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[quote author=tonywonder post=124978513]I am a legally married woman with no child and My marriage is 15 years. I reside in Lagos.

I am not the type of woman that monitors or interfere in my husband business or his staffs. Though I know some of the staffs but not much closeness.

7 years ago 4 youths corps served at my husband office but one lady among the 4 corps member was later retained and employed as a secretary to the director who is my husband.

Though my husband told me when his secretary wanted to do her wedding at Port Harcourt 4 years ago. I didn't go but being my husband staff, he went with some of his friends. Less than a year after the wedding the Secretary gave birth to twins. I even went to visit her at home in gbagada, Lagos with gifts for the new babies then. When I asked for her husband I was told he is out of the country. I never knew I was being fooled.

December 22, last year, the Secretary gave birth to another baby in a private hospital where my immediate sister got employed less than 3 months as an accountant. It was my sister that witnessed everything and told me.

The lady I thought is just a secretary is my husband-wife. The wedding the Secretary did in port Harcourt then was between her and my husband. The twins she gave birth to then and the new baby she just put to birth are my husband children. The house I went to visit her in gbagada was bought to her by my husband with a saloon car.

My husband didn't deny it when I confronted him. Even his parents and siblings all knew about it. I didn't know I was in darkness for years.

I am still in the shock because all is still like a dream to me. I asked him of my offensee to have punished me that way but he said I did nothing wrong.

Now I fully believe men are evil and their place is hell.

Since that the whole secret was exposed I have been mentally sick and disturbed. My heart is wild now, and at any time I can do and undo.

What should I do?

https://www.facebook.com/100003745537262/posts/pfbid02bf6qynCVjDVQhVc5UwURf7Ri9JH1LAvDuM34Z7pxfvkhfdg4XAPhEjhWs8jPgX1Nl/?mibextid=wPBFeM[/quote). I read this same story 2 yrs ago. Nothing changed.

Thank you. Want to learn as a beginner.

xpresseeve:
Good day!

What of Abuja?

Location

JoyAfterLiberat:
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Benbisco:
Really?

If by "eliminate" you mean kill, then such men need to get their heads checked, both medically and spiritually.

If a man is tired of the wife he married and wants to continue with the side chick why not be a man, call your family and hers and end things with the wife officially instead of killing the woman?

Yes!!! A lot of things have happened because of all these don't touch your husband's phone. Its better i check his phone to know his activities, so i will know where and how to caution myself.

In my house, I have access to my spouse's phone and he has access to mine too. If we can't touch each other's phone, what make us couple/one?

If a man is tired as u said, its better he let the wife knows.

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To the glory of God, our work days has been reduced to 2 days. Maximum of 3 days if we want to.

Oyindamolah:
Still Open

I work with an audit firm.

folake4u:
E go hot for Abuja tomorrow.

Fuel scarcity for this town na 5&6.

Like Seriously.

Benbisco:
Really?

If by "eliminate" you mean kill, then such men need to get their heads checked, both medically and spiritually.

If a man is tired of the wife he married and wants to continue with the side chick why not be a man, call your family and hers and end things with the wife officially instead of killing the woman?

My dear, things are happening out there!!! May we not fall victim.

So, most times to checkmate such partners is not really meant for fighting but to take caution so that the woman won't be caught unaware. Some men are just crazy!!! Until the bad happen, that's when their eyes will clear.

Probably the man has convenant with poverty.

Kobojunkie:
OP's mother has been getting the boy deliverance for 38 years and it has done nothing in all that time. Yet here you are prescribing, even in the face of more negative results, suggesting the entire family continues to see the very same. No be wickedness dem dey call that?

suggest your own solution. No fight here.

chimpad:
Your brother may just be fine and right thinking like anyone else. He just lacks a good opportunity. What kind of employer pays someone 20k for a whole month in 2023? That's more than ridiculous and meagre! Was any contract signed as to when the pay will change and when his training will end? He as an employer assigned him to a client as soon as he resumed, meaning that isn't much of training. His schedule for work is 6 days a week, and probably 12hrs shift a day, for #20,000 ? Why do we think this is right? You did well trying to help your brother, but this opportunity might not be anything near good as it sounds. I'd expect to see the conversation you had with him, and his reasons for leaving . He doesn't like that offer, and he seems coerced to accept it in the first place.

Point of correction, he's there to learn a skill, but they will be paying him 20k monthly for that as a stipend. Also, the person that intro him promised to support with 10k monthly, making 30k. They have tried for him. He is learning not working with them.

All your brother needs at this time is deliverance prayers. He has been captured spiritually!!! His action towards that job was not ordinary, they use remote control to control him, if not he won't accept to go back there to apologise.

They know his victory is close, but your mum has to be awake spiritually for him. Either of the 3 ways of religion that we have, embrace the one you guys believe in and act fast before they totally consume him.

Thats just my opinion.

joeargy:
The problem is he is answering that name, we live close to them hence the frequent visits...if u call him Daniel, he will say ehh!!

No issue here!!! My parents call my children the name they gave them. My kid sis call them the names she gave them, and they answer the names on their certificate too. My children know all the names given to them!!! By the way, Daniel is a nice name!!! No issue with the parents calling their grandchildren the name they gave them. Don't take it personal.

Is he not a human being? Nature can't be cheated. Only God don't sleep or slumber.

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Neemart04:
How am i going to avoid them

What i mean by avoiding them is *Don't even go close to their app at all for borrowing.

Neemart04:
How long will it take for them to stop calling me after defame me

After defaming you, nothing else again. That's the worst they can do.

But the best is to.avoid them!!! But its the situation of the country that make people to fall into their trap.

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PaulOtl:
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Smileychoco:
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I decided to resume my application but I can't capture to finish up.

Was anybody able to capture recently because I can't capture and I can't move to next? There is nothing to be done.

I need help please on what next to do about this🙏🙏🙏

Leave capturing, continue so u can submit.

On the training day, go to the center with your ID card for identification that u are the original owner of the code.

Thats what they told us during TCMA Training.

ezenwaez:
Have training started for training center administrators?

We finished Training since last week . 4 days traiining.
Did mine at Nasarawa state, Lafia.