrownJay1:
you can put wool on a wolf all you want, it will never turn into a sheep...

God created and he can make a person again from scratch.

Please note that: All these earthly principles or punch line doesn't apply to God.

Leaders are not born, they are made.

Frontpage two times in a role, in one day.

Frontpage after a long time.
This news has nothing to do with me or anyone that I am connected to.

So, I dedicate this post to all my guys on the street wet they grind smart and sharp.

Last, last, one day very soon.
All of us go they settled and comfortable.

There is a Healing program coming up later this month, please give it a try by faith and your Dad will be strong again.

Visit the site healingstreams . tv

I do not know how seriously you will take this o
But, you can simple just lay your hands and curse the sickness or disease to die.

If you are born again and you have the Holy Spirit, i will advise you pray fervently about it, nothing prayer can not do.

Na God go help you

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