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kambo: And education is morally transforming right?

They're many educated prostitutes and so on. very educated. Vice is perpetrated by all in all strata of society. Education makes you a better person!! - watch the film "chasing maddock"
the man who orchestrated the financial collapse in the U.S that spread its ripple effect globally.
wasnt he educated?!
As for the education thing, what about rich dropouts who jettisoned school?!
Education , with an evil mind only creates smarter miscreants.
They're chemist creating designer steriods and dope - aint they educated?
nuclear bomb facilities in North korea made by illiterates?
Enron and financial scandals in corporate world orchestrated by dunces!

At teenage hood most people are trying to meet the status quo and gain an identity.
guys want to prove themselves to their friends - that they can get a girl, smoke ,drink -
in later years they may see it all as foolishness , some may even become experts at it,
and become addicted chronic practitioners but the parents should know this - they themselves passed thru this phases -
Not throw threats of disowment at the child.

delors: ...And Mr Gorilla, when I said 'advised to withdraw', unless you have never been to a higher institution, it means rusticated! Getting rusticated after 3years (+ x) in a renowned university studying one of the topmost courses, you should understand what that means. A mother could have a heart attack for that and a father could weep because of that...So wake up from you deep slumber. You must have missed your bus, better take you back to school toddler.

elampiro: We need to sell some players. United has too many average players who are being expected to mature or click. Unfortunately, they may never click and it will be their best interest to go to places they can be valued more and develop their talents. It's such a full house needing a shape.

ileobatojo: That's purely a dream....Which by the way, will never come true!

It doesn't equate to it. It also doesn't exclude it.

Olodo! So what you're saying is, the desire to have one child equates to a huge libido, or even any kind of libido at all? Forget libido, does it equate to sexual attraction? Or attraction to the opposite sex, period? What does it take to have one child? Does it take more than keeping it up for 1 minute? So according to you, the fact that he has one child makes him a raging sex addict? Lawd help me!

It's contradictory only to those who have refused to use their God given brain cells!

ileobatojo: Rotfl!

Ok genius, I know it's not easy for you to understand deep concepts such as these but wanting a child does not equate to being interested in sex.

The sex could just be a necessary means to an end. For a real life example, see Michael Jackson.

Tammy13: My husband and I have been married for a year. We have a 2 year old son. He recently cheated with his previous child's mother. Before we got together, she left him but I believe all this time he still has feelings for her. Recently I found out they created a plan for him to leave me to go be with her. But this whole time when he comes home he acts like he wants to work on our marriage. There are other times, though, when he acts mean and I wonder if he is pushing me to divorce him.

Why wont he just leave me to be with her, if thats what he wants? Is he staying with me out of guilt?

Does he think he wants to be with her but just "wants what he cant have", so he like the thrill and chase of going back to his ex? And so she cant be with anyone else either?

Lastly, if i decide to stay with him, how can i make him only want me and not want to cheat?

delors: Fredddddy Coogar! You keep surprising me with the way you write some times. I merely pointed out why it isnt ideal to disown a child because of his/her waywardness in the early age, and booom! na to insult n yab u fit do. Brainless. My analogies are on point. Those guys I mentioned were wayward in their early years and I have seen worse. Students dropping out of school because of their waywardness, yet their parents never disown or ship their a%% to any gitmo. Stop talking trash bro. Address the point.

I know a friend, female, my course mate back then, she was always rocking parties, smoking anything, jumping on anything erect. Eventually, she was advised to withdraw in 300L. Her parents enrolled her at a private school after wards, now, a graduate n masters holder, married n doing just fine. If her father/mother had shipped her b*tt to a gitmo (as u would have done) or disowned her, she probably wouldnt be working as an economist in a cool firm now.
Think with your brain, not ur a$$. (count the words again n tell me it makes no sense )

elampiro: Even Barca has great results without Messi.

chrisley024: Without Rooney our attack lacks impact/result. Only beautiful futball wit notin 2 show 4 it.

delors: Evidently, you are still a teenager or in your early 20s. Only a bachelor with self-acclaimed righteousness would spit the way you just did.

For one ... Show me a parent, no matter their current position, who didn't go through this stage. even pastor Adeboye was still hitting the bottles in his 30s before he met God. You already know Pastor Chris Okotie's case right? Pastor Jide Ituah Ighalo, one of my favs, was a chronic womaniser before he met God. Obama admitted to using syringe in his late teens and early 20s. Your leaders in Naija did all these things in their prime years. Ask from those motivational speakers who encourage youth to live godly lives now, they went through this stage. The VC of my alma mater, a genuine born again, a very humble man, discussed with us how his life was before he became born again -'skunk, scooby doo and booze'. Just two weeks ago, a Jamaican pastor in my church, surprisingly preached on accepting God and he cited his own life...even after marriage, he was still seriously womanising and rolling 'igbo'...
Now tell me, Mr freddy Coogar, if all these guys were disowned by their parents then because of these things, how many of them would have become great today? Parents don't reason the way young boys do, especially mothers. what I put my own mother through, trust me, I can't even say it...but she bore it all...now, she is the happiest woman I know of. If she had disowned me when i was doing all those stuffs, bros, life wouldnt be the same mehn.
So, no, disowning a child isnt ideal...and no man, regardless of the situation should disown his child(ren).

ileobatojo: And this part?

prettyirene: pls I need advice from matured minds, I have been married for nine years and I have not felt any form of a beautiful conjugal relationship. Right from the first day I practically beg my hubby to sleep with me and it's becoming frustrating, I am from a Good christain home and due to this I don't want to commit adultery, my hubby is making things to difficult for me, first he said he wanted one child I thought it was a joke till I gave birth to my first son and he said that was it. I had to trick him to getting another one now I'm stuck with just two boys he doesn't even want to consider having a female child, then as the only son he allows his parents call the shot in our home. I am honestly tired, I am just 32yrs of age petite and attractive I go out and meet other guys but won't want to have anything to do because I am married but in my home I'm starved for his responsiblity he hasn't touched me for close to two years. Is divorce the way out to this madness of so called marriage...

dayokanu: Berbatov Checkmate!!

dayokanu: Podolski is the Arsenal winger who scored 11 goals and 10 assists in his first season

Pappis is the striker who scored 13 EPL goals in his first 6 months

Afam4eva: Is that you on your profile? You're darn pretty too...It seems it runs in the family.

Hmmm, i don't know about having a glimpse just yet but we can start somewhere...lol

obiajurum25: I just watched the video now,well some ladies can be funny.If her parents should see the video what will she say.But Iyanya handled it in a matured way.

greatgod2012: Now, my question is, is this right? Arent other better ways to go about this than disowning the boy? Can such decision have any effect(negative or positive) on the boy? Can anyone here do the same?
Lets discuss and learn. So, over to you, hopefully, many may likely benefit from this thread.
Thanks in anticipation and may God help all parents.

Feed me more:
Coogar, you are too funny.

Feed me more: Heaven will surely help her
Afam seems like a good guy who will take good care of a lady, i just have that feeling. I don't know why.

Feed me more: Good then...
So, would you like if i hook you up with my sis?

Feed me more: I'll gladly give him (Afam) to my Sis, she is looking for a husband. I don't know if Afam wants to live in the U.S though, and if he is already married or not.

Afam4eva: he mastered the art in England. I remember when he was saying he wanted to play in England. I guess he wanted to play in the home of vampires.

Feed me more:
Yeah, I can cook if he wants me to...i'll cook ofe onugbu, ofe nsala and i'll pound yam for him

Hope the ingredients can be found in London?

Afam4eva: Was it in Uruguay or in England that Suarez re-enacted a scene from Twilight? They say, when you're in Rome behave like the Romans.

Afam4eva: I guess you live in America then. That's even worse because London people worship anyone from America. Once you tell them you're from yankee, they'll virtually lick the ground you work on. A lot of Nigerians in London are looking for a way to escape to yankee but it's really difficult, so i'm surprised you're doing the vice-versa. Just remember to hold your purse very tight sha.

Afam4eva: Do you know Clifford Orji lived in London briefly? I was wondering where he got the enormous teeth to be chopping human flesh and then i remembered a certain footballer called Suarez who have mastered the art of eating human flesh in England. What's it with British people and human flesh.

Afam4eva: Naija go better oo but at least we're miles ahead of Queensland where 10 year olds knife their schoolmates after school hours.

Afam4eva: There's a direct flight from Lagos to London. Just make sure your wallet is hidden when you arrive Heathrow. London Boys aint smiling.

adaobi123: Coogar........

Feed me more: I was thinking all this while that Afam live in the U.S. Never knew he is Naija.
Good one Afam, don't check out like 'Andrew', Nigeria go better.

Feed me more: Ada, tell me about Hackney, one London dude told me it's a leafy suburb of London.

Afam4eva: I'm surprised you spelt Squatting very well. You must be very conversant with that word. All i can say to you, is to keep hope alive. Where there's a will there's a way. Jesus is Lord.

Afam4eva: So, squatting with yahoo boys at age 35 is your own dream? Which kain dream be that? Pls aim higher abeg. The world is yours if you want it. Take it and be fulfilled. Jesus is still on the throne.

Afam4eva: The worst house in peckam would buy my entire village but it would have been great if you were living in that worst house. Did you miss where i said you were squatting with some yahoo boys in the interior of peckam? As long as Jesus is on the throne, you will make it to Nigeria and achieve your dreams.

Afam4eva: When are you coming back home? No be by force to stay for London.There's space in Nigeria for you. You can start from Mushin and hustle your way up to Banana island.

Feed me more: Coogar also live in Peckam? I though he live in Hackney. No?

Afam4eva: I think he's squatting with some Naija yahoo guys in the interiors of peckam. The lord will see us through

Afam4eva: Don't you have an organization in Peckam to join? Why CTU in the great US of A? You London people sha...