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RomanceRe: Guys, Why Do You Get Angry At Your Girlfriends Over This? by CONTROLi(m): 2:52pm On Jul 22, 2016
WHAT DO YOU EXPECT WHEN YOU KEEP DATING IMMATURE GUYS /MUMMY'S BOYS?? UNLESS MAYBE YOU'RE NOT TELLING US THE WHOLE TRUTH OR YOU'RE AN IDLE LADY WHO SITS AT HOME 24/7 WATCHING TV, MAYBE THAT'S WHY THE GUYS EXPECTS YOU TO APPEAR WHENEVER THEY CALL.. IF NOT, THEN...................

sekxy:
why do guys act this way when their girlfriends or lover turn their invitation down
I'm yet to understand why some guys get so angry when they invite their girlfriend to spend weekend with them and it happens that their invitation was turned down because of one reason or the other
FamilyRe: Whatsapp Dp About To Crash My Sisters Marriage . Pics by CONTROLi(m): 3:45pm On Jul 10, 2016
masterblogger:
Why are the men supporting the husbands action. That's pathetic . It seems all men are the same.

They are all trying to put the blame on my sister It's OK if he had told her she is a psycho at home but telling the whole world, family and friends is just uncalled for and the kids in naira land are supporting him. please .

MOD Please move this to front page so that matured people can comment.

Thanks

#angrywithallmen. #allmenare the same
Supporting The Husband's Action?? Are You Serious At All?? Are You Seeking For Sympathy or A Suggestion That Might Bring A Solution To The Situation?? If You're Not Tired Of Sympathy You Will Never Attend A Party Becoz Your Life Is Made Up Of Pity.. Seems You've Already PROGRAMMED Your Mind On WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR even before asking for our opinion...Women! smh..
RomanceRe: What Will You Do If After Washing, Cleaning & Cooking For Your BF, He Says This? by CONTROLi(m): 1:42pm On Jul 08, 2016
Many of you ladies reasons like ‘ONE WAY’ Traffic.. The guy might be referring to himself in a CODED way.....that he’s lucky...
CelebritiesRe: Late Bukky Ajayi For Burial Today by CONTROLi(m): 4:48pm On Jul 06, 2016
omolola15:
This your utterance self can land you in hell. Must you comment? You turned yourself to judge and you said you are not judging her. Se God send you message? No wonder your Jesus changed to small letter. Jesus must be shaking his head for you now because I'm sure he didn't send you any message.
ITS MY RESPONSIBILITY TO WARN IGNORANT PEOPLE LIKE YOU, I TELL YOU IF YOU DON'T REPENT AND END UP IN HELL YOU WILL SURELY REMEMBER THIS POST.. THANK ME LATER..
CelebritiesRe: Late Bukky Ajayi For Burial Today by CONTROLi(m): 4:34pm On Jul 06, 2016
HOW COME I WROTE (JESUS) IN CAPITAL LETTERS AND IT HAS BEEN CHANGED TO small letters, BY WHO?? AND WHY?? SMH
CelebritiesRe: Late Bukky Ajayi For Burial Today by CONTROLi(m): 4:30pm On Jul 06, 2016
IF SHE'S A MUSLIM THEN I'M SORRY SHE SHOULD BE IN HELL BY NOW.. I AM NOT JUDGING HER BUT THAT'S THE FACT, AS YOU CAN NEVER MAKE IT TO HEAVEN WITHOUT JESUS CHRIST.. THIS IS THE ''HARD TRUTH''..
SportsRe: Mikel Obi Meets With His Prospective Inlaws by CONTROLi(m): 11:40pm On Apr 16, 2016
Celebration of Fornication all over the place....Baby mamas/papas all over the place.. Its highly Unfortunate.. GOD is watching...and I'm also watching...
CelebritiesRe: Koyo Bala Dies Of Cancer Of The Anus by CONTROLi(m): 3:05pm On Mar 08, 2016
REST IN WHICH PEACE?? Are u serious at all?? The fool is BURNING in HELL now and you're here saying RIP.. If You die a sinner you will end up in HELL and NOBODY will rest in peace in hell.. My bad..

winilove:
RIP
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Kills Himself & His Girlfriend In The US by CONTROLi(m): 6:33pm On Feb 20, 2016
ALL OF YOU are here singing '' REST IN PEACE! REST IN PEACE! ''.. If an arm-robber is shot dead by Police tomorrow, the NEXT u hear will be rest in peace, rest in peace.. Unfortunately NOT everybody that dies RESTS IN PEACE.. If You die a SINNER you're GOING TO HELL STRAIGHT.. You REST IN PEACE only when u end up in HEAVEN and you can't end up in HEAVEN when u die a sinner.. GET THAT?? That's the HARD TRUTH most of u are running away from.....
CareerRe: Can Your Salary Ever Make You Wealthy? by CONTROLi(m): 11:38pm On Feb 15, 2016
HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE ''UNEDUCATED PEOPLE''?? NOBODY IS TAUGHT OF HOW TO MAKE MONEY IN THE CLASSROOM, MAKING MONEY IS ANOTHER ''INTELLIGENCE'' AND ''PRINCIPLES'' ALTOGETHER... IF YOU KNOW IT YOU KNOW IT, IF NOT YOU WOULD END UP MANAGING OTHER PEOPLE'S MONEY WHILE THEY PAY YOU PEANUT....

Freelanswer:
I was jolted out of my years of day dreams the other day discussing with friends. They were talking enviously about someone who landed a job where he receives N500,000 monthly. Huge, isn't it? But, as soon as I heard them, a question occurred to me and I asked: "In a year, how much will that person receive?" Six million naira! "How poor it is when you compare it with most average entrepreneurs who earn several millions in bulk severally over the course of a year!" I said. I continued: "This is really an eye opener. Even if that person receives 1,000,000NGN/month, that's only 12,000,000 in a year and it's not in bulk, and yet everyone in the family and in town expects so much from him... when a 24-year-old undergraduate made 91,000,000 NGN through MLM in 2015 alone ... I mean in bulk without being bullied around in office politics and all that". My thought process still continued after I left that discussion and so I decided to share it here.

Can earning a salary really make you rich and happy? The example given above is of people receiving some of the most 'handsome' pay packs in town and how many are they even? On the Zero Sickness Nigeria Campaign website, you will find a page entitled "poverty too is a sickness" which shows how easily even uneducated people earn 10,000,000 NGN in bulk in just a year doing almost nothing except that they invested.

From the above you'd think I do not approve of salaried jobs. I even believe you can be rich and very rich with your salary only if you invest it intelligently. The best investment is not always the one that takes you most money. It is the one with the highest ROI. To get this, do a great deal of background checks but just enough to not let analysis paralysis stop you. For example, the example of uneducated people said to be earning 10,000,000 NGN in bulk in just a year talks of an investment of Thirty-six thousand naira (N36,000) only when someone elsewhere is putting in Twenty-two million naira (22,000,000 NGN) in a property he would sell for 30,000,000 in three years.

My point is this: you can become rich with your salary only by investing it well - not by saving it away. And the best investment is not always the flashiest. Oprah Winfrey made her money by investing in "controversial self help ideas" according to Wikipedia.
FamilyRe: Men And Women Divorce Over Sex Starvation by CONTROLi(m): 4:32pm On Jan 30, 2016
When You're Writing ''CHRIST'' use CAPITAL Letters Please.. Stay Blessed..

pretydiva:
If christ is not made d foundation of any marriage, dat marriage can never stand. Invite christ into ur home today n see a positive turn around
RomanceRe: The Reply Her Boyfriend Gave After Sex With Her by CONTROLi(m): 9:22pm On Dec 17, 2015
According to the lady – ‘‘ever since you slept with me, you don’t even call any more, text or GIVE ME MONEY’’ –.. Now that’s the thing, MONEY!.. Give /take..
RomanceRe: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by CONTROLi(m): 10:40pm On Oct 24, 2015
WHAT'S YOUR DEFINITION OF ''All men do that''?? YOU GO SCHOOL AT ALL OR YOU LACK COMMON SENSE?? OR THAT'S WHAT YOUR BROTHERS DOES?? DON'T DRAG ALL MEN INTO THIS.. SOME OF US MEN ARE HIGHLY PRINCIPLED WITH HIGH MORAL VALUES.. BE CAREFUL!!

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by CONTROLi(m): 2:28am On Oct 24, 2015
Hmmm 5 Months In Marriage and Baby Will Arrive In Few Weeks?? That Means You Got Pregnant While Dating Therefore Rushed The Traditional Marriage QUICKLY Whether It Worth It Or Not to Cover Up The Shame?? Probably You’re One of Those Foolish Wise Ladies Claiming to be Addicted to the so call ‘‘Bad Boys’’ .. You Knew He Clubs 24/7, which responsible guy does this?? Stays Out With Roadside Friends daily, which responsible guy does this?? Never Care to Work or Save Money, which responsible guy does this?? He Doesn’t Care Even When You’re Sick?? which responsible guy does this?? and You’ve Been Foolishly Feeding/Providing For Him All This While and Paying The Rent etc, trying so hard to keep him?? Probably He Comes Around Only When He Needs To Pull Your Pant and give you a Hot one?? But You Were Still Unmoved etc..

You Knew EVERYTHING About Him That’s Why You Married Him After 5yrs, That Means All These Irresponsible Qualities He Possessed Were What You Were Looking For In A Potential Husband and you Got It So Don’t come here and Pretend You Made A Mistake Because You Knew Exactly What You Were Doing and I Really Like It When Two Wise Fools End Up Together, I Suspect Other Responsible Guys Must Have Come Around and You Tagged Them as ‘‘Nice Guys’’ and here You’re Praying For This One To Become so call ‘nice’ to you?? Are You Kidding Me?? Who’s Fooling Who?? You Can’t Eat Your Cake and Have it my friend.. I Pray You Get Over This, and Next Time Better Look Beyond The Wall, Don’t Just Focus On (oh he’s thick tall, his peniz is long from Korea to Zimbabwe etc).. Look Beyond The Wall..

You Cannot Achieve Outstanding Success When You Approach The Issues Of Life With Casual Approach. If You Handle Your Assignment Casually, You May End Up A Casualty. The Single Most Important Factor Defining Your Future Is The Relationships You Embrace..

Probably You’re also a roadside girl yourself, That’s Why You Lack The Wisdom To Assess Him.. I met a highly educated lady of 29yrs and her boyfriend had just slept with her little sister of 19yrs, and this lady was still interested in the guy, when I asked her why?? She said oh he’s thick tall and other women are running after him. That’s all?? She Couldn’t even give me one or two or three important Qualities to look out for in a potential husband, though she possesses academic intelligence but lack Practical Wisdom to live in the REAL World and I suspect you’re suffering from same thing – LACK OF WISDOM.. That’s the HARD TRUTH!..

I’m Very ANGRY as if you’re my sister or daughter, And Don’t Know If I Should Advise You Or Sympathize With You, But You Can Choose To Be Full With Sympathy, And If You’re Not Tired Of Sympathy, You Will Never Attend A Party, Becoz Your Life Is Made Up Of Pity..
TravelRe: Travelling To Nigeria With Physical Cash by CONTROLi(op): 9:57am On Oct 15, 2015
Thanks ALL for the Clarification, I Appreciate Highly..
TravelTravelling To Nigeria With Physical Cash by CONTROLi(op): 9:12am On Oct 14, 2015
Hello Nairalanders,

Please help me with URGENT clarification on this matter. I haven’t been to Nigeria since the Cashless Policy was introduced and I’m about giving $3,000 physical cash to a friend to be given to my old man in the village for an ongoing project, unfortunately I can’t send this money by wire as the beneficiary doesn’t have even an ID etc, and early this year I transferred $1,200 to a relative in PH to be given to my Mum and he ended up given her only $800..

Now, my problem is I don’t want this friend of mine to declare the $3,000 as I can’t trust Nigeria Customs because they can even call arm robbers to go after him. On a second thought, what if the money wasn’t declared and they happen to search his pocket (which I doubt) and find undeclared $3,000 what will happen?? I want him to keep the funds in his pocket NOT in luggage. What’s the limit cash one is permitted to carry since the Cashless Policy was introduced?? do you think carrying $3,000 physical cash is against the law?? Please help, Thanx!
TravelRe: Eight Annoying Questions Nigerian Airport Officials Ask International Travellers by CONTROLi(m): 8:19pm On Oct 03, 2015
I've A Quick Question For Anyone With Experience Please.. As A First Time Traveler, Is It COMPULSORY To Declare Any Amount You're Travelling With; Say For Example $2,000 OR $3,000??
CrimeRe: Murder: Man Kills Lover Over Baby In Onitsha(Picture) by CONTROLi(m): 11:03am On May 26, 2015
elantraceey:
The Lady tried for dating such a man .

May her soul rest in peace .
Yea But MOST Of You The Ladies Are ADDICTED To Such 'Road-Side' Guys Becoz They're The ''Happening Guys'' so to speak...
RomanceRe: Chai...ladies, Una Get Problem by CONTROLi(m): 3:11pm On May 21, 2015
Blebleswag:
Is a very BIG NO.
I no wan use my eyes see dem.
That One Na Story....People Like You Might Even End Up With Someone Shorter Than Aki and Pawpaw...my bad...
RomanceRe: I’m Curious.... by CONTROLi(op): 2:42pm On May 21, 2015
oyin17:
You need serious deliverance not just prayer. what is romantic about this?
LIFE Is NOT All About Romance abeg
RomanceRe: I’m Curious.... by CONTROLi(op): 10:57am On May 21, 2015
Teempakguy:
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1. Where is ithuh
2. Yes. They do.
3. It's called adaptation. Look it up.
4. English is responsible for that.
5. Dogs! For crying out loud!
6. It doesn't.
7. Because making a round box from paper would be very tedious and unfriendly to the user. Don't you do geometry at schoolhuh
8. These things react to air before they stick.
9. Because . . . homonyms. undecided

. . . wait, what?! You mean I answered all this shit just to get preached at in the end?! You need prayer angry
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I'm NOT Satisfied With Your Answers..... Haba! I Need MORE Clarification on the Subject...
RomanceRe: I’m Curious.... by CONTROLi(op): 10:22am On May 21, 2015
JOEFY:
You need prayers
Who Told You I Need Prayershuh
RomanceI’m Curious.... by CONTROLi(op): 10:12am On May 21, 2015
1. Can You Cry Under Water?
2. Do Fishes Ever Get Thirsty?
3. Why Don’t Birds Fall Off Trees When They Sleep?
4. Why Is It Called Building When It Is Already Built?
5. When They Say Dog Food Is New And Improved, Who Tastes It?
6. “I Love You” Is Not A Question Then Why Does It Need An Answer?
7. Why Does Round Pizza Come In A Square Box?
8. Why Doesn’t Glue Stick To Its Bottle?
9. If Money Doesn’t Grow On Trees Then Why Do Banks Have Branches?
Are You Also Confused??
Nothing In Nature Lives For Itself. Rivers Don't Drink
Their Own Water.
Trees Don't Eat Their Own Fruit. The Sun Doesn't
Produce Heat For Itself and The Moon Never Goes
On A Honeymoon. Living For Others Is The Rule of
Nature. Be Each Others Keeper and GOD Will Reward
You Abundantly.
CrimePhotos Of The Wounded In South Africa by CONTROLi(op): 9:03am On Apr 20, 2015
Hmmmm This Matter Serious Oh... See Photos Smh...

Jokes EtcRe: A Nairalander Goes Shirtless And Show Off His Six Packs In His Bathroom (pic ) by CONTROLi(m): 10:09pm On Mar 27, 2015
Me I No See Any 6 Pack, Na 7 I see.. I Think I Better Remove My Shirt And Show My Own Too grin grin
FamilyRe: I Confronted My Dad For Slapping My Mum, And Got Slapped In Return by CONTROLi(m): 11:07am On Mar 20, 2015
I Think You acted UNWISELY and You LACK Respect For The Oldman.. Why Confront Your Father Just Like That?? You’re Lucky It Was Just A Mere SLAP! By Now Mom & Dad Must Have Settled Their Differences and You Will Be Seen As An Idiotic FOOL by both of them.. Sorry if am harsh but thatz the HARD TRUTH and whether you can handle the TRUTH is another thing..
RomanceRe: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by CONTROLi(m): 3:38pm On Mar 11, 2015
Be Yourself or Dont Be Yourself Is Not Necessarily The Case Becoz I Think No Woman Is Unaware Of Herself, Nor Her Impact..

Secondly I Think No Serious Man Follows A Woman For Her Beauty, Becoz Beauty Is The Door, Not The House..

But dat hairy thing dey scatter my head well well hahaha, difficult to find such babes hmmm..
CelebritiesRe: "I Am The Happiest Woman On Earth" - Ibinabo Fiberisima On Her Marriage. by CONTROLi(m): 10:49am On Dec 18, 2014
I Wish You The BEST But Remember.......It Is Easy To Find The Lovable...But Difficult To Find The Trustworthy..
CrimeRe: Woman, 30 Cuts Off Son's Genitals (graphic Photos, Viewer Discretion Advised) by CONTROLi(m): 9:34pm On Dec 17, 2014
Look At An Attack As An Opportunity To Discern Character.. What A Sin Thinghuh Smh
FamilyRe: How Do You Manage Double Standard In Your Family? by CONTROLi(m): 9:18pm On Dec 17, 2014
If You're Not In Support Of Your Parent's Behaviour, Then Console Your Bro, He Should Focus On The Benefits of Endurance. Every Battle Is For A Reason. Every Battle Is For A Season. He Shouldn't Forget That...He Should ENDURE.
FamilyRe: Is This How Much Money Can Change People? by CONTROLi(m): 9:09pm On Dec 17, 2014
Those Who Love Your Presents....Does Not Necessarily Love Your Presence.....

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