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Akukaliaa:





All is dependent on the location and parties involved.

Here in Ifitedunu, you do not need to have large sums of money in your account before deciding on getting married. All you need is to show capability, not capacity, to take care of your wife and children, if any.

I have already attended 7 wedding ceremonies this year and it is still February, 18.

We do not have too many rich young men here. All we have are promising and hardworking men. They are the ones women here submit to.

May God bless the very good people of Ifite. If it wasn't for Ifite, I'd still be unmarried, broke and lonely by now.

Akujalia 1

How is ifitedunu

Nwaobosi dey ask.

But i dey fear Anambra girls.

MrBrownJay1:
- how can you plan marriage soon when you have nobody in your life? are you gonna marry yourself or what?
- your desperation to settle down is unhealthy and will only lead to heartache
- your job/money problem has absolutely NOTHING to do with the fact that you have no woman in your life


- if you cant attract anyone in your present state then you will equally be unattractive to these same women when you make money

...... they will just use your for your money while not giving a damn about you (as a person)


- there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 29.... some lose it at 12 others later...stop comparing yourself with others. when the right time will come, then you will get jiggy
- if sex is such a big deal for you then go to some olosho joint and be done with it... these women wont be any different than the women you hope to attract in the future when you finally get a job/money.

I see your pontifications here and elsewhere. They strike me as coming from one who has not been through the university of life or who has simply chosen to engage in ostrich evasion or live in cloud cuckoo land.

It is lie that the type or class of women he will attract is the same irrespective of his station in life especially financially.

Life is business. Nothing like love.
You will never succeed in life, career, business or even make money until you understand this principle.

It seems you are very naive, wet behind the ears or downright green.



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Fairview1:
Even in your own family?


Leadership isn't until you are elected into any key political position or pastoral/Imam position. Leadership entails you spearheading even a small group of people/friends.

When you aren't married, people will never take you serious and can never entrust you with anything serious. Reason why our constitution made it clear that before anyone could handle any key political position, you will ensure you married. So leadership is a sign of responsibility, and to he responsible, you must be stay married.

Say what you know Oga.

No place in the civilised world is marriage a requirement for a political office.

chigo4u:
I don’t really get your point, who says all the people you mentioned cannot go broke if they live “humongously”?
Nobody is talking about earnings but rather the posts where in relation to someone mentioning “humongous” figures you have to spend daily or monthly to live well in Nigeria!

Sorry, I am not liable for your deficiency in apprehension.

In his miseducations such as Chosen, Choosing a girl and No Green light No approach, UBUNJA maintains that you should allow a girl choose you first.
He opines that you should only approach a girl whose green lights you have seen.

He posits that being chosen reduces stress, risk of rejection etc for the guy.
According to him, a chosen guy already satisfies all requirements and need not do anything further to impress the girl.

SOME of the above postulations are true but admit of many limitations.
1. You may never have the opportunity to see a woman's green light. An example are girls you are meeting for the first time on the streets, buses, malls etc.

You may need to approach these girls first. Some of them may later grow to be smitten by you and subsequently chase you. At this stage, you are now the prize. Or loosely, you are now chosen.

2. Some green lights are so unclear that you can only see them after an approach has been made. This is prevalent because of our conservative culture here where men are required to make the move or shoot shots first.

3. Waiting to be chosen or for green lights limits your chances of experiencing abundance with girls. Only when you approach many will you have abundance and also increase your chances of being chosen by one of the many girls.

ibechris:
Sorry to take us back,this una matter tire me oh.
I live in Kubwa Arab road where u can get more than 24hours electricity and the two bedroom I live is highly comfortable for me and my family of two,compared to the one I lived in earlier,water is constant, light is steadier,close to the major express road,prepaid is running smoothly and in all of this,I pay just N650k.
I prefer to remain a tenant for another five(4) years before I would move to my personal house.
For those saying we need 40k per day to live a comfortably, I say no no no to that because living well is a relative term which could mean sleeping around and spending recklessly and for me,might be living according to my set goals.
However, I want to use this opportunity to beg all the big guys in this house to pls,desist from calling humongous figures like the one above,reason being that we have people who are earning far less than this figures and continuous use of this supposed figures send a bad signal to smaller investors amongst us.
All fingers are not equal...na beg I de beg una.

ojesymsym:
Oga, if you followed the discussion, you will see that I was saying the exact same thing you are saying. Peace.

STOP BEING ENTITLED.
What do both of you mean by saying others should desist from calling humongous figures?

Anthony Joshua was paid 30bn for last fight. Consider what will be his personally. How much do Messi, Neymar , Mayweather etc earn?


Zuckerberg earns 10.2m every minute. Yes, 10.2 million every single freaking minute.


Yet people mention a few funds here, and you are inditing this, shouting.

These are existential realities. People live these fantasies.


NOTE NOW that there will always be richer people, more intelligent, handsome, sexier etc people.

It's like a ladder, some are at the top, some below.

You become frustrated when you look only at those at the top.

Look below the ladder and see those whose combined income are less than 30k monthly.
Some are happier genuinely.

Wanity:
I wanted to insult but I won't just to avoid ban.

What point are you trying to make

Is none of your business how he spend his income.

He clearly make a statement about himself not you or the low income Nigerians as you

I don't know what you people gain from pushing politics where is not relevant or mentioned

Who is this imbeci.le?

Insult him naa. Instead of making your points, if any with ratiocination, you are threatening with insults; as if you will be awarded afterwards.

Ahiboilandgas is the best contributor here. And an astute business man, wealthy too.
You dolt may be using free mode on a symbian phone to threaten with insults.

Fucck off. Dimwit.

Do you like Eke mkt side?

Barrytone:
At expiration of rent you only need to give him 7 days notice. The expiration of rent is deem a notice in the instance. Reality check, argument in court might last longer than 7 days but you are to give 7 days and not months as erroneously propounded by most lawyers. You only issue quit notice if rent has not expired

This is not a blanket application.

It applies only to fixed tenancies.

If Tunde pays you YEARLY and has lived in your house for 5 years, will you give him just 7 days notice if his last rent expires in 31st december? Assuming you don't like him anymore?

So he will look for apartment within the 7 days?

I don't expect you to understand this though as it's a tad recondite.

I won't argue this further.

Barrytone:
Update:: u dont need a quit notice after expiration of rent. Yawa dey broaden brain. Lawyers learn. I bailed myself today. Got angry and went for beer and discussed my predicament and my usual guy felt embarrass that i didn form him. He schooled me with supreme court judgements. U don't need a quit after expiration of rent. A relief for landlords. I pray we benefit.

Do you mean that a tenant that pays yearly is not entitled to notice to quit assuming his rent has expired and he is even owing for 2 months now?

I doubt if that's the position of the law except it's a fixed tenancy in which case a 7 day's notice is ONLY needed.

TotoNaRubber:
Make I open Una eyes small, one of the most lucrative property investment is chalets lodge where oloshos lodge and service customers.

A small room is charged N3000 per day X 7 days = N21,000 per week X 4 weeks = N84,000 per month.

Now if you have 20 rooms in the building that will be N84,000 X 20 = N1.6 million per month.

Use N250K settle police and do minor repairs per month, profit N1.3 million per month.

Runs out of thread no be me talk am o !

police settlement big like that?

Ginaz:
Beautiful couple but tell the lady to cut down on her weight. She’s big already.

we like them big..

useless fabricated story

needful:
This is harsh, there was no incivility in the above statement. Marry 200 wives or concubines at your own risk. Everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion and way of life.

He spoke with an air of finality peppered with unmistakable authority, as though he could establish what he meant.
When he was queried he said he wouldn't dignify us with a response. Imagine such a dismissive, smug answer.


Smart people say things like this with reservations. Because you can't buttress it when called upon to.

Now, entitlement to opinions is a cliche whose value is now spent. It's a lie too.

Or do you stand in public and say something like "Fat women are pigs. They are not attractive at all"

Can you defend it by citing your cliche "I am entitled to my opinion" ?

Your opinions should be sensible not nonsensical.

I reiterate, there are no dunces in Tbills section. He should say his bunkum to touts.

AngelicBeing:
l am done with that discussion, those who understood the nuggets behind my post have already taken it, if you like sleep with all the women in Nigeria or Africa, I don't give a hoot, it is your choice and your life but one day monkey will go to market and will not return back, let's get back to TB discussion,

l will not dignify you or the other guy that is talking bulshit about my post, l am entitled to my opinion/ views, continue sleeping with as many women you like and your payday is around the corner,

My last response to you and the other guy accusing me of an alternate account, the truth hurts but the truth we know and do sets us free as individuals, families, community and a Nation,

This has nothing to do with wether you are a Muslim / Christian / voodoo worshipper or Atheist, life is all about cause and effect, sowing and reaping / laws of retributive justice ( some reap early in life or at the tail end of their lives but there is definitely a reaping stage for all humans) , continue to enjoy doing the wrong thing and the wrong lifestyle, payday will definitely come.

Back to TB DISCUSSION jare

Man of low estate. The butterfly at times, thinks itself a bird just because it flies.

Say the above bunch of codswallop to touts at motor park and not to people here.

There is no dunce in Tbills section.

AngelicBeing:
Lol, the god of mammon doesn't give wealth without repercussions, there's always a price to pay if your wealth is not from your sweat, if it is from the god of mammon, a payday is coming ahead, nothing beats working smart + your hands are clean + avoid sleeping with different random girls ( while your virtues / potentials is been destroyed gradually because of the different women and all the negative energies / badluck some of them carry + do unto others as you want them to do to you / be charitable and help the poor folks around you as much as you can + Have the fear of God in all your dealings = Peace of mind and happiness

Which one is negative energy, bad luck yada yada ?

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maniasinv:
There are 4k hotels around trinity, bike fee to tincan is around 250. Guess that should be good for you

is Trinity in which town?

hi

healthserve:
Thats
Ajegunle
Boundary
Ojuelegba
Yaba

Where you guys @

Don't know lag well.
But he will be frequenting Apapa Tincan during his stay.

Will need it for a worker coming to make inquiries for a few days.
proximity to Apapa Tincan is a plus.

emmanuelewumi:
Please buy money market funds or Treasury Bills.

You bought a 2 year bond and you want to sell within 3 months. Anyway there is a secondary market for bonds on FMDQ and NSE

Assuming i want to sell after like 3 months?

What's the penalty?

emmanuelewumi:
How can you lose your money? Have you ever lost your money through Treasury Bills?

Ok.

Is it fluid like tbills?

Like can one liquidate anytime?

emmanuelewumi:
It will reflect on your cscs statement, which you can you as a collateral for loans

ok thanks

What about payment default.

What are the chances that one might lose one's money?