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[quote author=lola.luv]Lol. Even if we have decided to get married, it's not gonna happen. If anything, having sex with somebody clouds your good judgement, especially if that person is good in the sack.

The impotency stuff can be determined by a simple test in a lab. Or are you suggesting I turn my body to a test for impotency?

And talking about his character, that can be ascertained the better by staying out of his bed and seeing how he operates on a day to day basis...[/quote]lol impotence test in a simple lab lmao is dat d info u got well ideologies differ bt maks some pple ignorant 4rml d fact in front of dem u cn still be wit sme1 u love witout hvin clouded mind unless u dnt knw wat u wntd maybe d chaff so my dear any love dat finds fault is nt love cheers

[quote author=lola.luv]No, it's not right.

Cohabiting also does not increase the likelihood of marriage.

I don't support such, and I will not be a party to such.

Any girl that allows herself to be 'test-driven' by different riders, all in the name of 'I am studying you' is on her own. Little by little, she is getting more mileage....[/quote]d fear of been used wld continue 2 be ur problem if u dnt get it out nw it cld mak u nt see a nice person cos u r afraid of been used well am nt sayin dat sex b4 marriage is gud bt in d oda way is nt bad provided u guys hv decided 2 get married cos supposin he is impotent or does nt hv sex education or he is nt sexually active or he is handicapd domestically n u r married wat r u goin 2 do dear think bout it

@fhemmmy u r d true son of ur Father in heaven God bless u as u kep helpin d ministry n spreadin d word of d Most High God @joagbale n others helpin d ministry God's blessins n 4 those dat r deceivin themselves wit bible quotes n their personal thinkin God help u 2 change OBEDIENCE IS D FIRST LAW IN HEAVEN even lucifer disobeyd n fell where is he 2day? In d world manipulatin minds of sinners am a catholic bt i strongly support any1 who promotes d ministry of God d bible says he who builds his house on sand will be washd away n he who builds his house on d solid rock will stand strong n remember he who hv ears let him hear remember judgement is near REPENT

Beync: jealousy should not be misunderstood as insecurity. After all God was not Jealous When he said tHERE SHOULD NOT BE ANY OTHER GOD EXCEPT ME. THAT MEANS REQUIRES EXCLUSIVE DEVOTION IF WE MUST LOVE HIM. IN THE SAME WAY, ANY WOMAN WHETHER BY SOCIALIZATION OR FLIRTING WHO WILL COME AROUND MY HUSBAND TO DISTRACT HIM, I SHALL CONSUME HER BY MY ANGER.

then u will go 2 prison 4 murder or molestation be wise my frnd

[quote author=lola.luv]@JustIyke4u:
What boyfriend in his right senses would call another girl for hours, in my presence?
If he does that, I will take it to mean the relationship is running its due course, shikena. I would feel disrespected, not jealous.[/quote]Dat means he has been usin u though u didnt see it cos u were carried away n he's bout 2 use anoda person sory dear

2 an xtent i agree wit mbj true love goes wit faith trust n undastd these virtues mak u blive dat ur woman or man is also virtueous like u cos it goes 50-50 in both man n woman n 2 crown it BabaGod cannot be 4gotten if nt u r wastin ur time cos wat is bound on earth is bound in heaven spiritual is physical @freecocoa Dat statement 'God is jeolous' is cos ungodly people leave their creator n ask trees mountains 2 save dem is dat nt lust cheers pple

mamaxxx: And I'm getting comments from people pretending to be 'holier than thou' when in actual fact, if investigated into properly, the truth will reveal that those with the nastiest comments on here are worse than I am.

Obviously I know that the number of men I've been with is on the high side, but I know that I'm better than most be it male or female.

Thanks for all your comments though!

shut up my frnd u even get mouth 2 talk later wen u marry u will say d guy is nt satisfyin u cos ur punana na borehole u no try run 2 Jesus Christ 4 deliverance o

any babe wey deny dis list na wash wash ;Dany babe wey deny dis list na wash wash

onila: shattap! am not in yr class!

abeg which class abi na jss1 or na primary 2 amu robber aka golddigger

My frnd weda it is sealord,seadog,vikings all is occultism n idolatry ask dem bout thump print dat is signin contract wit d devil n last of all cn u serve God n mammywater at d same time remember d first commandment of God

jovie50: Fundamental signs to know when ur guy is about to cheat on u...

1. When he says u must call him before u come to his place.

2. When he restrict u from operating his phone or he can't leave his phone with you for a second.

3. When he can't see u off for a long distance when u are leaving (bus-stop at least).

Ladies am i right?
Can guys prove me wrong?

na small boy dey work on dis frequency nawa o....

My guy dis women dey dat office devil wan use dem mak u commit run o.........

Na me be newbie sexkiliz my bro hw far hop sey abj mak sense me na double o 7

Dis kin gal who be u sef? U com dey answer onila 4 swahili e mean person wey dey pack dustbin nawa ooo....... Abeg u be wash

ednut1: dumbest post eva, babe get a life, ode oshi

broder abeg tell am na dis gals wey dey form na dem cheap pass

[quote author=Okija_juju]His Second term is intact..

All he needs to do is give us Electricity and voila.. He is President till 2019..

The Northern population would have reduced by atleast 30% by 2015, the remaining would be too scared to come out and vote.. So the South will return GEJ unopposed..

#FreshBreeze things!has he nw given u electricity[/quote]

penelope9: @poster if your mind is not there pull out gently if not in the future he or his family will use it to insult you and your family till you die.

r u rely wit ur right senses u wnt her 2 leave just like dat afta everytin shame on any woman dat says she shld leave dat wonderful man pls be careful wit wat u say cos d same curse cld be upon u

Petovi: Wat i want to no is if he started sliping wit u wen u were 14 because if he did he does nt hav any right to cling to u just because he sent u to sch.Guyz let us nt get all worked up here n 4 get d truth.if a man should b sliping wit a 14 year old girl all in d name of sending ha to sch pls guyz tel me if dis is right?it is child melestation,he simply toke advantage of ha condition n situation.tell me would u justify such a man?

my frnd its nt possible 4 him 2 slip wit her at dat age because he loves her he workd his sweat everyday 2 feed her 2 cloth her 2 send her 2 school showd her attention allowd her 2 read her books 4 her 2 pass gave her his time so supposin he did dat she wld nt attain wat she has 2day cos she wld be psychological frustrated n mentally imbalanced

1025: if there is any bitch here, it is u. when has paying school fees become a marriage condition. is it a difficult things for u to know that at the age of 14, the girl was a minor? is it not possible that the man must have started having sex with the girl when she was an under age amounting to child abuse? when u get sex for the money u spend on school fees, is it not enough reward? men must learn to know what they want in every situation because no one eats his cake and still have it. if i am to train a minor tomorrow, i will expect her to get my reward from her in future or better still wait on God. if u want to raise a wife from such situation, that has to be pronounced and agreed upon between the parties from the unset.

see look very well b4 u mak ur utterances if a man so a girl n wants her 4 himself is it a bad tin well u youths of 2day r nt reasonable enuf wat a pity if dat girl lost her life wld u be sayin dis n a person wld say he is nt her type God hv mercy on u n dat girl

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Yeah....dump his dumb arse.[/quote]mrs chima it is u dat is d dumb ass neva knew u r a gold digger its a shame u even opend ur mouth 2 speak its a pity mr chima shld be regretin or fuckin oda pussies if u r d man wld u take it am so vexd 2 notice ur name

gegee: na them say them say news on WAZOBIA FM

no be dem sey if e no tru dem no go talk am

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all forward looking statements with absolutely no substance. David Mark is a disgrace!...He is everything shameful rolled up in one single body. Under his watch as one of the longest serving senate President this country has ever had, the country's plight has gone from bad to horrifying.

Our laws have been ra[i]p[/i]ed, Justice has been sold for cheap, free speech has been repressed, people have been blown up in their homes, horryfing scenes of air disasters have been forced upon us, more people are out of Jobs, our banks are no longer stable, the future has been stolen from our children's children.

Senator Mark does not deserve the respect of any meaningful individual anymore. He will be remembered as one of those who came, looted us dry and left us empty. He will be remembered as the son of a worm who travels abroad on the public's watch while our hospital's have turned to morgues. He will be remembered as one, under whose watch, the people can no longer sleep safely in their own homes.

Sentor Mark can keep his mouth shut!..This is not the time to distance himself from the dirt. He chose the side he wishes to be on ages ago, and it definitely wasn't with the People that elected him into office. I hope posterity continues to lay curses at their doorstep and to their graves.

my dear i agree hw cn a corrupt leader be exposin corrupt leader is it possible

[quote author=dipo+]I'm already ready for Arsenal-life without RvP. He was a fine player, like many before him and many after will be. I'm just gonna sit back and enjoy the ingenuity of Wenger who i'm sure will ensure Arsenal play well to keep 60k supporters coming back weekly. Our trophy cabinet won't be empty forever and
we will always attract top players if we can at least maintain our CL qualification.

Arsenal forever[/quote]my frnd dats nt enuf wen chelsea has carried d champions league wit weak men like john terry bosingwa malouda etc n u r happy maybe cos u r no player let me tell u sometin players love 2 win trophies so as 2 retire wit honor

chuckdee4: Exactly, all this RVP gist aside, we still need some more sprk in the midfield, can't bear another season having to watch ramsey stuggle in that role.
Heard some gist about interest in Voctor Moses but like we all know until we see the player brandishing the red n white, all na rumour

we dnt need victor moses we need a central attackin midfielder like fabregas 2 push attack n counter attack

sosoluv: If I don't look for a guy that is as financially secure as I wld want myself to be, what will feed my kids, what will take them to school, where will they sleep?by financial secure I mean having enough for survival and a comfortable life that I would want to see myself living.

look my dear if u hv a job like i tink u do u didnt get it by ur power or grace maybe u say i went scool n i graduated n i supposed 2 get a job i wnt 2 tell u sometin there r many pple dat r much better than u even females dat dnt hv jobs so its nt by ur power bt d grace of God n remember God does nt best bt gives u 1 dat cn make d best out of u both so if u come by some1 who is Godfearin n hes about 2 make it in life give him a chance n God will bless u u dnt need a financially secure person bt some1 who knws n fears God

kandiikane: Well then I will just go find the perfect woman since men can't reach up to our standards.

You thought you were the only ones in the world for women?
Ok, continue with your excuses you will soon be underneath another man.

maybe u still hv nt matured 2 see d real world or u r still growin bt u need 2 undastd dat u r nt perfect so hw cn u meet some1 perfect? if u r perfect y wld u need a partner? so pls wake nw b4 u end been a miserable dreamer

zone77: Searching for Mr perfect will cause you nothing but heartaches.

It is an endeavour in futility because no such creature exists.

Why do you seek perfection when you are not perfect yourself?

Why do you place such an insurmountable obstacle infront of you?

Why have you made your life and relationships difficult because of such an irrational demand?

Unless God sends down an angel to marry you, which is an impossibility, you have to choose a human being, like the rest of us.

Any woman you see enjoying a great relationship worked on that relationship. There are no short cuts. Perfectionism may work well in a novel, movie or television show, but in real life it will frustrate you, and lead you to massive pain.

Are you compatible with this guy? Can you live with him in peace without going crazy? If your answer is yes, then you are in a very good place.
You can deal with the ‘minor’ details later. However, if your answer is no or if you had rather dip your hand in a pot of boiling oil than spend time with this guy, I will suggest you look for another guy. Not having lots of money is not a good reason to give up a great relationship.

A guy may have lots of money but be abusive and insensitive to your feelings.If this guy, who doesn’t have lots of money, makes you feel on top of the world emotionally, then you should think about how to work out the financial angle in your relationship. Think and pray through. But don’t throw it away. Not just yet.

Is he too short, too fat, too tall, too smart, too dark, too light, too hairy, too muscular, too skinny, bald? etc These are things you can work around. If you don’t want to get married to a short man who will do anything to make you happy, would you rather he was tall and mean to you? A man’s height or physique will not make you happy. Stop delaying your marital destiny by desiring the wrong things. The media sells us the picture of the perfect man with well formed, a perfect body, a perfect job, an IQ of 180, perfect teeth, a nice apartment, a great car,etc. If you want one of those men, you will have to find them in that magazine and no where else. The fact is that if you want a good man, you must be willing to work on the relationship. You should be vary suspicious of any man who looks too perfect. In fact, I will advise that you step back and watch him closely.

guy u be correct God bless

kandiikane: I am perfect. So why should I not have the perfect guy?

So, are you trying to say God made a mistake with all of us?

Since I have established that point, let me finish reading the rest.

there is no perfect guy stop livin in fantasy n face reality u r nt cinderella or fiona so no prince charmin or shrek is comin 2 save u wake up dear life is nt bed wit roses

4 those girls dat r nt experienced i wld like u 2 read RULES OF LOVE by Richard Templar so u can understd some tins bout life cheers

sosoluv: Like white people used torture to make black people feel inferior during the time of slavery and colonisation...some men use the same tatics with women to get sex without putting effort. Bitches, gold diggers, ash*wo, man eater...terms used to make u feel inferior, so u can give it up. Have u ever wondered why majority of the rich people never approve of their daughters to marry a guy that doesn't have an ambition or a guy who jus goes where ever the wind blows him, its becos those fathers know how those men think and what they really want. Being a gentleman is something alien to a lot of guys in the 21st century. Have u ever wondered why some men walk away from u wen u start asking them about what they do, how much they earn or their intentions on the first date ...he knows he can afford ur price, so he quickly runs away and some insult u a lil before they do so. Think about it, if a man is financially secure, why shouldnt he be confident enough to talk abt it on the first date? Most of them don't want to gain wealth by working for it, the exact same men don't like to put in effort before a woman gives them sex. If a man ever calls u names for refusing to lower ur stands for him (but pls ladies let ur standards always be reasonable) don't ever feel bad or regret it. He is not worth giving any of ur time cos all he wants is sex without commitment. U want a man u can be proud of, one u can confidently claim to be ur own...a guy who is not confident with where he is in life is not my ideal man

my dear maybe ur dad is rich or thereabout bt look in2 d matter its nt rely a must/compulsory 2 let out d cat of d bag on first date maybe u like it bt due 2 d fact that tins 4 changed ladies usually tak tins d wrong way like wen u knw his status u start askin 4 recharge card 4rm dat 2 pls send money 2 my account look maybe u dnt knw many a man dnt like been bugged n dnt like pests u knw a good man by his countenance nt by been financially secure so my frnd if u r a mother 2morow dnt look much on finances bt on who he rely is maybe u need 2 watch eddie murphy comin 2 america

Angel Jennifer: My reasons is that mainly relationships posses lots of sexual temptation. That's why i post the trend not that relationship is not worth being in.

my dear there is no smoke witout fire no bread witout butter no garri witout sugar well maybe cos u r young or too young life is about takin risks n fulfillin d impossible breakin d chains 2 save d princess doin wat matters most dats life not being a puppy in ur mother's arm u can still meet d right person if u r nt lost in fantasy or looks or who spends d most money or who has d best swagger think bout it u can send me ur facebook name 2 lovespyc007@gmail.com cheers