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Dapinski:
You're a perfect example of the strength of genetics.

Stay in Lagos for a 100 years and mingle with Yorubas daily for that 100 years and you will still never understand the omoluabi culture of respect, uprightness, honorable behaviour and decorum towards otherd.

What Osinbajo demands should be applauded. It is what some of us have always asked our fellow Nigerians to do.

Keep it clean and issue-based so Nigerians can begin to gain political sophisticatio that helps them make better electoral decision as others do worldwide.

Lastly, "ashiere" Tinubu is a respected Yoruba elder with a lot of good to his name. Far far more good and productivity than all the worthless leaders from the region you come from you never say squat about.

Yet one cannot expect a stone to produce water same as uncultured folks can't be expected to be respectful or to speak/act with decorum.

You sha like the sound of your own voice, lol. you sound like a Yoruba man has never disrespected an elder. besides Tinubu is just 4 years older, according to him, so they are mates per say

As much I like Goodluck, he should rest. Good men don't make good leaders.

Noah9:
I want to thank everyone for their advice and I really appreciate everyone involvement about the thread I created 2week ago. Here is the link.
https://www.nairaland.com/6933724/regretted-actions-please-me

Great people of this forum, honestly things have never been better ever since that incident and I wish our minds are like show glass so that y'all would see how sorry I am inside of me. I messed up and I'm really sorry.

5 days after I created that post above, My wife traveled with my daughter to her parents house to stay without telling me. Since that incident my wife haven't said a word to me, Not a single word. Sometimes I wonder if she's the same woman I married. I'm frustrated, incoherent and I'm losing my mind.

I've been good to her, I provide 85% for my family while she bring just 15% yet I don't complain, I'm romantic and good looking, since we married I don't keep female friends not to talk of cheating. Yet She denied me sex over 2 months without any reasons, that was why I acted that way and I'm so sorry.

On Tuesday here, My friend and I traveled to her parents house, they did not even welcome us well, I don't know what she must have told her parents but I explained myself, knelt down and asked for forgiveness.

She refused to come home with me, her parents were just starring at me like I'm some demon, I requested for my daughter but she refused to release her and I've already paid my daughter's school fees for the term. Her parents said they would register my daughter in a new school, that my wife need some space for now.

Please don't call me a weak man, I'm family oriented, I don't want broken home, if she needed some space that's not a problem, I can give her all the space in the world but let her come home. It's not proper raising a child in a broken home...I'm really losing my mind.

I faced query today at work because I traveled without informing my Boss which I know he won't allow me and I know how much would be deducted from my salary. what I'm going through now I can't wish my enemies and I wish I could turn back the hands of time. I messed up.

Beloveth Pls I need advice.

Op, I will tell you that if you did all you have said, even devil have forgiven you. She is your wife for God sakes and 2 months as a married man, living with your wife, she is hale and hearty and denies you sex is no joke. In the olden days her parents would have scolded her seriously and sent her back to her husband's house, but let's not go there.

You have to Man up now, forget about the issue of broken home and accept the situation. forget the woman and face your life, if possible get a gf, you showed her too much commitment and she started feeling like queen Eliza. if you ignore her she will come back, because she has everything to loose, you can marry again next month, but it's not so with her.

Prayfortheworld:
To be honest with you to leave that marriage dey your woman mind since

Because i don't see any Reason why she will deny you sex for months without any tangible reason. It's either she's seeing someone else or tired of the marriage tell her you're tired that you've tried if she wants a divorce let her tell you that you will gladly give her that rather than all this her hide and seek game.

Text her this night or call her! Mehn Man up tell her this and focus on your job. Find better woman wey go Dy quench your conji. Life is too short for someone to start giving himself unnecessary headache about who don't give a f**k about you.
That's wickedness from her own side to deny her husband sex for two months. i can't take that!! Let it be known that i cheat than forcing her.

She doesn't want to leave the marriage, there are two things at play here, firstly is boredom. Women easily get bored, the op probably has not spiced up his sex life and it's the same repetitive style and it probably no longer turns her on.

secondly, women give you sex more as a gf because you have options, you ain't married yet, but when you marry and start showing too much commitment to the marriage, just like op has stated, they start to believe that you can't cheat and if you can't, it means they can manipulate you anyhow. The only power women have over men, is sex, seemingly.

EmptyCoconutHead:
you never still understand football matter.
E go shock you.
your eyes go clear on Sunday

I am cheering for country, carry ur football professorship with your emptycoconuthead go one side.

The Tunisia team should wash their clothes and pack their luggages from the hotels on Saturday. Their plane should be steamed and ready to take off Sunday after the match.

Its just so that they don't waste another tax payers money sleeping in a hotel in Cameroon on Sunday night. I don't like waste.

The Tunisia team should wash their clothes and pack their luggages from the hotels on Saturday. Their plane should be steamed and ready to take off Sunday after the match.

Its just so that they don't waste another tax payers money sleeping in a hotel in Cameroon on Sunday night. I don't like waste.

In nigeria everything works backwards ...

The police are criminals.
The army kill innocent civilians
NDLEA are the onces that sell hard drugs.
Nafdac make sure fake drugs reach their destination.
VIO don't have vehicles. Have you ever seen VIO people with neat cars.

The list goes on... imagine hitting a woman, right in her eyes, probably with a sharp object, on top Lastma job.

You see the problem is that Nigeria nay Africa is reactive and not proactive. You can't have almajiri children, in their millions roaming the streets without hope, vision or even common education and you're fighting terrorism. You have to tackle the Almajiri system, before you can fight boko haram.

you can't come to the South and recruit children, it just wouldn't work, kids in the south know what you know,that's the power of education.

Why am I even wasting my time, CinC of terrorist can't fight his foot soldiers.

NohurryInLife:
Popsi na senior police officer now. I no kom know wetin enter me, friends & my siblings body that day now...we just wake up that tuesday enter popsi wardrobe carry anything wey dey related to police & thieves play matter...una know now, just to spice the play up with our friends wey we gather dey on holiday together...Jack knife o, gun o, sword o, pepper spray o, en uniforms o, walking stick meant for senior officers, jungle boot, walkie talkie and all sorts.

Omo as the play gbedu don enter our body now, we don even forget say time don reach wey the old man suppose come back from office & the police men wey dey gate no fit know know wetin dey sup 4 back yard.

All of a sudden, we just hear don't even allow their shadows to escape...Na my own beating/torture come even much pass cos na me hang en CP uniform 4 body dey give my boys orders ...make I no talk wetin do us that day

"don't even allow their shadows to escape" lmao you murdered me there bro. The way you ended the story, I don't know why I pity you, in a funny kinda way.

folabayo:
Tough one. If am to b d judge, i will simply free the man, what if they all died?

many would agree

I stan

You talking about reputation, no amount of image laundering can change the image of these guys, it's already cultivated. Doesn't stop from winning elections in Africa tho.

I attended one wedding, a Catholic wedding. while preaching, the priest said something I will never forget. He was like, when you go to school, you get a cert after graduation. In endeavors of life, a certificate is issued at the END to show qualification.

Only in marriage, is a certificate issued the very day you step in. So from your first day you're are graduate, you're qualified. This is because in marriage the beginning is the end and the end is the beginning. For you to agree to be married means you have trained yourself and feel you're qualified and ready.

But is that the case today?? most times I am **** scared of marriage. My father thought me that you never stop working on a marriage. The few ladies I have dated, when they discover you just want peace of mind and apologize even when you're right for the sake of peace, next they want to take you for a fool. Going the alpha way, keeps them in check, but doesn't really guarantee a happy home because I want my woman to love me and not fear me. This gender called women, you can never tell what it is they really want.

My verdict: Marriage has no solution or 12 or even 100 things to abide by, you can only try. Christians will say, only God can give a happy home.

Lol, a friend of mine told me how she use to stay awake to catch her parents at it at night. once the match begins and baba starts doing skills, she will innocently get up and go to drink water or pee. she said it got to point her Dad hated her throughout her childhood.

I never saw my Dad holding hands with my mum, neither did any of siblings, but they born full house.

YoungAncient1:
Obviously Tottenham or arsenal are no match for us. What we want to be playing now is North London all stars.

Baba calm down, as much you made me laugh, West Ham still beat us!

Oh... I said North London, I see...

I was expecting this, people just love hugging the spotlight.

If everything in this country is not based on nepotism and tribalism this man should have no business contesting elections at his age. But everyone who speaks against it branded IPOB.

Whether he is a good administrator or not wouldn't matter when he starts his medical tourism. Then he will start complaining of being old, this man is at least 80yrs old.

wetin concern me, we are all in it together.

psychologist:
One of the reason why sallah is not in this match is because the field is too small

I don't understand what people mean when they say this. football pitches have standard measurement. The same size you find in Camp nau is the same with Old Trafford and same with Nnamdi Azikiwe stadium.

[quote author=IFSHR post=109282771]Omo this naija team go beat manutd [quote/]

u like wahala sha

abeg, as dat oyibo fowl wey employee never resume, can dey tell him to forget the job??

I wasn't interested in this match, but with what I am seeing, I am very impressed with the interim Manager. if it was Rohr now, these boys will be running around like headless chicken.

Science is magic sha. what thing that baffles me is autopsy, someone that died 20 years ago, autopsy can still tell cause of death.

hm

with the way you wrote exposed, I thought you had something new to say. Werin u come expose bayi...

sighs... walksatta thread

It's already difficult for this team to score goals, not to talk of when there is no recognized strikers.

I read this on Nairaland front page over 6months ago, same man, same story.

I think it was in Saudi Arabia, that a nobility raped someone and the court ruled that the noble citizen slipped, and while falling down his manhood "mistakenly" penetrated the girl.

The case above tops my list of most ridiculous instances, then followed closely by this Sylvester's case. The boy said he was beaten and given something to drink. School said he injured himself. Fellow students said he was beaten. Autopsy said they found substance in his system. Autopsy still said natural causes.

People who don't understand psychology saw a list 12 doctors and concluded that they must be right. one guy even said they can't bribe them all" But the issue is that in Nigeria, you don't get to see them release the names of those doctors before. So why now?? its simply to intimidate the simple minded with names and portfolios. Also tells me that powerful people are behind the case.

They went for natural causes because whatever else they rule as the cause of death, will lead to another investigation.