zoer:


It is your expirence and not anybody's own....anybody wey no gree say your own dey biblical make him expirence him own...abi na God tell anybody say your own no dey biblical?...I have learnt from your expirence. Keep the fire burning...

The ways of man is known but not the ways and doings of God....

ifihearam:


You have said a whole and yet said nothing..you keep saying you wont say like ypu are being monitored or known here...you have said nothing in a nutshell..we want revalations and experiences just as the op did so we can be encouaraged and learn

nnamdiosu:


It's still not biblical. Seeing it alone is questionable as a true christian.

Astral projection is also demonic.
With all due respect, your experiences aren't from God.

nnamdiosu:


It's still not biblical. Seeing it alone is questionable as a true christian.

Astral projection is also demonic.
With all due respect, your experiences aren't from God.

Pidaa:

Am expecting your story. Please we need people of your stories to motivate us. Thank u very much

Zhirinovsky:
In as much as most of the things you said here are true but the use of terms like 'chakras' raises an eyebrow.

Chakra is used in esoteric teachings and occultic teachings, Hinduism too I think. No genuine christ follower will entertain words like 'Chakras'.

Most people may think they worship and communicate with God but they don't. Someone here made a great contribution but the mention of angel rezniel or something raised my eyebrow. This angel is not scriptural and is found only in esoteric and Jewish occultic books.

Something may be spiritual true but also devilish/occultic.

The Bible said we should not remove nor add to the scriptures.

“Ye shall not add unto the word which I command you, neither shall ye diminish ought from it, that ye may keep the commandments of the Lord your God which I command you.” (Deut. 4:2.)

Anything that is not biblical shouldn't be allowed here.

May God help us all.

We all should be careful here.

DaTruths:
Meeeeeehn, na me be this?

I know one month is still small, but you won't understand.

I started masturbation in 2010 while in Secondary school.

Since that period, I've masturbated at least once every week, sometimes 4-5 times a day.

Even before I had access to porn, I've started masturbating.

Once I see a sexy woman on the street then, I would make sure I visualise her naked, store her unclothedness and the way her ass shakes in my memory.

Once I reach home, I would visualize the woman and start wanking. The feeling was ecstatic, Even though I have never had sex with a girl then.

It continued that I already had a collection of people's wives living in our street that I self-service with their image in my imagination. (matured women turned me on the most)

Every night before going to bed, I would choose amongst these women the one I was going to self-service to her image, they all got ass

If I self-service to mama Emmanuel today, the next day I would self-service to Mama Grace and many of them. I was polygamous, I was literally marrying these women in my imagination. (I'm glad their Husbands never found out )

I was doing this untill I got a camera phone, That was when my journey actually began

A friend sent me a porn video, omo I couldn't wait to go home that day because it will be the first time I will be wanking with a real graphic image.

After some months, I started downloading porn videos by myself, but due to the fact that Data was expensive, I couldn't cope with the usual 10Mb for 100 naira. I ended up downloading just hardcore pics then.

Fast forward to 2016, I barely masturbate to penetrative sex videos, since it no longer turns me on.( I've watched all manner of porn except gay porn and torture that I usually bump on accidentally)
It was mostly black girls masturbating or Guys licking female pu**y and ass that I self-service to. I got so nasty mentally and I was so enjoying it.

Sometimes I look for black granny (E no go better for Xvideos and pornhub )

Omo the story loooong like Indian film.

The longest time I've went without masturbating since 2010 was 24 days, and that was during my NYSC camp. I really wish I could masturbate then, but my tired was tired, I only wanted to sleep at any given opportunity I had. I wish I could even sleep on parade ground.

But after the effects of masturbation started hitting me, I decided to stop for good.

And for the first time, I've gone 1 month without wanking.

The first week was too hard for me because I was still watching porn, I actually did it deliberately.

I streamed new porn for two hours every night for the first two weeks but I didn't self-service, even when the urge was at the highest. It was a hard drill I hard to put my self through.

That's when I finally deleted all the porn in my phone. (believe me, I conquered the power of porn because that's the only thing that makes me to relapse)

I'm currently celibate, no sex, no masturbation for the past one month.

My aim is to go 1 year without masturbation, and possibly stop it entirely and at least 1 year without sex.

Don't tell me nothing is wrong with masturbation, everything is wrong with any addiction.

Please I need words of encouragement from you guys.

Diza46:
ohhh okay I don't have knowledge of such things is there any simple thing I can learn and do online to earn some money I am so much in need of money

SultanOfPuna:
I never beloved in reincarnation
But after visiting my aunt. I have been left speechless from what I saw.
My grandad died 2001.
My cousin was born 2017
This boy is an ancestor in disguise

He eats just exactly like my grandfather.
My grandad had a unique style of rolling Eba before he eats.
This boy does exactly like that when he is eating Eba
I have never seen anybody roll eba like my grandad. Only this boy and nobody taught him.
I asked my aunt, and she confessed to me that the thing frightens her as nobody taught him how to roll Eba like my grandad.

To make matters worse, this boy keeps disturbing my aunt to take him to village so he can see their compound.
Once they decided to go to village, this boy was walking around the whole compound like he has been there before.

And to cap it off, he likes to seat in the chair my grandad loved sitting.

How can a 5 year old be saying and doing things like ancestors.
Is it possible that my grandad reincarnated into my 5 year old cousin

Edit: im worried my aunt might see this,
so I have removed some details just to keep it anonymous.

plsdisvirginme:
35 years old,
No job.
No wife.
No kids.
No skill.
All I have is just my school certificate
Stay indoors 24/7 because of being ridiculed by my mates doing well.
Nobody to run to.
No one to call.
Nobody to help me.
I am just alone.
The load is too heavy for me.
I have tried to endure but I am losing my mind.
I am going insane and I don't think I will ever live a conventional life again.
I have never found true happiness all my life.
I have lived in shame, self low esteem and I have to struggle to scale through school.
All my struggles and years in school have been laboured in vain
All my siblings are doing well except me sometimes I ask myself if it was the same parents that gave birth to me that gave birth to them.
I am thirsty and I have found no one to quench my thirst.
My name will forever be erased from the surface of the earth and no one will ever remember me because I lived a hopeless life.
I asked for water, but no one gave me.
I asked for a hug, but no one gave me.
My endless tears and sorrow are about to come to an end.
I am a sinner but I have asked my maker to grant me peace and rest in his bosom for I am just a human with blood and flesh.

Rexxyl:
I'm typing with pain and sorrows in my heart, God bear me witness i've tried, endured and gone through alot for years with no sight of improvement or any hope for change, now i'm in debt, no job, no way to feed, and sickness is setting in, of what use should i still live? When its obvious i'll die of hunger and sickness anyway, maybe few days from now. I'm not writting here to threaten anyone or beg, i just want to let it out, maybe someone who knows me could see the reason for my demise. My suicide story might be on front soon

Magnoliaa:


How is a traditional woman expecting her man to provide entitlement mentality?

Oga boss, make it make sense.

If you people are going to be doing 'each other's roles' then you can't really say this role is meant for man/woman no more.


Eyaaaaaa. Maybe una fit try gather money buy time machine. I'm sure the earlier years would be pleasant for y'all.

Magnoliaa:


How is a traditional woman expecting her man to provide entitlement mentality?

Oga boss, make it make sense.

If you people are going to be doing 'each other's roles' then you can't really say this role is meant for man/woman no more.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Myexdisturbs:

Ignorance,you sef suppose ask why the babalawo wey de do am no rich

Rogavo:
First of all I'm not creating this thread to boast or show off. Actually something happened today that made me create an account to share this with you guys. I was walking on the street today and two girls were in a Keke and as the Keke drove by, one of the girls who locked eyes with me put her head out of the Keke and screamed "Fine boy." This was a weird experience for me on a list of other weird experiences I've had with girls. I've realized a lot about looks and how it influences your experience with women and I'll share them with you guys.

1. Not all girls find me attractive, but majority of them do. Just like men have types of women that they are attracted to, women also do. But there is a type of girl most guys find attractive even though some guys might find her unattractive. For example, most guys find Dj Cuppy attractive, but there are some guys that don't find her attractive. That's just the same thing in my case.

2. Girls who are bold toast me with style, but the ones who aren't bold will act like they despise me, until I approach them and then I'll realize that they have been insanely attracted to me for a long time but never summoned courage to tell me.

I'll explain the behavior of both:

How girls toast me with style: Girls who are bold enough to approach me will do these things: They will compliment my looks immediately they meet me. They will says things like: You look good, I like your beards, you have nice hands, I like the smell of your perfume etc. Secondly, they will use any opportunity they have to touch me. They will randomly touch my arms, hands, shoulders, face beards etc.
Third they will inquire about where I live and if I live alone. Fourth, they begin to act like simps in that they will be willing to do anything I ask them to do, even to the point of buying stuff for me, and ditching their female friends to be with me. They literally become a slave to me and will say yes to anything I ask them to do. If I find them attractive enough I can easily have sex with them the first time I'm alone with them and they'll do anything I want them to do in bed.

What I've learned from these girls is that they are upfront and straight forward and I guess that's how girls want men to be with them. They won't tell you they want to have sex with you but they will find ways to hint at it.

Girls that are not bold enough to approach me: These category of girls are very good actors. Honestly I don't even have a clue that they find me attractive until I talk to them. When I walk past them they will squeeze face and when I greet them they will just glance, greet back and turn their face . I've come to realize that this behavior is a combination of nerves and pretence. There was a girl I could have sworn hated me for no reason until I then realized that she has been fantasizing about having sex with me for a long time.

3. As far as sex is concerned, women care a lot about looks. A girl who wants a boyfriend who will fulfill boyfriend roles like talking care of her and buying her stuff doesn't really give a Bleep about looks. All they care about is rich guys, especially those girls that are looking for husbands.. But girls that want to have exciting sex really care alot about looks. Girls in their exploring phase ( girls between 17 and 22) care a lot about looks sometimes even more than they care about money.

4. Guys feel intimidated when you talk to girls that they like: Honestly, this annoys me the most. Like I can just be talking to a girl just on a platonic level with no interest of having sex with her and a guy that likes her will just start beefing me for no reason.

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion.

Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.

Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.

Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out, I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it. I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.

Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

Jackanda1:
I understand that good looks definately have advantages, but this thread will only discuss the disadvantages.

I am also aware that been less attractive has drawbacks. The fact that I am discussing the problems of beautiful people doesn't mean ugly people don't have problems. Let's focus on one aspect today.
I have a relative who is very handsome. We grew up, lived and schooled together (nursery-university). We are very close. The points in this thread are from observation.

For some reasons let me add: He was diagnose with anxiety and depression. He had low self esteem and was mostly a loner.

1.People are mostly insecured and intimidated by good looks. So they tend to react defensively against, subdue and humiliate you.

Its the same thing when people know you have a first class grade. You'll hear all sorts of degrading comments. Insecure people people will do anything to put u down, if you've got something they don't have.

2. Most people think life is easy for you,you're getting away with things and you don't have difficulties. So they deliberately decide to treat you with disdain. They think they are bringing about justice.

3. People stereotype you to be arrogant, proud, vain, stuck up, opportunist,mean,dumb etc anything you do or say, people find a way to relate it to the judgement they already have about you.

Thats why people say things like ' Does he have a good character' when discussing about gudlooking ppl.

4. Good looks +shyness is a curse. People don't expect you to be shy. You quietness &social inhibition could be interpretate to mean pride and arrogance.

5.Having a conversation with most people is like acting a poorly scripted movie. It seems people don't know how to act normal around you.

6. People are not free around you. They don't play or joke with you like everyone else. So youre mostly isolated

7. Since people donot expect you to have difficulties. They may be unsympathetic towards your problems,mock you behind your back and even use your trouble against you.

8. You are expected to be confidence, charismatic, have leadership skills, Rich and have a good life. Inability to meet up can cause metal breakdown.

9. You become the center of attention. Topic of discussion and gossip. Your business becomes everyone's business.

10. Even if you are in the right side of an argument. People will side against you.
It seems odd siding you.

11. Fine girls play over hard to get. Most average looking girls are intimidated and see themselves below your league

12. You can't joke or play around with people. They hinge on every word you say and may interpretate it to mean mockery or catty put downs.

13. Uneccesary aggression from fellow gender. Jealousy?

14. People think u are shallow, dumb, incapable etc. If a good looking person were to contest for election, most people won't vote for him. You're never taken seriously.

15. Everyone seems to easily believe anything bad about you and are willing to unite against a common enemy- you.

16. Most people donnot offer you help because they think you have it all.

17.You cannot talk about the problems of attractive people, no matter how badly it affects you.

18. Is it true people pay you complements often?
Why should they? So that your head will grow bigger that it's already is?

19. If your boss is intimidated by your looks, you might not get that job , no matter the qualification.

20.There are people who judge you negatively but not to point of butting head with you.

So they decide in their mind: ' I won't pay any attention to anything he says', I won't give him any validation or pay him any complements etc.
This gives them since of victory over you.
You might notice they make a big deal of ignoring everything you do or say

21. People make a big deal about your looks even more you do.

22. If you recently grew into your looks, you find most of your friends ghosting you.

23. Because of this problems, you can be forced into isolation

Megatron77:
Oga no be me talk am ooh...abeg i be woman, check well.

Megatron77:
How

Havesomesense:


If you don't use her head, she will use yours.

Havesomesense:


I am dat niggy.
Just letting y'all know it's kill or be killed.

dontrulee:


Not really, she was my ex and she wanted to get married to a doctor,so she asked me to connect her. She tried to have sex with me but I wasn't interested and I guessed that made her love me more because I didn't use or dump her. I Know all her strength and weaknesses and she doesn't hide anything from me. I could have hit and run but am not that kind of guy. I am a virgin and am proud to be one!

dontrulee:
Now this babe is ready to have sex with me if I connect her to one of my friends and they eventually get married. It just reminds me of how far ladies can go to get what they want.

ayomikuolatunji:


Very touching story!! God saved you

Bahamas95:
She became an ex for a reason so why should I accept her back?




There are many fishes in the river jor, I can't be bothering myself because of one girl.

Megatron77:
I respect u bcoz u're real... not like all those online alphas

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