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Oyindidi:
Morning, how was your night?

fine dear n urs

thornapple:
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Thanks Collins. U are the best too. Sleep tight.

thanks dearie. hope ur night worth it.

nfour4:
pls guys we need ur support

u no no were ur mates dey?

Some of them are among Romancalanders. Good morning Oyindidi

gberra:
While others were critisizing the needlessly communication gap that may seemed to have existed within the presidency, a certain retard named Innocent Chukwu proved to public spectacle he is a slave from a poorly defined species of lost generation.
I can see through the face of the little kid on his profile, regretting ever being a descendant of the Accursed.

noted. oya comment on the issue @stake n stop chasing shadows

Ezigboune:
Nice piece

oh my Ezigboune! always on point

HERSLEY:
bn good n u

got a lot to thank God for.

HERSLEY:
Ok boss

how has ur day been. haven't heard from u today. wish I could be hearing from u on a daily basis

Pidgin2:
Get lost.

pidgin2 ur my friend n we have come a long way. u no I can't get lost. just do wat I ask u to do n I will no DAT ur passionate about ur dear country

Pidgin2:
Get lost , nonsense and useless post

may ur life n that of ur family be as Nigeria is right now in Jesus name. if u truely love Nigeria, I want to hear u say Amen

is like he want to replace tonto with tboss

HERSLEY:
*SEVEN LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLES TO LEARN FROM AN EAGLE....*

1. *Eagles fly Alone and at High Altitudes.*
They don't fly with sparrows, ravens, and other small birds.

MEANING; Stay away from narrow-minded people, those that bring you down. Eagle flies with Eagles. Keep good company.

2. *Eagles have an Accurate Vision.* They have the ability to focus on something as far as 5km away. No matter the obstacles, the eagle will not move his focus from the prey until he grabs it.

MEANING; Have a vision and remain focused no matter what the obstacles and you will succeed.

3. *Eagles do not Eat Dead things. They Feed only on Fresh Prey.*

MEANING; Do not rely on your past success, keep looking for new frontiers to conquer. Leave your past where it belongs, in the past.

4. *Eagles Love the Storm.*
When clouds gather, the eagle gets excited, the eagle uses the storms wind to lift itself higher. Once it finds the wind of the storm, the eagle uses the raging storm to lift itself above the clouds. This gives the eagle an opportunity to glide and rest its wings. In the meantime, all the other birds hide in the branches and leaves of the tree.

MEANING; Face your challenges head on knowing that these will make you emerge stronger and better than you were. We can use the storms of life to rise to greater heights. Achievers are not afraid to rise to greater heights. Achievers are not afraid of challenges, rather they relish them and use them profitably.

5. *When a Female Eagle Meets a Male Eagle* and they want to mate, she flies down to earth, picks a twig and flies back into the air with the male eagle in hot pursuit. Once she has reached a height high enough for her, she drops the twig and let it fall to the ground while she watches. The male eagle chases after the twig and catches it before it reached the ground, then bring it back to the female eagle. The female eagle grabs the twig and flies to a much higher altitude and drop the twig again for the male eagle to chase. This goes on for hours with the height increasing each time until the female eagle is assured that the male eagle has mastered the art of picking the twig which shows commitment. Then and only then will she allow him to mate with her.

MEANING; Whether in private life or business, one should test the commitment of the people intended for partnership.

6. *Eagles Prepare for Training;*
They remove the feathers and soft grass in the nest so that the young ones get uncomfortable in preparation for flying and eventually flies when it becomes unbearable to stay in the nest.

MEANING; *Leave your Comfort Zone, there is No Growth There.*

7. *When the Eagle Grows Old,*
His feathers becomes weak and cannot take him as fast and as high as it should. This makes him weak and could make him die. So he retires to a place far away in the mountains. While there, he plucks out the weak feathers on his body and breaks its beaks and claws against the rocks until he is completely bare; a very bloody and painful process. Then he stays in this hiding place until he has grown new feathers, new beaks and claws and then he comes out flying higher than before.

MEANING; We occasionally need to shed off old habit no matter how difficult, things that burden us or add no value to our lives should be let go of.

*YES, NEVER GIVE UP,*
*BE AN EAGLE, NEVER EVER GIVE UP !!!*

Cc Richiez Fynestboi

thought provoking. this is good

Hersley my dear, ur lucky is on Nairaland. if it were to be in a real life setting, u will bury it like a human being

HERSLEY:
for this Buhari era?.... No jor

watin bubu do. wat u will be u will be. its not in any ones hand. just keep the right people beside u. cheers. i kia

HERSLEY:
lol hmmmm funny I must say

really thnks. how has ur day been. any spectacular experience today?

HERSLEY:
u don't believe in it,so no need.... Morning

don't conclude. u can still be my change agent

dats a good one.

Amarabae:
ofcourse it was an advice and an encouragement that I gave in this my writeup.
Read my writeup from the beginning again.

sounds more like a mockery. l love the broke guys n ladies in the house but hate their conditions. try as much as it lies on u to lift a fainted soul today.

Amarabae:
Thank you for saying the truth.

thanks anyway. but my advise to u is as a mother u claim to be, ur role in discussions whether online or offline should be advisory base on ur experiences. ur discussion on lines most times makes one to wonder if ur still looking for who to Date, as in ur not comfortable in ur home front. advise younger women on how to make it in their home front or in their chosen career. being a career woman entails mentoring others wisely. stop bragging about ur little present achievement if any, cos we have evidence on every side that nothing on earth is standing still. be guided pls

Amarabae:
Thank you for saying the truth.

thanks anyway. but my advise to u is as a mother u claim to be, ur role in discussions whether online or offline should be advisory base on ur experiences. ur discussion on lines most times makes one to wonder if ur still looking for who to Date, as in ur not comfortable in ur home. advise younger women on how to make it in their home front or in ur chosen career. being a career woman entails mentoring others wisely. stop bragging about ur little present achievement cos we have evidence on every side that nothing on earth is standing still. be guided pls

Amarabae:
you dodged my question, what are you doing now?
Because serious guys are busy going to work or shop NOW.

still on my bed.

Amarabae:
I am on maternity leave,dear.
I have a good paying job..
So I am not a house wife and mind you, calling someone a house wife is meant to offensive in your thinking? Huh?

on maternity leave I hear. I think DAT ur new born baby deserve more of ur attention than making unsubstantiated assertions on Nairaland. Give ur Baby n husband attention if u really have any pls

Amarabae:
just look at yourself.
Better take my advice, I am real, she is on fantasy.
Winter is cold.
Uguru na atu oyi o.
Go and Hustle for money, be financially stable b4 thinking of marriage.

is like ur a house wife cos there is no career lady that will wake up by this time just to respond to mentions DAT was not directed to her.

MissRaine69:
I cannot fathom how you can not see how superficial you come across in that statement you wrote.
In a nutshell according to you a woman wants a man with a 3 bed house and a car that's your prerequisite for a man. With those things a woman is comfortable? This is why women get dumped when a guy's hard work starts to bear fruit.
How many women grew up in a three bedroom house or had a car that you put that as a minimum for someone else's child to provide for you?
Does his mother live in a three bed house andoes she drive she drive an old Camry? That is what I call being entitled beyond the very word.

best reply so far. nnem keep it up.

nextstep:
Have you thought that your messages are just like thousands of other boring chats? The onus is on you, the man, to provide something interesting to hook. If you, a guy, got messages from 30 different thirsty women, all boring, would you really be interested in continuing chatting with them? If you yourself were an outgoing guy, hanging out with really cool women, would you have time to read the same boring chats from 30 similar women? I really doubt it. SO why should she respond to your boring messages that add no value?

Here's an example, as a guide:

Your profile picture should have you doing something interesting, like riding a horse, standing under waterfall, dancing with your grandma... (yes we have horses, waterfalls and grandmas in Nigeria... so this is not some Western idea). Something unique and not the same pose as 99% of the guys. If possible, have a total of 3 pictures doing interesting things.

Include something interesting that you do in your profile (not your job, not your love for sports or drinking).

In your messages, add snippets of your interesting life or what you want to achieve. Something that happened to you as you went along your way today. Again, unique things. You can copy and paste the same message to multiple ladies, tailored to their interests and profile picture. Add pictures of beautiful foods and snacks that you encounter. There are some really nice places that make cupcakes and other beautiful snacks around Lagos and Abuja, that girls drool over. Certainly not chinchin and boli pics.

People are busy, in relationships, taking exams, preparing for interview, helping a friend get married, and so many other things that you can't make lazy attempts then get upset if nobody is interested. Ping once in a while, and if she starts ignoring your messages, that's a sign you didn't pique her interest... learn, improve, move on.

do all this just for a girl to respond to my chats? ur not serious

HERSLEY:
no too. Hwz ur day

why? my day was fine. Good morning dearie

HERSLEY:
morning. Hope u prayed?

nope. don't really know how to pray. did u pray for me?

Rorachy:
Seriously I don't care.
But the guy fine sha .

U n fine boys ni

my shout out goes to ezigboune & thornapple. u guys are the best

HERSLEY:
m OK dear

thanks n good morning

Benita27:
And if I decide to earn more days in my father's house what's wrong with that?.

sometimes I don't understand u. of more than half a million girls in this forum na only u they carry this matter for head pass. the earlier u understand that this is just a faceless online forum the better u save ur self some stress. thanks