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kandiikane:
If I hear one more time that the man was mad aka a schizo I will rain down madness on your nyash.

This is a ritualistic act, a cold blooded murder done by a man who fully knew what he was doing.

the man is insane. . . . .his actions were that of a psychopath, near-cannibalistic and depraved. the fact that he didn't even try to conceal his crime by running around the neighbourhood with a bloodied shirt proves to me he is out of his mind. the whole ritual angle is bullshyte. . . .he wasn't running around the neighbourhood with any body organs or caught with the human skull. . .

let's get something straight. . . . .if this was a pre-mediated murder. . . .this man would have concealed the body and sneaked out of his premises without arousing any suspicion. their neighbours heard nothing when the crime was being committed. . . nothing could have stopped this man from wrapping the dead body in a carpet locked in the trunk of his car. . . .

gohome:
Nice point bro especially on the US and Canada options. But you have to understand some things.

At this point with the information we have and where the information is coming from, This woman you accused of orchestrating this can be
    i completely innocent
    ii Partially innocent
    iii completely fraudulent

Completely innocent (proof)

It is common knowledge for women to take fertility drugs in Nigeria. They do this to aid conception and not to boost it. She obviously did not plan to give birth to five kids. she planned to give birth to one. The media is making you think otherwise. let me quote the dailymail, Bimbo Ayelabola, 33, applied for a six-month visitor's visa[b] soon[/b] after discovering she was pregnant, travelling to the UK without her husband to visit her three sisters.


would she have known she had five kids in her soon after she discovered she was pregnant, obviously not. which means, she probably thought of just having a baby or two just like any other person and pay the bills just like any other person. But the unexpected happened. The babies were 5 and they were premature. they had to go into a complex Cesarean op and the babies were treated in a special-care unit, where the cost of a week’s stay for the family would be £35,000 alone. Normal procedures do not warrant special care unit. With 3 sisters in the UK and a civil engineer as a husband she knew those kids aren't going to get citizenship. at least before she applied for the visa. This clearly rule out any false motive of obtaining a visa. so what then was her '' manipulative motive'' I see none. In Stories like this  each case should be reviewed on an individual basis, without the knee-jerk reactionism and mis-placed jingoism that sadly seems to always accompany these things.

If you are still in doubt of the possibility of this ladies innocence I will recommend you to read the innocent man. Its a true life story written by Gris ham. Also look at the case for the formal IMF chief (http://www.nytimes.com/2011/07/06/nyregion/still-a-case-for-trying-strauss-kahn.html and see how a case can transcend from Complete guilt to partial guilt or complete innocence

I hope the above will help you understand why i said you should assume she is a US citizen which in most case is innocent until proven guilty and not Nigerian which in your case is guilty as charge by the media

As for partially innocent and completely fraudulent, you should fill the lines better judge.

well said and articulately laid out. . . .

only a complete lunatic will still believe this woman came to the united kingdom to scrounge the system. . . .

Pafuri:
"Paddy", sounds soooo civilized. Well, Paddy, in case you didn't know, your name is a derivation of Patrick. It is how the illiterate Irish pronouces "Patrick". Such an African you are! So what's wrong with names like Mandela, Oyewo, Kosi, Arugbo, niGhana, Kolawole, Uche, Mei Ruwa, Oyewo, Akpor, So-Bata, Kwakwu, Simidele, Agwu, Bankole, Abacha, Odoyewu, Isi-Ewu, Ibrahim, Etsu Nupe, Mamofo, Masitha, Dan Maraya Jos, Ishola, Oyenusi, Osita, Osadebe, Babatunde, Folorunsho, or even Pafuri/. Your name is such a shame!

this is outrageous. . . . . .
i hope you are aware paddy's father himself is named mike(michael) so i don't see how patrick as a name is a shame.

sandee575:
The mention of Dangote has compelled me to agree that humility and arrogance are by the nature of the individual.
Dangote was so ordinary at the airport the other day, i mistook him for one of the mallams changing currencies there.

compare like for like. paddy adenuga is still a young chap. don't compare him to a family man like aliko dangote!!

StarBoard:
Who are we buying next please?
Coogar,come and answer o.
It looks like United's summer spending is over. . .all our targets are just being linked with us on paper but are marching to other clubs in reality. . .Nasri,Modric,Sneijder (likely staying). . .

don't sweat it. . . .fergie will buy at least one super midfielder b4 the window slams shut.

LadyT:
No sure who you are trying to convince here. But she's a fraud because she obtained a visitors visa with the sole aim of coming here on a permanent basis. She's a fraud because it costs a lot of money to obtain a visa and buy a ticket. This is probably not her first time in the UK it was all planned.

she did not come here with the sole aim of coming here to stay permanently. she came here with the aim of having a child. if she had delivered one or twins, there wouldn't have been this kind of outcry. arabs, europeans, etc all come here every time to have their babies - it has never been an issue. if this woman had cleared her bills, you wouldn't have heard about this case. . . . .but no average family will cough out £200k on medical bills. . .it's not just feasible.

Who said it will cost 50million in nigeria or any other African country with good health care. You cannot compare pounds to naira. Are you telling me other people have not had multiple births in nigeria and it cost millions

she said she has suffered several miscarriages in nigeria before deciding to come to england. who are you to argue? she got a valid visa, travelled on a valid passport and got into the united kingdom. she was due to deliver and she ended up with 5 kids - something she couldn't have planned.

She clearly stated all her family are here who can help her raise her kids.

this is neither here nor there. family or no family, this woman did not plan to have 5 kids and scrounge the system. no one can be that devious at the expense of her life and her children. yes, she had taken fertility pills but by the same token, she had also risked infant mortality rate with her multiple births.

To me the level of emotion people are displaying is over the top. I suggest we all look at the facts

nope, you people are the ones with emotional issues just because she's nigerian. if she was american, you would believe her tales line hook and sinker. but you guys have been so brainwashed that any nigerian in the uk without a residence permit is a potential criminal looking for ways to scrounge the system.

it's pathetic!

islamrules:
I have never  discuss any of my personal issues on nairaland, bcuz based on my experience on this site, at the end of the day, you wont get any answer. What you get is insults and attacks.
But, this issue is burning my heart day-in-day-out.
There is this gal of mine I thought of basing my life on. I deflowered when she was 18 years (2 years ago and I am 25 now). Ever since, we have agreed to nurture our relationship to marriage level. And, we have been trying to keep it.
Last month (Bad Sunday), I caught her red handed with my neighbor who is in his 5o’s Being Intimate with her when his family was away for church service (somebody that is as old as my father and is married with 3 children. One of his children is 18 years old as old as my gal).  I came back from church early and I saw her coming out of their apartment sweating and breathing heavily and with a strange odor coming out of her body (she came to my house when I was in the church, and I was not even expecting her that day. I was shocked to see her in my house without any notice). She was shocked when we met. I quickly sensed what has happened. I called her and she panicked and started rushing to the toilet, I followed her, grasp her hands drag her to my room. And I asked her, but it was too glaring cuz her tight was wet with Fluid dripping from her “blahblah”. (What annoyed me most was they didn’t use condom. Women are reckless; if she gets pregnant she will claim its mine).
She saw my eyes and confessed that the man tricked her (weeping seriously). She gave me a rooster and bull story that, he sent her to buy him a soap and when she came back to deliver the soap that the man descended on her and that she was afraid to shout because of shame and trouble it will cause between me and the man, she promised not to do it again and that she will be careful with him.
Last week, I went to her house to visit her mother, she was’nt at home,I waited for her for 5 hours. I left, when I could no longer wait. On my way home, just a stone throw from her house, I saw her coming out of this man's car joking and laughing with this man (I quickly sensed they are using Hotels or somewhere hidden)
I waited for her and confronted her, she just ignored me. On getting home I saw a text message on my phone telling me "never in my life should I call her again"
I made up my mind and forget about her (It wasnt easy but I did, cuz I had no choice).

Last friday my mother called that she came visiting her, that infact she washed her cloth and did all her Job and since then she has started begging again, still pleading and begging till this time on my facebook, SMS, email.

For the 50 years old man, I have a plan for him. I have toasted her daughter and she has agreed (We were both interested in each other before. In fact she expected me to make the move, but I didnt bcuz we are leaving in the same building, I feel its improper). But now, I will "f*****ck" hell out of her and impregnate her.
If she claims its mine I will reject it but I will admit Being Intimate with her, so that that useless man can feel it too.
But, regarding my gal, I am confused, do I take her back? She is just disgusting to me now…

seduce the old man's daughter - impregnate her if possible
dump your girlfriend - send her a dead foetus on the next valentine's day.

teskyg:
Most girls are from Rich homes and still LovePeddlers.I was in a hotel in Ilorin sometime and last Month and some politicians were in town.I was surprised at the rate which girls of different shapes and sizes were imported from Neighboring universities to warm the  beds of those big wigs.

naija babes have their needs.

These are girls that their parents labor day and night to send to school.To me it is longer throat, Their is no excuse so over to sell your body.I have a friend who broke up with his fiancee two weeks to their wedding after a cousin of his that came down from UK to attend the wedding recognized the would be bride as a hot pant chick during their university days.Be careful of what you do cos sometime your past may come back to hunt you.

the fiancee was just unfortunate. statistically, girls of easy virtue get hitched more than the "holier than thou" ones.

I ran into my old girlfriend in the University at Ozone last week in company of her Husband and two kids.She couldn't look at me and standing by me was her husband thinking he has an Angel as a wife, I have bleeped her in almost all the corners of the University in different positions,

what goes around comes around. in not too near future, another man will be grinning at your wife because he has screwed her in almost all the corners of her polytechnic in different positions.

Last week a frind wrote to inform me that he has broken up with his fiancee, simple reason when i inquired. she is a LovePeddler,

damn it. . . . .why is it that almost everyone you have encountered is a slu[i]t[/i] or a hooker.

Israel5005:
No prostitution can never be justified and is morally wrong i all aspect of life.

I was a victim. But thanks to God is all over and I am doing my very best to move forward with my life. What I mean is I was married to a Nigerian Igbo woman who is a professional LovePeddler in Atlanta, Ga. She hide behind her real job as a healthcare provider but prostitution is her main job.

She is service all the political thieves that come to the states and she travel to Abuja, camp in the hotel and do her business. Mind you, this is a lady with four children. I was fooled and thank God the marriage only lasted 9 months before she packed her self and children out of my house.

I am not sure of what to make of it, but there are very many of them in Atlanta. So guys beware and do your home work properly, Good luck to all!

you married a pro[i]s[/i]titute and you did not know?

LadyT:
I'm in shock people actually believe this woman is in the right.
There are no two ways about it. She is a fraud a liar and a reckless person. She's not some poor person she's well off I can't wait to laugh at her supporters when she's exposed.

how is she a fraud? i guess you dunno what the meaning of that word is. . . . .she travelled to england on a nigerian passport - is that fraudulent?
she was pregnant before she left nigeria - is that a fraudulent act? her water broke prematurely at 32 weeks - is that fraudulent? she delivered her kids 2 months ago in hackney hospital - is that fraudulent? where is the fraud?

she's not some poor person - i am guessing your employer produces her payslip for you to know she can cough out 50 million naira on child delivery alone. not even mike adenuga would drop that without feeling the pinch. truth is. . . .no average nigerian can cough out £200k in medical bills - in that regard, the woman is not rich enough to afford such. she is not a liar and neither is she reckless.

kalokalo:
While I agree that deliberate state policy encourages ingenuity, it is only an added bonus. Necessity, they say, is the mother of ingenuity. There are lots of things that we lack in Nigeria that a creative mind can solve.

An example, is the fact that foreigners are the ones that made a machine to pound yam for us. That is is for a product that is indigenous to Nigeria which a Nigerian engineer could have dreamt up.

We are still shelling egusi seeds with our bare hands when a jobless engineering graduate can put his brain to work to create an egusi shelling maching and become a millionaire selling his products while creating jobs and a whole new industry.

That is how foreign technology giants are birthed. Companies like Boeing, Honda, Dell, Guinness, Ford, Yamaha, Cad-bury, Pfizer, Lockheed, DuPont etc are the names of individuals who started from small bursts of ingenuity. We can do it too if we believe in ourselves!

Warren Buffet once said that they are two kinds of people: Those who believe they can do anything and those who believe they can't. Guess what, they are both right!!

you are talking bollocks, i am afriad.

first things first. . . . .i don't even think we are producing enough science and engineering students at the top level. half of undergraduate degrees in china, singapore and japan are awarded in science/engineering. the few brilliant students nigeria produce still seek greener pastures abroad to further their education and they rarely come back to nigeria cos their level of skills can never be appreciated in nigeria.

however you look at it, it's the government that is screwing nigeria engineers up.

buzugee:
see thats that typical docile nigerian mindset. look heres an idea. engineers all over the country form a strong union. a strong lobby group. a political lobby group. and then in numbers you harrass the govt for things you think ought to get done and trust me you will get the funding. you think say govt will voluntarily dish out cash to you ? see you gotta be pro-active, but then again nigerians wouldnt know anything about being pro-active

nigerian teachers have been doing that for the past 50 years and nothing has been achieved. the nigerian teacher is still one of the worst paid employees in the universe. your government is pathetic and until they get the book thrown at them, they will never change.

worry246:
She abused the system by THEFT and FRAUD
The UK NHS is for tax paying UK citizens not all comers from every poor country.
She had the money to pay airfare so should pay health bills.
One good thing will come of this.
All pregnant women in UK, US & Europe will be made to pay FIRST before birth.
No pay ---Out on street!!!!

ohh, shut up your mouth. . . . .what do you know about uk nhs? from the confines of your ojuelegba abode, you are discussing nhs and uk tax? wow!
like the mp of hackney have said, they cannot turn back anyone needing medical help. it's the system that is faulty, not this woman.
a lot of other foreign nationals come here everyday to deliver kids and there's never been any outcry. it only got serious because this woman is nigerian(scapegoats) and the number of the babies she delivered.

debosky:
This woman has allegedly signed a five figure deal with a red top newspaper:

Not only did she abuse the system, she is now seeking to profit from her abuse of the system.

my friend, sharrrrrrrap!

how did she abuse the system?

buzugee:
ok how about things like solar power ? naija is the hottest country around. thats tonnes of energy that could be harnessed so that we can have 24 7 electricity, right ? why not come up with stuff to make nigerians lives easier ? what exactly is manufactured in nigeria again sef ? nothing

there has to be an enabling environment for solar power and wind-energy to thrive. as it stands, we do not have those. . . . .a lot of smart people have come up with different ideas only for your govt to frustrate their efforts by charging them back to stone-age with ridiculous taxes and licensing.

buzugee:
wind-up ? nah mate this is the dogs bollocks

your govt is the real mccoy! the most useless set of politicians since the earth was created.

debosky:
Besides, the efforts of Nigerian engineers go largely unnoticed. Without their ingenuity and creativity, power stations like Egbin and Kainji would have been out of operation. It is a minor miracle that our engineers have kept them running despite meagre/non-existent maintenance and parts.

it's the fault of the nigerian government. they are utterly useless. . . . .no solid policy on ground for nigerians to manufacture their own stuffs and when these nigerian kids travel abroad, they become instant hotcakes in the market. hardly would you go to engineering companies in europe and you won't find chartered engineers that are nigerians there. . . . .doing great things for the white folks.

buzugee:
all the engineers and petroleun engineers we have in nigeria and they cannot refine crude oil and neither can they build oil rigs. what exactly do nigerian engineers learn in school apart from how to balance moinmoin on top of eko so that it does not fall down ?

this has to be a wind-up.

Mai Suya:
fa fa fa fowl! where you get that kin number from? 50%??

for the guys, its possible, but for the ladies, I don't think it will be more than 20%.

Most parents usually pay more attention to the needs of their female wards precisely for this reason.

by giving them 5000 naira per semester?

StarBoard:
We are still waiting for his predictions. . .

i expect him to be more optimistic this term. . . . .
fufuface has moved to manchester - hoping he would tap some luck from the european capital of trophies and transfer to arsenal.

wegga:
This is purely academic, but a recent survey showed dat more STIs are contracted from 'lovers' at a higher than from CSWs,
Go figure,

the truth and nothing but the truth. pros[i]t[/i]itutes know how to take care of themselves more than the normal girls who are naive, uninformed, etc.

upendo 98:
@coogar.

my final word to u lol
I knw your conscience says its not justified but u just want to stir us up and make us angry.

it is very justified. . . . .do you stay in nigeria at all? have you ever stayed there? if all these answers are yes then you amaze me in leaps and bounds.

almost 50% of the girls you see in tertiary institutions these days fend for themselves. the parents only give them little or no support and you expect these young women not to seek other means to get by? in developed countries, it's normal for 16 yr-olds who just left high schools to work the shelves @ departmental stores, libraries or even work in the post offices to sort mails. it's non-existent in nigeria. teenagers don't work in nigeria and when they get their admission letters, they are given scraps by the parents who really don't have enough to give. . . .how do you expect these girls to get by in the uni with no student-loans or grants from the government?

i can guarantee you prosti[i]t[/i]ution will not be a sin for nigerian women in heaven.

wegga:
I'm your biggest fan!! lmao, ROTF, 

deluxecad:
Prostitution can never be justified no matter the circumstances that led to it.

People should make a legitimate effort, God will honor it and bless them.

why not walk in their shoes first before saying it can never be justified?

Delafruita:
There isn't and can never be a justification for prostituition.these girls paint pictures of their situation been so pathetic and so they had no option but to hawk thei bodies whether as a pro,aristo or whatever name they call themselves.if a man is a situation in which there seems to be no escape route,unfortunately he has no pucee to hawk,is he justified to use one of his kids for rituals with the excuse that at least he'd have money to take care of the remaining?is he justified to steal,defraud and do other stuff desperate men do?prostituition is punishable by law and is as much a crime as armed robbery.these girls are just lazy and desperate.i do agree that there are circumstances that could be so dire that the temptation to seek shortcut might arise,and a person without the tenacity and persevearance to withstand such situation might succumb to the temptation,but  person who sees beyond the present would rather see such experience as a lesson in the school of life and figure out how to move ahead

so you are equating stealing, murder, etc to prostituting? how old are you? in developed countries, prostituting is a big profession with licenses so stop talking nonsense. violent crimes such as murder, robbery and ra[i]p[/i]e is not the same thing as prostituting. if you don't have anything to hawk as a man, offer your arse to mallams and abokis. there's a demand for your rectum up north.

duduspace:
Not sure about this recent rumor but if its from John Cross, then there is likely some truth in it, the degree to which the media has twisted it though should rightly be questioned. There has always been a rumor around those in the know at the emirates that Diaby's leg never really fully healed after the horrible tackle he suffered in the 06/07 season and that he's never been able to play for a consistently long period without some complaint flaring up on his ankle hence the reason for his frequent visit to the Physios and the reason for his furious reaction to Barton's tackle at the time as well as Arsene's disgust at Shawcross's tackle on Ramsey.
It is one of the reasons why I think Wenger is going for Ricky Alvarez as competition/Backup possibly with Ramsey also coming into the frame. If any of Cesc or Nasri leaves we should rightly expect like for like replacements.

fufuface, what's your prediction for next season? you have told us time n time again the arsenal model is the best and that wenger's young uns are about to mature and chase the money-bags out of the top spot. is that plan still in progress or were you just telling porkies?

tom28:
Prostitution is one of the oldest professions in the world and it cant be justified and neither can it be condemned.Its a necessary evil needed to keep the World going.

why shouldn't it be justified? if a woman feels the only way she can bring food to her table is by charging men for s[i]e[/i]x - then so be it! it's her body, it's her choice and it's perfectly legal.

upendo 98:
Coogar it dont matter. If I met a bunny pro I will tell her to get her butt out of the ranch and go gt her hands dirty and her mind busy doing something more productive. Same to the 'runt' in lagos.

joker!!!

Forget the money.Theres not much diffrence btwn the Beverly greedy/lazy gf and the Lagos greedy/lazy gf.
Difference is location.But the effect felt by dudes on both ends is the same.

the effect felt by dudes on both ends ain't the same - the techniques deployed by women vary from person to person.

^^

lmao

upendo 98:
Okay so in lagos streets u have small people with stunted growth?
Then they are far much better.
You know the answer but your avoiding to say it!

what answer are we talking about here? the ones in vegas are top class whilst the ones in lagos are doing it just to be able to afford 2 square meals.

upendo 98:
^^ jeez
okay i simply wanted to know the name u give to the easter bunnies in vegas and the lagos backstreet bunnies

the bunnies in vegas - hi-class hookers
the bunnies in lagos - runts!

upendo 98:
^^^
Argh!

You are giving me a headache!
I wanted to retire but u keep drawing me back wth your answers!!
So what do u call them both?

i dunno what to call them both - all i know is one charges $$$ for the services she renders directly and the other charges for the services she renders indirectly(in the name of love, affection, etc).

iyatrustee:
the truth is how many of them ever graduate to the level of $1,000? most of them contend with barely getting along.

maybe few, maybe more. . . .

upendo 98:
@coogar.

If I stole in Beverly hills and another like me stole in the ghetto, does that make me a refined or lesser thief?
Dont u think we are both thieves and same punishment will apply to both of us if caught?
The million dollar pro and the ghetto pro share one thing in common. The Act.

if you stole in beverly hills, you will be arrested without any harm coming to you. if you stole in the ghetto, you could be shot dead or physically assaulted by the angry mob. . . .of course, there's a difference.

the million dollar pro is also different to the ghetto pro. . . . the million dollar pro has the resources to take care of herself, doing constant blood tests so she doesn't infect her clients. . . . the ghetto pro is a walking infection site - a major threat to manhood. as per the act, it is not different to what regular girls or college students do from time to time.

UKmugs:
I think your government should do something about Nigerians in the UK.  In one day we have two news items, front page of The Sun online, one conman and a health tourist.   Why is it any time one reads about Nigerians it all about crime or fleecing an individual or the host countries' tax payer?



http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/

what an asswipe!

iyatrustee:
i personally see people that go into prostit.tution as people who intimate urge cannot be satisfied. i say this becos from the way people talk about pros, you would find out that they dont really earn much. there is a place in abuja that they say with as little as N500, you can get anybabe of your taste. no how much does that translate into in a month considering the fact that you have to maintain the body and wear clothes to be in business. my final say, its just an habbit that they realise they can make money from.

there are different classes of pro[i]s[/i]titutes. . . . .the ones with 500 naira are the scums/dirts of the earth. . . .some are actually privately-educated and earn as much as £1000 per session.