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Celebrities › Jesus Christ is History's best Motivational Speaker by constancefriday(op):
JESUS CHRIST: History's Most Reliable & Honest MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER.
It's quite hilarious and it's trending on net right now.
Photos of animals taking bold risks with their predators just because they're motivated.
The photos i've seen on many places on net are truly hilarious.
I don't intend to spoil your good mood but while you laugh try to read the real message in between the lines.
It's about the issue of honesty among motivational speakers.
How many motivational speeches have you heard recently? How many motivational speakers have you listened to?
How much did you pay to listen to the last big personality motivational speech you listened to? Now check yourself today and ask: have you been putting to practise the rules they taught? Are they working? Why?
Here are few reasons why some information you got from some motivational speakers are not yielding results
(1) You're not completely obeying the rules: Yes, you may keep 9/10 of the ten commandments but there's this one you just keep disobeying. That very one alone can keep you stuck in one place longer than you like to be. It sucks but it surely can and it will. So endeavour to make it a 10/10.
(2) You're applying the rules to fit your own routine or your own rules: You're like okay, i'll apply the rules but it has to be this way because i want it this way. This will never work, trust me. It won't, no matter how much you paid for the motivational speech.
The Pythagoras theorem says the square of the Hypotenuse is equal to the sum of the squares of the Opposite and the Adjacent. Period.
Add anything or subtract anything from it, just to fit your own routine or whatever and you'll surely end up with a wrong answer.
(3) Incomplete Information: Now this is entirely due to the kind of motivational speaker you call. Some motivational speakers with hold important informations from you because they don't want you to stop patronising them. They don't tell you the side effects of the medications you're taking. etc etc
That's why you should get information from HONEST & TRUTHFUL Motivational Speakers.
Jesus Christ is one of History's greatest and very honest motivational speaker.
He taught about being part of a greater Kingdom than all the kingdoms of the world but he didn't fail to mention what the world will do to you when you decide to enter the greater kingdom but Jesus Christ told us to rejoice when it happens for it is indeed a sign of true blessedness Matthew 5:1-17 (Matthew 5:11).
On several occasions Jesus reassured all those who live a real and true Christlike life that they are surely winning. In John 16:33 Jesus said and i read
"In the world, you will have tribulations, but be of good cheer, i have overcome the world"
Jesus never prescribed medications without listing the side effects, he listed the side effects and told you what to do when you experience them. Read and study all the teachings of Jesus, they're in your Holy Bible.
If there's any good reason why you should leave everything else and follow Jesus, this is one of the best reasons and living a Christlike life truly pays. It truly and surely pays.
I invite you to accept Jesus today.
Read Revelations 3:20
God Bless You.
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance. C. Friday.
Join us for regular podcasts and devotions online @
www.truthandlifegospel.webs.com That's our website. Cheers.
John 8:32 always have that in mind.

Politics › I'm a politically neutral Person by constancefriday(op):
I'm a politically neutral person. It's what my duty requires.
Some Folks say it's not possible to be politically neutral, but i respectfully disagree with them.
Political neutrality is attained by protecting and defending the interests of humanity genuinely and absolutely altruistically.
Here i stand in my regalia of duty stating once again to the whole world that i stand politically neutral.
This statement should not be regarded as an apology, it is what it is. It is as i say it is. I'm politically neutral. Thanks.

Politics › Gagged on Twitter by constancefriday(op):
It's a shame #Twitter doesn't allow freedom of speech.
You could have your Twitter handle suspended for no reason just because your tweet goes against the even dark sides of Politics twitter supports.
Even if they're wrong.
What's the use of being in silicon valley? They should be at 430 South Capitol, Washington Dc instead not silicon valley.
It makes no sense owning a Twitter account.
Humanity is gagged on Twitter.

Christianity Etc › Masculine Sexuality, Rape and why RAPE IS A CRIME by constancefriday(op):
WHY SOME MEN RAPE and WHY RAPE IS A CRIME.
The rising cases of rape within the country has become quite alarming, what breaks the heart a lot more is that the perpetrators of this dastardly crime end up in some cases killing the victim to avoid potential public shaming and opprobrium.
The likelyhood of being exposed by a victim who is bold enough to speak up is the motive behing some rape victims being killed after the dastardly act.
I stand 100% against rape (and murder) no matter the cause (biological or otherwise).
But here are the reasons why some Men rape (stating these reasons is not an endorsement for you to go ahead and rape a woman).
(1.) Men need sex: Women will be shocked when they hear this, because their bodies are exactly opposite.
The biological structuring of a Man's reproductive system is interconnected to other systematic functions in his body. There are nerves and blood vessels that "interconnect" the gonadial system (primary and secondary sex organs) to the circulatory system (i e the heart and co.), the digestive system (the stomach and co.), plus the primary sensory receptors all over the integumentory system of the body (this also principally include the eye, ears, and skin).
As a Lady (who is involved in a sexually active relationship) have you ever wondered why your Man suddenly feels aroused and demands for sex after a good meal, or when he's caught up in stressful situation, or when he accidentally catches you half naked or not well covered? Don't be shocked...it's how a Man's body is biologically designed to behave. A Man's body is designed to crave for sex that's why a Man can cheat on his Spouse but yet still remain in love with his Soulmate (Wife). I don't encourage/endorse adultery if you're married, or immorality if you're single but these biological explanations tells you why even your male Moral Instructions HOD may quietly whisper in your ears some words you'll be shocked to hear him say.
Now note that i used the word male not MAN. What differentiates a male from a Man is "control" more specifically "self control"
Rape is carried out with one motive "to show or display power" or so called superior physical.strength or might which the Female doesn't primarily have (except she undergoes extensive trainings that awaken those secondary characteristics. Women are not primarily physically strong, except when they train it out physically. That's why most female athletes have seemingly masculine but not exactly male behaviours).
However, even all kinds of power is deemed corrupt when it has "no control". It's as dangerous as driving on a highway with a car that has no steering wheel or dashboard.
That is the problem with rape.
The Female body is not automatically turned on like it's male counterpart which can get turned on even for no reason sometimes.
Women require to be worked on gradually before they respond. That's why when a woman is turned on she's more in the mood than the male.
The way a person feels when hit by a speeding vehicle that has lost control is the same way a Woman feels when she's raped. She feels "DEVASTATED".
As a Man/Male if you can't exactly connect try imagining how even you as a Man will feel if you're suddenly hit by a speeding truck (not car) that emerged out of nowhere but somehow , you didn't die, you remained alive to see your mangled body scattered all over the tarmac.
That is how a Woman feels when she is raped. It's a very terrible feeling. That's why rape is very wrong.
If you need sex, go through the right procedures to gratify your need for sex. Your need for sex as a Man is very similar to your need for money. If it's wrong and criminal to steal money even when you need it urgently or desperately, it is also wrong and criminal to gratify your need for sex without mutual consent.
Even if your request for sexual gratification is declined by your spouse or sex partner, remember the use of force is not right. It paints the wrong picture of A REAL MAN.

(2) MEN ARE MOVED BY WHAT THEY SEE:
A Woman can walk about stark naked without having even just a little drop of urge or desire for sexual gratification (women hardly have the urge for sexual intercourse except during peak periods of ovulation, which is precisely 2/5 or 1/4 of your time of regular interaction with members of the opposite sex.
Virgins find it easier to hold back their urge for sex until after they're no more virgins. Biologically secondary and tertiary virginity is not exactly feasible except when extreme decisions are made because the nerves that respond to sex have become activated after virginity is given up.
It is more painful for a Lady to lose her virginity via rape, the psychological effects are quite catastrophic, and that's one of the reasons why RAPE IS INDEED A VERY CRIMINAL ACT.
Don't look at her twice if she's either loosely dressed, unclad, seductively clad, or even completely naked. Male sexual arousal begins when your gaze is fixed on the feminine source of arousal. Simply shift your gaze. If you're peaked up, find an anaphrodisiac to eat or drink.
Q: What is an Anaphrodisiac?
A: An anaphrodisiac is the opposite of an aphrodisiac. It's a meal or beverage that when consumed makes your urge for sex to decline or diminish completely and shift your mind to other thoughts.
Find out how many homemade anaphrodisiacs you can consume to keep yourself from the negative clapbacks of the immoral gratification of your sexual urges.

(3) SEX STARVED MEN CAN BEHAVE LIKE WILD ANIMALS:
With what i pointed out about the male reproductive system at the introduction of this article in mind paint this picture with me.
There countless number of cases of Married men who get caught up in multiple immoral sprees due to sexual starvation by their wives.
This is common amongst the hyper-moralistic, over religious minded Folks in the building. It's okay to Pray and Fast often, but it's quite expedient on some days to cut down the kabashing and vigil and attend to the biological needs of your spouse.
Maybe if you're the type that prays and speaks in tongues from 10pm or 12 midnight till 6am or 7am cut it down to either 3am or 4am and attend to the needs of your spouse.
It is not satanic, demonic or ungodly infact it is recommended scripturally. Ensure your partner is physically satisfied with the your wells and springs of passion before you get dressed and get back to your religious masks, make ups and itineraries.
N.B remember to prioritize God in all you do, don't turn your physical passions into idols or addictions.
Even in your marriage.
"Exercise profiteth little" ( read 1 Timothy 4:cool.

(5) USE OF HARD DRUGS/MENTAL ILLNESS:
In this case you know very much well that hard drugs obstructs the brains logic and reasoning abilities, making you berserk and doing things that you'll hate yourself for afterwards. It worsens depression and can cause extensive psychosis which would lead to the need for psychiatric attention.
Some Folks are psychopaths who do acts of crime or rape without any feelings of guilt or remorse.
HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY A PSYCHOPATH?
(1) A Psychopath doesn't feel sorry for what he/she has done. No matter how evil, wicked or cruel it is, they RATIONALIZE EVIL DEEDS including RAPE.
Statements such as "eh she was naked, not well dressed, so i raped her because she's most likely a prostitute.Such Folks struck satanically with psychosis often say Female Folks are meats we eat when we're hungry for that thing! We are the hunters they are the meat etc etc ...
��That is very wrong. It sounds very unreasonable. Only Psychopaths who need psychiatric evaluation talk that way.
(2) Psychopaths blame the victim for the crime.
Most Folks who're on drugs (drug addicts) engage in callous acts of crimes and felony.including rape and murder.
Be very careful if you find out you're dealing with a reprobate individual (Male/Female) That's what the Bible calls them.
These are the few reasons why rape occurs and the reason why rape is a serious crime punishable by the law, a serious crime to humanity, to women in particular and a shame to MANHOOD.
MEN who engage in rape are not real men. Real Men have self control, they delay gratification, protect the vulnerable (Women & Children) and REAL MEN DON'T RAPE WOMEN.
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Dr Constance C. Friday
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Remain Blessed. Be the Best.

I strongly condemn every wanton acts of rape (and murder) currently being reported across the country.
Perpertrators of such dastardly acts of inhumanity should be promptly brought to justice by the security agents, legislation and judiciary. Rape is just not cool!
One more thing, the knowledge i've released for public consumption in.this article should by all means be properly used and not abused. Every abuse of knowledge is surebound to yield negative clapbacks to the abuser. I'm not encouraging Men to become philanderers, i'm encouraging virgins to promptly cast away their virginities, and i'm not encouraging nudity or indecent dressing amongst our Female Folks who by the way are less likely to fall victims to rapists if they are well dressed. (Not in all cases, some Women still get raped even when they're well dressed and decent. Don't be a victim). Take care and due caution.
Thanks.

Celebrities › A Tribute to Majek Fashek by constancefriday(op): 3:43am On Jun 03, 2020
A Legend has gone.
He has left us and departed to the afterlife.
Rest in Peace Majek Fashek.
The music world will really miss you. The lyrics and rhythm of you Afro-Reggae-Pop remains timeless, we will continue to sing it on and on until the glory comes.
Rest in Peace great Legend.
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance Friday.

Crime › Derek Chauvin & Co. Should Be Arrested And Jailed For First Degree Murder by constancefriday(op): 2:18pm On May 30, 2020
The terrible video of George Floyd being murdered on live camera by the shameless staff of Minnesota Police department in USA is all awash the internet, news stations etc
The perpetrators of the dastardly act should all be arrested and charged for FIRST DEGREE MURDER.
African Americans plus every well meaning, peaceful citizens of the world stand united against backward trends and behavioural tendencies.
We live in a post racial planet. While we fight for justice may the gentle soul of late George Floyd rest in power!

Celebrities › Marlians read and study your books by constancefriday(op): 2:05pm On May 30, 2020
The current rave and frenzy amongst youths of today is not a new thing. Lots of youths are fans of well doing musicians, thespians, celebrities etc.
All over the neighbourhood, teenagers and youths are yelling "Marlians".
Most of you do exactly what you see on tv, in music videos etc not knowing it's all part of the industry's commercial antics. Why mimic things that will destroy your future?
Did you know Naira Marley for example has a networth of at least $500k and he hopes to double that figure in the nearest future? Those who have are looking for more.
Think clearly, and see things clearly. In about a decade or more those who follow these celebrities blindly will become unemployed, frustrated, broke, poor, in one terrible life crisis or the other while the so called stars they follow smile to the bank with "more royalties".
Think twice, think more, think.and grow rich. Dear Marlians read and study your books. (Also study the Bible, get closer to God).
Don't throw your future away.
Romance › Re: Many Nigerian GOs Are Responsible For The Overflow Of Spinsters In Their Church by constancefriday(op): 3:52am On May 26, 2020
@Naija246 - i agree with you, one too many times seen or witnessed the action of very religious but highly immoral sisters. Only pray for them to repent. Don't judge/condemn them.
But Avoid them.
They pollute the spirit.
Romance › Re: Many Nigerian GOs Are Responsible For The Overflow Of Spinsters In Their Church by constancefriday(op): 3:49am On May 26, 2020
@Comedian2019 so sad how pretty ladies cheat themselves of the love and happiness they deserve all because they worship a human idol called their pastors or gos
Health › Covid19: Nigeria & Africa should guard against a rumored 2nd Wave of Covid19 by constancefriday(op): 3:35am On May 26, 2020
Reliable sources have revealed that a deadlier second wave of coronavirus pandemic might most likely be aimed for Nigeria and most African countries.
The masterminds don't seem to be satisfied with the death toll.
The plan in the initial place was that Africa would be worst hit and would have the highest death toll.
Most folks seem to be at ease, i suggest they think and act otherwise and ensure they put on their face masks, use hand sanitizers and maintain social distancing.
God will keep us safe from the evil and wicked plans of evil geniuses who hide in the cloak of philantrophy.
Join the mask for all global campaign.
www.mask4all.org
Stay Safe. Remain Blessed!
Christianity Etc › The 3 types of Satanic Temptations by constancefriday(op):
Why is Satan often the to first being to approach when you're close to the end of a genuine period of fasting, praying and seeking God's face?
The answer is simple: He wants to give you a SATANIC LEVERAGE which he will use TO STEAL THE BLESSINGs God will release unto you in answers to seeking his face.
In the book of Matthew 4:1-11 there are 3 Distinct types of Satanic Temptations:
(1.) The Test of Premature Gratification: Satan tried to tempt Jesus to have A PREMATURE GRATIFICATION.
What is a "Premature Gratification"? It's the gratification that comes before it's due time.
Lots of People are suffering in life due to premature gratifications.
Jesus knew the Devil was trying to get him to gratify his hunger before his fast was due and thus he rebuked satan.
Read Matthew 4:4

(2) The Test of Self Destruction: Satan told Jesus to throw himself off the cliff, that God would send Angels to catch him, but Jesus knowing very well that Satan was quoting the book of Psalm 91:11-12 upside down promptly rebuked Satan and didn't do it.
Read Matthew 4:7

(3) The Test of Worldliness/Love of Worldly Things: Friendship with the world is an enemity with God, when you love the things of the world (it's glamours, glitters, splendours, pleasure etc) more than you love God, you bow to Satan.
Let no one deceive you (especially worldly pastors) Jesus turned down what seemed like a generous (satanic and conditional) offer in exchange for relinquishing his Spiritual Authority and told satan to go away.
Read Matthew 4:7-11
The Devil Left, and after Angels from God came to minister unto Jesus.
Jesus got his blessings from God without any leverage of Satan with him. After Satan leaves you, Angels will come to minister God's Blessings to you. You will not miss your Angelic ministrations IJMN.
As a true Child of God, you must prepare yourself to escape the traps and leverages of Satan that bore leakages in your HEAVENLY Blessings.
Remain strong & steadfast in Spiritual and Godly things.
Take Care.
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday.
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Romance › Re: Many Nigerian GOs Are Responsible For The Overflow Of Spinsters In Their Church by constancefriday(op): 4:13am On May 23, 2020
@Lefulefu - Lols no sex on Thursdays why? Are they having private Fasting and prayers with Daddy GO and co? grin
Romance › Many Nigerian GOs Are Responsible For The Overflow Of Spinsters In Their Church by constancefriday(op):
Many Nigerian General Overseers are the reasons why some of their Daughters are still single and about to clock 45.
I was listening to one just a few minutes ago, i just had to turn it off, because in all he taught there were no elaborations from the scriptures.
So by the time you listen till the end..you'll be out on a date and she'll be saying, my Pastor said, my G.O said, my Daddy in the Lord said...you must have this or that before i marry you, you must come and do this and that before i marry you.
What did Jesus say?
I believe in protection but not in over protection.
Let your Daughter pass through the process and learn. Lots of People with ruined marriages troop into Church on Sunday acting sanctimonious and righteous, lots of Women, even Married Ministers of God have secret lovers, lots and lots of jargons are going on, just because Church Folks aren't keeping it real.
My Pastor said, my G.O said, my Father in the Lord said, yet a Man is right in front of you, all into you and you can't see because your Pastor said...
Set yourself free from the bondage of my Pastor said, my G.O said and you're more likely to tie the knots with someone who truly loves you.
You can't enjoy love when you're not keeping it real.
For Your information: Some of these GOs keep them as side chicks.

TV/Movies › African-American Thespians Should Stop Playing trashy roles in Hollywood Movies. by constancefriday(op): 5:38pm On May 22, 2020
Racism: African-American Actors/Actresses should stop playing disrespectful roles in Hollywood
One of the ways to promote a nation is through it's movies.
The African-American nation is known for it's rich cultural and global diversity.
Which is obviously talked down in many Hollywood Films (except a very selected few).
Some Western Movie Producers often give disrespectful roles to African-American Actors, we can see that in some block busters (pls note: i didn't say all, i said some), however we can change that by defining what kind of roles we play.
Read the movie scripts thoroughly (sift for specific actions/roles/statements) before you agree or refuse to be part of the Movie.
This will go a long way to stem the tide of stealth modern racist behaviours.
We live in a post racial world by the way.
Racism is primitive. Stoneage.
Celebrities › From henceforth i'll be very selective of whom i collaborate with... by constancefriday(op):
First i wish to say many Thanks to as many whose collaborative actions/efforts has in any little way or the other contributed to my present crest of success.

Don't get it twisted, i'm grateful, but from henceforth, i'll be very very careful whom i collaborate with or deal with.
Lest i collaborate with the Devil without knowing.
Among the few things People judge you by, are the Folks you associate with.
So take my advise good guys; be careful whom you're found dealing with or partnering with.

Thanks one more time.
I wish you the best.
Never underestimate the usefulness of collaborative teamwork but collaborate with the right Folks. Remain Blessed!
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Dr Constance Friday.
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Romance › Romeo must not Die (A true love story) by constancefriday(op):
ROMEO MUST NOT DIE:
There's this action movie i watched a couple of years ago in which some Soldiers were sent on a mission to rescue one of their colleagues from the epicenter of war (for some reasons).
While they were being sent off on the mission, the mission file handed over to them had written on it "Target MUST COME BACK ALIVE"
The mission was so important that even the lives of all the Soldiers sent to rescue him were sacrificed just to ensure he came back home safely and he did.
When i watched that movie, i was touched deeply in my heart, i cried, because it reminded me of how Jesus came on a Mission to rescue us from hell, Satan and death.
The mission was so important, and written on the case file was "YOU MUST LIVE AND NOT DIE" the mission was so important such that Christ had to give up his life to make sure you didn't die.
Are you willing to take this and run with it, run the race for eternal life.
God did not rest until he ensured the ransom for your redemption from hell fire was paid.
These stories are real.
Recently, the US Government were making negotiations to set free one of their Soldiers held up in the hands of one of their opponents, he was to be killed if a reasonable agreement wasn't reached, but something unusual happened, while the negotiator for the US Goverment was coming close to a deal to set him free and bring him back home, the captive suddenly opened up and said they shouldn't bother to rescue him.
This was heartbreaking even to the US President for everything was already in place to set him free.
Are you like the guy in the second story, who has been informed that all has been done to secure his freedom from captivity yet turned down his chance to escape and stay alive down and chose rather to die?
That's how it is when you reject Jesus and his sealed deal to earn you eternal life.
Accept Jesus today and know what it truly means to be set free.
John 3:16
Remain Blessed.
Yours sincerely;
Apostle Constance Friday.
Podcasts resume tomorrow.
Thanks for all the Birthday Greetings and Wishes.
I'm truly very grateful.

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Celebrities › Re: I'm not Getting Older, I'm becoming Better by constancefriday(op):
@MrSensor @donbachi Thanks so much!
Celebrities › I'm not Getting Older, I'm becoming Better by constancefriday(op):
Apostle Constance C. Friday celebrates his Birthday in Grand style: He writes
"Today is a special day not just because it's my birthday but because as i speak, i know the reason and purpose why i was born at all in the first place. I know the reason why i exist.
Mark Twain once said that the most important day in a Man's life is not the day he is born but the day he discovers why.
Today is a day that marks a brand new year in my life, a day i want to Thank God for calling and choosing me.
Celebrate with me, i'm a year older today."
www.truthandlifegospel.webs.com
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Dr Constance Friday.

Health › Re: Lagos At Risk Of Covid19 Explosion! by constancefriday(op): 9:36am On May 02, 2020
@incogni2o i sincerely pray and hope that does not happen. Thanks
Health › Lagos At Risk Of Covid19 Explosion! by constancefriday(op): 9:24am On May 02, 2020
I deem it very necessary to warn every residents of the Lagos metropolis of Nigeria that the possiblility of experiencing a major surge in the rate of spread of the coronavirus is real.

If the lockdown of Lagos has to be eased (due to economic implications) i'd suggest everyone ensure they put on a face mask as they go about their businesses.
Institutions should maintain due caution. From close and critical observation, many residents seem to be treating the threat of Covid19 with levity.
This pandemic is killing tens of thousands of People in developed countries for God sake, who said Covid19 isn' t in Nigeria? Is it part of their DEVIOUS CONSPIRACY to depopulate Nigeria? Everyone take due caution, wear a face mask.
Thanks.
www.mask4all.org
Kindly do yourselves the favour; prevent avoidable deaths from Covid19
Stay safe.
Christianity Etc › Re: 5 Things Not To Expect From Church Leaders/Preachers by constancefriday(op): 2:44am On Apr 28, 2020
@Seunlayi Amen
Christianity Etc › 5 Things Not To Expect From Church Leaders/Preachers by constancefriday(op):
Apart from, being Strictly Spiritual, the job of a Preacher/Church Leader is Honorable, Well Organised and very Professional. It's very close to being Military even, just that we don't use physical weapons. Read 2 Corinthians 10:4)
Modern day Preachers and Church Leaders (Clergymen/Women) go through the same things their earlier day counterparts went through: Dealing with wrong expectations.
With the Duties of Preachers and Church Leaders in mind here are 5 wrong or unrealistic expectations People often expect from Preachers of the Gospel/Church Leaders.
N:B - This is not an endorsement or excuse for you to live a reckless, immoral or sinful lifestyle as a Child of God. More explanations within this writing will make things more clear.
5 Things not to expect from A real Preacher of the Gospel or Church Leader.
(1) Real is not Perfect. Don't expect him/her to be a Saint without a Taint:
While it's very important to be a good example for others to follow, it's unrealistic to expect a Preacher or Church Leader to be "absolutely perfect" without even having a shadow, or an iota of blemish.
There'd always be at least a scar, a thorn in the flesh or a nagging little issue they struggle with.
Their secret (or even visible) struggles are part of their personal journey and training with God.
Let me list a few examples here;
*Abraham (a Man of Faith); had extramarital issues due to his search for a Son out of his loins.
* Jacob (was so called favoured by God); but was a trickster to the bone, he tricked his brother, his Father and kept going around in circles until he encountered God.
*Moses (Was a true Leader blessed with real meekness); but he had anger issues that led to his costly error.
*King David (was a Man after God's heart); yet he wasn't allowed to build the Temple for God for his hands were stained with Blood.
More examples abound in the Holy Scriptures;
God doesn't require perfection for you to walk with him or work for him, he only needs you to be willing and obedient in your walk with him and he'll make you perfect.
Read Isaiah 1:18-19
N:B it's really very important to deal with every beseting sin/secret weaknesses in your life lest it becomes a tool in the hands of Satan to harm you.
Read Romans 6:1,9:1

(2) Don't expect him/her to have A Perfect Life: Never allow any liar trick you into thinking all real Preachers live a glamourous life of wealth, splendour, materialism and glitterati like worldly celebrities.
Although some real Preachers are quite popular and famous among the People don' t expect their Families, Marriages (Marital Life), Social Perception, etc to be perfect.
Just like every normal persons within society Church Leaders have their own Private (Privacy), Personal issues, Financial issues, etc but God helps them to deal with it.
The Holy Scriptures says and it's written in Psalm 34:19 that many are the afflictions of the righteous but God delivers him/her from all of them.

(3) Don't Judge them by their Past lives or mistakes:
Though everyone's lifestyle has consequences (whether they change or refuse to change), A Church Leader or Preacher (who has genuinely repented from his past sins and turned a clean, pure and new leaf) should not be judged or perceived by their past life.
The Holy Bible says in that a person in Christ Jesus is "a new creature" old natures have past away, which means a person who was once a Cheat is no longer a cheat, a person who was once immoral is no longer immoral, a person who was once an armed bandit is no longer an armed bandit, a person who was once a questionable gang member is no longer a gang member and even a petty thief is no longer a petty thief. He/She is a NEW CREATURE.
Read 2 Corinthians 5:17
Apostle Paul (formerly named Saul) of TARSUS, was once a killer, torturer and persecutor of Christians across Europe, he witnessed and participated in the murder and brutal killing of Stephen the Apostle in Acts 7:54-59 but in his way to Damascus (in Syria) to perpetuate his persecutions of Christians there Jesus arrested him. He became a well known Preacher, Church Leader and Church planter in the same Europe where he previously persecuted Christians.
Read Acts 9:1-25
Matthew was a tax collector who was resented by some Folks for his connection to Rome with their taxes and remittances to oppressive Cesaer but he became one of the Principal Disciples of Jesus Christ and a Church Leader amongst the 70 etc
An encounter with Jesus Christ changes every Man who "genuinely and sincerely" responds to God's call inside out.
N.B: It is very important (a matter of life and death) to avoid returning back to your old or previous life, remember it's what the Devil awaits to strike. Beware.
Turn your back completely to your old ways and follow Jesus till the end in Glory.

(4) Don't Expect him/her to show absolutely no traces of Humanity:
This is perhaps one of the most puzzling part. How can a Man/Woman who is a pure representation have trails or traces of Humanity?
Read James 5:17
Preachers/Church Leaders are not Spirits or Ghosts without flesh.
They are Divinity enclosed in Humanity (thus there's the Human side to them).
Human Emotions, Normal Biological Behaviours, Cravings etc are all there.
Don't be surprised if a Preacher who looks like a Ghost or a Spirit that doesn't eat food walks up to you and politely tells you he/she is hungry and wants to eat, don't be shocked if they suddenly get angry or lose their temper for some moments...it's all enclosed in their Human side (but it is very wise to have self control).
People often marvel; how can a Man call down fire from heaven and fire does fall from heaven then looks for something to eat, why not call down food from heaven as well ( well, sometimes we fast, don't get it twisted we're not called to be gluttons) how can a Man who has like passion like me pray for the sick and they get healed? Yet have feelings and cravings just like ordinary me? Don't get it twisted, anyone who fronts or pretends to be absolutely divine has one terrible secret sin/weakness you're not aware of. Everyone has a secret People don't know about, even the most Saintly or righteous looking ones amongst us do. But love covers up multitudes of evil.

(5) Don't Expect Him/Her to be infallible:
It is really true that a Church Leader/Preacher can fall out of Grace with God. To us Preachers it's a very terrible and dangerous thing (as a Preacher) to fall out of Grace with God.
That's why King David prayed fervently for God not to take away the Holy Spirit, because a fall out of Grace can be a fall into the grave.
God often reserves stricter and more severe punishments for Preachers/Church Leaders who abuse his Grace.
That's why we often ask you to pray for us. We have Humanity just like you, but with your Prayers backing up our efforts, we can do greater things like Christ said.
Remember these 5 items are aimed at fostering "Humane Understanding" about Spiritual Leaders, Clergymen, Preachers etc
It's not an endorsement or excuse for living a careless or sinful life as a Child of God. God Bless You.
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Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Dr Constance Friday.
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Cheers!
Celebrities › Apostle Constance Friday Celebrates 25 Years of Being Born Again. by constancefriday(op):
It was just like yesterday when the Altar call was made and i stepped out along with several others to hand over everything that concerns me to God. I was just Ten years old when it happened and since then it's been testimonies all the way.
Many Folks could question how credible it could be, what would a 10 year old have to show for becoming born again?
Here are a few things that happened immediatly, just few days after i gave my life to Christ : My Academics improved tremendously, even my Primary Five Teacher who criticized my unexplainable dullness in the previous class exclaimed "Wow!" when he noticed the massive improvement in Primary 6.
The Blessings followed me to Secondary School as i immediatly became one of the best performing students in my sets. I didn't joke with School Fellowships, i was always present and on time every wednesday when our Fellowship Leader Snr. Abraham Ajanaku who was also a member of Deeper Life Bible Church where i'd stepped out to give my life to Christ was our School Fellowship Leader at Surulere Grammar School (aka Akintan Grammar School).
I graduated as one of the best Students there. Although my Family was in the eye of the storm at that time, i still saw the mighty hand of God in various ways.
I was also trained by Overseer Isaac Aduroja, a very good family friend of ours on how to follow the ways of the Lord extensively as a teenager.
What is the benefit of giving it all to God at the age of 10? Why not wait till you're about 18 years or so? Some may ask.
My answer is: I realised that with the kind of troubles hell had in stock for me, if my faith in God was shallow and not deep seated within my heart by now, either i'd be an Atheist or a Fake Christian (who are worse than Unbelievers i must confess) or maybe dead, but i Thank God for life because the attempts to take my life that came many times failed.
God kept me and preserved me for the Great Commission which i live to fulfil.
Due to extreme hardship, persecution, challenges etc which were so intense and severe in my early 20s i veered off a bit and went the wrong way, i made some mistakes, however i retraced my steps back after i noticed how far the wrong way i'd gone.
So Five years ago, i rededicated my Life to God and promised to serve him as a Full Time Minister of the Gospel (after a successful and illustrous 11 years career as an Award winning Science and Mathematics Teacher, plus Bible School Training ).
It was not a decision that wasn' t contested or resisted by the Kingdom of Darkness, i faced lots of troubles, persecutions, battles (unwanted and unexpected quarrels with very troublesome, criminal minded persons), i was even kidnapped and robbed on some occasions, i lost huge sums of money sometimes but i never gave up.
Today, i praise God, i'm doing well as a Preacher of the Gospel, Jehovah Jireh is sustaining me, i'm so blessed i don't have to negotiate with Satan for anything, God provides everything and GOD will do more.
Next year Real Life Gospel Church will be marking it's 5th year anniversary, we hope to celebrate it in a big way, to Glorify God.
I Thank God for keeping me for 20 years as a born again Child of God.
I Thank God for 5 years of FULL TIME GOSPEL MINISTRY.
And by this time next year we shall celebrate 5 years of Truth and Life Series and Real Life Gospel Church.
It can only be God.
Phillipians 2:13. Galatians 2:20.
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Apostle Dr Constance Friday is also the convener of Constance Friday Ministries, the Great Preachers Platform, and President of Stance Foundation Org.
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Remain Blessed.
Remain Rapturable.
Jesus is coming soon.
Cheers!

Health › Covid19: Secret conspiracies against Africans most likely real and true. by constancefriday(op): 1:26am On Apr 25, 2020
Covid19: A Secret conspiracy to turn Africa against China is most likely being carried out:
For a very long time global and diplomatic relationships between Africa and China has been quite good.
Though i'm not asking all sensible caution to be cast to the winds.
A secret conspiracy to turn Africa and China to enemies is most likely being carried out.
The Covid19 crisis is a good opportunity to carry out a lot of secret conspiracies that has long been hidden from general knowledge so we must unite like brothers lest we all perish like fools like MLK said.
Remain Blessed!
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Yours Sincerly,
Apostle Dr Constance Friday.
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Christianity Etc › 3 Facts About The ANTICHRIST by constancefriday(op):
3 Facts about the AntiChrist:
We live in the last days, the numbered days before the Second coming of Jesus Christ.
Some Folks wonder what the AntiChrist truly means.
The AntiChrist simply means "the opposite of the Spirit of God", Dr Mark Hartmann describes it also as "the AntiThesis of Christ" which also refers to teachings and principles that are parallel and opposite to the Spirit of Christ ( the Holy Spirit).
Such teachings encourage you to pay attention to the opposing voice(s) of the still small voice of the Holy Spirit which is the Spirit of God that dwells in Man.
In this message however, i just want to list out the 3 obvious facts you need to know to easily identify the AntiChrist.

(1) EXISTENCE: The AntiChrist has been in existence since the beginning itself Genesis 1:2 says that "the Earth was without form and void and darkness was in the deep"
The existence of a being is different from the Manifestation of the same. It' s written in Matthew 24:33 and Luke 21:31 that certain signs will prove that the arrival of Jesus Christ is near; this sign is the very noticable "manifestations" of the AntiChrist.

(2) FORMS: The AntiChrist is (i) Any form of teaching or belief system that directly or indirectly opposes Christ (the Spirit of God), (ii) Blasphemy; it's a Spirit that blasphemes. Blasphemy is the very noticable sign of the AntiChrist. The AntiChrist Spirit is a Spirit that Blasphemes against the Spirit of God.

(3) GLOBAL PRESENCE: The AntiChrist has been and will be actively involved in Global Economy, Politics and Events.
They are responsible for many negative oppresive global regimes in times past, the present and the ones to come.
No one knows the exact Day that Jesus will return to take his Saints home, but Jesus left clues in the Scriptures ...
Read Matthew 24:33,36, Luke 21:31, 1 Thessalonians 5:2.
Read and Study the Book of Daniel chapters 2,7,9 and Chapter 11.
Remain Blessed.
More Teachings are available in our podcasts, subscribe for our podcasts via
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Cheers!
Stay Rapturable!
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Dr Constance Friday.
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Celebrities › 11 Behavioural Quotes By Constance C. Friday by constancefriday(op):
smiley 11 Behavioural Quotes from Constance. C. Friday:
Apostle Dr Constance C. Friday is a well known and well celebrated; Philosopher, Life Coach, Preacher, Motivational Speaker and Writer.
An expert in Behavioural Motivation, who has influenced a mass change in behaviour across board on several occasions through his teachings, ministry and podcasts.
He's one of Africa's well celebrated influencer across the world.

Here are 11 Behavioural Quotes from the vast library of philosophy and wisdom of Apostle Dr Constance C. Friday, they'll influence you to make changes and adjustments to your behaviour (if you have bad/negative behaviours), number 4 and 11 are for you especially for the behavioural environment many Africans (and Non-Africans) dwell in:

(1) "When you do good deeds, galvanize them with a good attitude" : People appreciate good deeds, but they love it a lot more when you galvanize your good or kind deeds with a good attitude. A good deed done with a bad attitude is like a chicken cooked with it's bile spilled all over it. Bible says that God loves a cheerful giver.
2 Corinthians 9:6-7,

(2) "Hate reduces the fraction of how great you're supposed to be": Hatre is a negative, poisonous and destructive emotion, it never leads to anything good. Some Folks say hate is a weapon that can be used but history is awash with how far the use of hate can never take mankind or humanity, replace it with love always. Love makes the world go round.

(3) "Sincerity is better than sympathy": Sincerity is more appreciated over an extended period of time than excessive apologetism or sympathetism. On the long run People tend to appreciate sincerity above and ahead of hypocritical apologetism, so learn to be more sincere than apologetic. Although, apologies aren't useless when most necessary.

(4) "Being abusive is like adding dirt into water to purify it": "You can hardly influence positive change in People by being abusive (and insultive), infact they both make People resent you or at most pretend they like you when they actually don't. It's better to be loved than to be resented. There's a saying that "No good Teacher calls his/her Students dumb"

(5) "Words speak, actions speak loud, but attitude has the loudest voice": Actions speak louder than words but your attitude has the loudest volume. That's why a good attitude speaks well of you always.

(6) "The motive of an action is more important than the action itself": It's very important to look beyond the surface of every gesture, or action, especially the seemingly good, kind or altruistic ones, a quick reminder is the story of the Trojan Horse which was used by the Greek to destroy the land of Troy. The Greeks presented a gift (a sort of peace offering) but their motive was to penetrate the land of Troy and destroy it. Always take time to observe the motive behind every action of People around you. I encourage you to respond positively to sincerely good gestures of love and friendship, but completely avoid gestures that are devious with negative intent. Be on guard always.

(7) "Real People resent pretense, deceit and hypocrisy": Don't be deceived to think you'll go very far in life with these 3 vices, there are real people everywhere who can see through your moves. Be plain, honest and real. I'm not saying cut yourself open and allow People dissect you but i mean being deceitful on the long run won't get you far enough so don't fake it to make it. Keep it real always.

(cool "To a Paranoid person, a needle looks like an arrow" : Don't blame over analytical Persons for their hyperdefensive behaviours sometimes, their actions are aimed at ensuring safety in the face of risk.

(9) "Wrong impressions lead to depression": It's important to put your best face out there for everyone to see and to put your best foot forward at all times. Most People judge by what they see, and it's important to protect yourself from generic misjudgement.

(10) "Good looks hide adversity": Don't be deceived by good looks, they hide a lot of lies, weakness, and defects. Always look beyond what meets the eyes.

(11) "Not every thought should be entertained in your mind, not every action you intend to take should be taken, not every process should be seen and not every word should be spoken. Some things should be kept out of sensible perception"
The Holy Bible teaches us to learn the art of continence and self control, in Proverbs 4:23 it teaches to guard your heart/mind with due diligence for out of it flows the issues of life.
Be the Best in all you do.

More quotes, teachings, motivationals etc by Apostle Dr Constance Friday are available, you can subscribe for his podcasts via
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Remain Blessed!

Career › Top Ten Lessons For Success By Tiger Woods by constancefriday(op): 1:31am On Apr 20, 2020
Top Ten Tiger Wood's Lessons for Success:
Here are top ten lessons for Success by Golf Legend himself Tiger Woods (Winner of many Great Global Golf tournaments):

(1) Have a Winning Expectation: Expect to win. Know in your heart that you're a winner.

(2) Let your Winning expectations show: Express no doubts, fears or worries, let your competitors know that they're up to a fight with a master and let your friends know that have all it takes to win, win and keep winning.

(3) Work, Practise, Work and Practise some more.

(4) Dress Like a Winner and act like a Winner: This is part of keeping yourself in a winning frame of mind.

(5) Have a Sense of Drama: Don't create it but know it when you see it. You don't have to seek out publicitu, but know how to accept and use it when it comes to you.

(6) Know that there is always room to grow, being the best doesn't mean you can't be better,

(7) Hang out with Winners: they understand the pressures and situations in which you will find yourself.

(cool Put Yourself in Situations where you're not known as a success. This may be difficult when you've become a Champion, but it helps you stay real.

(9) Value and Protect your free time, and do what you enjoy with it.

(10) Remember those who need help, somewhere someone helped you, be willing to give back.

For more teachings, messages and podcasts join Apostle Constance Friday via the website
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Have a Blessed Day!
You will Succeed.

Christianity Etc › Re: It's So Hard Practising Envagelism As A Single Female by constancefriday(m): 6:43pm On Apr 19, 2020
My Dear, i want to encourage you to continue and do it with all your heart, do not compare yourself with your mates who are doing other things and seem to be progressing, doing the work of God with all your heart will bring you great rewards in the end.
Try to avoid immorality by all means, it's a Satanic trap, i pray for you, you'll find a Godly and supportive Husband and a great future but God First always.
Celebrities › 12 Popular Quotes By Constance C Friday by constancefriday(op):
smiley Ever wondered why Apostle Dr Constance. C. Friday is well celebrated across the World by lovers of greatness.

Maybe it's because of the deep inspiration and wisdom in his Philosophical statements and there's more to that than what meets the eye?
Experts believe he's truly blessed with Spiritual and Philosophical oversight.

Here are 12 Popular Quotes that will truly inspire You from Apostle Dr Constance. C. Friday:
Read...

(1) "There's no limit to how successful you can be in life, if you believe it, you'll experience it." (You can only become Successful in life when you believe all the ingridients you need for success is already available inside you),

(2) "Be not whom you're not" (Dare to be the true you if you truly want to be great, don't fake it to make it).

(3) "What makes you Great is not what you do, it's how you do what you do" (A simple Work done with a great attitude is truly a sure sign of greatness),

(4) "Do the unusual, then you'll achieve the impossible" (You cannot do what has not yet been done if you keep doing the usual),

(5) "Great statements are not remembered by the tenses they're made of but by the sense they make" (Talk is cheap, but any set of words that are not cheap isn't mere talk).

(6) "Shallow waters don't lead to new continents" (You can't accomplish great things if you're too afraid to take risks),

(7) "If you truly want to touch the sky, don't live downstairs" (You plan and strategy to be great and successful truly matters. Work with strong and smart strategies).

(cool "Those who regard the truth as trouble will soon receive trouble as the truth" (Dealing with critical issues at the right time prevents a lot of unwanted chaos and calamities, a stitch in time no longer saves nine, it now saves ninety-nine),

(9) "Be the best you everyday, get better every new day" (Self Improvement is a lifelong activity, embrace improving yourself wholeheartedly and dedicate yourself to it),

(10) "Trouble cannot be avoided, you either go looking for it or it will come looking for you" (It is healthy to accept that chaos and discomfort are normal parts of development we have to deal with as we progress in life),

(11) "Indifference cannot make a difference" (You cannot make impacts in life by merely watching life go by as a spectator rather than an actor, be the protagonist and actor of your life's journey),

(12) "The fastest way to die is to live a lie" (Don't spend your whole life in self deceit, tell yourself the truth always and pass through life truly being alive),

There are more great quotes from our beloved Leader, Advisor, Captain, Champion and Actor; (i.e Apostle Dr Constance Friday) in his books, podcasts, audio messages, etc. Connect with him for more

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Apostle Dr Constance C. Friday is a Philosopher, Teacher, Preacher, Counselor, Motivational Speaker and Life Coach.
He's the President and Founder of Real Life Gospel Church and Stance Foundation.
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Christianity Etc › I Teach my Congregation to Obey God not Only to make Sacrifices by constancefriday(op): 7:10pm On Apr 17, 2020
Obedience is better than Sacrifice. 1 Samuel 15:22
If you love God keep his commandments. John 14:25
Jesus Christ didn't come to throw all the Bible books between Genesis to Malachi into thrash, he came to validate (fulfil) them.
Read Matthew 5:17
Which means Jesus Christ came to do what all Men (both righteous and unrighteous) were unable to do from the book of Genesis to Malachi due to the fallen state of Man, so that through his example, you can be an exact replication of him in your own unique way.
That's why at Real Life Gospel Church, i teach my Members/Followers/Assembly more about how to live a life of Obedience to God with his Perfect will.
Join Us for our regular podcasts.
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Join us this season for extensive, exclusive podcasts.
God Bless You.
Yours Sincerely,
Apostle Constance Friday.
Career › You're NOT RICH if you need a job to survive by constancefriday(op): 3:52pm On Apr 16, 2020
You're not yet rich if you need a job to survive:
Many Folks don't know the limitations of what i call "the job mindset",
Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo once defined the word "job" as meaning Just Over Broke.
Yet most Folks perceive or judge wealth as having a job, having savings, an being okay at least.
Listen, if you truly want to get rich, and when i say get rich, i mean become very rich and wealthy, you must learn to stop depending on having a job to survive.
Have you ever thought? What if i'm laid off, what will i do?
Even if you're the kind of staff that is very reliable and hard to sack like i was during my illustrous teaching career days, your salary won't make you rich.
What big, risky and scary business ideas do you have? How long will you wait before you activate them.
Most Folks brag about how lucrative their job is, but listen if you depend on being employed by any corporate establishment to survive: You are not yet rich.
Friends, think and grow rich.
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle CONSTANCE FRIDAY.
www.truthandlifegospel.webs.com
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