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[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=710353.msg8703473#msg8703473 date=1310491291]and who on this thread said that? ![]() the bone of contention here is do ALL men cheat like you people are trying to prove.[/quote]yes, they all do. the ones who haven't don't have the opportunity/resources to do it but they wish they had. . . . .in a chaotic city like lagos, it's not humanly possible for a successful man not to cheat there. even when the men don't want it, women make it happen. |
dayokanu:i am someone's husband and i have never cheated. kindly direct these babes to my abode and test me with them. ronke's husband would definitely cheat - ronke has shown him pepper. try me! |
ronkebp:you never jam. . . . . . .if i cheat on you and i see you wanna bring trouble, i will bring the new chic home just like the men in the old testament did. it's a take it or leave it issue. if you don't like it, best leave - if you do, get into the kitchen and prepare us a sumptuous meal. and don't you dare handle rat poison while the meal is being prepared. you are eating from the food first before everyone else. ![]() |
lepasharon:of course. . . . .married men are more irresponsible than single men in naija. . . . .all those so called aristos are people's dads and husbands. then i heard a joke about the prayer points of a typical nigerian woman in church. ladies, when you pray please use the word man or boy in your prayers not husband. praying to get a husband(somebody else's spouse) is a wrong prayer so when people's husbands run after you in droves, remember you were the one that asked your creator to give you one. |
Muza:no problem with the proposal as long as it does not start from him. . . . . let it start with the next president. |
[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=710353.msg8702770#msg8702770 date=1310485541]overseas, whoever acquired the house is immaterial.[/quote]why do you think smart nigerian men go to nigeria to get hitched up? the laws in nigeria and where the marriage certificare was issue hold that marriage not where the couple are residing. so if you think a man who married in nigeria will leave the house for his spouse after divorce then you are joking. in nigeria, some women can bounce you off these days if you want to prove stubborn.i want to marry such women. the men bouncers bounce me out of my house? dem nor born her papa well.all that mumu behaviour where the man cheats his pants off while the woman waits at home enduring and crying, no longer holds water.you have a wrong perspective of nigeria. . . .men still rule the roost and as per the name. . . .you can stick to what you used to be. . . .all the sangotope or yemojatosin that you bear. ![]() |
[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=710353.msg8702628#msg8702628 date=1310484595]^^if you cheat then[b] you [/b] can leave-why should it be the wife. no be you dey follow vaggina everywhere? ![]() keep following nah.[/quote]leave the house i acquired by myself? where does that happen? if i cheat, the wife leaves. . . .if she cheats, she leaves. . . . .and she must drop my last name as well. ![]() |
VolvoS60:since that possibility is legit, is it worth pursuing? don't you think ukba will be more happy to bring out incriminating acts against this woman and they would have conducted every check possible to convict this woman? give them some credits. . . . And then again, it may NOT BE as you have argued. As JJM has so eloquently and persuasively pointed out, more sinister reasons CAN AND DO exist for a couple not sharing the same last name, particularly in the context of this matter we are discussing, spanning 14 odd pagesi have ma reasons for saying there may be nothing to it and that is because the ukba is now much more involved. you guys keep assuming bimbo delivered those babies sometime last week. she's had them 2 months ago - if there's anything fraudulent, it would have been fished out by now. i am sure her documents she filed in from lagos would have been screened properly even before the story hit the media. how long does it really take ukba to fish out a criminal in these days of modern technology? One thing which stands out in this case is that we (or at least I) don't have full information except for what is in the public domain. If you are in the same position as I am, you would do well to refrain from sweeping assertions which you cannot prove beyond all reasonable doubt.which is where common sense(a virtue that is not common) prevails. And one more thing . . . tone down the insults. You do your arguement no justice by liberally lacing your points with one invective after the other. I enjoy frank exchanges as much as the next person,well, maybe you should pay attention to the missives directed at me as well. to the other divide, i am the reason nigeria is backwards, i placed ibb, obasanjo, abacha and yaradua in the presidency. i was the major cause of the lagos flood amongst other evil vices. am i supposed to smile at that or tell these folks where to stick it? seyibrown:lord of mercy. . . . .the russian case i wrongly brought up? the same case you did not believe and you were asking me to provide? the similarity between bimbo's case and the russian parents is the fact that only the doctors can give the go ahead when the kids can fly and that was why i brought it to light. i know comprehension skills can be ambiguous to a herb like you but if you tape it shut, i wouldn't have known you are a simpleton. . . .better if i assume you are one than make it so obvious by writing bollocks on a public forum. so even if you’re NOT living in the UK legally, your details should not be passed on.and yet seyi brown thinks this was directed at legal residents. comprehension skills - zero. how some of you graduated from a tertiary institution must be the 8th wonder of the world. Never encountered anyone so full of shitE on NL!never met anyone with an intelligence quotient so low it makes a slug look like john newton! |
proudly9ja:eboue has made it clear to wenger he doesn't want the rb position ever again. . . . .he wants to be more involved in the midfield where his british accent will be put more in practise. ![]() |
jay bee:you have access to this date because you are in a position to have access to it. . . . .if you shop this information irresponsibly, you will go to jail! it's called "abusing a position of trust". you can read that up also as well. |
ronkebp:so you are suggesting a man should cut of his willy because it often leads him to sin? since that same scripture was written, has there been anyone who voluntarily chopped off a part of his body because that part of the body makes him sin? i need links, ronkebp!debosky:and you will be pleasantly surprised this trend is changing now. more women(married/single) are now getting quickies/one-night stands than in the last 10 years. the issue is simple. . . .if i marry and my wife cheats(that's the end of it). if i cheat then she must leave if she has to. . . . |
JJM:of course they do but mostly in severe cases when life & death is involved. Stop ranting Coogar, your arguments hold no credibility whatsoever.and yours do? it's been more than 2 months since bimbo delivered her rugrats and she's yet to be nicked for any fraudulent activity or malpractises. you must know more than ukba then sitting behind your dusty dell desktop passing misguided judgement on an innocent mother of five. shame on u! |
[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=710353.msg8702426#msg8702426 date=1310483375]you must still be in the stone age. a woman finds it difficult to look out? ![]() 99% of your post is blah blah blah.[/quote]do you look out? |
debosky:interesting choices for nani/valencia to eat up there. Unless Everton are desperate to sell him it won't happen with stingy Arsene at the helm.3 words. . . .'6 + 5' more english players will fill up the starting xi of the top four clubs. . . . |
debosky:how do you know they are not even better at lb than the preferred cb? these are footballers and wenger must have his reasons for selling clichy. it's either there's a replacement in the pipeline or someone somewhere is ready to fill that role within the squad. I believe it's going to be Gibbs as the first choice, my hope is that when (not if) he gets injured, Traore has absorbed some defensive nous from his time at Juventus to step in and make the role his own.we shall see. . . . .i think leighton baines might be on his way to arsenal. |
debosky:ade was a destructive force in that team. if he had stayed, arsenal might have easily missed staying in the top four. wenger sold him at a profit and increased the wages of his wards. . . . .that to me is squad improvement - whether the players now performed to the required expectation with the wage increment is a different matter entirely. Secondly, Wenger's reputation is not very good buying replacements. One could argue there are no replacements for Clichy in the squad, but that doesn't stop AW saying Gibbs can step up.i am sure wenger expects one of his big defenders koscielny, vermaelen or sagna to play on that left side. there's no way wenger would believe gibbs would nick a permanent shirt in that position. |
ronkebp:then let the fuc[i]k[/i]ing begins. . . . |
VolvoS60:that's the logical explanation in most cases unless you are bimbo's husband in nigeria and you know more than we do. justwise:ohhh, tape it shut you scallywag. and you are what is right with nigeria? you are a disgrace to the green passport! JJM:it's not relevant to the issue because husband and wife had history before they got married. it's like asking why your gcse certificate does not have your husband's name on it? i mean, who would dare ask such a question!!! blimey, give ukba some credits. . . . if you think they have not done the proper checks to convict this woman, then you must be smoking woolies. JJM:ukba will find out a visitor with an outstanding bill if/when the nhs decide to shop that visitor. not the other way round. this is why it's called data protection. the ukba cannot force it out from nhs unless the issue of life/death or bomb terror is involved. grab a book and read up the act. JJM:never ever fought a lost case. . . .what i have seen here is enough barks to bring barbarians to shame without biting. . . . .i have not seen any credible fact that suggests bimbo deliberately tried to play the system. granted, there's a loophole in the system and i know people will always try to take advantage of it. . . . .on the other hand, i also believe innocent people do find themselves in such cases and the previous history of people who have tried to play the system should not be used to pass judgement. each case should be treated individually - that is what justice is all about. |
JJM:bimbo must have been getting pre-natal treatments somewhere. . . .was she paying to get those? was she asked to pay? were the proper checks done then for her to pay or not? |
debosky:nasri is too big a player not to be replaced. henry was done n dusted even before his move. how many times did he really feature in his last season at arsenal. adebayor was easily replaceable by team-mates, wenger didn't need to buy like for like. nasri and cesc will leave a big hole in arsenal's midfield area. they are quite young and there are no replacements in the squad yet so wenger must buy to replace them. . . .i agree their replacements might not be equally talented but it will be daft for wenger to sell those players and keep the money for the board to split. that will be equivalent to chaos and errrrrr, anarchy! |
[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=710353.msg8701564#msg8701564 date=1310476031]like i said, as long as nobody knows whatever, all is well. if the basstard child becomes a billionaire tomorrow, its for the common good.[/quote]well, the truth must always prevail. in these days of dna matching and stuffs, enough married women in nigeria have been ditched by their husbands after several years of deception. i know a man who never knew his children were biologically made by another man until recently. he's now old and gray and might not be able to father a child again! ikooko:and you think nigerians will be truthful enough to admit they have cheated on their spouses on these pages? your lie detector test will go up in smoke if you attempt it. cheating is a norm in nigeria. around the closing time/break time on the island, you can never get a free hotel room. they all get booked. as soon as break is over, the rooms become available again. who are the guests that fill up these rooms? married bankers, insurers, stock brokers, business men/women, etc cheating freely on their spouses without any remorse. |
JJM:if the question is not relevant and doesn't apply to the issue then you don't need to use your brainpower to work it out. . . .this is also a no brainer. JJM:this is the loophole in the system. ukba says the patient should pay but this is what the nhs say. . . . If you think that you will be charged for medical treatment, but can’t afford to pay, then you should still talk to a hospital administrator as they may be able to help you. The NHS is supposed to treat its patients in confidence, so even if you’re not living in the UK legally, your details should not be passed on. by the time you combine data protection with the human right act, you will now see why ukba must insist on every visitor coming to the uk should have a verifiable health insurance scheme. the ukba should refer applicants to their own trusted insurance companies in nigeria to avoid any fraudulent or malpractices of forgers. |
VolvoS60:it means the question isn't even relevant in this case. let's assume you have a passport you travel with as we speak, and your wife has one she has been travelling with before you met. . . . .would the 2 passports share the same name? |
[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=710353.msg8701227#msg8701227 date=1310473543]@ topic anyway, no sweating. if the man cant stop cheating, then the woman can also do the same. as long as nobody brings stds home or spills the beans, everybody's happy.[/quote]i disagree. . . . a woman can raise a bastard child and claim the husband as the father. men don't have this opportunity. . . .so there's a difference between a man cheating and a woman cheating. . . . .if men get pregnant too, it would have been even stevens, but as it is. . . .a cheating woman is more dangerous, disgraceful and grotesque. ![]() |
debosky:is this not financially reckless? nasri is only 24, not the 30+ players you had let walk free in the past. cash £20 million now or let nasri sign a pre-contract agreement with any club as early as january? i will rather have the money so should any manager with braincells. i am afraid, wenger did not answer that part very well. slimshay:arsenal have had the pair for 3 consecutive seasons, what did you win with them? ![]() |
JJM:then you need to re-educate yourself. the public funds they are referring to are basically: income-based jobseeker's allowance; income support; child tax credit; working tax credit; a social fund payment; child benefit; housing benefit; council tax benefit; state pension credit; attendance allowance; severe disablement allowance; carer's allowance; disability living allowance; an allocation of local authority housing; local authority homelessness assistance income-related employment and support allowance. as you can see, there's nowhere on the list that says if a car runs through an illegal immigrant or a visitor, the nhs should not treat him/her. public health is free in the united kingdom. emergency and complex cases like bimbo's should have been dealt with by letting visitors come in with health insurance schemes. the ukba failed to do that in nigeria so whose fault? an insurance company should be paying that £200k, had the ukba done their homework. If it wasn't, UKBA will not be asking people to pay up their medical bills before even allowing them back into the country. UKBA do not ask if visitors owe a UK bank or credit card company money do they? cos that is private sector funds and they(the banks etc) will need to ensure that you are good for any loan before granting it to you-They are not even likely to grant a loan to non UK residents!so who pays for a & e/walk-in centre victims that the nhs treat for free? |
duduspace:shaking my head. so cesc and nasri will be like new signings now, won't they? you are a big joke. wenger has won nothing with them. and if his egotistical fight to keep them succeeds, he'll win nothing with them again next season. |
JJM:siddon there. . . .bimbo is going nowhere. . . .her new apartment is being decorated as we speak and it's being funded by the taxes you pay. |
Loveaflame:with all due respect, these questions are irrelevant because my children have their lives to sort out. if you spend the whole of your life tutoring your wards not to cheat, lie, etc - it still does not guarantee they wouldn't do it. even after being told everything, the decision still lies with the child. his/her choice will be independent of what he must have heard. this is why some pastors have wayward children in spite of what their parents preach. |
duduspace:i will revisit this comment when cesc dumps arsenal in few weeks time. ![]() |
JJM:weak and disgraceful? what is weak and what is disgraceful? educating you schlepps that nhs is not part of recourse to public funds is weak/disgraceful? you cowards should hang your heads in shame. |
[quote author=kunle_j link=topic=710353.msg8700858#msg8700858 date=1310470166]NB: the above reason are part of my book (still writing and not yet compiled and published) tittled "the Cheater and the Cheatee i no wan talk too much and i hope you are not bored with my epistle?[/quote]you are writing a book on cheating? that's one book i will love to read. ![]() |
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and don't you dare handle rat poison while the meal is being prepared. you are eating from the food first before everyone else. 

Well, I won't say much more on this - in good time the reason for the difference in names will be made clear. It may indeed BE as you have argued - she has her maiden name on her passport and this is why she and spouse do not share the last name.
