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greatgod2012: Coogar, you are a liar, you aint a polygamist.

ask ileoba....
she provided the juju i used to dazzle 4 women to marry me.

bukatyne: Are you a Christian?

why are you asking me this?

bukatyne: Polygamy defeats the very purpose of marriage

yet another expression of religious/cultural prejudice!

armyofone: Wait, are you polygamous?

4 sexy alhajas without burqa!
armygirl - life hasn't been so good. if i sneeze, there are 3 women running around to get me kleenex. i eat some of the most exotic foods in the world - competition brings out the best in women. i cannot remember the last time i came home and finding any of my wives dressing shabbily....

if i were you, i would get a sex change!

greatgod2012: cougar! You are a liar, even, if islam approves polygamy, very many of these muslim women are not happy with their men for having additional wives, only that, they cant really fight for it, because of their religion, and even at that, many muslim women have refused to continue living with the man, once he has another wife/wives.
May God help us all.

i'd refer you to this thread to see the responses of the true muslim ladies.....

https://www.nairaland.com/792568/muslim-women-polygamy-tolerate-2nd

greatgod2012: and a true muslim must know how to treat them all equally. Cougar, as a human being, is it possible to treat the wives equally in ALL ASPECT of the marriage.

it's possible!
very very possible - human management skills would trigger in the marriage. fair play across the board and mutual respect must be the tenet of such marriages. if men can manage people at work, they would manage wives at home.

Is it possible? Be sincere. Are you sure there wont be preference or favouritism when dealing with the wives.And that is why a very true muslim will not even dare it.

it's possible cos i have seen it done in that same lagos.

What about the children, can he like, treat and care for all of them equally, regardless of who the mother is?

are you saying a father of 7 children in a monogamous setting might find it difficult treating them equally?

armyofone: Not fair at all. How can a guy with only one thing enjoys four things?
how do they have the strength to do it? I think it is stressful for them.

I think men that marry more than one wife or sleep with someone outside marriage are just greedy.

and you know it's stressful for polygamous men because you have a dangling 3rd leg between your thighs?david, abraham, jacob, moses are all greedy, aren't they?

armybabe, a woman of one thing can also enjoy 12 things. if you don't believe me, ask the pröstitutes @ kuramo beach.

greatgod2012: cougar! You are a liar, even, if islam approves polygamy, very many of these muslim women are not happy with their men for having additional wives, only that, they cant really fight for it, because of their religion, and even at that, many muslim women have refused to continue living with the man, once he has another wife/wives.
May God help us all.

a true muslim lady must accept the possibility of her husband marrying more than one wife. it's in the holy quaran. the ones that are not happy are fake muslims or not really deep in the religion.

biolabee: i used to think so,,. but as said by and chick-poster onila [s](surprised to see she actually posts other than chicks and virginity stuff), [/s]women dont do good in an enclosed space
They fight and scratch
In Afrika, they go diabolical...

this is because we are generally backwards in africa!! what is it that does not go the diabolical way in africa? football? politics? seeking employment? wealth creation? in short name one industry in africa you won't find diabolical practises? some churches even use charms to drive congregation to worship.

Polygamy breeds mistrust and a man could lose his children due to infighting and jealousy
my own is how does this gel with feminism

it then begs the question - how come monogamous marriages have a much more higher divorce rate than polygamous. i have been to UAE/qatar/jordan - the people there are mostly polygamous and we don't get to hear of homicide or climbing divorce rates in those places.

greatgod2012: i am from a polygamous home, my dad had 3 wives, and even though, the wives pretends to be happy with one another, but they never really are, based on what each mother told/tell their children.
I wouldnt want to go into too much details here, you know we have diverse people here, and who knows, whether one or more of my half siblings are Nairalanders, but i still maintain my point, they may be pretending to be happy, but no real happiness in polygamous homes......mark the word......REAL. IT MEANS THERE MAY BE FAKE HAPPINESS, BUT NOT REAL HAPPINESS.
May God help us all.

it's all in the head.....
far majority of divorces are from monogamous homes - so who are we fooling? if you have a man and a wife at home too, they would fight and say horrible stuff to each other. wives pretending to be happy is a moot point - humans are generally insatiable!

i really commend your dad - 3 wives are better than 2. actually any number is better than 2. it's only when one woman feels left out that danger is imminent. when there are more than one wife feeling left out, things are generally better.

biolabee: I want to agree with the bolded but from commens of NL ladies who are supposedly empowered and are earning their own income, they still can't stomach sharing their man

Why is this so

religion has a big part to play in that. muslim ladies don't have any gripe with their husbands having more than one wife.

Mod412: @Cooger, Do you stay in abuja?

UK!

greatgod2012: No, there is no happy polygamous home, they may be pretending to be happy, but, there is no real , i mean REAL happiness in polygamous home.
May God help us all.

#talking from experience.

there are happy polygamous homes.....
it's only when there's no money you see strife and raw anger. i used to have an asian boss with 4 wives. the wives work as a team with mutual respect. they even go camping with the kids of the other wives for days!

babyosisi: Do you think that girl would have married him if she knew it will take 10 years of being without a husband while he straightens his immigration mess aka divorces his wife here
No girl would do that
That is the deception therein
The men don't tell the true picture and the women are sold a lie
She is stuck
By the time she comes over if she does,she will have child support payments to contend with after the shock that the man already has a 15 year old heir .

you surely don't know nigerian women....

it goes like this - ade and chinyere have been dating since their university days. ade is about 5 years olde. after graduation, ade bolts to the usa/uk to seek greener pastures with the promise of coming back to marry chinyere.

ade gets to america to find out life is not really a bed of roses but things are generally better than going back home to electricity problems and armed robbers. he's at crossroads - marry a white woman asap or wait for the naturalization process that takes several years....

chinyere is committed body/soul to ade - she's flaunted him for years and she cannot even dream of spending the rest of her life with someone else. she has vowed to stay as long as it takes. amebos like you and fine_ijay then assume there's a foulplay someway somehow......

Mod412: Looks like most people here are suffering from TMM, a very rare disorder in Nigeria called too much money.

Anyway, enough of the stories, anyone here willing to sell their ps3 console for a bargain price of 20-25k? No insults pls.

i have a 60GB ps3 console gathering dust in my loft. it's in a perfect condition but it's been bricked by PSN. you would never be able to play online. it can fly for 25k

[quote author=fyne_Ijay]I have one in my office. Married since 2005, the husband is in Ameerica but babe dey Naija. The worst of it all is that Bobo no dey even come home likee that not to talk of give am bellee.
The babe na ha achu menopause where in dey wait for guy man.[/quote]if his papers are yet to be sorted, he would not come home to his wife. i really don't understand you women. when nigerian men abandon their partners in nigeria to get married to white women, you call them cruel and heartless....

when nigerian men sweat it out to follow the legal process of naturalization, you blame them for abandoning their partners in nigeria. what exactly do you people want? has the woman in your office complained she's unhappy?

dademola: welbeck; 2 goals in 39 appearances last season!! Choi!! And na one of d playrs wey england go depend on for worldcup b dt oo. Choi!!!

welbeck played as a winger throughout the season, sturridge was injured/ transferred to a new club. rooney played in the hole. if he starts as a striker, 25+ league goals are guaranteed!

the article is the most idiotic article i have read in a while judging the strength of a national team based on the top scorers in different leagues. messi/ronaldo have scored more than 500 league goals combined - how has that helped argentina/portugal win the world cup?

it reminds me of 2002 world cup. henry, trezeguet and cisse were the top goalscorers in the leagues of england, italy and france respectively - france never got out of the group losing to senegal and denmark in the process.

someone should email the tool that wrote the article on my behalf - tell him coogar of NL said he's a consummate retärd!

babyosisi: I doubt it
I think the divorce rate is higher amongst Nigerians outside of Nigeria

it's higher in nigeria
majority are separated without any inkling that the marriage is doomed. abandoned wives are 5 for $2 in lagos.

dayokanu: All those clothes he is buying and sending to you are cheap materials from Walmart and Ross. Marry the ones you see in your locality.

Some people think its a status symbol to date an "abroadian" na suffering and gnashing of teeth dem package for you.

Unless you have a guy you have dated for long and he has concrete means of getting you here legally and able to work

You are on a Long thing

surely, some people must have ferried their brides from nigeria and are happy in their marriages. marrying within the premises does not guarantee happy married lives - it all boils down to individual differences....

the divorce rate amongst nigerians in nigeria is higher than the marriages propelled by love across the ocean. go to agege/ikeja magistrate courts and see couples who grew on the same street fighting like cats and dogs!

Sisi Eko: Came across this story and thought to share.

My name is Temi. I have a huge issue. I have been married for two years now. I dated my husband for 6years.

Now this should be a warning to folks out there planning on getting married...don't ignore the warning signs. Walk away from any relationship that brings u more pain than joy. It's not worth it.
I made that mistake and I am paying the price.

I ignored it all,stayed n went on to marry him....not hoping he would change but deceiving myself that I would cope (foolishness). Today I am dealing with infidelity,emotional abuse, extreme control, bitterness and a confused life.


What is my issue today.? He keeps threatening to leave with our kid. In the past one month he has said it countless times. Sometimes jokingly and sometimes in the heat of our quarrels. It has made me think a lot and its extremely disturbing. He makes statements like you would go out and come back to an empty house. Threatens to throw me out. This is actually a new development...I know there is way more to it but I am just so tired.

I am just so sad and Shame would never allow me discuss this with my family or friends because they all warned me not marry him but I was so in foolishness. I wrote this mail to alert ladies. Please do not ignore the warning signs.

whose fault is it if a woman blindly marries a wrong partner? this is medicine after death - it's like crying like a baby after missing the wrong exit on a highway!

nitlad: Siri can work on iPhone 4, but due to Apple's exploitative tendencies, they won't allow it, albeit officially though (Cydia! )

people don't take such risks abroad - replacement/insurance policy would be ruined when you jailbreak. mostly, only the users of stolen phones consider such stuff!

All Android updates are available OTA for supported devices, the choice to upgrade squarely rests with the owner! All them phone makers are scammers!

the choice to upgrade rests squarely on the phone manufacturers. most of these manufacturers cannot be bothered about the old devices - they want to sell their new products!

nitlad: SOURCE


So for all the hype about software support for older devices, turns out only a handful of new features of the new OS are coming to older devices Chief among these is the much lauded AirDrop that would be supported only on the iPhone 5 and top of the range iPads - Disappointing!

To fully enjoy the new OS in it's wholeness, you have to buy the latest iDevice!

These exploitative manufacturers just keep milking their sheeple fanboys dry with same old redundant shït!

but the old devices would still run on iOS 7. of course, you can't expect all the features of the new iOS to work with old devices. iPhone 4 runs on iOS 6 but it has no siri.

isn't this better than android users who cannot even run latest OSes on their phones, never mind features? there's a big difference. jellybean 4.2 has been out for 7 weeks now and only 4% of android phones use it.

93% of all iDevices are using iOS 6 that was launched less than a year ago. more than 65% of android users have never experienced the first jellybean upgrade that was released more than 2 years ago.

https://phandroid.s3.amazonaws.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/ios-android.png


really, fandroids are the ones getting scammed!

dayokanu: Show us the Penalties Robben has scored in his Bayern Champions League career that are more than 2.
Ribery has 42 starts Nani has 37 starts, Ribery has 11 goals and 21 assists, Nani has 3 goals and 11 assists
Robben has 24 starts and 12 goals 6 assists

you are not using your brain - how many games has nani started from the bench in europe? how many has robben: ribery in europe?

So how does nani compare.
Check the minutes played by each to see where nani stands. No wonder he doesnt start CL final games

i remember robben scoring against madrid in the penultimate season and at least he's scored twice against 2 italian clubs(fioretina and one other) - for a reason my iphone is returning an error page from my stats site where i can access UCL pen stats!

dayokanu: Robben has scored 2 Penalties in the Champions League for Bayern

Ribery has scored 1 penalty for Bayern Munich in the Champions league

Any more question?

robben has scored more than 2 CL penalties, likewise ribery and ribery has made 42 CL starts in 44 apps. these 2 bayern wingers get more starts than nani's checkered-start pattern!

dayokanu: Of those 48 games Nani started in 37 of them

Champions League

Nani in Man Utd 3200minutes 3 goals 11 assists
Ribery in Bayern 3472 minutes 11 goals 21 assists
Robben in Bayern 2246minutes 12 goals 6 assists

Any more questions?

how many half a dozen spot-kicks have the bayern wingers scored in that period and how many starts in that period?

dayokanu: Champions league
Nani for Manchester United 48 games 3 goals 11 assists

Ribery for Bayern Munich 43 games 11 goals 21 assists

Robben for Bayern Munich 29 games 12 goals 6 assists
Stats dont lie

stüpid stats.....
yes, let's compare nani to robben/ribery(notorious penalty takers for bayern). then lets compare nani who has more cameo appearances than starts to robben/ribery that had more time on the pitch to contribute....

the minutes on the pitch would tell a different story. i can bet 80% of those 48 appearances in europe were cameo appearances of 5-10 mins.

12/13
263 mins - nani
733 mins - robben
845 mins - ribery

11/12
403 mins - nani
668 mins - robben
1021 mins - ribery

i don't even need to plumb deeper as the further down i go, the more the margin of time spent on the pitch in europe gets wider. only fools hang on to "appearances", the smart people look at the minute spent!

phoinix: Come on, you know it, you wish you're white, what a shame!
Keep kissing white ar..se, someday you'll realize they don't care about you.

you are a tool!
if you have nothing sensible to say, why don't you tape it shut instead of the self-delusion that you have me figured out?

[quote author=Lord_Reed]And you need a lesson in english. Go back and see the post you made about Samsung not having its own OS.[/quote]they don't have one if its not out yet!
go and learn to comprehend simple english.

[quote author=Lord_Reed]Gosh! Look who is talking about knowledge when you don't even know that Samsung has high end WP8 powered smartphones neither do you know that Samsung has been developing it's own mobile os. SMH for you.[/quote]see this dude.....
they are still developing their own mobile OS? lord_reed is still aspiring to become a president so we can compare you to obama? where's the comparison between a functional iOS that has sold millions and the OS that is still in the development phase?

i think you need blood tonic!

phoinix: You like white people don't you? Too bad u black, you will never be one of them, just so you know.

shut up, you anorexic coyote!
how did you conclude that from the comment i made? do you see what others can't? are you bi-polar or demented?

[quote author=tpia@]Are you his houseboy?[/quote]tpia@ my wifey, don't let locally-trained nigerian graduates rile you up. the obnoxious charlatans have a thing or two to learn about common curtesy!

elampiro: In my opinion he was poor. I didn't enjoy his game. May be because I have a high expectation of him. But I believe Nani can do wonders, it is unfortunate we have the three of them at same time- Nani, Valencia and Young. Rotation can affect players.

i think nani was hampered by injuries and he was our best player against madrid till he got sent off. on nani's day, he's unplayable!

[quote author=ShyM-X]However, "their days" were also over when former president executed all the crude boko haramites and their leader in the same Borno. But we all know what happened after that.

With the publicity they have given those blood su.cking vampires - I won't be surprised if they come back more sophisticated and unleash worse terrors in the nearest future. And now that the international community is involved - it's going to get scarier, to be honest. I can bet my last ps on it that some intelligence agencies are probably working covertly with them now(that's if they weren't doing that in the past).[/quote]state of emergency has never been declared cos of BH in the past. it was basically the state government playing checkers with BH. this operation is quite different and it's the reason it was successful!

shymexx, give up....BH lost!

[quote author=ShyM-X]Bruv., it's reminiscent of George Bush's "2003 Mission Accomplished speech" in Iraq.

We all know what happened after that.
Time will tell. [/quote]time has told already!
boko haram are done and dusted in borno. they might emerge in ebonyi tomorrow but their days in the sun are finally over in borno state!

@ elampiro,

1 goal, 3 assists in 7 league starts? very poor??
sometimes you make me want to stomp on you!!! was nani poor or injury kept him from playing last season?

sirbuddy: Cultism is perhaps one of the greatest problems confronting our tertiary institutions today in Nigeria. In recent years, this plague has assumed a frightening and deadly dimension. its spread to secondary (and even primary) schools in the country is enough to give every caring parent a cause to lose sleep.

The term "cult" has been defined somewhere as "a group of people engaged in a form of ritual usually under oath, binding the members to a common cause". Such group of individuals operate covertly in furtherance of their objective which is usually detrimental to the interest of others.

Infact, a cult is a group of people which places a secondary need in the position of a primary need. In other words, any group of people that places emphasis on secret initiation or rituals for the purpose of group-help, group protection but whose activities are clandestine in nature is a cult.

One major problem is the lack of proper moral education by the parents which contributes largely to the quality of products turned over to the universities by primary and secondary schools. Universities are for men and women of quality. It is an institute for learning and character.

Who or how can we stop this cultism plague

why should cultism be banned?
one man's food is another man's poison - nigeria is a secular state so every religious belief is welcome as long as they don't commit crime while practising it.

thelastPope: Intriguing Stuff!!!

Watch Video

What the enemies of Nigeria will never want you to watch!

someone should show this clip to shymexx....
i remember him saying boko haram can't be reached as they are ghosts!