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Vikin: At 31yrs? Is she a kid? I bet you, thats the least problem she has now. I can tell you, she took advantage of the guy and not the other way around.

If not, tell me how a grown up 31yr old woman will get pregnant after 4months in the relationship.

If she was a virgin, i would understand. But she isn't

good point!
even if a man insists on having an unprotected sex...a woman can
still prevent conception if she wants to.
at 31, this woman knew exactly what she was doing...

Emperoh: Outside the 7 that played the UCL final, 2 others in Khedira and Ozil play in Spain
So that freshness thing is lame.

But ultimately, Germans fare better in their national colours than club sides so what other reason do we look for?
Their organization is akin to their engineering. Precision!

so playing in the champions league final is the yardstick to
measure freshness or the number of games clubs have played
throughout the course of the season....

german clubs play only 34 league games, english clubs play 38.
english clubs have an extra carling cup competition in between.
english clubs have no winter break...

when was the last time germany lost a key player going into any competition?
the last player they lost was ballack. where was he playing then? chelsea(an
english club).

blank: The man is a gold digger! He is looking for an older woman to support him and his broke ass. He purposely got her pregnant so she and her family will sponsor the wedding and start taking care of him.

Its when all these have happened that she will start seeing the real him. Ask K-Solo.

Thank me later.

how do you know this? voodoo powers?
he purposely got her pregnant? you mean the lady was forced
against her will to conceive? is it down to the man or the woman
to conceive a baby?

kandiikane....still haven't forgiven you.
you failed to complete your holiday-moon story.

for [color=#000000]f[/color]uck's sake, jaybee has spring-cleaned this zone...
anyways, there's always another day...

rastamouse: I don't know about poor guys being good. Money has a way of revealing the true character of people. I personally think that there are good rich people and pretentious poor people

and you would be right....
there are more good rich people than good poor people.

denzel2009: Can someone engrave this on the wall? Coogar this won't be good for your rep!

ask nateevs and ibime.

Emperoh: Coogar,
I wonder how that idea has changed the tactical awareness and positioning of a player like Owen or Bryan Robson in his days, mark hughes and those English lads that have played outside England especially in Spain.
Players are built in certain form and just as governments are different, so are styles of play different. Whatever works for you.
You needn't adopt one style because it seems to be working for a certain sect of the continent than others.

they all travelled abroad in their mid-20s...too late to learn anything major.
the key is having this education in their formative years...e.g around the time
cesc came to england, he was 16.

Italy has won the UCL and it wasn't particularly as a result of tactical awareness or spatial intelligence. Same goes to Germany and Portugal.
Spain has their style and it is working for them cos they have practised it to near perfection. Hence, if English players are top draw in speed and physical
football and are using it to win continental trophies, will Spanish players suddenly want to adopt the English style?

who still remembers them? italy?
they won the world cup serving boring football. has anyone talked about adopting
the italian style in the league or for the national team? but people are waxing lyrical
about the spain/barca way!!! that's the main issue - style over substance.

Rooney needn't go anywhere. If we so crave such kind of players, we can go to Europe and buy them.
I am not particularly a fan of the English style of play but that is what have made some of their club sides.
I wonder if you will ascribe the same style issue to Real madrid?

but we buy them from europe all the time...nani, ronaldo, evra, anderson, etc?
how many english players are in the man city team?
let's stop deceiving ourselves...young english players should be allowed
to go have some sorta industrial attachment for 2 yrs in europe to perfect their craft

Wasn't it the same positional intelligence CQ neutralised to near perfection in the 2008 UCL quarters against Barca?

it's easy to destroy, more difficult to create!
no one has faulted the ability of english teams to destroy...but how often
do they create?

Dyt: COOGAR!!!!

i'm warming up!

Goldieluks: Your friend met a guy 4 months ago and is pregnant for the guy, just like that??
Is she that desperate? Arrant nonsense...she should keep the pregnancy because @ 31 i don't see
no reason why she should be shy of carrying a pregnancy, since she is not matured enough to use protection, Duh!!!
Jaybee is this the type of friends you keep? she is senseless and cheap for getting pregnant
for a guy she met,just four months ago. What is this world turning into?? ??

shut up your mouth and be sensible for once....

at 31, every woman is desperate unless she's not bothered about raising
a family. it's almost a miracle for any 31 yr old woman to be in a relationship,
let alone get pregnant. what would you have her do? wait 9 yrs before she bleeps
her boyfriend and use contraceptives until marriage? and after marriage, she should
start paying fortunes for some idiotic ivf nonsense?

she's 31, not 22.

shymmex: Bwahahaha

She even said, she doesn't want to disappoint her parents, really?

At 31, huh?

they are all babies in nigeria. some women still stay with their
parents at 36........with no intention to leave until they marry.
why won't she worry about what her parents think?

at 31, most kids have already been independent for 15 yrs in developed countries.

shymmex: Disappointing parents at 31? Too many grown kids in the world now, I tell ya.

She's 31 for crying out loud.. Keep the baby, this may be your last chance.. At the end of the day, the guy is ambitious, and just one good news can turn you guys' life around..

don't mind the yeye girl, they often forget the older they become, the
higher their infertility would get. a woman in her 30s who nurses to be
a mother in life should not even think of abortion regardless of the
status of her spouse. there's a high risk of miscarriage, down syndrome
and other birth issues when women hit their 30s. half of them are infertile
in their 30s and yet this one is considering abortion. what a kike!!!

jay bee: My friend is 31 and dating this guy who met her 4months ago, she was heart broken and out of relationship for over a year and God brought this guy her way who is in madly in love with her and really wants to take it futher in no time but he's restrained with money.

My friend is working and praying that her guy gets a good job as he is hopeful too. but now she's pregnant and confused what to do, should she keep the pregnancy as the guy is not dennying it and telling her not to fret but stay calm while they think of what to do next, though everything falls back to money, or should she do away with the pregnancy and rather take her time to plan with the guy on having a good start? she's bothered about dissapointing her parents and what people will say. please can you help post this for peoples candid answer if they were in her shoes? she asked me and ernestly i don't know what to say.

PS: From an anonymous Nler

she should keep the baby...regardless of the guy's employment status.
at 31, her eggs are getting fewer, this might actually be her last
chance of ever becoming a mother. she's not 14, she's 30 [color=#000000]f[/color]ucking 1!

the story is fake....

mbulela: sound like lame excuses to me.
apart from the Chelsea lads,how many of the english players were still active in Europe at the tail end of the season?
winter break is good but it will not transform England to Germany at the Euros.

so how come germany didn't lose any of their senior players to injuries?
how many english players pulled out cos of injuries? how many germans?
what about spain, france and italy?

that's the point!

BlueDiva: Never impossibe to re-win the CL.
Never say never.

I like RDM and I know he can hold the squad together.
However, I think 3mths was too short to judge him.

I hope Roman will be patient this time around.
Even if he doesn't win any trophy next season he should be allowed to stay.
We should focus on rebuilding now that there is no desperation to win the CL anymore.

I wish RDM a wonderful season. He deserves it.

it's extremely impossible for chelsea to win it again.....how many
teams have played in champions league final back to back, let alone
winning it back to back? what do you think this is? barcelona have
been branded the best football team in the history of association
football, yet they couldn't manage playing back to back final of the
champions league....na chelsea go come do am? chelsea? you are a pipe
dreamer!

El Guapo: [color=#0066ff] - Win the EPL Title and u're still pocketing Ya £3m for another Year and Gourlay already made it known that we've got to pay more attention on Domestic fronts!

So how Difficult is it Mr Coogar?[/color]

so winning the epl title is not difficult?
read my lips - chelsea cannot win the league title ever again.
in a nutshell, the league title is not leaving the city of manchester
for years to come.

nicole9: Good afternoon. I am a 22yr old girl dating a guy of 28. Please I urgently need your advice.This is my story.

I met this guy I am dating now when I was 15 years old. Then, I was in SS2 when we became friends. He was intelligent, smart, but came from a fairly middle background, but not poor.I did not particularly mind about his background even though I came from an upper middle class family. He later asked me out and I declined at first, but along the line I fell in love with him and I agreed to date him when I was in SS3.

I was a virgin at that time. I told him I wasn’t ready for sex and he agreed to wait. He waited for a year until I finished secondary school and he gained admission into the university. He loved me so much that he wanted me to take a covenant with him which I refused because I had heard that it was not good, and we forgot about it. So one day, I went to visit him as usual and one thing led to another, and we had sex unexpectedly. I was scared that since he has slept with me, he would break up with me but he assured me of his love and that he would not do such a thing to me. He then brought up the covenant issue again and at that point, I thought that is not a bad idea after all, since he said he was going to marry me.

So we made a blood covenant. We cut ourselves with blade, and then mixed the blood with water which we both drank and took oaths not to leave each other even until death. We also took an oath that we would to marry each other. We made other several covenants, like he was the only man that would see my unclothedness and use me until I am old. I also said the same to him but this covenant was not with blood and we read Ruth 1: 1-16 -17 during this also.

The relationship went on well and I gained admission into the university he was attending, so it was easy for us. However, I later got pregnant in March that year and we were scared. We were not experienced in any way about drugs to take and he said he couldn't use a condom on a woman he intends to marry. We thought of keeping it but we did not have the resources and we also couldn't think of telling our parents, so we made a decision to abort it.

The relationship continued and that same year again I got pregnant in November. I removed that one too. The following year, I got pregnant again in March which I removed later. In May that same year, the same thing happened and I removed it. Although, he was by my side in all these and that was when I said I would never do abortion again in my life. I said then that if I get pregnant again, I will go ahead and have the baby. Our relationship continued, but in the next year he started acting funny like he was loosing interest in the relationship, he didn’t tell me but I could guess but all still went well. That was the same year he graduated while I was just entering my final year in the university. Since he was in lagos awaiting NYSC and I was in school, it looked as if we were drifting apart. I tried my best to get along with him, which we did though.

When he came to school for clearance, we got along well too. Although, then we had a little misunderstanding which made him to travel in annoyance without us settling the problem. Later I apologized on phone and we were on good terms. He even called to tell me he was posted to the North and it was a two day journey from Lagos which he wasn’t happy about. After camp, he tried working his service back to lagos, but it didn’t work out, so he had to go back to the North and during all this time, we could not see one on one because I was in school writing my project.

After some time he didn’t communicate with me like he used. No calls, text or even a flash and, so I was scared and worried, and still tried my best to communicate with him. I called him and we talked. Then when it was almost time for him to come home for the Christmas holidays, he told me that he was in love with someone else but he still felt for me. I was heart broken. I asked him "why all this?" and then he said that I caused it and that we didn’t see each other for close to eight months, and that was why it happened. Then again, he later apologized that he would call it off with her and which he did when he found out the girl was playing him.

During the Christmas holiday, he apologized for everything, and we continued our relationship, but that time he told me that he slept with the girl he cheated on me with and that nothing happened to him and that meant that the covenant was not working, but I said nobody knows, you can never tell what will happen. However, I was scared within me and hoped that nothing would go wrong. I thought that since he had slept with another woman, it was possible that he would try it again, but I tried to get that off my mind.

We became close again and he later went to complete his NYSC program after the holiday was over, and by then I had also graduated. He assured me of his love and we always kept in touch when he went back. But all of a sudden, everything changed. I called him one day when he was about to complete his NYSC program around May and he told me he wanted to be alone and that I should look for another man to marry. He said that he was not ready to settle down. This was was someone I spoke to just two weeks back and all appeared to be well. I was confused. I called to ask him why? I asked if I offended him and he said no, that he just wanted to be alone. Then, I knew that there was a girl involved, so I told his sister everything because his parents and sisters knew me as the girl he intended to marry as he had introduced me to them long ago. His sister told me that all will be well and that I should just be patient and that when he returned to Lagos in June, they (the family) would sit him down and talk to him.

After much pleading with him to tell me why he was behaving like this, he told me that he has seen another girl he loves so much and wants to marry. I asked him, "what about the covenant we took?" and then he told me that someone told him that the covenant would not work because we mixed d blood with water before saying all what we said. That day when he told me this, I cried my eyes out.

I have not been myself since then. This is a man I had looked up to as my husband. Someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Someone I removed four kids for. Someone who took my most prized possession, my virginity and pride. I have pleaded with him in any way possible, but to no avail. He neither felt remorse nor even tried to call me. I called him one fatetul day and I found out that he had deleted my number. He asked who I was. That day I felt like crying. Then he gave the phone to his new girlfriend telling me tha she wanted to speak to me. That the woman he wanted to marry wanted to speak to me. When the girl collected the phone from him, she asked who I was. At that point, I was so dumbfounded that I had to cut the call. I later sent him a text and gave him a piece of my mind. I told him that God would repay him in his own coin and that the blood of my kids would fight for me.

The girl read the text with him, and this made the girl to keep calling and asking who I was. Once I knew that the girl would not stop, I told her that I was the girlfriend he had been dating for six years and broke up with because of her but that I had noting against her in my heart.

I made up my mind not to call my boyfriend again, but he later sent me a text me two days later asking why I told the girl that he just broke up with me and that she was the one he loves and wants to marry. I told his sister later everything that happened later on. His mother told me not to worry and that he would still come to Lagos this June, and that at least the girl was in the North. She said that everything would be resolved, but I believe that it is the man that has say in all of this and I have decided in my mind to let everything go, since he doesnt love me again. I decided that if it was meant to be, then it would have been.

However, I want to say this, I still love him and I am badly hurt by all that has happened. I am also still scared about the covenant. I have lost it all. I just need your advice and prayers badly because I am so lost. I don’t know where to start from? Even though I still have admirers, I have not been able to open my heart to any man till now. Please help!

What would you do if you were in this girl's shoes?

forgive and forget...
move on with your life and stop wallowing in the past.

nateevs: To be honest, not quite excited.
He's proven over the few months he's been here that he can mix things up.
Can he bring that into a full season? I don't know.

He has more problems now. More talented players, bigger squad and the fact that he's set the bar so high for himself.
The biggest problem I believe he will have will be the media the Pep talk.
One thing he should avoid is the perennial Chelsea November slump.
If we go through a rough patch, however small, the press will all over him asking if he's feeling the pressure.

The question about the length of his contract will be discussed time and again. Some journalists will even ask if he's baby sitting for Pep.
However as always, I will support him. I really hope he does well.

excellente!
i wish him well too. a young manager who has set the bar so
high for himself. the only way for him is down unless he repeats
another champions league feat - which is impossible!

montelik: While I agree with the certain parts of the article, the main premise I totally disagree with. A player who can make time on the ball and has astute tactical discipline, either has it or doesn't. Scholes played his entire career in the EPL. It didn't stop him. Carrick is also another decent example. Rooney doesn't have what it takes to play like the typical continental players. You can't teach what ain't there. Never at any point in Rooney career from Everton till today has Rooney been seen as having a special tactical awareness or astuteness. The main reason he became a prodigy so young, was his advanced physical development. The idea that Rooney simply needs to go on to the continent and become Zidane 2.0 is stupid.

that exactly is the point.
the main premise is that had rooney opted for the continental teams
before he matured as a player, he would have learnt one or two things
about appreciating time and space.....

scholes and carrick are one-offs and this is why they are vastly underrated
in england. sven goran eriksson was playing scholes on the left side of the
midfield to accommodate lampard and gerrard. that was what forced scholes into
retirement.

it's true that the english game appreciates players that are physical, run harder,
tackle harder and boot to row z would get you more applause than carrick doing his
sideways or backwards passes. the entire article is top drawer. english players should
play more outside the premier league but the money they earn here won't let them.

who's going to pay £35m for andy caroll outside england? maybe abiola babes.

nateevs: I hear Emenalo has flown out to force a Jovetic deal through.

nateevs, excited by the di matteo signing or not?
can he rub minds with the grandmasters of the game?

montelik: http://the4thofficial.co.uk/2012/06/13/why-rooney-needs-to-leave-united-to-fulfil-his-potential/

i agree with the article especially this part...

Barcelona are regarded as the world’s best, with the English media in particular stating that it is because of the quality of the players. Yet little credit was really given to Guardiola in his time at Camp Nou, as what he did was the key to their success. Simply, he made them the most tactically astute side in world football. Watch Barcelona and you will see a complete unit of players implementing their managers tactics to perfection, in both defence and attack. How many sides in England can we say this applies to?

When Cesc Fabregas arrived back at Camp Nou this past season, he frustrated Guardiola with his lack of understanding, his lack of discipline, Fabregas had simply being “English-ized”; he played like a schoolboy, running all over, seeking the ball, similar to that of Gerrard for Liverpool. Yet he did not suit the tactics of Barcelona, as flowing as their play was, it was all about tactics, where players should be and when. Fabregas obstructed others and Guardiola knew it.

Can it be argued that Fabregas’ development in England was actually detrimental on him? Whereas when we see David Silva or Aguero arrive here, they appear to have time and space, of which we are amazed, what they have actually have is knowledge of the game and the understanding of spatial awareness which was taught to them away from England. In England, there appears more space because teams allow it much more than abroad. By playing against harder tactics and more astute coaches and players, English players could improve their game intelligence, which would improve their performance in the upper echelons of world football.

[quote author=Mr_TA]Still glad we didnt sign stekelenburg.[/quote]to be fair to him, netherlands have no competent centre-backs!
they were all over the place....

dayokanu: Play which lesser games?

6 of those playing for Germany played the CL finals how many teams have that much players? When everyone was sitting at home Those 6-7 players were preparing for the CL finals.

Take any other team and show me if they have 6 players who played their cup final less than a month ago and the CL finals too

how many league games do they play in bundesliga in comparison to england,
spain and italy? in the premier league, no winter break and they play
an extra competition called the carling cup....the germans play in 3 competitions
and they get a winter break boost to replenish lost energy.

abeg, the germans are fresher!

dayokanu: Klose comes in and the whole German team collapse

Its better to just sub out the loser before he costs us

so removing a striker caused hummels to be sodomized and badstuber
to be nutmegged by van persie's shot? dayokanu, try bring your sense
with you whenever you are logging on nairaland sports.