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MRbrownJAY: so let me get this straight: you sleep with her, eat with her, shiit around her (at least she can smell it), walk around her nekkid, mount her, probably put your mouth in all her intimate areaS, fart around her, burp around her....but then, if she ever takes a peep at your phone, you will call that action disrespectful?! pls care to tell me when/how this action could be considered disrespectful?

i think you are secretive and you'd rather your stuff be private, and that is understandable, but to say that the act is direspectful is way out of line. now, if you tell her to NEVER TOUCH YOUR PHONE even if she has to call for an emergency, then its ok but you do know that it makes you kinda weird, not her.

Ujujoan: Go rid yourself of your shadiness! Wetin concern agbero with overload?
I'll read and keep reading . . . nothing dey happen!

Ujujoan: I didn't know national secrets are stored in phone inbox. Now I know, I'll have to obtain written permissions before reading anyone's message!

MRbrownJAY: the point is/was: would you find it disrespectful if he did?

whether that person hides it OR doesnt not want you to read it etc, it is the same thing.
as much as I understand that there would be a clear lack of trust (aka problem) if your partner wants to CHECK your phone every time you get a text, i doubt it can be considered disrespectful if they simply have a glance at it once in a while.

afam4eva: I think my post is kinda similar to the topic of discussion so i thought i should post it.

Kobojunkie: Long before cell phones and passworded gadgets came into the picture, did people [size=13pt]HIDE [/size]things from each other? If you are hiding something from the one you have chosen to spend your life with and 'bare your soul to', what is the meaning of the union again?

ifyalways: Please, why would an iphone camera suddenly stop working and how can I rectify that ?

El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]Cooger this is in response to the Gestures u showed me some Minutes ago! [/color]

Ujujoan: Do you consider it dis-respectful if your wife/hubby/GF/BF/Fiancee/Fiance reads your new SMS before passing it on to you

El Guapo: ^^ [color=#0066ff]How bout takin' the Outdated Analysis to your Dugout Mate?[/color]

ritchboy: You're right, would you like a cookie?

14 goals in 18 months, nigga, i could divide!!

ritchboy: Go ahead!

Stop lying Coogar, it's more than 15m.

Of course you also have to consider the fact United have smashed Arsenal's record transfer fee like 15 times in that period alone.

ritchboy: I'm sure all the other top strikers in the league have scored at least one hat-trick in the last 18-24 months

RuuDie: Exactly!

ritchboy: How much is Welbeck on now? I'm sure Bendtner is a better footballer!

25-35m negligible?

RuuDie: Now, don't get it twisted. . .I still the dey vex for the a55hole with a passion; only DW19 matter tops my vexation as far as am concerned - but I just want you to see where some of this vitriol is coming from and I think this guy was able to highlight 'em relatively well!

I expected and still expect more than this from Nani. . .Don't get me wrong, he is fantastic player; I know he's got loads of skills, I've always thought he is a better footballing brain than CR7 - but why is it that I can't put my money on him delivering when it is crunch time!? Why doesn't he inspire any belief in me!!?

Thats why I would take a Walcott, Downing, Milner, Jarvis, Lennon, Young, Agbolahon, Pennant, Gervinho, Puncheon, Nzogbia - they are, at best, averagely equipped guys, no denying this. So the disapppointment isn't much if they cannot "perform miracles" - but from Nani, knowing his potential, I expect (demand) magic. . . and he is depriving me that just now. Another thing is time - how much more do we have to wait for him to deliver on the promise that his potential holds!? How much longer can the average fan who isn't head over heels in love with him wait!!?

He has delivered way below my expectations; probably for the better that he didn't get the #7 shirt, the increased weight of expectation might crank up the pressure a bit more and hurt rather than help him.

This is my pain, this is my annoyance!

4llerbuntu: Coogar, acording to your links at best arsenal made a profit of 60 million BECAUSE OF INCOME FROM PLAYER SALES.

without selling those players how much would this profit be?

now if arsenal were to pay these players man city type wages, how many of them would be earning close to 10 million PA?

if for example we paid van persie 250, song 150, walcott 120, cazorla 120, koscielny 130, sagna 120, et etc etc etc do you know that the wages of the first eleven would be more than the present overall wage bill for 30 squad players and youth teams?

add the wages of the remaining players.

are you now suggesting that arsenal should borrow money annually to pay wages? at least you can see the difference in income with say manutd. there is no oil well to spend from.

where also will the money to buy players come from since we have spent the entire profits, and even borrowed money to pay wages, borrow more money? where will the money to repay the loans come from?

i know you are taking the piss sha.

4llerbuntu: fact is, is even if the board and owners give up their profits and plough it into wages, arsenal still cannot pay players 250k p/w

the koko is the club needs to step up the revenue generation drastically. that is the crux of the problem. in the absence of a sugar daddy, that is the next step.

as for comparisons with clubs like tottenham, i hope you also realize those clubs are not repaying loans for their stadiums, dont have as much expenses as arsenal, do not have facilities as big and extensive as arsenal, do not have a setup as big as arsenal.

you keep citing gate takings, i guess you are unaware that a percentage of the gate takings go directly into the loans servicing? that stadium that you get the takings from will not get maintained?

i don't get, do you think the only thing the club spends money on is kicking football? are you aware of the medical project arsenal built in the last 4 years? the training facilities? the youth setup? the coaching, the scouts etc etc etc?your club has just started renovating carrington btw. its not free

arsenal has locked in commercial deals that are seriously cramping the club, but thats the price for the shiny new stadium and those gate takings you cite. even common shirt deals, the top 6 clubs in the prem earn more than arsenal from short deals

agiboma: cougar what you trying to say

agiboma: @ Op go and talk to your husband and forget about family section of nairaland, most of the posters here dont have god intentions for your family.

DailyNews: Everyone is here now counseling the op and blaming her believing all is well with their own marriage, relationship or date, nope! see, nemesis is real, karma is real, nature pays back every evil deed we do. most ladies now married were once jumping around town with aristo married me just to make money, wear flashy clothes, own flashy phones, go flashy places and wht have u. when they were students, they hardly stayed in their hostel, they were busy answering HOT CHICK, jumping from one city and top-rank hotel to another and enjoying the fun of spinsterhood, now they are married they now want men to be decent just because they are now married. you cannot eat you cake and have it, u can never win every battle of life; you win some and loose some, thats life. track back on your life when single, did you engage in indecency of such degree or any? this may be a pay back. for some good ladies who lived a good life and still get cheated by their hubby, you also need to look inwardly into your past life or that of your hubby before marriage. those men you as a single lady (not just the op, but to all ladies encountering similar thing), were they not somebody's husband? some girls will claim they never knew he was married, how would you not know when u have decided that the only men u want to go out with are men over 39, 40, etc just because of your selfish desire for money & material things, so u now want to believe that all men of that age bracket are single waiting for cindy like you, daydreamers, wake up! In summary, if you are a lady here reading this and shouting and thinking your own marriage or relationship is the best, then you are fooling yourself because you are just lucky that u haven't caught yours, pray u don't cos virtually 95% of financially able married men in Nigeria of today cheat on their wives, you know why? because the Nigerian girls from inception have taught Nigerian men to believe that money is equal to their love, no matter who you are. they have taught men to believe that so long as they have money, they can sleep with any girl of their choice in Nigeria with ease and thats what men grow up to believe even when they get married, they still want to exercise that freedom. Until Nigerian girls start to show less interest in men's money and material things and start to let men believe again that money cannot win them all girls they desire, this will become the order of the day, and more homes will be built on infidelity. So the re-orientation should start from the single ladies, change your ways now, don't think u can sleep around with men for money, job, favour, etc and then smartly walk your way into marriage and still enjoy a smooth home, never, expect a natural pay back, whether u turn to a sister-mother-mary born again plus or not, u must pay small...so start now to correct your mistakes so u don't end up in a deadly marriage, and deciding to stay single for life isn't the answer cos u will realize the demerits later in life. so ladies live a good life when u are single, stop being too desperate about money and fun, stop allowing peer-pressure to lure you into indecent lifestyle. stop following what friends are doing and be yourself cos when the nemesis comes, your friends may be no more!

linearity: His husband lies about his affairs even when caught red-handed, and you want her to bank on him telling the truth about wearing rubber every single time?...Moreso, the OP stated that..the first lady indicated that she have 'conceived'...whatever that means...if it is the general application in this type of subject, then it is obvious that the practical issues are still in play.... Sister, please go and have yourself checked for STDs & do not forget the AIDs test.

If you are still at a cross road of leaving him despite all that have happened, it means you are inclining on working things out with him, but if I were in your shoes and are even inclined on working things out and I oblige the option of intimacy with him... I will be insisting on rubber every single time he want to be intimate with me.

Pataki: LOL. You are really shooting yourself in foot man!

1. You are the person who mentioned Arsenal is no 4 richest club in Europe. The article stated that Arsenal is no 5. My earlier argument had been that we cannot compete with the likes of ManCity, ManU and Chelsea in terms of ridiculous salary structures. You thereafter went ahead to cite that article, and I proved my point further with the same article cited. Now, in trying to prove your point, you refer to the likes Tottenham, Liverpool, Newcastle and Sunderland. Pleaseeeeeee, all these clubs CONTINUALLY look at us higher up on the table even with some of the ridiculous salary payments that they have! They are a bunch of disgrace if they think paying ridiculous wages would ensure they rise to the quality and standard that Arsenal projects!

2. Abou Diaby is a fringe player? Shows the value of the article you are even citing!!!

Pataki: Thanks for the weblink, you just shot yourself in the foot with that link you displayed. Taking quotes from the article, would do further justice to my point of view. Here goes:

I further maintain my point, we do not have the financial capacity to compete with the ridiculous salary wages of some of these clubs. According to sources, Cazorla is the only Arsenal player on a £120,000 weekly salary pay. And that is the highest Arsenal can go for.

Pataki: Interesting to see how this discussion has gone thus far.
@ coogar,
You are obviously seeing the obvious, but obviously ignoring the fact. Arsenal DOES NOT have the financial strength on a long term basis to keep players on the ridiculous salary structures that ManU, ManCity, Chelsea pay some of their overrated players. This is the main trigger to which these players leave for other clubs. It has nothing to do with your so-called wack Wenger's man-management. If you choose not to accept that fact, fine.

maclatunji: What are the odds of that happening all the time? In fact half-the-time? If he is not-inhibited to have sex with another woman, what makes you feel he will feel inhibited about going for the real thing instead of the synthetic flavour?

Moreover, he has made these ladies regular partners, that increases the odds don't you think of wanting them raw?

All of these points are even irrelevant, the question is: Is she (OP) willing to take the chance; condom or no condom?

4llerbuntu: No arsenal cannot.

i dont understand why you are being revisionist about this. Thats 1 Million pounds per month, thats how much per annum? excluding bonuses which undoubtedly are tied to the basic salary anyway.

what are you smoking? you expect Arsenal, without a sugar daddy and without the financial income abilities of man utd to have a player on about 10 million pounds P.A. on its wage bill? money due whether he is injured or not? how much is our entire wage bill now for over 30 players?

i repeat, what are you smoking?

maclatunji: Your husband is sleeping with other women outside. You are his wife, that he has access to you in terms of intimacy goes without saying (95% of the time).

OP, have you heard of STDs and HIV/AIDS? Are you willing to risk your health for him knowing that he could transit some awful diseases to you? If your answer is no, what are you going to do about it?

I don't have time for sentimental issues today, I just thought I should bring this practical issues up for your attention.

BlueDiva: RVP already has his hatrick in just his 2nd game for United.
When the dud manages a goal we nor go hear word for this thread.
Talk about celebrating mediocrity.

debosky: Man management skills or £250k per week?

Money talks my friend! If Wenger could pay wages like that, most of those players (starting from the car swerving Ca$hley) would have reconsidered leaving.

Ujujoan: [sub][/sub]
Ok, I hear you!
Stingy man!

Pataki: I think it is rather unfair to lay all the fault at the feet of Wenger when quality players decide to leave Arsenal. Each of the quality players that has ever left Arsenal truly indeed has a story behind their departure. Many of which lies in the strict budget structure that Arsenal operates with. E.g: Song, RVP, Nasri, e.t.c. Take a good look at most of the players who leave Arsenal, 80% of them immediately get salary increase astronomically high from that which Arsenal pays them.

Furthermore, players come, players go. An example: Cristiano Ronaldo once played for ManU, he left for Real Madrid. Today he is complaining that he is not happy at Real Madrid. Should we put the blame at the feet of Mourinho if a quality player as him should leave? When Chelsea and ManCity are already thinking how much they can grab him for?

Rooney was once an unhappy chap in ManU. I doubt if he is still happy right now in ManU. The list goes on and on.....but the point is that, give it to Wenger - in that when players leave, they hardly go about bad-mouthing him. Even when the likes of coogar acclaim that he is wack at man-management.