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I have atleast 4 yrs working experience, I need a sharp corolla or big daddy for uber. I use a corolla but my engine just parked up. I don't want to sit at home doing nothing. Interested person(s) should call or WhatsApp me on 07030918392

Now who is cursed?

We no want free concert, make him do giveaway abeg.

I actually have a car but the engine just got bad and I want to sell it. So presently I don't have a car to drive.
I have good experience in this field and I will produce result. Find attached my uber profile and you can reach me on whatsapp/call on 07030918392.
My name is Emmanuel

The part where you said she borrowed you money to buy a family car that both you and her would use, then started pressuring u to pay back after 2 months really got me. Some women are just so selfish especially when it comes to money. Bro it will take d serious grace of God for you to overcome this heartbreak. E pain pass cheating self.

Take heart bro.

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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

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Very good way to advertise.
Lol!

Make una no fight 4 him

Him no even dey aware of una arguement
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abeg dey ur lane[/quote]

[quote author=dtruseeker post=50552877]sir, for us that are newbie to this thing. How can we learn and benefit from it?
Please i would also like to know more

If u don't know anything why not keep quiet or do your research well b4 talking nonsense. Is it by force to comment?

Simbaz:
Stop dreaming guy, no business will give 300k weekly except Ponzi schemes, I want a partnership plus I already have a great startup I'm already running, but I can not work with a day dreamer all in the name of his 10 million in his pocket but lacks basic business sense and that is not an insult that is just a fact of life.

If u don't know anything why not keep quiet.

I am a young entreprenuer looking for a smart and intelligent person(s) with a good and profitable business idea/proposal

come to think of it, if the federal Gov't. refuses to pay a whistle blower. how would he/she come out to tell the public that he/she has not been paid. hmmm! he/she would only be digging his/her grave. So there might be no payment done joor, because no prove.

Wen he starts singing e Don red o papa e Don red o fire get red

Lagos girl at a bar be like
Excuse me dear let me go an ease myself and she strts cat working to the rest room, on getting to d other side of the door she runs like Hussain bolt and scatter d pee everywhere. Lol!

All d people saying it's bad, Na una go accompany una younger ones go collect money when him chop 36 million....

Why did she even eat the akara




Na wa o...

sinaj:
Akpororo sha
Choi!






The girl is xo pretty

Yea..
She's so pretty but she lack boobs...

My phone number is 08023711810
Please call me, I'd love to know more.

grandyklace10:
Would it be possible if you could use this van to collect plastic bottles and nylons for recycling companies. Can I get your phone number.

Paale you must buy the phone o,
But I think there should be restrictions on the usage of the phone so that he doesn't get carried away...

funkyme2014:
Post d pic of d van den I will give u my own advise cos am a commercial driver too(female)

I've posted the pix, please i'd like to hear ur advice base on ur experience. Tnx

Danfuster:
You can start a small scale Haulage with it, meet some of this market women, don't feel too big to discuss with that customer of yours you buy foodstuff from. They source their goods from farms and remote settlement or mile 12 which they need a reliable vehicle to transport for them. Your bus still being in good condition is a bonus as they will be confident their goods reaching it's destination in due time.
I'm a graduate of Electrical Electronics Engineering and recently just done with NYSC but jobs ain't fort coming so I've been gathering logistics on how to start this Haulage business myself cos I have a Dodge Ram 3500 van laying around doing nothing, so I thought I'd just tune it up and start this small Haulage thing. My choice of goods to haul are those that won't cause my bus to deteriorate quickly I.e plantain, Gari, watermelon, processed fish, provisions etc. Avoid water secreting goods as they cause damage.
My Intel has it that a bus load of plantain from Ore to Lagos cost 30k to 35k tho I know there's more to this but my research is still ongoing.

Bros please gimme a call 08023711810 or better still gimme ur number

Here is a picture of the bus.
Just did the plate number registration yesterday, I asked the guy helping me with the paper which one is best to put on the paper, personal/load carriage or passenger, he said I should put passenger cos passenger covers all. Dunno how truth that is tho.

My own issue is that window keeps updating each time you turn on the system. How do I turn the shit off? Sometimes it runs update for close to 40mins before system comes up... so annoying chumchin.

i have a ford bus sent in from Germany, i am trying to identify the engine number so that i can register the bus, the mechanics keep giving different engine number. the first guy i called to check gave me this 974F6015AC and i called another mechanic to confirm and be double sure, he came up with this 16L99. now am confused. please any one that has a ford bus or knows about it should help me identify between the two numbers, the one that is more realistic. your suggestion would be of great help. thanks

But this babe has a point and every right to walk out on the guy. Guys imagine if a babe takes u to a club where the strippers are all guys with their tin dangling up and down, would u have been able to stay in such a place? Rubbish... d guy Na monkey

Some people Don begin fry akara ontop another person puff puff for this matter.
Haba