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dayokanu: @Ileoba

Have you considered that EVERY HUMAN man or woman every decision we make is as a result of the enviroment, the culture, the religion that shapes what we like or dont like?

if a human was born in the forest and raised by animals he would also think there is no need for marriage to be attached to any individual just cop an errection and shagg anyone including your parents like animals do

So women who grew up in Monogamous society majority would tend Monogamy, Those who grew up in Polygamy would tend to not find anything bad with Polygamy

Afam4eva: Lol

The thread has been derailed beyond redemption. London people are funny sha. Hobnobbing in a dirty thread as this.

toshmann: Abomination no be small. Everytime I jam hard luck in life I remember her, but anyway I don overcome that feeling. She's doing good now with her husband and she's got great kids and a wonderful family. So whatever it was, baba nke bi n'igwe musta forgiven by now bc if heaven were to punish, na she, wey deliberately sleep with me, hiding the fact that he is married, na she heaven for punish first.

ileobatojo: I would be practicing Islam and polygamy. Your point? What has that got to do with the question I asked?

You know this because? You speak for all women in the world?

Once again, the above proves you do not comprehend my question. Please have a seat and let the people who do answer.

AjanleKoko: I thought I politely offered to kick your teeth in, or crush your metacarpals. I typed it with the utmost respect for your person

Okay, lemme try again with a stiff upper lip :

My dear Mr coogar, with all due respect, i intend to restructure your dentition, possibly permanently, utilizing my capped durable footwear, at any time of meeting that is to your satisfaction. If that is not desirable, might I humbly suggest a more reasonable alternative where I temporaily dislocate your metacarpals, providing you with the opportunity of a long furlough from the keyboard

Policewoman: Married people who flirt on BBM and exchange nude pixes are equally guilty of the crime

ileobatojo: And where did I say I don't want to accept the women who choose it because of their religion?

As to your first paragraph, please focus on my actual question, not on the strawman you are trying to build around it. Put monogamy and polygamy side by side. Ask which one a woman is naturally inclined to pick (based on her human nature, self desire etc). Analyze results.

ileobatojo: Lmao!! That's Coogar for you, he specializes in supplying evidence that defeat his own arguments. Lol!

I saw that documentary on TV years ago. The first wife of one of the interviewed families, who initially didn't want to partake in the documentary, did confess to feeling resentment and bitterness toward her husband for taking other wives.

Mormon women just like muslim women have had to accept (the possibility of) polygamy. It doesn't mean they are happy with it.
I have a muslim friend whose mother has threatened to cut off from any of her sons who takes more than one wife, having been in a polygamous marriage herself. On the outside, all the wives and children appear to be happy.

You still haven't provided me with reasons why a polygamous family would be "happy" and why a woman would be "happy" sharing her husband, his time and resources with another woman (and her children)

babyosisi: From the way you are supporting this,I suspect you are from a polygamous home.
It is quite common in your area
Are you?

AjanleKoko: Ironic that it's our 'well-trained' foreign Naijas that are showing skin here

dademola: u obviously didnt read my post well. For d 2nd time, i used "depend" on. Did spain "depend on" torres?? D torress u're even talking about, can his scoring record for spain be compared to welbeck's scoring record for england??d writer of dt article cld av even butressed his point by talking about welbeck's poor goalscoring record for england too, so as to further cast doubts on england's chances at d mundial. didnt spain even appear to disregard der striking department as a whole??hw many teams in d world can do dt?? Maybe u shud read my post again.

dademola: lololol. I saw dis comparism coming.if u read my post well, i used d phrase "depend on".d spanish team is knwn to rely so much on a midfield dt consist of atleast 5 of d best players in d world(frm d defensive aspect to d attacking side of mf). Or do u want me to start reeling off names?? Do i even need to?? No be mickey mouse players like cleverley and wilshere dey dt midfield oo. Abi u don 4gt ni?? To be honest with ourselves, isnt it common knowledge, dt even if del bosque himself plays as spain's no 9, d team wld still be a force to reckon with??..or hav u forgotton dt it was still dis spanish team dt deployed fabregas as a lone striker, depite having d likes of negredo and lorrente on d bench(these guys didnt hav d abysmal record of 2 goals in 38 games oo). Hw many teams can try it??

ileobatojo: Did you read her reason for going into a polygamous marriage? It's because she believes doing so will make her a god/goddess in the next life. She settled for it because she put her religion above her own personal/humanly desires. It's not contrary to my question.

I'm asking for women who want polygamy without any other external influence like religion, desperation, poverty, hunger, culture etc. No settling for it. They just want it more than monogamy.

ileobatojo: Your example is a good case for going into polygamy due to religious shackles. She said in the end, her religious convictions won, she was raised in that religion and she did it purely for her religion not because that is her primary desire for married life. She basically sacrificed her own desires for her religion... Next!

ileobatojo: I was not referring to women who had no say in the matter and were forced by religious and cultural shackles to be in polygamous marriages.

I'm talking about now. If you say there are sane women who desire to share their husbands as their number 1 marital preference, I want to hear from them. Let them come and tell us their story themselves.

ileobatojo: Abeg Osisi, sorry for derailing your thread jare.

Back to topic, please I want to know, is there any sane woman who desires polygamy? Is there anyone out there who it is their first choice? Is it any woman's best case scenario? Can a woman be in a polygamous marriage without feeling that she is managing/making the most of the situation?

If you are a woman and you desire polygamy, can you share with us what your primary mental condition is called?

dademola: wot proof do u hav dt if welbeck plays centrally, he wld score?? Has welbeck ever cut across to u as a goalscorer?? Wot r his goalscoring records with d 3 lions, and even wen he was on loan at sunderland?? Okay, u talk of dem ronaldo and messi not being able to help der countires, despite der impressive club form. Ts a valid point. Bt i wanna ask u; hw many successful countries depend on strikers with poor goalscoring stats like welbeck's??

babyosisi: Another Ist hand account
Thanks for sharing

I hope Coogar is reading

jennykadry: Tell me about these places coogar,...,,

honey86: Were you from a polygamous home?. If you are not, then you know nothing about it.

My dad married 2 wives and unfortunately my mum is the second. I said unfortunately because I know the kind of issues we've had over the years. From trying to kill my siblings and I, calling my mum a witch and even till this day they are still plotting on how to send my mum packing. your point about money is far from it. I'm from a rich home with a lot of money to go around but there is still strife and hatred. Polygamy is no fun, eni to kan Lo mo.

jennykadry: Offtopic

Hubby is trying to convince me to travel to the states with him for vac. Osisi and sisi, which state is the best to visit?

bellong: I prefer the polygamous home with the 3 happy wives as they were as a child. But for me, I can't practise polygamy [/b]because I do not have that skill to make two women happy at the same time without jeopardising the interest of the other.[/b] There will always be preference. However, my dad was able to do that for the first three wives before he met his waterloo.

bukatyne: Can you quote any of my post that was a bias against other religious groups?

bukatyne: I like to base my discussion on a common ground. For example, a Christian and Muslim cannot agree on polygamy or the definition of marriage. The Bible treats marriage as a covenant; Muslims treat it as a contract

ileobatojo: It's all the same thing.

#juju tinz

By the way, when are you coming to update the juju that allows you to 'perform' at night. Don't forget the one I gave you before will soon expire o!

jennykadry: I guess there are happy polygamous homes. I remember as a kid we had this neighbor who was married to two women, these women loved each other like sisters. You dare not come in between them. Even their own siblings could not bring rivalry and jealousy into their home

ileobatojo: Well, I always suspected the only way you could get women was through juju.

armyofone: so funny of you coogar but since 2005. That's a very long time when he is not in Afghanistan to wait for your husband now, don't you think so?